Helix does it tonight

After a lackluster session two nights ago with this device, it sure got me there tonight! It definitely does it much more gently than the Progasm Black does. Progasm gives me these deep, throaty moans and when I hit the big SO there is no doubt it’s the Progasm putting the pressure on my prostate. Helix is less intense and feels more like a traditional O without the ejaculation. I’ve got an afterglow burning too. Nice! Wife and I are supposed to have traditional sex tonight. I predict a Super TO.

The Joy of the Sexless Marriage

My wife and I have been in a statistically sexless marriage since about a year after we married. In other words, less than 10 times a year. The novelty of say sex on a week, or twice a month wore off. And then from say 8 times per year with the start of year two we have gone down to 2 to 4 times per year during the last 10+ years. At first I was so angry – but know what – I love her and I cannot change her. So, I learned to live with the situation, take responsible control of my own sex life, have fun and enjoy the kiss and snuggle relationship she and I have.

Key to all this was aneros. In 2002 I experience discomfort then pain from prostate congestion. I went to the doctor – she suggested I have a look at the High Island Health website. HIH was the parent of Aneros – the Aneros brand came a little later with a sexual focus, whereas HIH was focused on health. I bought a device which looks just like the MGX. It brought me pleasure and relief. Thankfully my wife has no problem with me indulging in prostate play on a largely don’t ask don’t tell basis.

Its not called Eupho for nothing

I haven’t had much time to update my blog recently. But I have still been quite active and have a bit of a backlog of events I would like to share with you all. At first I wrote one big bumper edition but decided it was too lengthy. I have split it into three episodes and will post them individually.
It must be almost a year now since I began this exciting venture into Aneros use. Never for one moment did I expect things to develop the way they have. Pre-Aneros, my solo sessions consisted of a quick wank, probably on a Friday night, more out of habit than anything else. Once out of the way I rarely gave it another thought until the next Friday came around. Contrast that with the present, where rarely a day goes by without me engaging in some activity or another, enjoying feelings of heightened arousal and frequent erections. Not to mention my collection of Aneros devices and related paraphernalia. I have the sort of sexual energy that I do not recall enjoying even in my youth, and that’s a while ago!
So after almost a year’s use I have learned never to have expectations, just go with the flow and enjoy whatever happens. So far this has served me well but I have still had lots of surprises along the way. A couple of my more recent sessions however have taken me completely unawares, with results at totally opposite ends of the scale. Let’s start with this one.
My choice for the session was my Eupho Trident, the smallest in my array. Thinking back I remember I had been a bit off colour with some stomach cramps and felt a bit yuck! I began the session making a conscious decision to ignore the urge to tense up my my abdomen as I usually find myself doing when the waves of pleasure build, I did not want to aggravate my tummy. Instead I lay completely flat on my back with legs outstretched and, relax, relax, r-e-l-a-x. It is very difficult to relax every muscle, even if you think you have there will still be tension. So with every exhale, I concentrated on individual limbs etc. It became like a meditation and I had the sensation that I was sinking further and deeper into the mattress with every out breath. This all took a little time, and while there were some pleasant sensations from my prostate I knew an orgasm wasn’t coming. I actually hoped one wouldn’t happen and disturb the serenity that I was enjoying. I was floating, enjoying the larva lamp-like display that I could see behind my eyes. Eventually, reluctantly, I had to come back to earth and settle down to sleep. What greatly surprised me was that the next day I was still floating on cloud nine and in a totally relaxed state. The cares of the day, of which thankfully I have few, meant nothing to me. World War might have broken out overnight and I couldn’t have given a shxx! The milk has spilled all over the floor, the washing machine has flooded the place, the next door neighbours music is so bloody loud? Ha ha, so what, who cares man. I glided through the day in this condition, it was strange. In a great sort of way. Sadly the day after, this all evaporated from whence it had come and I had returned to my usual, occasionally irritable, shouting at the tv self.
Over the next week or so I still had some nice therapeutic sessions, my tummy trouble was settling down and I was well into a spell of SR. Then into the mix came edging! Due to the terribly bad influence of one or two members on here I began reading posts on the subject and checking out various links. I have previously dabbled with what I thought was edging but I soon realised I was going to have to up my game. So I embarked upon regular edging practice but still maintained my run of SR. By now I was absolutely rampant for most of the time with persistent erections and a good supply of pre cum. It was then that I had my second only encounter with my Progasm Ice.

“This Cup’s Not Made for Drinking….or Touching!”

Introduction
Of course, I am referring to a “chastity cup” or “groin cup*” as it is known. I decided to sleep in my Mueller cup overnight; I am currently in Day 6 of semen retention (SR). I knew that this cup would provide me with much “comfort” and stimulation overnight. I was very right!

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I awoke several hours later with a raging, throbbing erection within the cup. As I noted before, the inside of the pouch and cup places some direct pressure on my frenulum, causing me to feel close to the PONR. This was no exception last night; with every “throb” (which I could not control), I felt ever-so-close to the PONR and an ejaculation! This feeling went-on for perhaps 30 minutes or more. It is ironic that although the cup is made to prevent ME from touching my cock, it actually DOES touch my cock in its own way. That feeling it provides is much akin to a slow, erotic edging session with a partner (since MY hands are not involved with this activity). The upside to this is that as I get closer to the PONR, I can feel my prostate being engaged and energized, ready to ejaculate! Oh, what a feeling!

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I have purposely avoided Aneros sessions as of late, but that does not mean that I do not feel my prostate inside me. Of course, the prostate is always involved in ejaculations and last night’s foray into my male privates gave my entire ejaculatory system a workout, including my prostate, and feeling every part the man that I am!

Sometimes it’s just right

Layed down with the intent of only doing some nipple stim and giving the Aneros a break. Things got so good after 20 minutes I popped in the Progasm Black. Another mind blowing 40 minutes of heaven. Tonight I’m taking the night off, really. It’s been four days in a row and I need a break. Ass and prostate are feeling just a bit tender. There’s always tomorrow 🙂 Tomorrow I’m going out of town with the Helix Trident. I did order a PS-New from High Island.

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“That Awkward Period Between Flaccid and Erect”

I haven’t had Aneros sessions in a few days, but that doesn’t mean that I do not experience any prostate pleasures. Let me explain…..

Like all other guys, I have nightly erections (NPTs). Sometimes, I am still partially erect and I get the urge to play with my package. Usually, I can do this if I am not wearing a “chastity cup”. Now this activity normally doesn’t precipitate a full-blown erection but it still feels deliciously erotic. Somehow, my cock seems to “know” that I will not reach the PONR and thus there will be no ejaculation. So a rock-hard erection is not in order for me. But in the meantime, all that playing-around seems to get my prostate energized, like it can be “ready” for an ejaculation if so prompted!

I call this an “awkward period” since if I completely stop the play, I will become flaccid again. But if I continue the stimulation, I will continue to prompt my ejaculatory system and that feeling can only intensify; how far it goes is up to me.

Interestingly, if I start to “play” while I’m completely flaccid, that usually does not cause an erection per-se’. It is only when this occurs near an NPT that I can initiate one. Interesting….

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Sessions 8, 9, and 10

It’s been a while since I posted. I have had a few sessions since my last post. I’ll call it “three” sessions, but two were on the same day. I’ve just been too busy to write about them.

Session 8 was last Wednesday. It was not particularly exciting. Very relaxing, but no particularly powerful sensations. I also fell asleep. I tried some of the things I’d tried in the past and didn’t manage to spark anything exciting. Toward the end of that session, I thought I might be making some progress by just trying to maximize the motion of my Helix Trident using kegel-like motions, but then my time was up and I had to get to work.

Yesterday I decided to try riding my helix incognito on the couch. Usually I wait for alone time, but I didn’t feel like waiting this time, so I tried to ride in the afternoon while pretending to read/nap. It didn’t really work out that well. I did feel some things, but there were just too many distractions. I couldn’t really focus. I did find that the positioning while laying on the couch did have some benefits, so maybe in the future I’ll try laying on the couch again. Something about the angle of my hips or the slope of my back seemed to help the Aneros hit some nice spots.

Still buzzing

One, my prostate is still in an excited state from yesterdays session. Never had it stay like this this long.

Two, EVERY PART OF MY BODY IS SENSITIVE! Sat in church today just casually rubbing the tops of my thighs with great pleasure. Could probably rub the end of my little toe and get the same.

On another note, I recorded about 3 minutes of myself getting off, moaning, gasping yesterday. Talk about something to get you going, or, am I just a narcissist? Putting in the ear buds and listening to that triggers me all the way down to my prostate.

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I went places today I never expected

Been using these for a little over a month. Bought the Helix Trident first and the Progasm a week later. Had a great experience with the Helix from the start. Bought the Progasm because I thought bigger would be better and it is, in different ways.

It’s been six days since anything orgasmish, no masturbation, no sex, no Aneros. Been planning this session all week so I’ve read some erotica and listened to some erotica to start getting aroused. Started with the Helix. Took about 30 minutes to really get things going, at 45 minutes the world shook. I knew there was another level to get to from where I was but this was just far beyond what I expected. Like others have described, it was like the instant before a regular TO but it peaked and dropped and peaked and dropped repeatedly over about a minute or two I guess. Each peak held at least the same level of intensity as the previous one.
Figured, after that, the Progasm would be a good choice. Got up, peed, put the Progasm in. Took a couple minutes but it hit again. Not as good as before but still pretty darn good. Took a while to get to the next one. Things progressed kind of slow. Got up and peed, went back to the Helix. Took a bit but got back to some very intense pleasure waves and SO’s. Not as good as the first round but still pretty good.
After about 45 minutes I got up and peed (lots of coffee today) put the Progasm back in and WHAM! back to almost max in a few minutes. Didn’t have many of them at that level but they were all still good.
One thing I’ve learned, whether you have to or not, get up every thirty to forty-five minutes and at least try to pee. I think this kind of gives your prostate a break. I have found after peeing and getting back to it the next wave is usually along pretty quick and pretty intense too. If you cannot pee at all you’re probably dehydrated and need to drink more which from reading the forum is counter-productive.
Another thing, Helix or Progasm, both work best when I’m lying on my chest with my legs spread about a fourth of the way to maximum. Would rather be on my back but, whatever works.

What was that??

I think after 8 months I’ve finally gotten a glimpse of what a prostate orgasm should feel like! After reading several posts I gave the “do nothing” approach, took a rips off my hash oil pen, threw on some porn and I was off to the races.

My penis felt like it was twitching the entire time, but not like any of the times before. The build up was definitely slow (had to go through several videos haha) but once it hit the spot it was unreal. Usually when I’m watching porn, I focus in on a particular area but this time I let my mind wander and it was finding the most simple things incredibly erotic!

Never before have I had such trembled breathing and chattering teeth. I was fighting all the urge not to tense up but the more I did either way the higher it took me. I don’t think I actually climaxed but what a wild ride that was!

Just so I didn’t feel like the session was wasted, I tugged it out and took less than a few minutes and it felt amazing releasing!

My question for you guys, how long do you wait between sessions? I have a good window tomorrow and I feel like I wanna give it another go. Is that too soon?