Session 7

I had a nice long session Sunday afternoon. Actually, even before my session I had some very enjoyable chats in the chat room, including one with a guy who was having a nice A-less session. He was kind enough to share what he was experiencing with me, and reading his descriptions created a sort of echo of the sensations in me. I wasn’t able to perpetuate them, but it was still enjoyable. I really enjoy hearing/reading about others’ Aneros/A-less experiences. I think it helps me learn. The human mind is very good at synthesizing little bits of information into something new and wonderful, and I hope the stories and experiences others relate to me will help me reach new and exciting places on this journey.

After some other interesting chatting, and lunch, I decided to start my session. My husband was out of town, so I had plenty of time to enjoy myself and experiment in different ways, and no deadline. One of the challenges I’ve had with my sessions is feeling like there’s an imaginary egg timer ticking away in my head. Is it time to get ready for work? Is my husband going to be home soon? I usually set an actual timer to make sure I don’t go too long, so I should be able to just relax and enjoy the ride while it lasts. But something in my head won’t just let go. I chatted with several people who said they have the same challenge, so at least I know I’m not alone.

Foreskin Awareness Party Featuring Steely Friend Tempo

Hi folks, especially hi Turnrow, Bro! Your post just interrupted another beginning gooning state upcoming when listening to „What A Difference A Day Makes“ performed by Rod Stewart, oh how right he is. I was leaning comfortably back on my couch and closing my eyes from time to time. Upcoming involuntaries tried to adapt themselves to the rhythm of the music and that meanwhile well known whole body arousal was starting too.

Curious about any new messages in my Aneros forum inbox I besides had a glance at my tablet and found your post questioning about my latest edging session. Initially a little reluctant I yet took out my laptop to eventually write down my experience for you and to forestall the risk of forgetting any of the pleasureful details.

Having to call upon the Urban Dictionary for your word „gooning“, I now must say, the top definition there describes best what I went through during my latest session. But let’s start from the beginning.

Early Saturday morning my significant other left our home to meet one of her colleagues for a shopping tour, giving me a lot of undisturbed me time.

I decided to try the multiple ridge band technique and have a long, long edging session. After my visit to the bathroom I lay down in my bed again – on my back. Wearing my Separatec boxers I could easily take out my member through the opening of the boxer’s extra pouch.

Session 6

I had another session. It wasn’t so much a session as a marathon, or maybe two sessions on either end of “retaining.” I dunno, define it how you like.

I got my Progasm Red Ice and Eupho Trident in the mail. I tried both, as well as using the Helix Trident, during this session. I like all three! I’m still very inexperienced, but they are all very different.

I started Thursday evening with the Eupho Trident. I figured I’d go small to large. I lubed up and inserted it and laid on a towel on the floor. I was on the floor this time instead of the bed because someone I chatted with recommended it. Being on a firm surface gives more control. I am not certain I noticed a difference, but I’m not sure I didn’t either, and I agree with the theory.

The Eupho went in nice and easy, of course. It’s quite narrow. I have fingers fatter than that thing. I laid on my back and relaxed and tried to focus on what I was feeling. I mostly just breathed deeply and concentrated, but I also played with flexing different muscles in different ways to see how it moved. It’s a very agile little device. I think I’m going to very much enjoy learning how to make the most of it. As for this first session, I had low expectations because nearly everyone I have talked to has said it’s a device for experienced users, but I still managed to feel some pleasurable sensations with it. I am getting a little better and feeling where the device is and what it’s doing.

“Edging Every Night?”

Background
I raised a question on the forum recently. It had to do with “edging” frequency and duration. I generally do not edge all that often since this action usually precipitates in me the dreaded “blue-balls”. However, it seems clear to me now that in fact I do “edge” and often—almost every night! Astounding? How you may ask. Let me explain……

Night-time Edging
Usually, I retire for the night wearing only pajamas. Nothing unusual there. But it is what happens in the middle of the night that needs an explanation. I practice semen retention (SR) all the time now. In fact, I am currently in Day 4. I know that SR helps to boost my testosterone level and I can feel it. It also aids me in my Aneros sessions.

Every healthy guy gets night-time erections*—-they come like clockwork to help keep his penis healthy. They are good and beneficial. But in my case, some of these (particularly the last one) are so strong and so arousing that they wake me up. This morning, I awoke (or rather was awakened) by a rock-hard erection and a close to PONR feeling that lasted I believe at least 15 minutes while I was awake (unknown time while I was asleep). If you’ve ever experienced this, you know the feeling. Every little movement, every little “twitch” seems to propel me ever so closer to that PONR and an ejaculation! I can feel pressure building-up in my perineum and my prostate. It feels like an automatic “edging” session. What to do? Is there any solution?

Did I milk myself by accident?

So, I was about 10 minutes into a session, which is pretty soon for me for anything to start happening. I started getting very breathless, shaking a lot more the whole shebang. I thought “Finally, prostate orgasm” and I’ve been on this “jounrey” for about two years now with nothing much to show for it.

However, it’s nothing like any description of a prostate orgasm I’ve ever heard. All the pressure and pleasure was in the penis and nothing was going on in the prostate; at least nothing that I could feel with everything going on in the front. Tt essentially felt like a traditional masturbation orgasm except it lasted a little bit longer (the feeling lasted for about 15-20 seconds, whereas a normal orgasm by hand would only have the pleasureable feeling there for about 5-10) and it was a lot wetter then usual.

So my question is, did I somehow skip the prostate orgasm stage and go straight into milking territory? If so, how do I go back a step. If it wasn’t me accidentally milking myself… what was it? Because it certianly wasn’t a prostate orgasm. As I said, everything was focuses on the junk in the front.

“An Untapped Reservoir Of Pleasure”

Backgound
Being 67-years-old now, I will admit that I grew up through the “disco” era of the 70s and 80s. This music has been all but rejected as of late, but I lived through it. Very early this morning, while searching on YouTube for some nice tracks, I began to listen to some of the old-time disco “classics” almost by accident, and let me tell you, there was still a “spark” that ignited through my memory-banks!

Listening Session
I won’t elaborate on the specific titles, but listening to these classics brings back a wealth of memories. There is no need to suppress these feelings; they are part of my existence and are residing in my subconscious mind! I lived through these songs, I danced to them, I fantasized through them and I made love through them*!

These tracks now seem to energize in me a new realm, a new beginning to my sexuality. Do these tracks somehow tie-in to my Aneros prostate pleasure sessions? Absolutely! The mindset that these songs generate in me is totally beyond normal, rational comprehension! It is so important to let-go, fantasize and just give-in to the feelings these tracks elicit. That pleasure is just beyond words! “Disco is dead?” Come-on, get real! Just give a listen! I’m sure more than a few of us “old-timers” remember those days!

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Pre-gaming goes super

So I’m currently sat fownstairs, home alone chilling out and beginning to tense my prostate before heading, I intended, to bed to live up, insert my Helix Syn and hope to have a great session. Had one great super-o experience, everything since has been either disappointing or, like, knocking on the door and peeking in but not actually getting there, which has been ok and not-nothing, but naturally a little disappointing.

Anyway, not sure what’s different tonight, except for I’m high on an edible after a quiet week weed-wise, and have gotten myself markedly more aroused through simply browsing forums and tensing lightly. But I kept going, and to my complete surprise was able to (without having decided I was going to try) bring myself to (what I currently believe to be a) super-o. Started with a light sensation which I could quite tell if it was a p-wave, though persistence confirmed it and I kept going. One full, and a second at least mini-O, all without any external anal stimulation whatsoever and no device. So that’s a milestone I wasn’t expecting for a while out of no where.

Anyway, the question occurred to me – and I love that this community is interactive when I ask those questions that just pique my interest – what do people do in that case? Do people have preferences for just maintaining that session without moving and getting the massager; or do you rather level up to toy?

Session 4

Today’s session was better than Monday’s, but still not quite as good as either of the first two. I think the main reason these last two have not been as good is my level of arousal. I think I must have been more aroused the first two times. I was more aroused today than on Monday, and that helped, but I was also tired. I went to bed late last night, I woke up early this morning, and I exercised more than usual. So I think I was a bit drained as well, which offset some of my arousal.

I did a couple things differently this time:
– I used an eye mask to keep out the daylight. That was helpful. I did see light, but more a “seeing stars” kind of light due to the stimulation I was getting from my Aneros in the more intense bits.
– I warmed the lube and Aneros beforehand. That made things more comfortable in the beginning

I began my session more relaxed than on Monday. This was probably partially just because I was tired, but I also avoided thinking about work or other stress-inducing topics and generally tried to remain relaxed an mellow from the time I took my post-workout shower and the time I began my session. This helped me get “in the zone” more quickly. I was able to shut out the outside world and focus on what my body was feeling. The eye mask helped with this as well.

“Two Great Sessions Even At SR Day 3!”

Introduction
I am only at SR Day 3 but took a chance at not one but two sessions today. One, early morning and the other about mid-day. Here is what happened in each…..

Session #1
I wore my Safe-T-Gard strap with Mueller cup overnight. This first session was with the HIH 950, one of my favorites. I lubed-up generously with Slippery Stuff Gel and got started. Almost from the beginning, I had a strong sense that I was going to ejaculate. I had a lot of fluid (possibly precum?) and distinctly felt that if I continued this session longer, I would have a HFWO. But I stopped-short of that. Instead, I decided to retreat to my comfortable sofa and put on some nice tracks. I selected one on YouTube and when I awoke, I was listening to “Music for the Soul @Enigmatic Mix” and it was incredibly stimulating! Before I knew it, it was about 2-1/2 hours later than when I started! Several times during the “session” I developed a strong erection within the Mueller cup and again, it honestly felt like I would ejaculate.

New mindset for Session #1: Instead of the usual “male chastity cup” I developed a new mindset. My urologist wants to prep me for a procedure and I am to wear a jockstrap/cup for two nights prior to my procedure. This morning ended the second night. I don’t know what this “prep” was supposed to do but it worked!

Session 3

I started my session this morning after exercising, bathing, and practicing my violin. I also checked my work email and went over the more important messages to make my life easier when I got to work. That may have been a mistake, which I’ll get into later.

I lubed up, shooting a little Shibari in as pre-lubrication and applying a dab of Boy Butter H2O on the Helix to ease insertion. I mentioned in an earlier post that I might try this. I’m not sure that the results have been affected by any of the three methods of lubrication I’ve tried. Mobility of the Aneros did not seem limited in any of them. Granted, I have only tried each method once, so it’s hardly scientific. I may try each again and figure out which I prefer.

One thing I think I may try next time is warming the lube and/or the Aneros. The lube was pretty cold and it gave me a bit of a crampy feeling until it reached an equilibrium temperature with my body. Not the most pleasant sensation, and I’d prefer to avoid it in the future. It might have decreased my level of arousal somewhat, and that’s not helpful.

I laid on my back on a towel on my bed, naked except for the glans cover I’ve been using. I thought about foregoing its use this time, but it really does keep the (potential) mess contained, and it helps prevent stimulation to my glans that might be distracting. So I think I’ll probably just continue to use it for the foreseeable future. I pulled the covers over me because the bedroom was cold and tried to relax.