Tips for how to best use our new Aneros?

My SO and I have been getting fairly kinky and he started to show interest in toys for his prostate. We looked around online, read reviews, etc. we ordered an Aneros Helix and used it last night.

He said it didn’t make him cum and harder, and it didn’t even feel that different, it just made him cum really fast. Like we got it in, I went down the on him for about a minute and he came. He can normally last an hour or more.

Any tips on how he can slow down the process and get that full-body orgasm we were hoping for? He seemed kind of disappointed.

A-Less After Session

Had a GREAT session this morning with at least six (lost count) dry orgasms. I feel like I’ve finally got my prostate dialed in I can can get to orgasms faster than before. I was reading afterward and could feel my prostate buzzing, so I started flexing as I would if I had my Helix in and almost immediately had another orgasm! Fantastic!!!!

A-Less After Session

Had a GREAT session this morning with at least six (lost count) dry orgasms. I feel like I’ve finally got my prostate dialed in I can can get to orgasms faster than before. I was reading afterward and could feel my prostate buzzing, so I started flexing as I would if I had my Helix in and almost immediately had another orgasm! Fantastic!!!!

Prostate Milking, a neglected process.

In the forum’s general discussion, there seems to be a lot written on the subject of prostate milking. I had been neglecting performing this practice thinking it provoked a refractory period.  I avoid ejaculation as much as possible for the same reasons but today, I decided the time had come to ‘clean the pipes’.
My wife took off to do errands so I took out my NJOY Pure Wand and decided to use it for the first time as a milking tool.  When I bought this device last Summer, I had tried the big knob side to see if I could generate some positive sensations but not much came out of it so it landed in my cupboard.

Today, my sole mission was to milk my prostate so I pulled it out, I lubed up and inserted the smaller knob end and performed a long but  delicate massage on the gland.  The process lasted approximately twenty minutes and generated a fair amount of prostatic fluids.

There is nothing spectacular about what I just wrote but following the milking, I felt great, relieved and full of energy. This great feeling could not go to waist and since my wife was still gone, I sat on the couch and engaged in an Aless. I must say this was one of the best I ever had!

I plan to use this NJOY tool more often

Near-Perfect Erotic Prostate “Finger Massage”

OMG! What a session! Here are the details…..

Background: I am only in Day 2 of SR and didn’t really expect anything from a session. I didn’t wear a “cup” to bed but awoke about 2 AM with an erection and found myself fondling my package. So I needed to get-into a “cup” ASAP! I selected my XO ProCup, put it on and went back to bed. Couldn’t sleep so after about 45 minutes or so, I decided to go to my comfortable couch and listen to some relaxing tracks (no binaural beats). I did so for about an hour and decided to go back to bed. I wasn’t feeling especially aroused but wanted to do a relaxing “do-nothing” session with the HIH 950 (my smallest massager). I could not possibly have predicted what would happen next…..

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“…And Hold On Tight!”

I think I had my first Super-O with the SGX! Here goes……

I awoke about 12:30 AM with a moderate erection. Went to the bathroom (#1 only). Decided to do a session with the SGX (since it was next in the rotation). I put on my XO “chastity cup”, put the waterproof paper pad beneath me, lubed-up and started the session. One think I noticed right away is that the last inch “pull-in” of the SGX seemed especially strong, like it knew where it was going and what it was going to do. I couldn’t possibly predict what happened next…..

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Within the first 2 or 3 minutes, I began to experience the familiar “auto-f**k” contractions. I have experienced them many times before. But something about these contractions seemed different. For one thing, I couldn’t stop them! I mean that most sincerely! They were strong and plentiful. They were regular and quick, like a “crazed” pendulum clock. Occasionally, there were some extremely strong “pull-in” contractions as well. Auto-kegels and reverse-kegels. I began to moan; I remember saying (or thinking) “NO!” “NO!” “STOP IT!” but to no avail. I began shaking violently on the bed. I “sensed” a color wheel in my head, a tingling feeling up my spine. For a while, I honestly didn’t know who I was, where I was or what I was doing…..Was I doing prostate stim? I couldn’t tell you…..

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“Prostate Contact Is The Key”

I had been thinking about this for the past 2-3 days. I know it sounds so simple but hear me out…..

The key to real prostate pleasure is physical contact with the prostate and surrounding nerves, usually with an Aneros massager. But other toys can be used as well, even a finger! In days gone by, here in the US, some doctors and medical therapists used to “milk” men’s prostates manually, usually to relieve prostate symptoms. Today, other therapies are used instead. I believe that in China, however, this practice of manual “milking” of the prostate still occurs.

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I know that Aless pleasure is very real and I experience it too, but for me, nothing can compare to a “real”, stimulating massage from a “real” Aneros! I have owned several other so-called “prostate massagers” but they just didn’t do anything for me. In short, they don’t make proper contact with my prostate. There is something about the design of the Aneros that creates a built-in “rocking action” caused by PC/anal contractions that takes prostate massage pleasure to the next level and beyond.

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When I am lying down in a session, I don’t have to do anything. But since the Aneros is right there nuzzled up against my prostate, and making contact, I can be assured that if I am supposed to have an orgasm, I will! I have gone from “do-nothing” to amazing Dry-Os just by being “plugged” by an Aneros massager! As I said, prostate contact is the key!

“Semen Retention: Something New?”

Coincidence or not? You decide…..

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Yesterday, I was in Day 8 of SR and decided that to forestall the dreaded “blue-balls” I would ejaculate. But instead of a usual wanking, I decided to do it a little differently. So I got out my prostate vibrator, the Svakom Paddy, and with it set to vibrate intermittently at the lowest vibration level, I decided that I would use it to gently coax out an ejaculation. I started with my balls and perineum and very gradually worked my way up to my cock. I avoided the glans until the end. I decided in advance that I would do this “edging” for a minimum of 7 minutes. Well, after about 10 minutes, I couldn’t take it any more. I was ready to explode! [Side note: while in this state, I rotated my hips and “fantasized” about sexual penetration! So easy; so much for ED! I could easily have ejaculated with only a few thrusts.] So I moved the vibrator near the glans and before long, I experienced a great ejaculation; I didn’t “spurt” violently, but the contractions were quite intense, much more so than usual. A large amount of cum and it kept cumming for a while. For the rest of the day, however, I really felt like I was in “low-gear” and didn’t have much energy. Oh, the dreaded “refractory period”.

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Progasm Ice and Helix Syn: A Fantastic One-Two Punch!

I recently had a session with my Progasm Ice early in the morning. The session was good and lasted for about 30 minutes. Moderate P-Waves and good prostate isolation has been the norm with the ice. It doesn’t seem to move as easily as the Helix Syn. So around lunchtime I was feeling some a-less sensations so I decided to make time for another session. This time I used my Helix Syn. I started into moderate P-Waves within the first 3-5 minutes and a full blown orgasm; body shaking, involuntary contractions and moaning, writhing around, within 10 minutes. Holy shit what a session! I highly recommend this method for those who have both the Ice and the Syn.

questions

Two days so far. first was no big deal This AM it felt better but does not seem to really produce the feelings I used to get with a directed vibrator. The Aneros does not feel like it is hitting the prostate.
Any suggestions?