Im not new to prostate play, been using a helix syn for over a year now so im not a total beginner or anything, so I decided to buy a progasm based on some posts here and the thought that my prostate isnt getting hit entirely by the syn. Its set to arrive in a couple weeks unless theres some issue delivering to a PO box, so can anyone give any tips for someone who is switching from a syn to progasm? I heard the progasm is a lot more direct where the syn is more subtle and builds up.
Tag: Prostate
Looking for some clarification on what I’m feeling. Be nice to me…I’m new š
I’ve read so much about prostate orgasm for *years* just got my first toy.
Ngl…I ordered a toy thinking it was a vibrating toy (I swear I was reading up for hours; I must’ve been too excited!) and when it came, I realized it was not. A prograsm.
I got kinda disappointed, until I realized how good this specific toy could feel. Based on reviews I read and my own, very limited experience.
Though I’m still…confused? Mini-O’s. Super-O’s. P-waves. Involuntaries. Ebbs and flows. Peaks. Dry and wet. My mind swirls! š§š
I have definitely not had an orgasm yet; though I thought I was getting there in the moment. I know this because the sensations felt good…but not as good as a penile orgasm.
I have been at this for only 3 nights. The first night, I was a bit overzealous, looking back on it. I ended up on my floor, grinding hard because it was feeling amazing. I was sweating profusely LOL. At that point, I thought I needed really exaggerated movements to feel good. I realized the next night that just lying on my stomach and contracting my PC muscles over and over again was the actual key.
I think I’ve felt “P-waves” now that I read about them. My ass pulsates and I almost feel these deep vibrations in my groin. It’s frustrating because I keep feeling like it’s finally gonna happen, but I just end up hanging there.
Which model should I get?
I have the helix trident and progasm. I haven’t had much success over 6 months of practice (let’s say 1.2 sessions per week avg.) I am thinking of taking the plunge and getting a new model, since there is a sale going on. I was thinking about getting the eupho or eupho syn. I don’t know how the silicone would impact the toy specifically so any input on that would be appreciated. Would it dull the sensations too much to what I hear is already a more subtle model? Input on other models is good, too, though I am not interested in the vice.
Which toy, if you can point it out, awoke your prostate? The first to give you p-waves? First to orgasm? The models are built differently, so maybe there is a vague consensus on which aneros models are more prone to doing this. This question is geared towards people who awoke their prostates through aneros. Any other experiences are welcome,too
Achieving the flutter
Hello guys, I have now spent quite some time along the journey.
I do not have much success sadly and I’ve tried a lot.
Different positions, different lubes, porn, no porn, audio porn, do nothing, flex….
While I usually get involuntaries started, they just feel… like nothing really. I can feel the muscles flex and I feeld the aneros move, but there is absolutely no feeling.
However, a few months ago, I had one session, that was really exciting, it was one of my first sessions aswell. While doing nothing and laying on my back, knees apart, the involuntaries became a flutter that was really pleasurable and started to increase in intensity. It was really feeling like an orgasm was building and I was really quite sure that at the end of that flutter, true bliss was waiting. However, the feeling died down eventually, without sending me over the edge, maybe I overthought it.
The aftermath of this session was my prostate tingling/buzzing for a few dadys and I’m pretty sure that was my best session so far.
However I have never been able to recreate this flutter. I will occasionally get some singulare flutters, but they are only ever a single twitch without being sustained.
Do you have similar experiences? How do you create and sustain the flutter? I’m starting to get frustrated and could need some encouragement.
A POV from a beginner
I have no idea what to do, I think Iām overthinking things. I just got my helix trident and I feel nothing Iāve used it about 3 times over the past 2 weeks.
I feel like Iām looking through a window everyone is having so much fun and Iām just left here. Itās really frustrating to start and learn. Iām feeling really unmotivated to do this
Thereās so much information to take in, everyone says so much stuff and I have no idea what to do anymore. I want a nice step by step guide on exactly what to do but thatās really difficult since everyone is different.
I have no feelings in my prostate at all. I know they will build in time and I have to āenjoy the journeyā but itās rather difficult to enjoy it if I canāt feel ANYTHING
helix syn just arrived and I feel nothing?
I have an njoy wand already. Did it desensitize me or something? I haven’t done any butt stuff for a few days though. I never had a purely prostate orgasm from the njoy so I thought this might work. I’m contracting my pc muscles but I barely feel anything.
Position suggestions?
Hi
I’m new using Aneros. I want to know some recommendations on the best position to enjoy my Trident helix.
Because prostate is located in front, isnt it a good option to lying face down or lying with your chest on the bed and your knees on the floor? Is it not easier for the aneros to touch the exact spot? Reading the forum, many messages recommend lying on your back with your legs bent, but would not the Aneros move away from the prostate?
thanks for your answers
tab modification?
i read i should try to put papertowels under the p-tab but more than 5mm and it pops out…
i noticed though: if i pull on the k-tab backwards i get the need to pee which is a good sign. but i dont want to cut it off…. any recommendations? i feel like the helix isnt reaching my prostate…
Experienced beginner recap and questions
Crossposted at r/prostateplay but since Iām now officially an aneros owner and user I wanted to post to this community as well for insights.
Hello everyone,
Longtime lurker on this sub and longtime player of my prostate. I started my journey with external stimulation, followed by a stretch where I built the confidence to use fingers inside. It took quite a while for me to realize that I was actually reaching up too far past my prostate, but really wasnāt until I bit the bullet and got a proper massager to understand how it would swell and shrink over the course of a session.
For the most part, Iād feel a periodic surge in pleasure before a pretty epic, wet orgasm for the first couple years of playing.
The first toy I got was a cheapo from Amazon that was actually pretty short and I never felt did a whole lot once inserted without manual manipulation of the handle. Iām a relatively big guy (6ā2ā and 200lbs) so I always wondered what a longer toy could do for the exercise.
Fast forward to today, I finally got myself an aneros helix syn trident and just finished my first session. I should note that I combined the toy with an episode of mindgasm, which I have found to be by far the most useful audio accompaniment to my journey. I also went with a thicker lube than the typical ky, specific for anal fun.
Progress update a year into my journey
First I want to say thanks to everyone who contributes to this subreddit – your experiences and tips have been invaluable in my journey and I finally feel like I made some major progress so I wanted to share with you all since I canāt really share with anyone else.
Bought my first Aneros, Helix Syn, last year during my Stateās initial COVID closure in March since Iād be home and finally have time to explore. Hadnāt had a ton of success since then: some involuntaries here and there but nothing Iād describe as pleasurable. That all changed yesterday.
Started off my session as per usual – with a bit of porn, nipple rubbing, took a few hits from my vape pen, the works. I really wasnāt focusing a ton on contractions but rather let my prostate dictate to me what it wanted. In the past Ive definitely been guilty of chasing the feelings, despite having read EVERYTHING to the contrary. There really is a mental shift that has to take place. Not just KNOWING to stop chasing/let it happen but actively forcing yourself to SURRENDER. When I finally got in that headspace I turned off the porn and instead of contracting, releasing, rubbing my nipples, watching porn, etc. I just decided to feel whatever happened in my prostate and to concentrate to extend those feelings as long as possible – regardless of whether those feelings were pleasurable or not.