Tag: Prostate

Dildo vs Aneros

I have seen a lot of post about is dildo the next step after aneros or does anal play make me gay? Those are questions that you must find the answer to within yourself. But as a openly gay male I will give you my in tell on how the two aneros or real thing are totally different.

Firstly when I got introduced to aneros I was already sexually active. I’ve had a few boyfriends and sex toys but this experience was different. For me when i placed the lubed up Helix Syn in it just rested in my hole. It just sat there. I had done my research prior but was still confused. As a few minutes passed it began to stir in me. It got my insides all fluttery. No man or toy has ever made me feel this way. With a dildo I just get cleaned out an probe my hole til I reach my sexual peak an then I orgasm. With aneros it is a slower steady pace build up to the orgasm. With a dildo I can control how it goes in an how far I want it to be in me. With aneros it is a designed size to just reach. Short and simple straight to the point. Read more »

“A Respite From Chastity”

I had been having some discomfort in my groin area and thought it would be best if I suspend my night-time use of “chastity cups” for a while. Glad to report that the irritation is clearing up. But, for the past two nights, I have been sleeping only in my PJs. What a difference! Let me explain…..

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I awoke several times last night with an incredibly strong erection; so much so that I thought my wife slipped me some Viagra! Not only was I erect, I had ample precum oozing from my cock. I felt it right down to my prostate. I honestly felt like I was headed for a wet dream or at least an unassisted, spontaneous ejaculation. At one point, I removed my PJ bottoms and gently squirmed on the bed on my stomach, waiting for the discharge. I had at least three or four fantasies run through my head during this time (some male, some female). I thought how wonderful it would be to have an Aneros session right about now! A HFWO for sure!

But, alas, it was morning already and I had to put aside all this pleasure for another time…. I thought chastity was a real turn-on. But when the “chains” are removed, the unhindered sexual freedom has emerged! I feel like a newlywed ready to “spin the wheels”, trying out all my “equipment”! I am eagerly awaiting another night!

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10 Years On… A little guidance needed.

Writing this as I’ve been using the aneros for many many years now (on and off) and curious as to how to expand/improve my experience. I know we’re not supposed to have any expectations, but it’s certainly a bit frustrating to read some of the testimonials from other guys here who describe “30 mins of rolling orgasms” “face-melting pleasure” etc! Of course, simply buying the toy meant we all had some sort of expectation going into it from the get go…

I think I’ve tried just about every suggestion found on Reddit and the aneros forums to help me on my journey, everything from fish oil, positions, breathing, hypnosis, sleeping with it in, porn, ganja- you name it, I’ve tried it. I own just about every Aneros model. What I can describe as my best experiences so far with toy are as follows:

I use coconut oil lube (which I find feels the most erotic), find a relaxing alone time w/o interruptions for a good hour session.

Usually I find the classic Helix or Eupho give me the most discernible reactions.

I find the “do nothing” method has the most effective for me- contractions and breathing feel very bland.

After insertion, the first 5 minutes often feel the best: I get an erection, tightness in my anus, the aneros is pulled in, faster heartbeat, erotic little pulses in my sphincter muscle. This feels like its building up into something sexy/exciting, but after a few minutes all these initial feelings subside and my anus and the aneros relax outwards. Read more »

A Rare “Dual” Session!

While suffering with a head ailment for about 2 weeks, I am feeling much better now. I have not had a session for that long and felt it long overdue. I had slept in my SD “chastity cup” since early this morning and felt ready. I lubed-up the HIH 950 and began the session. No sooner did it start that I had an almost immediate erection and several auto-fuck contractions! That is always a good sign! This session was quite arousing and I began squirming, moaning and thrusting. I positioned myself differently on the bed and—oh my!—I felt a blissful state of my prostate that I have not felt before! I still kept on the cup since I didn’t want my cock involved at all. But then…..

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I decided to take-off the cup and just see what would happen. Honestly, I didn’t care if I came on the bed. And guess what? I began to lightly caress my balls (and my cock only a little bit) and I began to get a an erection and more direct stimulation on my prostate within my session-in-progress! So I kept it up. My erection subsided a little then went back up. All the while, I was producing precum now like crazy! I thought that maybe I would have a HFWO. But after a while, things settled-down and so I stopped…..I didn’t have the feeling that I needed to ejaculate.

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Success within minutes!

i have been playing with prostate for a year now, yesterday i cleaned up in shower used a finger to clean out and massage the prostate for a minute. then i got comfortable on the bed and inserted my Aneros Helix Syn, WOW within seconds i was oozing precum in large volumes. My cock felt warm and fuzzy but it didn’t feel orgasmic just an allover great feeling. Then my wife came in to give me a handjob finish, she finished me off with an amazing blowjob while i still had my helix in. I seem to be able to get the good feelings from prostate play so much quicker now thanks to my aneros.

Being rewired

I have been in this prostate journey for some years now an it’s crazy that my body still finds ways to sexually surprise me. I like to make far in-between journey entrys to really show I’m being authentic. So I have a few toys but it has come to my attention that my A-less sessions be the most exciting as of late. Just now I’m laying here righting this spent an still gasping for air. I decided to read a few erotic novels. It’s a great passtime of mine. The nastiest the better. So it’s it’s chilly here in the Midwest and I’m just in bed reading a nice hot an heavy story about a boy an his older lover having a epic sex battle. As I’m reading I feel a churning in my stomach an then my legs begin to shake. As I continue to read my dick just gets rock fucking hard. These stories always get me hot but has never kicked off a aneros session before. As I continue reading it’s getting harder an harder in my pants. I’m beginning to gasp for air cause this page I’m reading is getting so intense. I begin to leak precum as my body starts to shake uncontrolling. Trying to keep it together by calming my breathing as I’m mmo’ing back to back. I’m reading an churning and shaking an boom. As soon as the young reached his orgasm with his lover I began to stream globs of hot cum out if my now erect stiff penis. I couldn’t do anything but just let it happen. Oh it felt so damn good. I love having hfwo. Once you tap that prostate he continues to work even when you least expect it. I have been having after shocks the whole writing this. I am still so happy I found this site an learned about prostate play.

“Chastity: A Complete Male Shield”

While sleeping in my SD Ultra Pro “Chastity Cup” , when I awoke this morning, I began to feel its curved, contoured shape with my hands and began to dwell on a nice meditation….

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There is a definite similarity between a “chastity cup” and a man-made marvel of nature: for example, Hoover Dam. You may laugh but I see a connection. Let me explain…..

The dam is designed to hold-back a great, powerful body of water. The cup is designed to hold-back the great, male, raw sexual power.

The dam is designed to periodically release some water; otherwise it would overflow. The chastity cup when properly used is designed to allow a male a periodic release of seminal fluid.

An overflowed dam can be compared to a wet dream.

The dam generates power by virtue of it great potential energy. The cup generates power by holding-back that great male libido; raw sexual energy. The greatest power generated can be compared to an ejaculation.

No natural disaster: earthquake, tornado, lightning will destroy the dam. The chastity cup is designed to withstand direct blows without fail. It will not collapse or otherwise fall apart.

See the connection? I did! This made for a great meditation!

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“My Prostate Was Aching and Begging Me For A Release”

Wow! Two blogs in one day? This one deserved to be written. Let me explain……

Following last night’s great “chastity” arousal, I went swimming this morning. I bought a new swimmer’s jockstrap and thought that it was a bit on the small side. But after a couple of wearings, I realize that it is great! When wet, it can be pulled-up and stays nicely in place. It also places more pressure on my package, pulling it upwards and on my perineum via the straps. Oh-oh! I was actually getting quite aroused in the pool while swimming, which is unusual for me. Also, while showering, I was getting aroused and semi-hard. What is going on here?

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Later on in the day, I had a more-than-average Aless but bearable. However, later in the afternoon, I found that the house was empty except for me (and the dog) and I began to get an intense craving within my prostate. It was aching, pulsing and begging me for a session! How could I resist? Honestly, I couldn’t. So I quickly lubed-up the HIH 950 and with an empty rectum, embarked on a quick session, not knowing what to expect. Read more »

“Chastity Cups”: Two Useful Techniques

I have “discovered” two useful techniques that I employ in the use of jockstrap with cups as chastity devices. I find these invaluable in ramping-up my arousal for eventual Aneros sessions.

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First, it is important to keep a submissive mindset in their use. By this I mean that in my mind it is not me putting-on the chastity device. This is in consonance with a more rigid interpretation of being in male chastity. Usually, the submissive male is placed and kept in chastity by a dominant female (femdom if you will). It is only she who holds the key. Keeping this relationship sorted-out in my head is instrumental in achieving the overall arousal level needed.

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Second, the following technique goes hand-in-hand with the first. The “chastity cup” can be re-adjusted (usually after a visit to the lavatory) by the “dominant female” so as to be tighter. It can be adjusted (depending on the model) to provide more direct pressure on the perineum where the leg straps are moved closer-together while at the same time, the waist-band is pulled up for the desired effect. When done correctly, and keeping in mind (and this is key) that no self-adjustment is possible, the effects can be dramatic. Usually for me, this will produce a strong erection due to the added pressure on the prostate. I will feel like I want to experience a wet dream with an ejaculation. I may start to produce some precum. I will involuntarily squirm all over the bed, mostly on my stomach, not knowing what will happen next or even when this feeling will subside. It is mind-blowing! In time (perhaps 30-45 minutes) the arousal will begin to subside. But the pressure on the prostate will remain, a trigger for the next erection and arousal cycle. Read more »

Cancelled Session turns into Successful Aless!

My last Aneros session was last Saturday evening; it was great as they all are for me. I was looking forward to my planned session for last night. My Helix Syn was ready and so was I.

Unfortunately, I had to cancel my plans as my wife and I sat down to watch Trump’ speech in South Correa. The speech went beyond the time I planned to start my session.

Interestingly enough, I woke up this morning with a hard erection at 5:15 (not unusual) but with a few deep breaths and a few light Kegels, my prostate was eager for action, again not unusual. The difference this morning was mirroring my experience of a few weeks ago. My prostate took over and without any more actions on my part, I went into full body orgasm that kept on going for until 7:00AM. The interesting part, again, is that my full body orgasm was not at high intensity. With my wife sleeping besides me, I was able to keep my pleasures at an enjoyable level, getting pulses and sensations from every part of my body. I was able to steer rushes and send energy to different parts of my body.

This is my second such experience and in both cases, I had not a single drop of pre-cum.

It is now 9:22 AM and I’m still in Aless mode, tingling all over. Maybe, I should miss more of my planned sessions!

Life is wonderful.