Tag: Prostate

Newfound Success… 10 Years On.

Aneros remains one of the greatest wonders I have discovered. I am superbly happy to have had the journey with it. But it can only get me to a deep orgasmic state and blissful state if I have at least 5-6 hours of solo time and no distractions, which is rare. Recently, I have learned to combine it with nipple stimulation which can get me there a little faster. But I still need an Aneros and a lot of alone time to get me to a place of incredible mental and physical pleasure where I lose the sense of being and float space. What works for me is extreme relaxation and plenty of time on my own.

That’s why, despite my success with Aneros, I was always jealous of men that can achieve regular anal orgasms through sex, particularly HFWO which I have never had. Never ever. I guess you always want something that you cannot have. I have tried riding my partner every which way possible and every form of toy available for the past several years. I have spent a lot of money buying and throwing things out like dildos, fucking machines, hypnosis tapes, poppers and even shrooms that simply didn’t work or change anything. In the end, I simply considered myself to be one of those people for whom it will never happen. I kept an nJoy wand in my closet but only used occasionally to milk myself after an Aneros session, never deriving substantial sexual pleasure or orgasming from it. Read more »

New user, loving it, but do I have the wrong toy?

I am guessing I fall into a different category here than most. I don’t really like lying and relaxing with the Aneros and I don’t like the audio files that some here recommended.

BUT I also do NOT fall into the category of “I started using it and feel nothing!”. Quite the contrary.

I feel absoluty joy even when inserting, almost rolled my eyes the first time I was putting it in, I really do feel my prostate stimulated the moment I put it in. I do moan every single time I put it in, it’s so nice. It feels absolutely great wiggling and moving the toy around (something which you are supposed not to do). Not going to sugar coat it, I enjoy the feeling of the toy “fucking me” and rythmically pressing against my prostate. I also played with the idea of fixing it somewhere and riding it. It’s so much joy that I honestly can’t lie there and do nothing, even the muscle contraction movements are not half as good as manually moving the Aneros for me personally. I am still a beginner, but I bet that it will make me orgasm some day just by moving it back and forth with my hand, I feel a light rush but lose it because of overexitement. Read more »

So close!

So revived my helix the other day and got straight to!

Wow this is amazing from the off!

Soon as it’s leading I could feel it in my P spot! After a few contractions I was getting into the rhythm of what to do and it felt great with a few waves of pleasure and involuntary spasms coming.

In the end I lost the rhythm though and stopped but I definitely delete a lot of fluid/precum

“Rewiring” help

Hi! I’ve been on a journey to discover my prostate and the pleasure it can bring me , and I had some questions,

Whenever i’m playing with a prostate massager, a dildo, any anal toy really , should i not finish myself by jerking off since i can only cum that way right now?

I’ll be playing with a toy for a while and always end up jerking off to end the “session”, i was wondering if abstaining from jerking off and using my toys even though i might not cum in the end would help this “rewiring”

Tldr: can i jerk off when playing with my prostate or nah

I think i broke my dry orgasm meter

So the other day i think i may have broken my dry orgasms meter(In a good way.)
so i was rubbing my frenulum similar too how a girl would rub her clit and within 10-15 seconds the room is spinning and i find myself feeling like i’m floating, if i close my eyes it feels like i’m floating in space, this is what i consider a type of dry orgasm that i have (ymmv).

then after a few of these i stop rubbing my frenulum and i focus on my nipples. at this point i start rocking my hips and the aneros is thumping against the prostate which leads too more dry orgasms and eye rolling. then i turn over and i find myself humping my bed.

Now when i was a young kid i’d hump stuffed animals and my god did that make me dry cum like crazy…. this….THIS as an adult????? It’s like i unlocked the memories i had as a kid. i never considered dry humping my bed. i’m talking dry orgasms over lapping. i swear it felt like i had a long dry orgasm but i had mini orgasms while having the long one. i went from “calm seas orgasms” too “riding the bull orgasms” and with aneros, it’s rubs against my prostate at the same time.

Morale of the story? i’m just really happy i ignored stigma and societal norms and started this experimental journey. it truly is a crime that most men don’t know this side of themselves.

Edging with aneros path to success?

I would like to be multi orgasmic! I have always loved HFWO and can achieve it with dildo or aneros. But recently I’ve considered trying to really tune into the prostate pleasure rather than ejaculation. The previous attempt was fun, I kept edging myself to the point of no return and letting the pleasure hover at a high level and bringing it back down. Sometimes I do this with Penis stimulation, when I’m getting close I stop and focus purely on pulling the aneros to my prostate, it feels amazing but I know it’s not an orgasm yet. When I eventually allow myself to cum I can do it slowly and I don’t shoot multiple spurts of cum, it kind of all comes out at once, like it’s being forced out in one big flow, which feels incredible, love watching it 😅

When I’ve been pegged and get the right angle, I drip cum, and on the rare occasion it feels like I might squirt 😅 I’m thinking that might be a path??

I have a lot of precum aswell so wonder if I’m just someone who’s prostate is really accessible🤷‍♂️

Any way to the point, has anyone achieved multiple orgasm/ dry orgasm / from edging your prostate and focusing purely on that pleasure rather than ejaculation (even if that happens)?

Progress by using condoms

I’ve been able to cum from the aneros pretty easily after a while of practice, but I suspected the motion of my hips was stimulating my penis against my underwear and making me ejaculate. It discouraged me because I’d just start to build pleasure and then I’d cum, which felt great but it wasn’t the super o people describe and I knew I had more to figure out. Today, after several days of abstinence to build anticipation, I tried putting on two condoms to lessen the feeling of my underwear and help me focus just on the prostate pleasure. It worked pretty well. I had a few mini orgasms before having excellent full body pleasure for a minute or so before it led to an amazing wet orgasm that felt extremely large. Like I felt a full rope of cum shoot almost before I felt any orgasm contractions and then I gushed a lot of cum throughout. It was a very strong orgasm and left me gasping for a good minute as the afterglow wore off. I don’t think I have reached the pinnacle yet but I loved this milestone of best orgasm yet. It’s like my body isn’t yet able to separate orgasm and ejaculation, but it’s trying to learn.

First HFWO! Wow!

To start…I’m 26 and a couple weeks ago I made the decision that I want to rewire myself and orgasm only from anal or prostate play. I’ve never just “stopped” jerking off but now I was up for the challenge.

Over the last couple weeks I have been extremely horny. More than ever before. I started experimenting with nipple play and having what some call “aless” sessions. Those sessions resulted in amazing feelings and leaking a decent amount of precum.

So I’ve been away with friends the last two weeks and had little to no privacy the entire time. Deff nowhere near enough privacy to do any sort of play with my toys.

I’ve been so excited to get home and finally experiment.

I got home today, took my clothes off and immediately got rock hard from the anticipation of what was to come.

I was deep breathing and applying lube when I started to leak precum. I had this strong feeling of pleasure in my pelvis.

I started off with my aneros helix and some nipple play. I had some amazing sensations and mini dry orgasms. Finally I decided that it was time to switch so I took out the helix and slid in the progasm.

I started clenching and breathing deeper. The feelings started to grow and I started shaking. The more I was shaking, the better the pleasure was. Read more »

unable to relax

No matter what I do I seem unable to relax into the pleasure. As soon as I start feeling anything I try to relax and focus on the feelings but the moment I do so all the pleasure leaves. I’ve tried edibles but have had no noticeable difference on how things feel in my prostate (maybe i’m not taking enough? usually I take about 5 – 7.5mg). Any suggestions?