Tag: Prostate

Chastity “Rules” Revised

Introduction
I slept in only my PJs overnight. Sure enough, during a night-time erection, I was awakened. While “catching” myself playing with my package, I got an urge to put-on one of my swimmer jockstraps: the Duke. This jock has a nice, large pouch and fits my package well. I decided to go lie-down on my comfortable sofa and just chill with some nice, erotic tracks.

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New Chastity Rules
Somehow, I was given “new” chastity rules when wearing a jockstrap: I can’t take it off and I can’t ejaculate in the pouch. Anything else goes!

I went to lie-down and listen. This “new rule” didn’t come into play until I developed an erection within the pouch. Then, it became very easy to touch and fondle my frenulum beneath the pouch but not too much! I remembered the new “rule” but it wasn’t easy. I was able to maintain my composure for at least an hour-and-a-half.

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Another New Chastity Rule
Since it was almost time to rise again for the day, I was given another “new” chastity rule when wearing a cup jockstrap: As before, I can’t take it off but this time I CAN ejaculate in the cup! What a change! I quickly exchanged the Duke jockstrap for the Mueller jockstrap with cup. Read more »

“Is This A Dance? Is This A Race?”

I was thinking about all the sexual things I do, except for actual (p.i.v.)* sex. Do they all have something in common? Yes they do—-almost all of them involve some sort of “dance” around——an ejaculation!

Thinking about it, all the Aneros sessions, all the prostate play, all the pseudo male chastity play really has one goal in mind: ejaculation! Ah, but it is in “dance” that it all becomes worthwhile, almost like an art form! The idea is: how far can I go without ejaculating? How much stimulation can I endure before I have to blow the load?

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How far can I go? Here, I am referring to the practice of semen retention. For those guys that have never tried it, I would recommend it. It is a way of boosting your overall sexual response to any form of stimulation. Even by itself, just the practice of withholding semen will boost your testosterone level by almost 50%! You are sure to feel the results; I sure do! But one caveat—blue balls! I can get them, and usually do, after about 7 days of SR. For me, this “dance” ends and another one starts.

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“Horny and Desperate”

Introduction
I was online reading and watching videos about guys locked-up in chastity cages and one phrase that caught my attention was “horny and desperate”. It seemed that this guy was locked-in his cock cage and he was not the keyholder. He had an erection inside his cage and wanted to ejaculate so desperately. He tried and tried stroking and masturbating his cage but was unsuccessful. He became very frustrated to say the least!

Similarity
I decided to sleep in my XO cup overnight. Since I am now at Day 7 of semen retention (SR), I am feeling more frustrated that I have not yet ejaculated. I had a very strong erection within the cup overnight and was squirming-around on the bed close to the PONR. I guess you could say that I too was desperate for an ejaculation, sort-of like a wet-dream. But it was not to be and I became very frustrated.

I went to lie-down on my sofa and started to listen to some erotic chillout mixes. Very nice indeed! I changed from my XO cup to my ARMR all-cotton jockstrap. This strap is very tight and supportive and has a wide, 3” waistband. So it feels very good. It also has a cup pouch. Sure enough, I began to fondle my package beneath the pouch and, secretly, I wanted to ejaculate. But the frustration came back when the cup found its way into the pouch! I became more desperate by the minute! Read more »

The Joy continues

Last night my wife and I talked – I reminded her we last made love in March and here it is late October. She reminded me of her perimenopause into menopause phase that she has been stuck in for the last 5 or 6 years, and that it could last another five years, maybe more. She said to be honest she has no interest in sex other than private masturbation. I told her from my perspective the connection was the most part, and she agreed. So I made her an offer. We abandon sex altogether indefinitely in exchange for kissing and cuddling. She is allowed to masturbate her labia and clit in private but no vaginal or anal penetration with toys, fingers, objects. I am allowed to use my prostate toys in my rectum in private but no touching or rubbing of my penis or scrotum for arousal purposes. If I want to acquire a chastity device she will supervise the installation and hold the key, but it would need to be something wearable 24/7 as she does not want to be involved taking it off and putting it back on me. We discussed me seeing my doctor to review the cholesterol and blood pressure medications she had previously suggested as erectile dysfunction would be ideal for us.

“Portable Chastity”

Background
I decided to sleep in my Mueller cup overnight. When I awoke early this morning, I wanted to chill with some relaxing music. I set myself up on my sofa, put on headphones and started listening. At some point, I wanted to remove the cup and just relax in my PJs. So I did….

Thwarted by the Cup
When I settled-in wearing only my PJs, of course my hands began to wander. As sure enough, they found my rising cock and began to play. Since I am only in Day 4 of semen retention, I did not want to run the risk of ejaculating so soon. So what did I do? I took the cup out of the jockstrap and placed it over my PJs and my groin! And with my hand holding the cup, I was unable to continue the stimulation on my cock! Problem solved!

Waking-Up
At some point, however, I must have dozed-off. When I woke-up again, I could not believe the erection I had. It was so strong and I began to lightly “pump” the cup. Oh that feeling of being near the PONR was so strong, I honestly knew that I could ejaculate at that point. But I held-back, and kept the cup in place with my hand until the erection began to subside. At one point, I remember placing my hand inside the pouch of the jock and that was stimulating in itself! Read more »

first aneros toy for an experienced bottom?

I’m very comfortable with having things in my butt from small to very large. however I’m still looking for that anal orgasm, super, prostate or otherwise. I’ve been reading alot of reviews and they all seem conflicting. some people say that the smaller toys like helix and trident are better some say they’re too flimsy. on the other end I’ve heard some other people say the progasm is a great pick but others say it’s too girthy and long to really get much play out of it. I really don’t know what to do and I’d like to (fingers crossed) pick it right the first time.

I’d be exceptionally to get any advice but especially from other experienced bottoms would be wonderful, many thanks in advance!

“At Day 7, Anything Can Happen!”

Introduction
I made it to Day 7 of SR and I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight. It could be a coincidental T-thing, but I seemed to have multiple erections during the night. Towards morning, I was awakened by the usual “PONR” feeling within the cup. But this time, I felt like I was further-along towards an ejaculation. Somewhere deep in my mind, I knew that an ejaculation was forthcoming. But I didn’t know when and where. I must have stayed in this realm for perhaps 20 minutes or more.

Binaural Listening Session
Still erect within the cup, I wanted to augment the PONR “feeling” by retiring to my comfortable couch and start listening to some binaural beats for orgasm and ejaculation. I was ready for both. The one I selected (and the one that worked) was:

“DOUBLE ORGASM – COME TWICE – Binaural Audio Stimulation – Hands Free Beats + Isochronics Tones”

I listened twice to this 14-minute gem; the first one got me wet with precum and the second one finished me off. I almost didn’t need my hands to finish the job! But towards the end, I was so ready for the ejaculation that I “helped” to accelerate it! Man, it felt ever so good to cum!

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Note (from WebMD.com):

“Erections depend on testosterone, but the relationship between the two is complex and not fully understood. Some men have healthy erections despite testosterone levels well below the normal range.” Read more »

The Progasm Ice

What follows is a summary of the session that followed the one in my previous blog, they could not have been more different. Apologies if it comes across as being too descriptive, I was just trying to capture the vigorous and sensuous experience. I actually left some bits out!
Bedtime couldn’t come quick enough. I had prepared everything in advance so that no time would be wasted with the preliminaries. There only remained the decision of which implement to use. The very second my gaze fell upon the PI I knew. Yep, that’s the fellow. Did I begin the session straight away? Erm, not really. Earlier in the evening after reading through a lengthy post I came across a link kindly posted by SOwithoutAneros, it was a short trailer featuring Serena of Hegre Art and her demonstration of orgasms. It had been a while since I had watched it so I searched out the full video and tormented myself some more as I watched her wondrous descriptions and demos of the various ways she likes to orgasm. By the end of the clip I was aroused way beyond imagination. So, after applying a generous amount of lube the PI was put to work. Within a few moments I began to feel what I can only describe as an overwhelming sense of energy building throughout my entire pelvic area. My heart began to beat faster, I found myself breathing deeply and blowing my cheeks out to exhale. I realised this was not going to be anything at all like the calm and relaxing ride I had experienced a few days earlier. My butt hole was clenched tightly around the PI. I tried to relax it a little but, each and every time I did so it was pulled back in, at the same time stroking my prostate causing my rigid member to strain and raise itself from the very root. I wriggled and stifled a moan, rolling gently from one side to the other. Beyond that I was lost in the moment, finding myself responding to the urge to move from one position to another. Throughout the entire session I was well aware of my strong erection and all the while I was producing a considerable amount of pre cum leaving long glistening strands everywhere. At one point as I was on all fours I sat back resting my buttocks on my heels, inadvertently causing my butt cheeks to part slightly, at that, the autofxxk response took over and the PI seemed to be alive. Those incredible moments were most erotic, I had to look twice to make sure no one had snook into the room behind me. It felt like I was being de-flowered and ravished by the invisible man. I’m not really sure how long the session lasted, maybe an hour, but it felt a lot longer. I had no big O’s I’m not even sure I had any small o’s but it was a magnificent wild ride, and an experience that I would certainly like to repeat.

Sessions 11 and 12

Hello all. I’ve had a couple sessions since I last found time to write. I won’t take a lot of time to write out all the details of each session, but I would like to state some observations I made.

With both sessions, I started out laying on the couch. I like the natural positioning of my body when laying there. It lends itself well to using the Aneros. I have noticed that the angle of my hips and/or the curvature of my lower back affects the sensations I feel. Specifically, it usually seems like having a straighter lower back helps. It feels almost like it aligns my rectum with my anus and allows freer movement. Or it brings my prostate more in contact with the device. Who knows? Sometimes I think that the things I feel are actually not at all what they feel like.

I also have found that I am getting better results lately with the Eupho Trident than with the Helix Trident. I don’t know why, but for now I’m just glad that Aneros had that sale in September and that I got myself the Eupho even though I’d only just purchased my Helix. It seems that things change over time, and I expect that there may be times when the Helix does better for me, or the Progasm. I’ve found that something that works well once won’t necessarily work great the next time, or the time after that. Read more »

“SGX Classic: It’s An Anal Thing!”

Introduction
I decided to have a session early this morning with the SGX. This model I believe is no longer available on the Aneros site. I do like it’s smaller size and its performance. Let me explain…..

Session
I lubed-up and started the session. Because the SGX (and the MGX) have a ribbed, tapered stem, these Aneros models stimulate not only the prostate, but the anus. This morning’s session began with some anal “quivering” that was unmistakable. Sort-of like an auto-f**k but concentrated in the anus. And those anal quivers get re-directed up to the prostate through the body of the SGX. What a potent pairing! For a while, I really felt like I was either on the way to a Super-O or a HFWO! There was absolutely no discomfort from either the body, the stem or the P-tab on this massager. I could probably have continued the session for much longer than the actual 25 minutes.

Conclusion
I never discount the size of any of the Aneros prostate massagers. My favorite (and go-to) one now is the HIH 950 which is deceptively small. But don’t let it’s small size fool you! It is quite a capable performer! Next in line is the SGX; designed differently so it stimulates more than just the prostate. As I have noted before, all of the Aneros massagers have their own “signature” —- some provide more (and deeper) direct stimulation of the prostate while others (like the SGX and MGX) also work their magic on the anus. Whatever your preference, there will be an Aneros that will carry you to orgasmic bliss! Read more »