“This Session Went The Distance!”

I was up at about 2:00 AM still wearing my SD “chastity cup”. I wanted a session and started it with the HIH 950 as I usually do. But something about this session was different. For one, I started to feel an unusual prostate “tickle”. And I noticed that the perineum tab was “more in play” with this session than in any others. This combination had all the makings of a Super-O!

After a while, I began to experience some auto-f contractions which felt much like the “old days” when I was leading-up to a Super-O! At some point, I felt “something” in the lower part of my spine…..then I felt a “tingly” feeling in my legs. This was followed soon-after by a “tingling” in my arms as well. If I completely relaxed, I could feel a building-up of sensations within my prostate, almost to the point of MMOs! Perhaps that’s what they were…..but very subtle! I noticed that my cock became aroused and then soft several times during this session. In retrospect, I liken this session to those which I experienced with the Eupho Classic! So subtle…….but able to blow your socks off! After an hours’ worth, I felt it best to end this session and relax in the afterglow of Aless. I am not disappointed in this session at all!

PS The SD “cup” stayed on the entire time.

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The start of a p-wave?

I’ve had my aneros for about a few weeks now, and lately I’ve been experimenting with the “do nothing” approach. Yesterday I managed to have some interesting feelings doing this, I’m wondering if it was the start of a p-wave.

I started by laying on my side with the aneros in, doing some deep breathing exercises. I found that by focusing on the sensation of pressure against my prostate, I could get that feeling to spread, into my perineum and penis. At this point I started to get an erection. That was followed by a feeling of “fullness”, as if the aneros was getting larger inside of me. Then there was a sort of tingling numbness that started in my sphincter and spread to my butt cheeks. It wasn’t exactly a pleasurable feeling, but it was interesting. The whole thing lasted 20-30 seconds at which point I lost focus and the sensations stopped.

So, was this the start of a p-wave?

This feeling happened 2-3 more times, and each time I would lose focus or get too excited after a while and it would stop. Once I tried contracting slightly when it was happening, but that made it stop as well.

So, how can I encourage this feeling to continue building? It seems to me the key is relaxation, every time I would get too excited it would stop.

Anyhow, I wanted to share because I’m excited to be making some progress. I’m starting to enjoy my sessions for what they are, instead of wishing for more.

“Gentle Chastity”

Can male chastity come in different “flavors”? Like “intense” and “gentle”? An intriguing concept. My answer is a resounding “Yes!” Let me explain……..

It all started last night. I am soon to be in Day 11 of SR and feeling horny. I started some cuddling with my wife. And much to my surprise, she began to cuddle back! Ever so gently, she came up to me from behind and began caressing my stomach and worked her way down very slowly toward my soon-to-be-erect package. I still had my briefs on under my PJs. Before I knew it, she was very gently caressing the glans of my cock in slow, circling fashion. I began to lightly moan from the pleasure. It seemed to last at least 10 minutes. I honestly thought she was going to make me cum; I had no choice. But then, somehow, she seemed to sense that I was still in chastity (I don’t like to cum when in SR) and she slowly and deliberately disengaged her hands from my groin and let me cool-down. It worked!

It was time for bed and I changed into my night-time chastity “cup”, the SD Pro Ultra Carbon. I put it on and went to sleep. Waking up about 5 hours later, I got the sense that it was time for a more “gentle” chastity cup, so I switched to my Mueller cup and jockstrap. This pairing is the gentlest of all the cups and the jock is not too tight nor too restrictive. I can “grow” under the cup and it will allow sufficient room for expansion. I rested for a while in this “gentle” male chastity device……but then something else happened!

Third Experience

My first experience can be found [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/6r5muw/overview_of_my_first_progasm_experience_meh/).

X-post from [r/prostateplay](https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/).

I just did my third session, starting with the progasm and finished off with a vibrator. I tried to do some deep breathing with the progasm and I feel that I made some progress. I had a new sensation, like the progasm was hitting a new area. The sensation was slight, sort of like a tickle with a pleasurable slight burning. The feeling lasted for maybe 5-10 minutes but then I lost it.
I decided to finish with my vibrator, slid it in, started on slow and then progressed to the highest setting. I used my pulse cock vibrator to get myself close to orgasm then shut it off. I kept the prostate vibrator going and edged for maybe 20 seconds. I bucked around and tried to rock the vibrator inside me as intense feelings of pleasure abounded. I eventually came, but it was a constant stream rather than the usually spurts.
I think my third time was more successful and I am feeling more confident.

After weeks of not using the Aneros, I finally did just now, and my I got further with this session than I ever did. Just not there yet, sadly.

It’s been weeks since I last used my Aneros. Possibly 2 months. I had kind of given up. I haven’t done much anal play either with my dildo or nJoy Pure Wand. Been sticking to traditional masturbation for the post part. I guess I got too frustrated trying to have an anal/prostate orgasm.

But, recently I wanted to play with my ass once again. Just a sudden urge that came up.

Today I was too lazy to use the dildo or nJoy Pure Wand. And I was in a very “feminine” mood. Like, for some reason I wanted to play with my prostate. So I took out my Helix, lubed it up, and stuck it in.

First let me say that a few days ago I read somewhere on this thread some advice. One part of the advice was too “deep breath into my balls”. Which I immediately started doing. I didn’t do any contractions at all. Just deep breaths and relaxing on my side. One thing I noticed within a few minutes was my rectum was getting worked up a bit. Like, I was focusing on the sensation and could feel my blood rushing around in there. As a result, involuntarily contraction started.

Now I’ve done involuntarily contraction before, but it was always done mediocrely. However this time it was very consistent. This caused the Aneros to really get worked up in there. I kept focusing down there and kept the contraction going involuntarily by doing the deep breaths.

“A New Cup, A New Technique”

“A New Cup”
I bought a new chastity cup and just tried it out: a Bike adult baseball jockstrap with a traditional Bike cup. At first, I thought it was a little too tight and restrictive, but after a while, it is a good feeling. This jockstrap cannot be worn without the cup……it is just too small and restrictive otherwise. But when paired with the cup, the sensation is wild! I have not slept in it yet for chastity, but feel that it is only a matter of time to get it into the “rotation”. BTW, this came in a 2-pack: two jocks and one cup. I ordered adult large size (I am a 36 waist).

PS I am into day 9 of SR and getting really horny. I need to stay in chastity as long as possible. Otherwise, I find myself playing with my package too much and may regret the stimulation! Oh, how I crave an edging session! But I’m not ready to cum yet; I don’t have any blue-balls feeling.

PS I have three cups now and each one has its own unique “signature” feeling. The jockstraps (I have four) also have their own characteristics. Usually, I pair them up as originally bought. But sometimes, I mix them up for a “different” sensation.

“A New Technique”
During this morning’s session, I “discovered” a new Aneros session technique. I’ll call it “Ignore-It!” and here is how it works….

Overview of My First Progasm Experience: Meh

My first experience with prostate play was a bit of a letdown but finished with some pleasure.

To start, I showered, cleaned out my rectum (which was a bit involved, not sure I will bother next time), another light shower, and then found some nice audio porn. I lubed up the Aneros Progasm and laid on my side, pulling one leg up and keeping one straight as I inserted it. The Progasm went in fairly easily and comfortably. I found the perineum stimulating ball a bit distracting at first.

I laid on my back, breathed slowly and deeply and listened to some nice audio porn. I have to say, I wasn’t feeling anything. I tried a series of different positions: laying on my stomach, sitting up, doggie style, on my side, on my back – the sensations were all the same – lame. The whole while I was trying positions I did some flexing of my PC muscle, played with my perineum a bit, and was able to get my anal muscles to do some rapid movements (volunatrily), but no intense pleasureful feelings.

I started to wonder if I had inserted the Progasm upside down, thinking that that maybe it wasn’t rubbing against my prostate. I pretty easily turned the Progasm around while inside me and it felt better, somewhat pleasurable, but it was a fleeting feeling. I then tried rocking it around a little by thrusting my hips and then tugging slightly on it with my hand – still didn’t feel much.

The motel Super O

Checked into a motel this past weekend to stay the night after a business meeting. The motel was very nice and had two rows of rooms separated by an interior hall. The front row of rooms faced the parking lot however the back row faced a grass covered hill. The motel had two floors and at the top of the hill was another hotel whose rooms looked down directly onto our rooms. I was in an end room that had a huge window at the back of the room so the stage was set for a very erotic adventure.
After spending the evening at the spa, the one I have written about before, in the hot tub and steam room I returned to the motel. I like to keep my private area shaved so I hopped in the shower and proceeded to touch up by shaving my cock, balls and stomach area. After showering I poured a glass of wine to help relax me and took a viagra
pill just to insure I would have a rock hard erection for the nights aneros session. While I was in the bathroom I gave myself several enemas to really clean me out so that my aneros toy could easily do its thing once inserted.
I signed onto a porn site and for the next 2 hours watched and listened to some really good porn which really turned me on. The viagra had started working after about 30 minutes so by now I had a very strong erection and was oozing precum even without my aneros toy inserted. It was about 1 am now and I was ready and anxious to enter aneros heaven, orgasm and shoot my load. I set up a soft cushioned chair in front of the window with its back leaning up against the bed.
I take testosterone shots and the one I had had two days ago had made me really horny so I was so ready to go. I went into the restroom and mixed up my lube. I used a water based lube, warming liquid and toothache drops to help ease the pain of inserting my aneros progasm which is large for my small anus. The warming liquid gives a great warming feeling inside my rectum. I used a bulb syringe and filled up my rectum with a good amount of lube. I then lubed up my toy and inserted it slowly until my anus quivered and sucked it in. It was a great feeling being filled up by my toy.
I wrapped a sheet around me for effect, turned off all the lights and walked across the room to the chair. But before I sat down and started, I opened up the curtain exposing the entire dark room to public scrutiny!
I sat down in the chair in front of the uncurtained window, put on my headphones, turned on my player and began listening to a fantastic narrated aneros journey by a very sexy lady Rummela!
The wine, the smoke, the viagra, her sexy almost mystical voice and my aneros all added to the fantastic orgasm I was about to have. I slowly allowed the draped sheet to fall from my body and to the floor exposing my very nude hairless body and a very hard erect cock. As I listened to Rummela and followed her sexy voice encouraging me to squeeze my buttocks and hold it until I was told to release the squeeze I began to slip into blissed ecstasy. I was encouraged to hold the squeeze longer and longer each time. Each time my progasm hit my prostate and forced it to ooze out more precum until it began to almost continually flow.
By now I was experiencing one mini orgasm after the next each time shaking uncontrollably until I was told to release. By now it was getting harder and harder with each squeeze and release to stop and avoid orgasm. I was so aroused I felt as I was going to just lose it any minute.
Finally Rumella said that this would be the final squeeze and I knew I was on my way to ecstasy. I squeezed and held it and then started to shake uncontrollably as my progasm hit my prostate with a vengeance. I couldn’t release the squeeze as I felt paralyzed to do so because of the intense pleasure I was experiencing. Then it happened, a wave of indescribable pleasure came upon me and as I slipped into what seemed unconsciousness, still shaking, I let out a huge, loud moan and orgasmed ejaculating my load violently. It took me about 30 minutes to finally calm down.
Later on as I cleaned up I realized the extent of my orgasm when I went to close the curtain and saw my cum splattered on the window! It was by far the most cum I have ever shot and probably the furthest distance I ever shot!
I know now that I definitely achieved a Super O!

My advice to newbies (xposted from r/sextoys)

Having a prostate experience is something that comes easily to very few people. It takes consistent training and focus to make work. It’s spoken of it as a sort of “rewiring.” It’s letting your body acclimate to a foreign sensation and eventually learn to bring great pleasure from it, and it takes time and effort, often great deals of both. I would start by having regular sessions with your toy of choice (I was always interested in the revo, but it’s too expensive for my tastes). I would also say that at least until you get accustomed to what sensations from your prostate feel like, to keep the power off. Adding vibration and rotation may add to the sensation later, but finding them in the first place is like learning the notes on a musical octave, it’s a lot easier to pick each note out when they’re played alone rather than with the accompaniment of an orchestra.

“What Happens When I Attempt To Stop Male Chastity?”

I have attempted this several times recently. In a nutshell, if I don’t sleep wearing a “chastity cup” I invariably wake-up with an erection and find myself touching and coddling my “package”. I can’t seem to stop it. I have even gone so far as to perform an edging session (yes–3 days in a row), sometimes with an ejaculation but mostly without. One recent edging session was with lube (something generally new to me) and it was mind-blowing. I almost felt like I had PE. The male urge for release is very strong, particularly when practicing semen retention. I find myself often within that 7-day peak testosterone period and that means that I can get greatly aroused at any time. So it is important for me to remain in chastity. I don’t rely on my CB-6000S recently; I’m taking a little break from chastity during the day.

The other thing that happens is that with a strong ejaculation, I will feel the after-effects of the “refractory period” which is almost the opposite of sexual arousal. It is a generally “down” period sexually where I have practically no interest in sex. But if I continue SR aiming for 10-12 days, I may suffer the effects of “blue-balls”. Bummer!

I am still swimming and find that I am wearing a swimmer’s jock almost all the time now. Even with a relatively tight suit, I find that the additional support it offers and the way it feels agrees with me. It is also arousing and that doesn’t hurt! So I’ll keep it up.