Friend or Foe?

Just had my session back from work. Manage to get around 3-4 orgasms before my body gave up
after some cleaning, I sat in front of my comp and watched some youtube vid to wind myself down
From there, I got a notification from my chat group of my close friends.
To my surprise, one of the girls shared a very short article about exploring prostate play and followed by her comment ‘Male G Spot!’
I was like, hmmm… this is a good chance to share/gather opinion from my close friends about what’s their attitude about prostate play.
So, I decided to ask her
‘hey, did you try it on your bf?’
‘No! my bf butt hole is for sh*tting only! You should ask XXXXX instead’ (XXXX is my male friend)
XXXX: Nah.. my butt is for sh*tting too! One way street

There goes the only chance… i could not continue to subject… that was a hell of a chance to discuss this subjects maturely. I guess I am living with a bunch of close-minded people.. expecting too much from them

Yeah, i should have seen it coming.

People automatically went into hard-wired mode when comes to male butt = gay… I am a straight guy and I enjoy having my prostate poked by my wife or aneros when I am solo…
I could not see the connection…
to be honest, i did envy women G spot does not need to go through some taboo/forbidden place to reach… and they could talk openly within close friends without afraid of being shunned, receiving negative feedback or being labeled as homo…

First Entry

This is the initiation of my blog
I would like to share exp of my prostate play here
Started my journey since 4 years ago
thinking back, I would say that I went from totally ‘hmmm.. where is it?’ to like ‘OMG!’ within seconds of insertion
it’s a huge progress where I thought it was not possible back then.

Even my nipples decided to rewire itself without even trying. I started to feel some tingling sensation out of nowhere and i decided to play with my nipples and that’s it

I do feel lucky and glad that I am able to wake up my prostate. So for those newcomers, don’t give up. one day you will feel your own prostate orgasm/super O

“Yes, I’ll Report The Dud Sessions Too!”

This was one of those sessions which never really took-off. I thought I felt aroused, although I didn’t have an erection at the start of the session. So I lubed-up the Helix Trident and started-out. Although I did experience some mild auto-contractions, I just didn’t feel anything against my prostate. I continued for perhaps 25 minutes, but sadly, nothing came. I am now in semen retention Day 10 and wearing my SafeTGard cup for chastity control.

I can’t say I’m really disappointed. Perhaps my prostate is satisfied at the moment and doesn’t want to experience orgasms right now. Perhaps the several days’ worth of milking has kept it satisfied! Whatever the reason, I’ll just savor the fact that I am still progressing in SR. Usually, by now I will have experienced the blue-balls and would have to end the challenge! I’ll stay on the journey!

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“Chastity Is A Game Of Tug-Of-War!”

Introduction
Of course, it is not a real game! But the thought process behind self-imposed chastity is indeed tug-of-war*. Let me explain……

My side of the rope:
I hold on to the “rope” instead of holding on to my cock! It is really that simple! I want to remain in chastity (and semen retention) for as long as possible. I am now at Day 9 and hope to go at least another 6 or 9 days! I ”pull” on the rope by not edging or surfing at all. I have found from much experience that too much edging, surfing or an anticipation of partnered sexual activity will arouse me too much to the point where the blue-balls are almost inevitable. So I am very careful even with Aneros sessions not to directly stimulate my cock at the same time as my prostate.

Just this morning, I had a very nice milking session with SGX which I have not used in a while. It was a worthwhile session: I expelled more prostate fluid, not precum (I can see and feel the difference. Precum is very slippery and stringy, prostate fluid is not as much so.) These healthy prostate milking sessions seem to keep me satisfied while at the same time not getting me too aroused; hence, a nice balance. I enjoy prostate massage without any blue-balls.

A quest!

Hey!
It’s been a while since my last entry but rest assured I have been keeping tabs on all you guys for inspiration, thanks. I’ve still been enjoying some wonderful sessions but I have noticed some subtle changes in my responses. I am also trying to train myself not to follow the same old routine for every session which seems to be paying off. For instance, my usual position for a session has been on my back, slightly propped up with a pillow or two, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. I found this led to me tensing up my stomach muscles too much when things got going. Of course this impeded my breathing when I felt I should have been more relaxed. So now I adopt a more flat position which lets me release the tension in my abdomen, that immediately felt better. I follow the “do nothing” approach and just let things happen. Using my new position I became aware that when orgasms started I was really clenching hard on the Aneros, fair enough it’s difficult not to, but as the orgasm faded I was still holding it in quite strongly although I thought I had relaxed my “grip” on it. I was quite surprised how much more tension I could release and allow the Aneros some freedom to begin its work again. I am really concentrating hard on this as I find I can bring on the autofxxk response quite well. Also noticeable is that during a session I can go through many phases of different pleasurable sensations. A few times I have had the feeling of an ejaculation building as I approached climax, I could definitely feel the same pumping feeling that I get during ejaculation from traditional masturbation and ejaculation. So far nothing has occurred but it feels so close. I admit that on one occasion after a session I reallly felt the need to cum, I didn’t want to use my hands, I just wanted to somehow get as close as I could to the PONR and let my prostate take over. I found that if I positioned the edge of my duvet over my frenulum while laying flat on my back, any movement at all just kept things on the boil and eventually I felt that incredible sensation when a load is on its way. The resulting ejaculation came from deep within and was intense, and more productive than a normal one, it was strong with many pumps from my prostate. Although it wasn’t truly a HFWO, it has wet my appetite to experience a genuine one. As I am now about 10 days into SR and enjoying all the feelings that come with it, I am trying an experiment. Several times a day for the past two days I have been taking myself as close as I can to the PONR. It has been a torture of sorts but at the same time, so, so arousing, My thoughts are that by the time I settle in for my next Aneros session I will be bursting to cum, hopefully in a hands free manner. Whether I will be lucky enough for it to happen I don’t know, but in any case I will have had some fun trying. My arousal levels are so high just now that my prostate is demanding attention almost as much as my cock. I feel electrified and I’m buzzing with sexual energy.

Questions about my experience thus far.

I’m a new Aneros user and I have the MGX Trident model.

Nothing spectacular yet I don’t think? That’s part of my questions.

1. Whenever I feel a little tingle when I think it’s hitting my prostate, (you know your hitting it if it feels like you need to pee correct?) my penis starts flinching and it gets super hard to the point where I can have a normal ejaculatory penile orgasm. I feel little p-waves during this as well I believe. When I use my PC muscles to move the aneros around, my hard penis goes up and down with it. All of this without touching my penis, and precum leaking out through out the session. I guess my question is am I hitting the prostate? And if I am what am I doing wrong or how can I reverse it so I don’t have a penile orgasm?

2. Sometimes the P-tab causes discomfort and soreness and last night I tried putting a wash cloth folded in half between me and the P-tab and it helped a lot. Is this normal? It also seems like that helped curve it up more and I felt it hitting the prostate better I think.

Any experience/knowledge greatly appreciated.

“It Really Doesn’t Get Any Better Than This!”

I had an incredible session this morning with the HIH 950. All I really expected was a nice “milking” session. What I got was much more. Who knew that this diminutive prostate massager had the power to take me close to an ejaculation and feel like a Super-O? As soon as I lubed-up and started, I felt it hit my sweet spot almost immediately. I am currently in SR Day 8. I have no blue-balls feeling (yet). I decided to put-on my XO cup for this session.

Not too long afterwards, I began to get a strong orgasmic feeling with anal/PC contractions. I had to muffle more than a few screams of pleasure. I knew I was “pumping” prostate fluid because I could feel it make its way down to my cock. One of the descriptions of the Super-O indicates large muscle contractions. I definitely had these during this session. From the beginning of the session, I felt close to ejaculating and honestly felt that I would. That is also another “sign” of a Super-O. To quote from the Aneros Wiki:

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“A Super-O is an overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasm that may involve: durations of minutes at a time; full-body orgasmic waves of pleasure; intense pleasure throughout the pelvic region, particularly the prostate, rectum and surrounding muscles; loss of a sense of reality; strong emotional responses; flashes of color (optical activity in the brain); large muscle contractions; a strong sense of ejaculation (with no emission); protracted involuntary vocalizations, roars or screams; pleasant convulsions; pronounced deep or staccato pelvic thrusting or writhing; a sense of soulful release and relief; a sense of self-redefinition; and, an energized feeling immediately following orgasm and being ready for more (as opposed to post-ejaculation lethargy).”

20-minute continuous orgasm

Hello r/aneros,

I’ve commented in here a couple times but never posted. Tl;dr at end.

Last night I had a crazy 20-minute orgasm after a 3-hour session with my progasm jr.

I started at 10pm. The first two hours didn’t really feel that good, but I’ve had things arise really late in the past and I just wasn’t satisfied with where I was. This was with and without porn. I thought about smoking weed again but I can’t because of a job interview process.

I then remembered that a lot of people describe the process as having to be “re-wired,” to map the sensations to pleasure centers of the brain. And I pulled out my stash of magic mushrooms. There are studies conducted that show that mushrooms allow your brain to form new neural connections, and I thought, “if my brain needs to be re-wired, maybe this will help.”

So I took one tiny cap at 12am (too much and it kills my libido plus I won’t sleep for hours). I felt the shroom cap hit me. As the feeling washed over me, I felt a deep relaxation in my hips and legs, I was able to put my focus outside of myself, and my prostate started tingling very lightly. It felt good. Not mind-blowing. I watched some porn and squirmed around on my bed for about an hour.

Now I can produce Super-O’s and MMO’s in Aless

Hi guys,

Now in the dog days of summer here in DC, I can walk about my apartment and sit naked at my PC if I so choose. Generally I do this when apartment building staff is not on duty or if there is not workmen in the building during normal work hours during the daytime Monday or Friday. However past 6 p.m. in the evening til 8 a.m. in the morning workdays and 24 hours on Saturdays and Sundays on weekends, I have the necessary privacy for nakedness which so freeing, a necessary ingredient for Aneros sessions and Aless untethered. However the modesty I exercise protects myself and the apartment building staff.

On Thursday August 2, I had a session with Tempo that was quantum leap. Tempo is an Aneros device made of hefty stainless steel that guys and women use it inserted anally seated comfortably. The root meaning of the Tempo is rhythmic “fuck” motion that is so natural. On this memorable session, I was seated before my PC with Tempo working diddling sweetly my nipples and performing natural Kegels when all of a sudden experienced a series of seven or eight Super-O’s one after another. When a Super-O came along, Tempo “fucked” me with deep strokes which I engaged directly. This was definitely a quantum leap with Tempo and something very new!

Some questions after the first session

Yesterday i had my first ever session with my new Helix Trident. I liked my session but i have some questions.

1. When my toy was in i noticed that it slipped down a bit. It wasn’t fully in. Is that normal?
2. How often should i concentrate my PC muscle? should i just pop it in and let its do its own thing or should i concentrate the muscle a couple of times?
3. Should you be erected while the toy is in? I rubbed my nipples in order to stay erected, but i think that this distracts me of the feelings of my prostate.
4. Can i masturbate “normally” after a session without my toy in?