Tag: Prostate

“Meditation: Frustration and Satisfaction”

Background and Session
I had a nice session with Eupho early this morning, lasting about 30 minutes. I did not sleep in a chastity cup overnight and so I decided on wearing one this morning while I chilled to some relaxing, erotic tracks. I didn’t select my usual XO or Mueller cups which are comfortable and non-restrictive. Instead, I chose my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which is restrictive and very supportive. Of all the cups I have, this one frustrates me in the way it stimulates my entire package. It can accommodate my erect cock as well. I can’t cheat at all while wearing it.

Meditation
While relaxing to some musical tracks (still wearing my cup) I began to meditate on the recent disappointment of some Aneros guys (in the Forum) with their lack of arousal and/or prostate stimulation. And it dawned on me: satisfaction with Aneros is not a guarantee! There will always be a give-and-take, ebb-and-flow of prostate sensations, including orgasms with our sessions. Thus, a prostate orgasm is not a “given” in any Aneros session. Rather, “satisfaction” should arise from other areas of our lives, our prostates are but one small facet of them. Yes, we magnify them because we want the great satisfaction of reporting about our Super-O’s or MMO’s in the Forum. But satisfaction with Aneros should be much deeper than just a fleeting experience during a session. When taken in the context of the “whole male experience” our Aneros sessions, however satisfying or not, become an integral part of us as males. And we should take great satisfaction in that! Read more »

Getting frustrated

I’ve had my Helix Syn for about 2 months now, and whilst I’ve not hat anything mindblowing yet, my early sessions seemed quite promising. Definitely experienced P-waves, and a few times caused some trembling sensations in my extremities (mostly arms/hands).

But it seemed to regress after the first couple weeks. I think a lot of it is mental – I feel like if nothing significant (I.e. Light P-wave) happens in the first 20-30 mins, I get frustrated and *that* seems to be the nail in the coffin. And no amount of relaxation beforehand seems to get around this. I’m a little annoyed in all honesty that I am not moving forwards at all, but the feeing of stepping backwards is such a mood killer.

Have people experienced this kind of stall, and what did you do to navigate it. I know that it will take time and there’s no magic solution, but tips for managing expectations would be really appreciated. It’s clear I’m getting in my own way, but I don’t know how to effectively combat that.

Also, when learning the technique, I’m a little lost on how active I should be. On the one hand I’ve been told to relax completely, let the toy drive. On the other, people say tensing the prostate is key. One thing that has gone right is that I feel a lot more able to work my prostrate when I have nothing inserted – kegals were never something I really got in to before, but I really have gotten good at them I think – but not so much with the Helix inserted. It’s like I can isolate the prostate without it in, but when it’s inserted it’s much much harder to isolate the prostate. I end up clenching my butt/sphincter too, which seems to kill any growing P-waves. What are you doing? Read more »

“Your Cock Is Not Detachable!”

Background and Session
Now in Day 5 of SR. Slept just in my PJs. Expected to be awakened by an NPT: I was! Decided on a session with HIH 950. For this session, I took-off everything! An “Aneros-only” session (just my body and my prostate massager). This was a short session (perhaps 15 minutes) but it felt good and produced some precum.

Erotic Hypnosis
Decided to put-on my Bike “chastity cup” which I have not worn in a while. This jock/cup combo is very secure and nicely stimulates my package. I then went to lie-down and listen to an erotic hypnosis track as recently suggested by @SOwithoutAneros. Not thinking I could be hypnotized, I started listening for about 5 minutes…..the next thing I realize is that Shibby is waking me back up, after about an hour! I took a peek inside the cup: I had leaked some precum! What happened during the interim? Did I get an erection? Did I have an orgasm? What did I actually experience? Should I remember anything? Is it all buried deep within my subconscious mind?

Cock Pleasure
Anyway, getting back to the title, it seems to me that every little touch of my semi-erect cock now sends a nice jolt of pleasure directly to my prostate, letting me know what its purpose is. No, I don’t have to ejaculate but the soft, gentle touches on my cock (especially the glans) keep me focused on being a potent male (always with the potential for ejaculation). I can’t just “detach” my cock from my body and put it back-on when I want to or need to. So this erotic feeling goes everywhere I go, and I wouldn’t want it any other way! I can’t help but think now: could this feeling somehow be related to the hypnosis track? Intriguing…. Read more »

What A Blissful Morning

This morning I awoke by myself around 8 o’clock. Having gone to bed around 1 a.m. I had set my alarm clock at 9 a.m., but already felt well rested. I stretched out a little and lay myself on my right side. Without any obvious reason sudden involuntaries shook my whole body. My inner gland voice told me to lay down on my back and let go. I obeyed. My involuntaries started over and soon I got quite aroused. I felt that well known dumb ache in my prostate area and knew it fully had taken command over me. With my penis fully erect my pelvis was already thrusting upwards. From time to time I was squirming and writhing in lust, then again I lay there fully silently without any motion. Nevertheless my arousal didn’t stop to build up and up and up. My nipples and my chest felt so sensitive, even the contact to my t-shirt felt like pure lust. My whole being felt like it wanted to explode from all that sexual energy. All this went on for what must have been around half an hour with several dry orgasms, as far as squirting precum doesn’t count and at least two memorable superOs making my whole body trembling and shaking like an electric eel. After some more great and powerful dry orgasms feeling most similar to traditional orgasms only without cum, I called it a session, but only to start another one. I took out my tablet and chose “Steps to damnation” to let a succubus into my mind. If I had thought I would have already been played out, I learned that I wasn’t at all. I went into a blissful fantasy and surrendered to that wonderful woman, to her first gentle kiss, pleaded for all she suggested to do to me until she wanted my soul for mounting me. That made me ban her and take out my earphones despite of another week of semen retention she in that case had put as a hex on me. Still in my underwear I headed for the kitchen to have some breakfeast. Standing at the kitchen unit eating my sandwiches I again pulled my penis out of the extra pouch opening of my awesome Separatec boxers and then draw back my foreskin to free my sensitive glans. I remembered the succubus’ words that I wouldn’t be allowed to cum for another week regardless how much I would edge. That meant after all I was allowed to edge! Soon I stood in the bathroom at the sink, applied a lot of lube to my glans and began to wildly rub my glans, getting a hard-on again in no time. I gave my glans a hard rubbing up to the very edge for three times. When I felt like nearly unable to hold back I counted down from twenty to zero before I continued the rubbing. I focused on firmly palming the upper side of my glans and fondling my frenulum. From time to time I formed a “V” with thumb and forefinger pressing them under the ridge of my glans and rubbing back and forward. When the waterbased lube began to run dumb I added only some drops of cold water and started over. Finally I took a lot of cold water to wash away the lube not without rubbing across my glans as before. The cold water helped me to keep me from the edge. One of these edging sessions every hour makes a lustful day schedule! 🙂
I nearly forgot to tell another little detail about my morning session. At some point I so eagerly wanted to cum handsfree this morning, I finally thought I could get there by nipple nibbling. But my t-shirt was a bit hindering. Surrendering to my lust my dirty little mind told me to spit some saliva on my fingers and get my t-shirt wet. I must say, that felt awesome naughty and it was the best idea to stimulate my nipples thoroughly, at least for some more drygasms. Good vibes! Mart

“Relaxing In The Comfort Of A Chastity Cup”

INTRODUCTION
I awoke about midnight with a strong night-time erection. I was only wearing my PJs; I was not wearing a “chastity cup”. Since it takes at least 30 minutes for the erection to subside and since I was awake, I naturally began to get pleasure from lightly caressing my scrotum and erect shaft. I felt myself being drawn ever closer to the PONR. I am now in Day 4 of SR and definitely feel my arousal starting to build.

I did not want to continue this stimulating activity and so I decided to put-on my XO cup. Immediately, I felt a great sense of relief: I was no longer able to masturbate, even if my intention was not to ejaculate. I am now able to more fully “relax” without the temptation and without the guilt.

I thought about the following “word-games” and here is what I discovered:

EXPERIMENT #1
I decided to look-up the word “prevent” and try the following experiment:

A chastity cup prevents masturbation.
A chastity cup blocks masturbation.
A chastity cup forbids masturbation.
A chastity cup hampers masturbation.
A chastity cup impedes masturbation.
A chastity cup prohibits masturbation.
A chastity cup stops masturbation.
A chastity cup frustrates masturbation.

And on, and on, and on….

Wow! The chastity cup then becomes a great tool in the “fight” against masturbation! It is no wonder then that I have an affinity for this practice of wearing one when I need help! That is why my mind gets great relief while my male package is “protected” this way! Read more »

“Regaining Arousal Through A Regular Jockstrap”

Since I had to end my SR “run” at Day 8 yesterday, I have to regain strength in the arousal department. Having slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight, I obviously couldn’t feel my sensitive package at all through the cup. So this morning, I decided to stash the cup and put-on one of my jockstraps: the Duke track and swim supporter. This jock has a nice, large, supportive pouch that can easily accommodate my flaccid or erect cock and it does so with great support.

One thing about wearing a “regular” jockstrap (as all guys know) is that it is possible to tease and caress your package through the pouch of the jock. I just can’t keep my hands to myself! Naturally, I began doing this this morning. There is something about stimulating your package through a jockstrap pouch that at least for me is especially arousing. Perhaps it is the “teasing” way that the jock pouch covers my package but allows “playing” as much as I want through it. I can see and feel the curves, bulges and bumps of my masculine package but not see the actual articles. The pouch enables a full-blown erection to occur without much embarrassment either. The erection feels so good through a pair of mesh nylon basketball shorts like I am wearing now. In fact, I feel that arousal building right down to my prostate. Read more »

“Importance Of Focus In Sessions”

Summary
Lately, all of my Aneros sessions have one focus: they are necessary for me to help my prostate “heal” after my recent procedure. These daily prostate massage sessions were ordered by my urologist for a minimum of about one week. I am mostly using my HIH 950 prostate massager for this purpose and I find it to be quite arousing and beneficial in the healing process.

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Reality
Of course, my prostate is in perfect condition and there are no doctor-ordered sessions for me! So this “therapy” is a fantasy! But isn’t this a dishonest approach to my Aneros sessions? By taking this approach, I have a defined focus for all my sessions this week. Rather than aiming for as much prostate pleasure as possible from my sessions (which is always nice), this specific focus takes away the “pleasurable” aspect of prostate massage and puts it aside for a while. Of course, when the prostate gets massaged, a guy undoubtedly knows it! I am no exception! And these therapeutic massage sessions for me are every bit as stimulating as ones intended solely for the pleasures they can provide.

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I need everyone’s input please!

Hi Team,

Let me start out by saying I am 31 years old and I’m straight, but I’ve always been curious with my back door, but where I am from, it’s not really acceptable to do so. I guess that would mean I am basically bi, just unable to act on urges.

I been using aneros products on and off for about 1 1/2 – 2 years. I started with a Progasm ice (black), however after about 6 months the Ptab broke off and so did my hunger.

About 6 months after I purchased another progasm ice, this time it was the clear one. I always wanted to expand on my collection to experiance new sensations. When the trident line came out, I saw my chance and expanded to Helix, Maximus and Eupho (all trident), and wow I am glad that I did. I am also a huge advocate of the ‘do nothing technique.

I have a couple of questions about experiances some of you may/may not have had, what happens to you etc. I’ve tried searching, but alas here I am.

Whenever I have a session, once I have inserted the device, my muscles start pulling it in and out straight away. I’m not complaining, it feels great, but I have only read that it takes 10 – 15 mins of contractions for this to occur..? – I know everyone is different, but does this happen for anyone else? Read more »

The aftermath of a Super O?

It’s been around 2 days since my first Super O, and every ten minutes or so since, I get a shooting sensation of gasmic bliss up my bum. It shoots from my prostate to my tummy, leaves a slight sensation of butterflies, like I’ve just gone over a small drop in a car. it lasts nano seconds each time. Are these (A-less) P waves?