Tag: Prostate

Help me find the aneros toy that will finally let me orgasm!!

Hi, so I’ve been interested in prostate play for a while but haven’t quite finessed it. I have only bought cheap vibrating toys online, that haven’t hit the spot.

I’m now looking to get into the Aneros brand (my budget is still pretty low – sub £50). My question is, which of the Helix Syn, Trident Maximus, or Prograsm Ice should I buy?

I play quite regularly with a regular toy that measures around 3.25″ in circumference and 4.5″ in length. That’s a nice fit for me. I worry a little that the Helix Syn is too thin at 3″ to give a satisifying feeling, while at the same time the Prograsm Ice measures at 3.75″, which could be too thick (one of the previous toys I used was 4.25″ thick, which was painful to insert and take out).

Basically my priority here is achieving a prostate orgasm with one of these toys – I have never had this before but have played quite a bit with my ass with small-modest sized toys.

Which will give me the best chance of achieving this?

Do you watch/listen to porn during prostate play?

As I mentioned in a previous post, I’m relatively new to this. I have an Aneros Helix Syn and will be using it for the second time ever tonight.

When you engage in prostate play, do you watch or listen to porn, or do you just turn everything off and try to focus on the moment? I’m interested to learn new techniques.

Thanks in advance!

“SR Day 8 —– Oh My, What A Feeling!”

Background
Now in Day 8 of SR with my testosterone boost in overdrive. I wore my SafeTGard cup overnight and awoke about 3 AM with a hard, throbbing erection. Wanted a session so I selected my HIH 950. Now it doesn’t look like much but let me assure you, it does the job!

Session
I started the session somewhat flaccid but quickly developed another erection. I continued to wear the cup during the session since it takes my hands off my cock where they don’t belong. I immediately began to feel the p-waves and some auto-contractions which resulted in some precum. Honestly felt like heading for a HFWO. I am moving around in bed, lightly moaning throughout. Surprised that 30 minutes had already passed while in this feeling of ecstasy.

After-Session
Went to listen to some nice, erotic tracks for about an hour, then went back to bed still wearing my SafeTGard cup. I somewhat remember a lucid dream that was of a sexual nature. I remember “thrusting” in bed but not much more. Perhaps I am closer to a wet dream than I realize? Interesting, but I have absolutely no blue-balls feeling during this current “run” of semen retention. I hope I can keep it that way! If I may be honest, I am feeling like an ejaculation* but don’t really want one just yet. (Thank goodness for the chastity cups that help me!) I like the “High-T” feeling too much! It puts a “male” spin on everything I see and do! Read more »

“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain….. Read more »

New to prostate massage/Helix Syn

I’ve been interested in the idea of prostate play/massage for a while, but have never tried it. I’m 39 and married, but my wife is extremely conservative in the bedroom – unfortunately.

So, wanting to try it, since I have to go it alone, I bought the Helix Syn. I read a lot of comments and suggestions on here about what to do before I started. I had to wait until I knew I had the house to myself for a while since I can’t do it with my wife home.

I got naked in our bedroom, put on some porn, laid down on the bed and started. I lubed my finger and started to massage in and around my anus. Then I lubed up the Syn and slowly inserted it. My penis was flaccid at this point, but I didn’t touch it. I just tried to relax.

I started tightening and relaxing my muscles, trying to feel some sort of pleasure. I did this for close to an hour. My penis barely got hard, and I finally caved and masturbated to finish. Every once in awhile, it would feel like the Syn was sliding out, but it wasn’t.

I guess what I’m asking is what should I be feeling? Am I doing something wrong? I was hoping for this incredible experience – physically and emotionally. Should I lower my expectations? Should I look for other toys? Thanks for reading. Any help you can give a first-timer would be great.

Eupho use during sex!

Since Aneros claims that the eupho is perfect for use during sex I figured it would be my duty to give it a try. My wife had been asking about sex with the aneros in for a while. So with the addition of the eupho to my collection the time was fitting. Monday night knowing we would be I left the eupho laying on her night stand with a note that said “you can use this on me”. Fast forward to our time in bed together during for play she lubed it up and slipped it inside of me. I immediately got those wonderful pleasure sensations of my aroused and swollen prostate being lightly brushed by the toy. My wife had left my man parts alone during foreplay, she kissed and touched her way down from my neck to my lowers, stopping to kiss and touch around near my penis and balls. Ending up at my ass with her hand, she gently touched my ass hole with her finger, more of a teasing, and teasing my perineum as well. I was well aroused when she put the aneros in. Once it was in she rolled over onto her back legs spread, and that was my hint. Once in her, with some light slow thrusting I could feel the eupho dancing lightly touching my prostate. The pleasure was amazing, not to much but almost to much. The sensation of my penis in the soft, warm and wet environment combined with the leaking sensation the movement of the eupho was giving was amazing. After a few minutes she wanted to take a ride on top. I wasnt going to stop her. While readjusting I gave a couple light contractions and was oozing. My wife and I like to sometimes sit still with me inside and use kegals on eachother. My wife bearing down on my felt great as always, with her bearing down I threw in a kegal, the sensation was too much. We both released she went to the top of my penis, clamped down, told me to clench and hold. Half way on her decent down I was in trouble, there was no abort action, delay or anyway to get my self from exploding. I could feel the eupho dancing rapidly and my ejaculation reflexes were going. Kissing my prostate with every move of the massager I orgasm-ed. Full bodied, toes curled, eyes closed, I could feel the cum rising up out of me. My wife just kept on going, riding to her own moaning orgasms seconds later. This is defiantly going to become something we throw in from now on.

“My Cock…..Exposed!”

Background
After my TO yesterday, I was wiped-out for about half-a-day. No energy, feeling “blah”. I did rebound by the later afternoon, however. I noticed I had some groin irritation probably caused by my extended wearing of “chastity cups” and so I decided to go “cold-turkey” without them for a few days for improvement.

So I slept last night in nothing but my PJs. Of course, the NPTs woke me up a couple times during the night. What to do? Well, all I could do was roll-over on my side, take some pressure off my cock and “try” to get back to sleep….which I eventually did.

Release from Chastity
Of course, I have trouble keeping my hands off my cock when not in chastity, so the next couple of days will be challenging for me. But I am only in Day 2 of SR again, so I am not anxious in the least to ejaculate again.

This release from chastity will have its pros and its cons. On the pro side, I will be able to enjoy any erections that I experience for the next few days. I will see and feel each one. It may even make for a more romantic “setting” in the bedroom! But on the con side, it may hasten my desire for another ejaculation. And with sufficient arousal, it may provide me with an opportunity to experience the “blue-balls” feeling once again. Read more »

“Refractory Period Following Prostate Massage?”

Introduction
I have noticed with “daily” Aneros sessions, that I invariably experience a pseudo-“refractory period” following the session. I looked-up “refractory period” online and discovered this definition (ref. ISSM – International Society for Sexual Medicine):

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“What is the refractory period?

After orgasm, both men and women experience a resolution stage. At this time, their bodies “recover” from sexual excitement and return to their normal states. For men, the penis becomes flaccid again and he goes through a refractory period.

During the refractory period, a man doesn’t think about sex or get aroused. His body does not respond to sexual stimulation and he is unable to reach orgasm again until the period is over. The length of the refractory period is different for every man. It may take a half hour or more for his body to perform sexually again.

Younger men may need only a few minutes of recovery time, but older men usually have a longer refractory period, sometimes between 12 to 24 hours. For some men, the refractory period can last a few days.

Experts aren’t sure why the length of refractory periods varies so much among men. But they do know that the length of time needed is not related to potency or testosterone levels.”

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“After the Erection and Arousal, What Comes Next?”

Hello!
I’ll bet you’re wondering: I know the answer! Do you? I thought about this too…..The answer is not an ejaculation! Surprised? Let me explain……

The Truth
What came next for me was an Aneros session. I selected the HIH 950 for my prostate’s health. This massager does its job without being overbearing. There is just enough stimulation of my prostate to help me relax into erotic bliss. During this 30-minute session, I tried to relax as completely as possible. But it isn’t easy, for every so often, I would get a ‘jolt’ of pleasure that caused me to tense-up my anal sphincter around the massager. Usually, when this happens, I can feel my erection starting to build-up as well. I know I am experiencing some prostate orgasms when this happens.

Male Chastity Interaction
For this session, I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” and also a condom on my erect cock. I like the stimulation the condom provides against it due to the added silicone lube. Oh, what a feeling! At one point, I removed the cup and squirmed-around on the bed, causing even more prostate pleasure! But I was careful not to stimulate it too much: no ejaculation for me at this time! Read more »