Tag: Prostate

Is this part of “the journey”

Second time user. I bought an Aneros years ago (can’t remember model) and what I know now is that I was both misunderstanding what to do and being impatient. Ditched it and never thought about it again til about a year ago.

Bought a Helix Syn about a month ago, and hand a handful of sessions. From the off, things were different. Don’t know if it’s a better body-model fit for me, a better understanding of what to do to maneuver the thing, or a little of both, but it’s definitely doing something. Regularly have p-waves, and have had I think 2 smallish orgasms, though nothing approaching a super -O I don’t think.

But for the most part, I feel like I’m struggling to make progress. Im still finding the sessions a little frustrating, because whilst I definitely can distinguish the prostate from other muscles down there, I’m having trouble keeping it contracted. I fee like I get up to 10 seconds and 2/3 of the time my sphincter contracts significantly, which knocks out the prostate contact. And I can’t seem to release the sphincter only, so I have to fully relax and start again. And after a couple times of this, I normally bail on the session out of frustration.

That said, in the last 48 hours especially I’ve noticed more sensitivity to my prostate without any direct stimulation (by me or a toy). I can contract it on and off for a minute or two, and it’s not orgasmic but it is pleasurable. And I don’t think I’d ever been able to distinguish my prostate from the overall piss-stopping clenching of a few muscles. Read more »

“Sexual Libido Tune-Up: An Extended Fantasy”

Introduction
This fantasy “session” was inspired by @BigGlansDC; thanks buddy!

Believe it or not, I am only in Day 2 of semen retention. But that is not stopping me from having great daily Aneros sessions. This morning was no exception, let me explain….

Session
This morning’s session was with the selected Eupho Classic. I like Eupho because it is very slender, inserts easily and has great movement. This 25-minute session again gave me a HFWO feeling but it did much more. It “triggered” in me a fantasy, a “living fantasy”. Here it is as best as I can remember…..

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I am due for my urological and prostate exam in 2 weeks (yes, for real) and my urologist wants to give me a male libido tune-up prior to my schedule visit which they have found to be very helpful for us older men. I will relate the various “steps” as best as I can recall them.

Libido Tune-Up
First-up was the prostate massage “session” as I have already described it. I was wearing a cage cup for this session so my cock was not accessible to me.

Next, I was instructed to put-on a pair of tight boxers with a contour pouch. This felt good and I was instructed to lie-back and “feel” for my erogenous zones through the silky material: specifically, my scrotum, cock (including the glans and the frenulum) perineum and anus. All of these in turn were to receive some “loving” from my hands. The aim was to induce an arousal in me that could result in an erection. After a period of time (perhaps 20 minutes or so) I was feeling quite aroused; yes I did have an erection and was ready for the next step. Read more »

“Hey Aneros! It’s Only Day 1 Again!”

Background
Nearing the end of SR Day 13, I went to bed knowing that I would have to ejaculate. I was getting a very “full” feeling and an achy “blue-balls” sensation in my groin and just wanted a release. I put-on a pair of silky boxers and retired for the night….

I awoke a few hours later with a raging erection and a feeling that (gasp!) I needed to ejaculate again! Not wanting to, however, I quickly put-on my XO “chastity cup” to quench the extreme feeling and keep my hands where they belonged. It didn’t work too quickly, but finally after about 10 minutes of non-masturbatory peace, the erection began to subside.

Session
I honestly felt that I “needed” a session at this time. But so soon after an ejaculation? After all, it’s only Day 1! Should I or shouldn’t I? Yes, I quickly decided on the HIH 950, if only for regular prostate health. Good choice! The massager went in deep and began to stimulate my prostate to the point of expelling prostate fluid! For 25 minutes or so, I was in orgasmic bliss! I could not believe how the 950 was hitting the mark! At several points, it honestly felt like I was approaching a HFWO! Read more »

A few questions about aneros

1) After using an aneros, does regular sex seem not as good anymore? does it make regular sex better?

2) Are prostate orgasms the same thing that women have when they multiple orgasm/g spot orgasm?

Late night ride

It is about a 25 minute ride to the Walmart from my mountain home. Most of the route is very desolate except for about the last five minutes just prior to approaching the store itself.
My session began one evening recently when I was was feeling rather horny snd really needed a release. When ever i get to feeling this way, I also get very daring because my inhibitions are low and I take chances normally that I would not otherwise. So this evening found me in this state.
I lubed up my helix, inserted into my anus, and then proceeded to go down to my truck to drive to Walmart. And i forgot to mention that I
Was was completely nude and that I had decided to leave my clothes behind. This fact added to the excitement and heightened my sexual prowless!
So off I went down the road rocking back and forth giving my prostate a good workout and sprewing precum out of the tip of my rock hard cock.
Occasionally I woul pass a house or anothee vehicle going in the opposite direction. When i did pass another vehicle I would just continue to rock driving deliberately driving slow on this country road giving the passerby a chance to get a glimpse of me! Soon I came to the part of my journey where I was merging onto the main road about 5 minutes from the store. There was no where to turn around so I drove to and approached the brightly lit parking lot. I went in and daringly drove to and then by the front of the store and headed for the exit. Precum was oozing out of my cock like a turned on faucet by now as I held a squeeze and caused the helix to press up against my prostate causing a burning sensation thatvwss driving me wild.
I left the parking lot and headed to the safety of thedeserted road.

Switched off. Switched on!

I don’t know why, but for 10 days or so I had been totally disinterested in having an Aneros session or indulging in any sexual activity whatsoever. I really missed it and badly wanted to have some action but when the opportunities came along I felt switched off somehow. I wasn’t unduly worried and thought that when the time was right I would know. However impatience got the better of me and I decided that I was going to try a session regardless of how I felt, no expectations at all, just accept whatever came along. At this point I had reached day 12 of SR. Even as I prepared for the session I was unaroused, I usually begin leaking in anticipation. I opted for my MGX Trident and lay back waiting to see what happened. Much to my surprise within 10 minutes I was aware of some good sensations and was encouraged to begin a little nipple stimulation. Usually during a session, nipple stimulation gets my prostate fluttering and enhances the sensations. But this time I was presented with a really stiff and throbbing erection, some nice waves too. Then I had a sensation unlike anything I have felt before during a session, I really felt as if my prostate was squeezing and pumping as if trying to force out an ejaculation, my cock pulsed with each contraction of my anus and prostate and I thought I was going to have a HFWO. Sadly it did not materialise but not for the want of trying. Nevertheless I enjoyed the experience but refrained from ending with a TO, I wanted to let it build. So today, 2 days later I am thinking of trying a session tonight. Finding myself with a few moments of privacy late afternoon, I thought I might prime myself for the session with a little nipple play. Almost immediately I felt the same reaction as during the previous session, my butt was clenching, very firm erection and the same pumping feeling as before. Since then I have been incredibly horny and am leaking in anticipation. I am not sure how I have turned things around but I am somehow, switched on again.

“Protecting My Virility”

[Definition of virile–“having the nature, properties, or qualities of an adult male; specifically: capable of functioning as a male in copulation” ] [Definition of copulation–“engaging in sexual intercourse where the penis is inserted into the vagina”]

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Background
Currently in Day 13 of SR with no blue-balls. Getting quite horny and having random erections throughout the day. No wet dream yet. I would welcome an ejaculation but feel there is no great need to have one just yet. But the mental pressure for it is getting fairly intense. How long can I go?

Session
Continuing “squeezing” my prostate to release fluid, I selected my MGX early this morning for a nice session. It released a lot of prostate fluid into the cup of my SD jock. During the 20-minute session, I thought about how good it would feel to ejaculate, perhaps through a HFWO. But afterwards, I decided to take-off the SD jock and just wear a pair of silky boxers. I went to lie-down and relax some more. My cock was flaccid, but I started fondling my very sensitive package, especially the scrotum. This turned into something of a fantasy, as I am in bed with my lover and she is very gently caressing my package all-over, not with the intent of making me ejaculate, but rather to give me an orgasmic sensation in my groin. This she did perfectly! At the end, however, I was not erect. Read more »

Having trouble reaching orgasm

As mentioned above I’m having trouble reaching orgasm from prostate stimulation alone. I feel pleasure from it but can never seem to get over the edge. I was considering using MDMA to heighten my arousal. Would this combined with certain toys help my journey?

“I’m Not Going To Lose It If I Don’t Use It!”

Background
Now in an incredible (for me) Day 12 of SR with no blue-balls! I awoke about 2 AM, erect and wearing my Mueller cup. I decided to have a session with my Helix Trident. It was a good choice! Significant auto-* contractions and a general feeling of “squeezing” my prostate again. I expelled more prostate fluid with this session.

Alas, I did not experience another wet dream yet.

Use It or Lose It?
I am referring to the dearth of ejaculations for me lately. Frankly, I am getting horny as hell. I am almost at that point where I have to have a wet dream and soon. All I seem to think about now is ejaculating. This is going to be a real “test” of my transmutation techniques. Keeping my sexual libido in check while going about my daily routine today is going to be quite challenging. I hope I am able to cope. I must remember that guys go much longer than me while still practicing chastity. I must remember that I will not lose my ability to ejaculate, regardless of how many “days” it’s been. This ability is “hard-wired” into my male body! I will never lose it!

How Do I Really Feel?
Honestly, I am typing this blog with a half-erection and a feeling that I could ejaculate at any time. Perhaps I am closer to a wet dream than I realize. I know my cock is trying to tell me something… Read more »