Tag: Prostate

Might the Progasm Jr miss my prostate?

I first got into anal play just a few months ago when I bought a [Lovehoney Rookie](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17779). Using that, I could find my prostate and it felt great, especially when using some of the stronger vibration patterns. But, it’s quite flexible, so often when I feel like I want it to put more pressure on my prostate, it can’t. It also slips out of place quite easily.

So I bought a Progasm Jr. It’s rigid, and the design means it’s not going to slip out. I’ve tried it a few times now and although inserting it is a more intense experience (due to the extra girth, I guess) and I enjoy the feeling of just having it in, it’s never really felt like it’s touching my prostate at all, no matter what I do with my PC muscles.

Is it possible that the Progasm Jr is the wrong size/shape for me? If so, any suggestions on what may be a better fit? Or am I doing something wrong?

Just received progasm, pretty disappointed

No stranger to occasional anal play with a plug or other object. I’ve been getting into manual prostate sim with fingers and vibe, and haven’t had a prostate orgasm yet but think I was getting pretty close. Lots of thick cum oozing.

So decided to step it up. Did the research, got a progasm black ice.

Super. Disappointed. I did a lot of research on how to use it, set aside some dedicated quiet time nice and relaxed. It slides in easily and overall feels good, but literally no prostate stim. As soon as it’s in I almost don’t even know it’s there. The tabs feel good during pc contractions but overall it’s minimal.

Just to make sure, I tried different positions, repositioning the progasm, etc with no results. Tried just quietly contracting pc muscles, and breathing, but nothing.

In short, am I just not wired right for this thing? Using.my thumb is vastly more pleasurable and could probably have a super O from that except it startz hurting my thumb before long.

Feeling like I wasted $60 on this modestly sized butt plug.

I think something has awakened inside me…

This ended up being a bit wordy, so I put a TL;DR at the end.

So, to start with – I’m straight, married, with children. I’m very new to anal play (with the exception of maybe a sharpie when I was like 14). I’ve been going through a bit of a lifestyle change, losing weight, going to the gym, eating healthier, etc. and have been pretty successful over the last 6 months. I have some time off work and the house to myself for a bit. Based on an AskReddit thread, I saw the Aneros Helix mentioned as one of the naughty items that have changed someone’s life or some BS like that.

I do sometimes enjoy tickling my anus a bit while masturbating, and am myself quite open to experimentation (the wife, not so much). So I did some reading and research, and found out about this prostate thing in my bum. So I ordered myself a Helix Syn (and a couple other things, a new sleeve, etc., just for shits) as a self reward for my big life change.

I was highly anticipating it’s arrival, even though I know it may take some time to really get into it. It arrived a day early. I immediately drew myself a nice bath with jasmine salts, and relaxed for a bit. Cleaned myself out as best I could (note to self, buy a new turkey baster), and set to work. Read more »

First use of the original Helix

Hey everyone. I just bought my first prostate massager and went with the Helix model. It looked like it was great for beginners so I decided to give it a try. I read all the stories of these amazing experiences. I didn’t get anything really the first couple of times I used it. I think the first use I got some body twitching, but no tingles or things like that. I tried watching porn and got into a rhythm but not sensations past normal reactions to the open. I tried different positions and nothing seemed to happen. I did all the exercises as well to the best that I could. I don’t want to just buy another model to have the same results. Are there any suggestions to getting this experience started. Thanks guys.

First Session – I Think I Had a Prostate Orgasm

Hi everyone,

TLDR: is it ok to apply pressure to my prostate via external pressure applied above the base of my cock while using my Aneros?

I finally took the plunge and bought an Aneros yesterday. My local toy shop only had the progasm, which is on the bigger side but I’m accustomed to plugs and D so I figured it was worth the risk.

The Progasm went in with no problem and felt great. I relaxed and tried to work my PC and anal muscles. I had some very good porn playing next to me and just gave into the experience knowing that this was my first time and trying not to have too many expectations.

I stayed soft most of the time (90 mins) and did have several flashes of eye rolling pleasure from my contractions. I was sure to not touch my dick too.

Here’s my question- I applied pressure to my prostate via external pressure right above the base of my dick. This sent me in OVER THE EDGE. I had an incredibly intense orgasm and came buckets without touching my dick. Is this technique ok? Should I avoid this moving forward? I certainly want to get to a truly handsfree MMO capability.

Can’t wait to try more!

Tempo Aless, January 6, 2018!

Hi guys,

Early this afternoon, a guy on Aneros Forum about the effectiveness of Tempo in comparison with other Aneros models. I was happy to oblige with an answer because Tempo, when I started using it just after Thanksgiving 2013, caused my Aneros to go into a much higher orbit.

So this afternoon, I used Tempo for the first time in two years. Tempo inserts easily and you can use it comfortable sitting as it works away.

This afternoon I used Tempo with a few concerted Kegels for about 45 minutes. Hence Tempo felt real good. Then I continued with MGX and Progasm Black ICE, a model which sat used in my collection for two years. MGX didn’t massage me as easily as it usually does, I guess mainly because of Tempo. That didn’t bother me. I went on to Progasm Black ICE. Wow! Progasm Black ICE worked on me big time! The session felt real good when I ended it after 1.5 hours.

Right now I am basking in powerful, sweet Aless produced mostly by Tempo. The hallmark of Tempo is its stainless steel heft. Tempo consists of a bulbous head with two knobs, both inner and outer. I believe that Tempo was made mostly to exercise and tone the anal musculature, and not necessary to massage the prostate as the other Aneros devices. Tempo has the feel of gym dumbbells which are used for weight training. So Tempo is used mostly for strengthening and toning the anal musculature, at least that has been my experience. Read more »

Lots of pwaves

I started exploring a submissive relationship. I was denied for almost three days with some chastity. I got rewarded after my first 36 hours locked continuously locked by one of free play, so I chose my progasm.

I went to the loo, took a shower and relaxed for a bit. Prepared my things, lubed up the toy and the timer started. I pushed it in slowly, but since I was relaxed from my shower, it went in easily. I introduced it squatting next to my bed.

I put a cloth right where I placed my bum and layed down; pressed my feet to the bed spreading my legs as a woman giving childbirth.
After the first ten minutes it felt snugly pleasant and I started massaging my nipples in circles. Soon I felt as if someone focused their ministrations on the head of my penis and it kept going downwards, towards the prostate. I kept massaging and started thrusting the aneros using my pubic muscles, some shaking started, my legs wobbly as if I were raising something too heavy. I was distracted by it, so I checked my dick, just a bit of pre on its tip. I closed my eyes and focused on the head of my penis.

I imagined I took that “ball” and moved it up, and down, trying to make it bigger by my thrusting and my massage, eventually spreading it between my prostate and my tip. Read more »

Ejaculating Orgasm Achieved

After 2 years of prostate play I was FINALLY able to hit a milestone. I popped in my Progasm and browsed porn for about an hour, working on kegals and getting my prostate aroused. After I turned off the porn, I laid flat on my back with my knees slightly elevated and apart. I continued to work on focusing the sensations from flexing my PC muscles but noticed that sensations were heightened when I flexed my inner thigh muscles as well. This brought on a whole new level of pleasure. I reached down to the aneros and pushed it downwards firmly, so that the tip of the Progasm was firming pushing up against my prostate. I continued the flexing and kegals but I was unconsciously squeezing much harder than usual. I felt a peak and somehow I went over the edge and full out had a penile ejaculatory orgasm. It was intense, lasted a good minute or so and extremely pleasurable. The amount of ejaculate was average.

The session lasted about 1.5hours and I did not touch my penis the entire time. The orgasm was achieved 100% hands free. However, I know that this was not a true prostate orgasm, but wanted to see if this is something that has happened to others. Pretty happy with that session but still working on achieving those prostate waves of pleasure / super-o. Am I on the right track or was this a complete detour? Thanks for reading!

“A Fantasy Led Me to Aneros Insight”

Background: I did not sleep in a “chastity cup”. But I awoke about 2 AM with a mild erection and felt the need to put one on. After about 2 hours, I awoke again and decided to take it off. When I did, and went to lie-down, I had fallen into a nice, erotic fantasy…..I am lying in bed with my lover and she has lovingly moved her hand towards my scrotum and very gingerly begins to stroke the side. Then she moves around to the other side. She keeps this up and I feel myself falling deeper into this erotic, stimulating fantasy…….This went on for perhaps 30-40 minutes, during which time I was both erect and flaccid (sort-of like an Aneros session). I was completely mesmerized by this fantasy and didn’t know what was going to happen next. Would I ejaculate? I had no idea……But I just savored the feeling for as long as it lasted. Then, I began to think about the experience and how it may relate to my Aneros sessions……

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This “fantasy” had many elements of a good Aneros session. Let me try to explain some of them….

First, there was the element of timing. I really didn’t know how long this fantasy “session” was going to last. It didn’t matter, since I was enjoying every deliciously erotic minute of it! I didn’t know what I was going to experience next. When I moved to a new position, she moved right along with me. This is true when performing a “do-nothing” session. The element of “sexual surprise” works very well in the Aneros sessions. Just let-go and let it happen. What’s the rush? The orgasm is not the direct goal; experiencing the pleasures along the way is. Read more »

“Little Gun, Big Gun”

A great 1-2 punch! I’ll call it “Little Gun, Big Gun”. Here are the details…..

I am currently in Day 8 of SR and feeling quite aroused and horny. I am again wearing a jock “chastity cup” at night and this really helps with my arousal. I awoke about 3 AM and feeling ready for a session. I decided on the diminutive HIH 950. It proved anything but “little”….

“Little Gun”
The HIH 950 would, on first glance, not appear to be a powerful prostate massager. But this morning, it proved to be quite a contender. One thing I like about the 950 is that it is very slender (almost like the Eupho). Once inserted, anal contractions can cause it to go almost anywhere against the prostate and it did so this morning. I could not believe how many different sensations I was getting from it. Moaning all the time, I began to develop almost automatic anal contractions, some slowly, but some rapidly. It was as if my prostate was “steering” the 950 exactly where it wanted it to go. Intriguing! I moved around from position to position. And with each new position, I felt a new wave of pleasure and new ways for the 950 to make contact with my prostate. Not Super-O pleasure, but nevertheless, P-waves galore! I couldn’t ask any more of the HIH 950 in this 40-minute session. Yes, it’s a small “gun” but its small size belies its ability to arouse a healthy male prostate to orgasm. I did release a little bit of precum. Read more »