Tag: Prostate

Day 10 of 3rd attempt

It’s probably been a few years since I went this long without ejaculating, and the first time able to have MMO sessions I’ve not ejaculated this long (was re wired about 1.5 years ago).

Noticed yesterday that I generally just felt like I was in a better mood, and a little bit more energetic during the day. I didn’t feel especially horny or frustrated during the day, but also felt like I could turn myself on easily with thoughts or light touch. I had sex with my partner for about 90 minutes, initially when we started I didn’t get an erection right away, but then after a few minutes I was really hard and really turned on. I was having good orgasms from him stroking me and oral sex, but they seemed like it maybe took a little bit more pleasure to “get there” to an orgasm. I actually thought that was a good thing, because when the orgasm did happen it felt a little stronger (like more pressure had built up and was being released). I also didn’t have a toy in – often I do because 1 – it just feels good and makes orgasms easier to have and 2 – I thought the pressure against my prostate during an orgasm made it harder to ejaculate so felt safer.
Anyways, I was feeling in control and far enough away from the ejaculation reflex that I decided to go A-less for the whole time. We fucked for about 45-60 minutes, and I didn’t have any close calls. Had some really good orgasms though, one that lasted about 2 minutes which was amazing. I felt pretty happy being at that 80-90% level and not too afraid of going to far to like 99% where I could easily trigger the ejaculation reflex. I was really horny, really hard, but after he ejaculated I just pulled out and we stopped. The energy and horniness declined pretty easily – within about 5-10 min i was soft and not feeling frustrated like I missed out on something. Read more »

Can using a dildo after the Aneros ruin the rewriting process?

I was using my Aneros last night. Used it for an hour. As per usual, I didn’t get any where. It was my 5th time I think. I’ll get some pleasure every now and then but not often. This is really frustrating. I’m usually relaxed when using the Aneros, but even then it just seems like I can’t take those couple of seconds of pleasure anywhere.

I removed the Aneros after and hour and I was just really frustrated. I felt that I still very lubed up when I removed it. I still had an hour left before my parents got home so I said what the heck, I’m going to use my dildo. And god damn, did it feel amazing. When I use the Aneros, I try my best to feel every single detail of the toy in my anus. So I guess my anus has become a little more sensitive is some way. So having a dildo in my felt so much better than before. Before I got my Aneros, I used to use this dildo while masturbating. It has vibrating option as well. But back then it would only feel good when I masturbating the regular. I would never get anywhere by just simply thrusting the dildo in me. Read more »

Rewiring update? What happened to me?

2 days ago, i had a 1,5h session with the Progasm Ice and although i didn’t get strong sensations from my prostate… i think i somehow awakened my spine, or my Kundalini, or my Chakras or whatever those things are called.

During every involuntary contraction, i was feeling a pleasurable sensation… like an electric current running from my anus, to my tailbone and lower back… and at the same time i was feeling an intense warm sensation below my chest. It built up slowly (like i was getting fucked sensually), and it resulted in a full-body orgasm which lasted for 3-5 minutes.

When it ended, i wasn’t drained. It felt like i was floating peacefully.

2 days later, my spine is still tingling when i’m sitting down or lying down. It’s not distracting, neither i’m freaked out. On the contrary, i like exploring new things and new sensations, but this one i can’t quite understand it.

Milestones, progress and a question.

So, I haven’t had a chance to use my Helix Syn for about a month or so. Married with two young children so quality alone time is not in abundance.

I’ve been trying to keep at it though, using what little privacy I get to clench and release, using basically the same technique I’d use if the Aneros was inserted. I’ve gotten pretty good at it too. I can achieve some pretty powerful p-waves and the precum flows like crazy. A few times I’ve gotten to the point where I think “oh my god it’s happening” but never seem to cross the threshold. Since I started using the Aneros my nipples have become hugely sensitive and I truly can feel my prostate grow larger when I rub them, a testament I had read from other users but always found hard to believe.

So yesterday I finally had an hour on my own and the only things I could think of was getting my Aneros and have a session. Within minutes of inserting I felt my prostate tingle and what followed was my best session so far. I didn’t have the super o but for the first time I couldn’t control myself and was moaning/grunting like never before. It was truly amazing. I like to think it was a mini o but whatever it was, I liked it a lot. Read more »

[Life Hack] I’ve been at this for 6 years, let me share a secret with you.

Let me preface this by stating I haven’t yet achieved the legendary hand-free Super-O, but I’ve been trying for a while now so I’ve gotten extremely efficient at trying. But this hack has kicked things into overdrive for me and I figured I’d share.

Now, everyone will tell you this is all about correct muscle movement, relaxation, and focus on subtle feelings from within a part of your body you’re not used to focusing on, and they’re not wrong, but there’s something extra you can do to help.

First: Figure out where inside your body you prostate is, use your finger to find the depth of your prostate (it’ll feel like you have to pee when you’ve found it, but you knew that). Compare your finger depth to the length of your aneros. You might find that the point at the end is further from your prostate is than you thought. I found that the Helix I had was too long and ended up missing my prostate by a half inch or so. Admittedly this took me years to discover and cost me hundreds of dollars in other toys.

The Hack: So, if you’re like me, the Helix is missing the right spot by a small amount but holding it in the right place by hand is either difficult or uncomfortable for long periods of time. My solution? **A loop of string.** Read more »

A “Virtual” Aneros Session….Amazing!

An amazing session! Here is the background……

I was in Day 6 of SR and chastity. My wife was feeling better after a week with a stomach bug. Anyway, we lay down in bed just relaxing and watching TV when I reached out to her to cuddle. I began to get an erection, but this one wouldn’t go down. It remained hard and just got harder. I began to get aroused and she felt it. She began a most-erotic, gentle tease of my cock and after about 25 minutes, I was thoroughly wet. I knew I would have to go-off or suffer the consequence of blue-balls. I didn’t have a towel handy so I went to get one and returned. I got it into position and my wife took over from there (knowing I am in chastity, she gave the green-light). She proceeded to finish me off with some mind-blowing ball massage and cock-work. I didn’t last long, I ejaculated with an incredible amount of cum! My pelvis was tingling for several minutes afterwards.

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Fast-forward to this morning; I am “locked” in my pseudo-chastity-cup and found an interesting track on YouTube: “Tantric Deep Lounge” by G.I. Joe. I started listening and could feel my cock twitching beneath my cup. I started performing some kegels but not knowing where this was going. After a while (I lost track of time) I began to feel an unmistakable clenching in my prostate and it was a prostate orgasm! Now realize I have stopped my “formal” Aneros sessions months ago. But this “session” felt like I never stopped! Things settled down for a short while, but started-up all over again! OMG! A MMO! During this session, I had the usual moans, deep-breathing, shaking and euphoria. I guess you could say that the Aneros re-wiring is indeed permanent! I probably could have lasted longer, but, alas, it was time to get-up. Read more »

The Plateau again – how to kickstart something else?

Yesterday I had another session, a long one, and this time I tried to use Mgx.

It resulted in the same pattern I have when I can feel something else than “blackground pleasure”.

And what it is? The plateau.
For 2 hours or so I was in a state of relaxed pleasure, more than background pleasure, but not having amazing pleasure.
What’s frustrating is that when I get to that state I feel that I’m close to something great, but never get there.

My prostate barely moves, and I think my body needs somehow how to spark the prostate into having involuntary contractions in this stage.
I prefer to do nothing and wait – nipples don’t lead to the right place, and I want to be “surprised” by pleasure, I want it to come to me.

During this time sometimes I feel a little more pleasure and my penis can go semi-hard or hard. Sometimes I can feel a faint pleasure pulse in the prostate, but it fades and goes nowhere.

It’s frustrating because I “know” if the prostate starts spasming by itself at this stage it will be wonderful. It’s the feeling of being so close but unable to reach it.

How can I, doing nothing, teach my prostate to have involuntary movements and trigger “real” sexual pleasure?

Aneros playlist?

I was able to have my first prostate orgasm through smoking weed and just laying in bed with my aneros listening to some erotic music, which came by sweet luck and as such prompted me go make an aneros spotify playlist for my sessions. I was wondering if people had good song suggestions to listen to during such sessions.

exquisite aless

While I do enjoy sessions with either my MGX or Progasm fairly often, in between these sessions I enjoy aless sessions – so convenient. I suffer from allergies quite often, and thus need to take simple over the counter allergy medication quite often. You will note if you read the fine print, they caution about consulting a doctor if you have an enlarged prostate. Well, I noticed many years ago that these same medications have certain side-effects on me – primarily a degree of erectile dysfunction and sensitization of the prostate gland. When I do need to take this medication I have long ago learned – when life hands you lemons, make lemonade 🙂

Simply put, aless sessions come very easily when I’m on the medication and the sensations are exquisite. There is no prep or cleanup required, no post session soreness that might happen, and no embarrassing erection if I have to get up and answer the door or that type of thing.

As well, I never have to worry about accidently ejaculating. Just lots of dry orgasms with nothing more than moderate precum.

If I have not recently ejaculated, it is quite common for me to experience a wet dream – either that night or the next night, if I don’t stay on the medication.

Hours of pleasure to indulge in my homoerotic fantasies and enjoy wave after wave of orgasm.

“Why Is The Do-Nothing Method So Effective? I Have An Idea”

I was up early this morning and just decided to chill-out on my favorite sofa. I found a nice track or two on YouTube and, with headphones on, began to relax. New for me this morning: I decided to see if I can COMPLETELY RELAX my PC muscles/anus and anything else within that could possibly be tensed-up. I started in earnest for about 10 or 15 minutes. But then, something strange happened……..I couldn’t hold this “do-nothing” any longer! I began to feel a strange, hard-to-describe “fatigued” feeling down-there that was unmistakable. And about the same time, I began to experience what I would call an Aless auto-fuck. That is the way it felt and I couldn’t stop it. Yes, I could temporarily “hold” the feeling and pretend to be completely relaxed…….but it didn’t last too long.

After a while in this mode, I began to get a whole-body arousal feeling which forced me to convulse a bit on the sofa. I felt my prostate “alive” with energy and my suspicion is that it is always contracting and relaxing…….although we are not usually attuned to that feeling. How many times during the day do you feel your anus contract and then relax, if only a little bit? Probably (in my case) too many to count. Is it involuntary or voluntary? Why do I do this? I don’t know the exact answer but I suspect that it is related to what I experienced this morning. Oh, the marvels of the male physique! Read more »