Tag: Prostate

Three “Tips” I learned From This Session

I learned three “new” things in this session. Let me explain…..

Background
I went to bed wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 10 of SR with no blue-balls. I am due for a “scheduled” session and so I decided to go for it. It is about 4:30 AM.

Now here are the “tips”—

Tip #1. Letting your chastity “partner” decide which Aneros massager to use. (For guys who wear a “chastity cup” during a session).

Since I am in chastity, I let my “partner” decide which Aneros massager(s) I should use during this session. After looking them over, she decided on the Eupho Classic! She wouldn’t tell me yet which other massager she selected.

Why it works: Since it was not “me” doing the choosing, there is an element of surprise, a “mystery”, a “mystique” on how the selected prostate massager will work. (Of course, it is “me” doing the choosing. But this “mind game” gives a new perspective on the session).
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Tip #2. Lube, then lube again!

I “discovered” that by lubing, inserting, removing, then lubing again and inserting again, can make for a “better” session. Read more »

Possible Discoveries or Stupid Theories

This would be 2 sessions after my first post. So in my first post I wrote about my Monday session, and the new sessions would be Wednesday, and today, Saturday. I’m gonna call them M, W and S sessions.
The W session was pretty mediocre. I realized the reason the M session was so good was because I had came back from a trip, and was so aroused. I tried to do pretty much the same thing, but the one thing I stumbled upon is that I haven’t really learned to build up the rectal contraptions (where you push out). I can build anal contraptions (where you push in) in a good way where I still feel pleasure when I go full power, but for rectal contraptions I kind of just introduce them on the fly.

For today, the S session, I was able to build the rectal contraptions a bit better. When I felt like I had built them pretty strongly I would go full power pushing in, then I would start pushing out as much as I can. When I do this, my breathing just gets screwed up. I know long breaths isn’t something you gotta keep doing for the whole session (as the WIKI also mentions hyperventilating, kinda), so I was like “fuck it, let’s just enjoy this”.
I got to the point where it was really wobbling in my ass and my “heartbeat” would be pretty strong, and I can feel the involuntary spasms going ham. By the way, this was a really long session, I kind of started to listen to ASMR in the middle of it because I wanted to get more aroused. Read more »

“An Incredible Aless Session!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his inspiration on the combination of Aless kegels and “diddling” (nipple stim)].

I just experienced the most intense Aless session I can remember. Here is how it happened….

I was up about 4 AM this morning, still wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” (a banana style cup) and I wanted to lie-down and listen to some relaxing tracks. I found one on YouTube which seemed intriguing: “Fifty shades of trip hop – instrumental music mix 2017” so I went to lie-down and started listening.

Well, it wasn’t too long into this amazing collection of musical tracks that I began to concentrate on my prostate: I began in my mind to “visualize” it, to “target” it with my eyes; going around and around it and focusing on nothing else.

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The music carried me deeper and deeper into this erotic session. Now I seldom perform any kind of nipple stim on myself during sessions, but something made me reach up and begin to caress my flaccid nipples. And before long, when they both achieved an erect, aroused state, something else happened…..I gave myself a penile erection within the hard banana cup! (I had been flaccid since I started this “session”). The nipple stim quickly escalated into a full-body massage and arousal which involved my pecs, hairy underarms and shoulders.

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Things progressed rather quickly from this point on…..I continued to perform the “diddling” of my erect, sensitive nipples and began to simultaneously perform kegels. And at some point, I began to fall-into a most erotic fantasy (one that was quite unexpected). Read more »

A “Triple-Header” !

Background
I have had sessions where I used two Aneros massagers back-to-back. But I believe this may be the first where I used three massagers in one day!

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First and Second Sessions
I had a “double-header” session early this morning (~3 AM) using the Eupho Classic followed-up by the Helix Trident. Both generated a lot of involuntary contractions and the Eupho achieved at least four dry-O’s and some nice “pumping” sensations. But I probably was not as aroused as I would have liked, so that is as far as this part of the session went.

Near the end of the Eupho session, I experienced quite a “calming” sensation in my prostate and knew that the session was over. But since I was still nicely lubed, I decided to go for the Helix Trident and see what developed. What I got from this “second” session were still more involuntary contractions but no O’s at all. I wasn’t even aroused for this part. But the HT did generate some new feelings, mostly due to the combination of the P- and K-tabs. The total time for these two sessions was about one hour. (These two sessions were good but my prostate felt like it was missing-out on something).

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“The Male Arousal Continuum and Aneros”

I was thinking about this the past couple of days. With my current practices of Aneros prostate massage, semen retention (SR) and wearing of male “chastity cups”, is there any “common denominator”? Is there something that “links” all of them together? I believe the answer is yes! Let me explain….

The common “link” I believe is arousal. Let me be more specific.

What makes an Aneros session so enjoyable? It is the feeling of a prostate orgasm triggered by my arousal. The better the arousal, the better the session (usually)! Extreme arousal can lead to an extreme Aneros response, a good amount of the time.

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What makes semen retention so enjoyable? The build-up of semen in my system, particularly at Day 7 when my testosterone gets a boost, is arousing! And any days at around Day 12 I could have a wet dream! I’ve had one already in a “chastity cup” and the experience is unforgettable! Knowing that I have not ejaculated in (X) days is arousing in itself. It seems that every day that goes by only strengthens the arousal just a little bit more.

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What makes wearing a chastity “cup” so enjoyable? Why do I enjoy sleeping in one so much? The answer should be obvious…..arousal! To have a night-time erection while wearing a cup produces an exquisitely erotic sensation that can’t really be described, only felt. And what a feeling! It is that feeling of being near the PONR for a couple-dozen minutes at a time. And as much as I squirm and twitch within the cup, I cannot ejaculate and must remain in chastity. That is the beauty of wearing the hard cup! Read more »

Blog Premiere & Session @ New Place

Hey! I want to make a blog, and so I am making one! Before I even knew about this blog function, I kind of blogged about my progress in here:
https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/148944-beginner-looking-for-help-and-the-real-user-guide
If you really want to go back, I’d recommend peeking in that thread. Either way, here is a shortcut introduction:

So I’ve been doing stuff anally for quite some years, and somehow got a little addicted to it even though I never really had any sort of orgasm with it. I found out about the wonder of prostate massage, and so I bought the Helix Syn this past December. I saw a review when I bought that said: “I walk around with this thing in my ass, and I had to stop because I was about to come.” That sounded amazing to me, so I got it.
I tried using the thing and it was underwhelming to say the least. First couple sessions I used it together with traditional, penile masturbation.I also tried putting it inside and going for a walk, of course, which was pointless. I had so much to learn. I never knew about this rewiring process.
I pretty quickly started using the thing the way you’re supposed to: doing belly breathing, laying in a specific way, doing contractions, not touching your penis and what-not. But still, it was quickly very apparent to me that I was really bad at this. Any thread I checked, people had gotten dry or wet orgasms from this thing or other similar euphoric experiences, even though it was their first time trying it. I named this blog “The Incompetent One” because I really felt like I was alone in not getting the sensations everyone else were. All I could achieve was very minor tingling and once I did anal contraptions it all just went away.
Somewhere around 2 months ago, I was able to still get the tingling sensations (or the “second heartbeat” as I like to call it) even though I did really strong contraptions. This is because I got better at building them up slowly. Read more »

“A New Mindset, A New Attitude”

I began this “dual” session with a new mindset, a new attitude. Let me explain….

I wanted to do a therapeutic session with the HIH 950. (I am now in Day 6 of SR and wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”). As I started the session, I did something different…I began to “personalize” this session by telling my prostate: “Now don’t be afraid of the 950” and visualized the 950 nuzzling against it. I immediately began to relax, much more so than ever. And, even though I was aroused (but not greatly), I began to feel a gentle “tickle” and eventually a “worm-like” movement of the 950 against my prostate. I had not felt this in a long time. I just continued to relax into the session and began to quiver, letting the 950 take my prostate to where it wanted to go. About 30 relaxing minutes later, this (part of the) session was over!

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I have had some trepidations about using the Helix Trident since my last “intense” session. But guess what? I took the same attitude towards the HT and again I “told” my prostate: “Please don’t be afraid of the HT”! And guess what? I had a nice, relaxing second-part of this session! I was able to relax; the HT continued its gentle massage on my prostate and the combination of P- and K-tabs insured that the HT did not stray too far from its intended “target”: my prostate! This 30-minute session was not intense at all; quite the contrary, the HT produced some soothing sensations that I had not felt before while using it. Read more »

Back to Aneros

Hi everyone,
I am going to record what happened on my Aneros session on March 25,2018 since this is the first time I have used my ET in several months.
Hopefully by documenting what I do will help me reach the Super 0.
I was really excited about using my ET so I started by giving my self a water enema, which I like to do. Then I got into a hot bubble bath and soaked for 30 minutes. Next I went to the bedroom and got the ET and lub and layed them on the towel beside the pillow that I put under the small of my back. Next I inject my prelub ( 5ml of KY liquid ) into my anus and stayed on all 4s for a couple of minutes so the liquid will coat my prostate. Next I turn on Youtube and find “Button Pushing Prostate Training” video/audio and climb on the bed. Putting the pillow in the small of my back I lay back relax, put lub jelly on the ET and slowoly insert it, feels good.
I listen to the “Button Pushing”, relax, start breathing and start playing with my nipples. Playing with my nipples always sends shivers down to my penis. After a while I start conducting anal contractions. At this point my legs are bent and my feel on flat on the bed. Suddenly my legs start shaking as I conduct the anal contractions. I try to play with the contractions and the shaking gets more severe. For some reason I feel the need to grab my penis and balls and pull them. Next my breathing gets shallower and I am moaning and panting. It does not feel like an orgasm just shacking of my body. This goes on for 2 minutes as I continue extreme anal contractions, note I have not had any precum or leaking. This by far is the best session I have had since I started using the Aneros. I am going to have 3 sessions this week so hopefully the others will be just as good.

Beginning Anew – Day 4: Progress

So I’m now on day 4, and I will say that things are progressing well. It’s sort of like re-wiring what’s already been re-wired. I had learned quite a lot over the past 4 years, but there was still that connection to traditional orgasm with my sessions. And while even with my session today there is still that mental connection, I can tell it is becoming more faint. Today I experienced a sequence of deep, sustained pleasure that I have never achieved before. Now I’ve had instances where the “intensity” and “location” of this pleasure has been had, but it would usually subside rather quickly. This today lasted for what had to have been an 8-10 min period of time. Definitely not on the level of a Super-O, but amazing none the less. There were however 3 or 4 (I cannot remember) mini-o’s over this period of time. They only lasted a few seconds each, but instead of ending and then needing to “rebuild” to the level of pleasure that directly preceded it, I was able to maintain that high level of pleasure between mini-o’s.

Utilizing a “chastity cup” is definitely assisting with remaining focused on my prostate during my sessions. And it has also helped during the day with my “wandering hands” issue while at home. Is a “chastity cup” the key to my discoveries so far? I would say it’s less a key, and more along the lines of a training aid. The key for me, like most things in life, is mentality and mental discipline.