Tag: Prostate

Tips for the struggling/beginners

First of all I’m not here to tell you what to do, but I have a strong feeling these tips will work for more than just myself. Excuse me if my thought organization is all over the place. This is a draft and I was just excited to post it asap.

* Relaxation and proper breathing is important. It’s a good idea to take up meditation if you want to improve on this and meditation is useful for much more that just this actually (same thing goes for cardio and resistance training). If you’re constantly in a daze, you’re in for a long game. If you’re the deathgrip type you’re also in for a long game. I do some meditative breathing while in an alternating cold and hot shower. Any impulse to jerk backward from the water being too cold or too hot is taken note of, to which I relax completely into it as a response. Shower temperatures are regulated, and they aren’t hot enough to burn or cold enough to freeze so there’s nothing to worry about. Relaxing into it can feel amazing. FORCE NOTHING.

* Do some yoga-like flexibility stretches and be sure to breathe into your balls or even into your toes with every breath. You know, the kind of deep breath that might make you shake/twitch slightly. I was confused at first that I had to pull/push my anus and breathe as two seperate movements; I totally forgot that if you breathe in deeply enough it does so on its own and feels a lot better. If you don’t twitch a little you might be doing it wrong. Relax into the position like you’re trying to fall asleep. See how much you can relax into the position before you fall over, which shouldn’t be hard if you’re in okay shape. Read more »

The prostate only ever becomes hard during a boner! My dick and prostate are 100% connected, can’t do anything with prostate alone

I managed to derive pleasure from prostate from strong pelvic contractions (contractions that also include stretching legs/hamstrings). And it only ever works during a boner. It always results in penile orgasm.

It feels like reverse fapping. Instead of stroking penis to experience contractions typical for orgasm, I contract pelvic floor myself, imitating orgasm. It causes pleasure in prostate and/or penis.

Rubbing my prostate alone doesn’t do anything. I could as well be rubbing my ear this whole time! Does anyone know where to go from here?

What a wonderful world: Aless out sudden and spontaneously!

Hi there, as frustrating the experience with the Helix Syn was, as thankful I was for focusing on the mental side of my journey and the sudden and spontanous Aless moments coming up all through the day.
Having caught a cold I was hindered from intense sessions with my both new tools, Eupho Syn and Helix Syn, as another session would have been too vigorous for me.
Neverteheless curing the cold at home I had plenty of free time to listen to my inner senses. My last experiences with my Eupho Syn and without (Aless) had involved fundamental changes in me. Like never before my prostate seemed awaken and present all day long. Spending the day in wide boxer shorts, long-sleeved pyjamas and as long as out of bed in my bathrobe my genitals enjoyd greater freedom than in those briefs and tight jeans I used to wear as work clothing.
Standing in the kitchen waiting for the boiling of the water for brewing my tea I had the idea to stimulate myself by focusing on my testicles envisioning to let them swing around. My feet shoulder-width apart I tried to suppress and control every slightest motion in my pelvis. I only wanted to imagine the movement. It took a minimum of one, perhaps two minutes until my imagination managed to create the first initial approach of an illusion of my testicles swinging in circles. This feeling already evoke my prostate gland from which I now felt a stirring vibration. Then unvoluntary my mind made me believe a big glove would gently grab my ballsack enclosing and weighing my balls. This again reinforced the vibes from my gland sending out waves through my upper body. Now my body was bending a bit, my breath came in huffs and I got a boner. Like an avalanche the first orgasm came over me, unvoluntary contractions of my pelvic floor muscles, my sphincter and my buttocks and warm shivers of lust intensified mutually. I closed my eyes and transcended to an inner flow of pleasure. After a short time first drops of precum came out of my throbbing hard on and I began to moan. When the water boiled and the kettle switched off automatically, I opened my eyes. The loud clicking sound had brought me back to reality and had ended my Aless leaving behind a feeling of fullfilment and satisfaction. Brewing my tea I felt new energy in all the limbs and smiling with happiness I continued preparing my breakfast.
Much alike every now and then I collected such moments throughout the day, while I was sitting on the couch or on the wooden chair typing on the computer.
What a wonderful world! Take care!

A matter of size?

When thinking about that awesome aless session on which I reported in my last post, I doubted the Eupho Syn was big enough to support comparable pleasures. So I ordered the Helix Syn, which has a bigger head and body why it should be able to trigger my prostate gland the harder way it seemed to be yearning for. On the second day I already unpacked my second Aneros tool. By the way, it’s a little like unwrapping gifts, so lovingly packed in elegant red gift boxes those tools arrive. Okay, as before, after cleaning my backdoor thoroughly I greased my hole with some aquabased lube and gave even more on the Helix Syn. Well prepared I inserted it. Even though it was much easier to press it in as it was with the Nexux G-Rider, there was nearly as much to feel inside. While the Eupho Syn nearly seemed to dissapear in part the Helix Syn was all present. Until today I am not sure whether it were the circumstances, the exaggerated expectations or by that very size, I fundamentally failed to reach noteworthy feelings during this about one hour lasting session, although I was relaxed, did nothing, had enough time and a quiet space. After I was about to end with this unsatisfying session and had pulled the HS out, I thought I should try another aless (without an aneros tool – session) and went back to bed. It lasted no minute, my gland was back to take command, sended shivering waves through my body, told the muscles what to do to emphasize those feelings and gave me some unexpected pleasures as to say made my day.
To me it seems, that all these unvoluntary contractions of the inner muscles have only one aim, to get the tool where the gland wants it.
(Writing this I was fully focused on my prostate and spontaneously was struck by a little p-wave that build up to a little orgasm forcing me to writh and moan, oh wow, a second wave is coming up starting in head and prostate at the same time, huh, hope that will never happen in the office or I will be able to suppress at least the moaning, wow a happiness is flowing through my whole body, like I powered up my batteries.)
Therefore it may be better, if the tool is able to dance in the rectum instead of being clenched by the anal canal.
(It’s still feeling like a fever in the arms. I had an interrupted Eupho Syn session in the morning, maybe my gland is still unsatisfied.)
As it is a very time-robbing passion we are indulging, please be patient with my blog-updates, as I have to decide to go on with my journey or to write down my experiences, although this time again, I was struck by one during the writing.
May your prostate be with you and good vibes!

Aless on my mind, and wow! An amazing Sunday afternoon session! October 24

Hi guys,

I didn’t go to church Sunday morning, but stayed home for some much needed R&R which included an Aneros session and active connection with my Aless described below in this blog post.

Yes, indeed Aless was on mind this morning. Those of you who have read my Aneros blog know of my intense jockstrap and athletic cup fetish. I nurtured my Aless by wearing a jock and cup underneath my jeans from 7:30 a.m. until 1:15 p.m. when I had a session. Most athletic cups these days are contoured and roomy to hold your junk comfortably. The bottom edge of most cups reach under a guy’s scrotum and rest on his perineum. Naturally as a guy engages in athletic activity, his cup will invariably will caress his perineum where his sweet spot is located. Hence rather early in my Aneros journey, if not some months before, I have found a jock and cup ideal for performing the Kegel Exercises. It provides the stimulation not for the fervor of my Kegels, but also revves up my Aless.

What does Aless means to me? I have cherished my Aless, those times outside of Aneros sessions, very much, for the last two or three years, but especially now since achieving my goal achieving first genuine Super-O’s and MMO’s on Friday morning September 16. Aless is the electric buzz of energy emanating from my alive prostate and anal musculature. It is so wonderful to engage with my Aless with the Kegels and relaxed breathing. When I do that, my Aless revves up. Aless gives rise to exciting memories of past sessions, hence they are times of rehearsal both in my mind and body. However my Aless is always there, even at times it may be in background during times of fulfilling the daily affairs of life. But I can rev it up in a moment’s notice. Read more »

Some tips for the mental side

Just a couple of pointers for anyone stuck:
1) My favorite mantra is “my only job is to feel”. It captures the key ingredient that its not necessary to grasp this kind of pleasure, you only have to notice it and open up to it. It also makes it clear that this is not a job or chore. It sounds silly, but often we men seem to treat sex as something you need to be good at, and controlled in approach. This approach is not necessary with the Aneros. It will drive, you are invited to ease your hands off the steering wheel.

2) Don’t Think, Just Be. This one is tricky to explain but I will try. It is often said that sex is all in the head, this may be true but it actually points you in the wrong direction at times. It implies that you must think yourself into enjoying it. While this can help initially, your focus is best used on the body itself. Once you find your prostate and isolate the feelings, try to “be” the prostate, not talk to yourself about how it feels.

3) If you want to jump up a level in enjoyment, let go more. This sounds counter intuitive because you are enjoying the feelings you are having. But trust me, if you let go of the pleasure it may leave briefly but it will return with friends. A good mantra for this is “This feels great, but I don’t need it”. Clinginess to pleasure is the enemy here, allowance of what is present is the best approach. Read more »

Just used Aneros for the first time (Helix Syn), and I have a couple questions

Hi everyone, so just earlier today I used my Aneros for the first time. It went about as I expected: I was comfortable with it in my body, but I didn’t really feel any pleasure. I know that’s normal for the first few times but I do have a few questions:

Firstly, how far is the device actually supposed to go in? I mean, the toy has [these 3 little bumps on it.](http://i.imgur.com/w4mR6HH.jpg) When I had inserted it what I believe to be all the way, the perineum tab was lightly pressing on the perineum and the device was in up to the narrow part between 2 and 3. Is the aneros supposed to be inserted all the way, past the 3rd bump, or did I have it right?

Secondly, the whole time, the toy felt a bit like it was starting to fall out. Once I had it inserted, laid down and started relaxing/lightly contracting, the toy felt like it was kind of wiggling its way out. So I would push it in a little bit and keep going and it would feel like it was coming out again. I should be clear that the toy never came out or really even came close to it, but it just felt like it was slowly becoming “dislodged” from where it was supposed to be or something. Has anyone else had that feeling? Read more »

Captivated by my prostate only

Hello again. After that overwhelming first experiences with my new little sex weapon I had no clue how it should get any better.

Two days later I was still steamrolled by the feelings the Aneros Eupho Syn had evoke in my prostate. I lay on my bed and thought about this session and the difference to those earlier lessons learned with my Nexus G-Rider. I did a little stretching, yawned heartily and was willing to fall asleep, as some vibration from my prostate captured my attention.

As I had learned from my Eupho lesson I did let go doing nothing. The vibration build up and became more intense. It wandered through my testicles, into my cock, along my spine and up to my nipples. I felt a warm shivering through my whole body. Like a rodeo horse I made an inverse bow and felt pure pleasure. Waves of these feelings struck my body, uncontrolled muscle tensions in my legs and pelvis and unvoluntary moans of pleasure followed. I got a semi hard-on and bumped in the air.

I visualized some sex scenes from porn comics I liked to read, but now I was part of the scenery, involved in wild intercourse with those blinding colorful creatures with their musculous and feral bodies and genitals. It was the beginning of a wild orgy, some time later I found myself on all fours in ongoing rough sex with those creatures grasping my mattress and moaning in ecstasy. Aching hard-ons were coming and going. Sometimes I felt like ejaculating, but there was only precum dripping from my cock, sometimes there was a little release, then the next wave shook me even more than before, my mouth went dry but I didn’t want to stop it. Read more »

It’s gotten cold! Saturday afternoon session, October 22

Hi guys,

Cold blustery weather finally arrived this morning after our few days of Indian summer which warranted my turning on my air conditioning for some hours Thursday noon to Friday morning. We did have a few hours of showers mid afternoon yesterday with it feeling noticeably cooler toward sunset last evening.

I had to go to meeting at church this morning. When I arrived back home this afternoon, my apartment felt like a icebox. Management has not turned the heat yet! 🙁 After some hours lounging and relaxing, I couldn’t stand anymore. I was really horny for a session. It lasted probably over an hour and it felt really good with models MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE! However I found a way to remain warm during a session in an ice cold apartment. First I wear my long-sleeve Under Armour T-shirt and then over it my hooded sweatshirt with a zipper, all this despite my being naked from my waist down. Also this wore my hooded sweatshirt unzipped so that I have access to my nipples and hairy chest, albeit underneath my UA T-shirt. Read more »

“Full-Frontal Attack: A Foreplay Fantasy”

[I think this blog entry is going to get graphic; be advised]

Background: I am in Day 6 of SR and am looking forward to a penetrative intercourse with my wife. I woke up about 3 AM with another raging erection and decide to listen to some erotically-charged music. So I selected a YouTube track that I have heard before: “Erotic Night Mix 2013 mixed by Dj Alex Vlasov”. It wasn’t too long into this hour-and-a-half session that I realized that I had fallen-into a most intense, erotic fantasy. I am in bed with my wife and she begins a “cuddling” tantric session with me that I can only describe now as a “full-frontal attack” of my masculinity. I didn’t know it at the time, but she was preparing me well for the upcoming intercourse with her. In spite of my DE, she wanted to make sure that I would come within her. Let me try to explain how this developed…..

It started so innocently, like most session do, with some light teasing of my package through my cotton boxers (I have a towel in place). She teases my frenulum and I feel wave upon wave of bliss throughout my body. Her deft hands reach under my sleep top and begin to fondle my chest, abs and nipples. I am falling deeper into an erotic spell. Read more »