Tag: Prostate

I am a beginner, I need some advice

I bought prostate massager https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08C4Y165X?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share from amazon last week and started to use it.

I had only 4 sessions so far.

First session was all about how to use the toy and feel it in my anal. After first session, I started to get some infos from here.

Next day, second session, I took edible (25mg works best for me), used douche and rinse it around 3-4 times and took hot shower. After couple hours, it started to kick in and I got really relaxed. I injected anal lube and used my finger. It felt good even just rubbing it with my finger. And I inserted my toy and started to find prostate. It took a while but I was able to find it. It was tickling at the beginning, so I just let it tickles. This feeling was gradually getting bigger and it felt totally different than stroking dick and cum. It was amazing.

I rest one day and tried again next two days. One with edible and one without it. During these two sessions, I was not able to even get to “tickling” part.

Am I doing this too often? Maybe prostate needs a rest after one or two sessions?

Thank you in advance for your advice.

Hit the Button

I know the prostate isn’t a magic button but by god it felt like one this morning. I must have been having some wicked dreams and got myself pretty aroused overnight.

I woke to find my wife not in bed which means I’ve been snoring during the night and she’s relocated. It not unusual.

Sensing an opportunity I jumped up squirted some lube in and quickly popped my helix in. It sucked into me like a magnet and I felt it slam into my prostate like a hammer. I swear I was starting to dry orgasm before I got back into bed. I continued this way for 40 minutes before I had to get up.

What a great way to start the day.

Plenty of NSFW subreddits to post in, post your nudes there – not here.

I’m a little baffled by the number of people who feel the need to post themselves with an Aneros in their asshole.

That is awesome, and good for you, but I was under the impression this was a discussion based subreddit and not a media based subreddit.

If you want to post a post a photo of you with an Aneros shoved up your bum or you cumming wildly from prostate stimulation, check out /r/GuysFromBehind or /r/GaybrosGoneWild among others…..

Only the eupho does anything for me

Hi guys, I’ve been on the journey of trying to have a prostate orgasm for a couple of years on and off. I get really nice pleasure from my eupho syn (also have the vibrating helix which is nice too), but no orgasms yet. In the pursuit of this, I’ve bought and tried other aneros toys – I have a helix classic, plastic eupho, peridise set, MGX, helix V and I just recently got a progasm jr thinking maybe moving up in fullness might get me closer. I even have a glass njoy type wand.

The trouble is aside from the helix V, nothing comes anywhere near the eupho for me. It’s tempting to throw money at it thinking that’ll help get me closer to where I wanna be, but it’s pretty apparent it may not be about spending more. Can anyone else relate to having only found one or two toys that work?

I don’t really go into my sessions with expectations but my long term goal is definitely to have dry orgasms. Any advice of what to do going forward?

Orgasm after radical prostatectomy

This is my first blog ever. I had nerve sparing radical prostatectomy about 2.5 years ago. A great deal of time is spent talking about erections, but I was at a loss when it came to information on pleasure and orgasm. The only results I got from Cialis or Viagra was partial erections while urinating while sitting down, for a few days following. I also tried pumps but was not a big fan. Through it all my wife has been supportive, but I was left feeling that she was more on the sidelines waiting for me to figure it out leaving me frustrated and unjustifiably angry with her. The stress on our marriage has been extreme. I was given very little support from my doctor other than erection pills, penis injections or surgery to put a pump in my testicle sac to pump up an erection. Nothing addressed sexual pleasure other than being told the only kind of orgasm I could have would be a dry orgasm. “WTF” does that even mean.
After 2 years of trying, failing, and doing my own research to address the fact that there seemed to be some correlation between my erections and stimulation of the internal nerves that were spared during the surgery. I researched prostate massagers to if any might stimulate the spared nerves even though the prostate was removed. I discussed the possibility of benefit with my doctor’s office and had a very difficult discussion with my wife. I was so relieved when she responded that she loved me and would work with me to figure it out. I settled on the Helix Syn V and Progasm. I found the Progasm comfortable enough to wear while slept. Within a week or so of leaving it in all night every night I started getting erections while peeing sitting down even though I hadn’t taken any erection medication.
I have been able to give my wife orgasms without having an erection, but I was denied any form of physical pleasure myself. One night lying in bed on my stomach facing away from my wife, my legs spread and the Progasm inside me, I asked her to roll over and put her leg over mine. When she did I my body responded and did it ever. Every muscle in my body was contracting, my toes curled, I started panting and maybe even whimpering. This built up for several minutes until I was able to catch my breath and relax, but not for long before I started to blast off again. I not sure but I think this rolling orgasm lasted more than 30 minutes. We were traveling the next day and that night it happened again. So much of my frustration and anger was feeling that sexual pleasure was something that I would never experience again. I can honestly say that I have never had an orgasm as intense or satisfying. Any more my wife can roll over and rub my ankle and get me fired up. I feel the sensations when on my own but never to the extent as I do when my wife is with me.
At this point I’m looking for some counseling. I’m still frustrated with the medical community for their lack of help finding quality of life solutions for their patients. I shouldn’t have had to spend the amount of time I did in pornography to find medical information that the medical community is to squeamish to talk about. Grow up already!

which aneros do I buy?

I started out this morning thinking, fuck it I’m getting a prostate massager. After lots of research the only question I have is which aneros do I get? I know it’s probably different for everyone but I’m probably only ever buying one so I need it to be “fool proof” I’m 6’3 if that makes any difference what so ever lol

Advice needed – no involuntary contractions

I’m having an Aneros Helix for a few weeks. Unfortunately, I have not yet been able to induce involuntary contractions of the sphincter and PC muscles by tensing and relaxing them. It also doesn’t make sense to me how this is supposed to be brought about by training these muscles (-> mindgasm). After all, if I train these muscles, they get stronger, get used to the load, which is rather counterproductive to involuntary contractions due to fatigue, isn’t it?
Does anyone have any tips on how I can achieve involuntary contractions as a precursor to a (super) O?
The massage of the prostate by the Aneros is also rather weak/barely felt by me. I suspect that the Helix is too short and thin (I feel more with the Nexus Glide) and will try the Progasm. Thanks in advance for your tips.

Just recieved my first anal toy in the mail 2 hours ago and am here after trying it.

I just got the Helix Syn V.. I am straight, struggle with pleasure and the Helix Syn Trident was recommended; saw the vibrating option and went with it… why not.

I masturbate with a folded pillow between my legs and never have been able to stay hard or ejaculated with my hand or any other method known to myself.

This implies with sex I’ve had with women also! (I can stay hard and have sex for hours though never get an erge to orgasm.)

It wasn’t charged so cannot say that I know what it’s like with it vibrating though found it pretty disappointing? I have never put anything into myself before; used water-based warming lube and put it in.

I got an erection from putting it in then slowly grinded against my pillow (I usually squeeze my legs together and clench my arse as I thrust). I can’t say I felt any stimulation from it and felt like I just had something between my butt cheeks, the rest of the toy that was in me felt barely recognisable?

Am I doing something wrong..? pretty disappointed with the product atm..

I tried it for a solid hour and didn’t get myself off (that’s normal for me) I tend to struggle with my pillow for an hour + to orgasm.

Edit: what would also be the best way to store the prostate massager? I have just cleaned it and placed it back into the red box it had came in; would that be suitable storage for it?

How do you focus the energy and buildup

So when the aneros / or aless is building… its almost as if like an electrical current in your body is building up (is the way i would describe it). I find that this sometimes can get very harsh and powerful and sometimes it is more of a gental energy. I would describe the Super O as when the energy keeps flicking super fast thru the body and prostate area and then all of a sudden it just stops and you get the calm seas super O where it feels like you are floating thru space.
The question is what do you focus the energy on when it builds, do you try and keep it calm and slow, or do you enjoy when you clench (or kegal) and the energy builds and builds. I have had mixed results with both methods. But i much prefer the calm energy that slowly builds. I find the harsh energy can sometimes make your entire body start to twitch all over.
Do other people have this same build up of energy style (fwiw i rarely use the aneros anymore as I can do it all Aless… especailly with thc it just sets it off instantly) But just seeing which method people use to reach their super O..
I find the best sessions are when i try and almost stop the energy (which is impossible on thc) and try and stop the body from performing keegals and it eventually gets too much and I have to give into it.

Success? I think

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for years now. I’ve always found it pleasurable, but have never had the experiences like I read about on here. I’ve recently discovered nipple play + hip thrusts really get me going, so I planned for a session on Friday night. I had held off from cumming for 3 days prior, just to make sure I was really horny. I find that 420 enhances my experiences, so I smoked a bowl and laid on my bed. This time around I used the progasm, and….wow. This time as different. Immediately after putting it in I felt this wave of sensation over my body. As I began to rub my nipples, I started feeling a tingling pleasure in my groin and my cock began to twitch. I kept at this for a bit, and then starting thrusting my hips. For the first time, I started having those body shakes I hear people talking about. I could also feel my heart rate increase significantly. Kept going at this for a bit and then it started to diminish, and I wondered what the next step was going to be. I decided to try lying on my stomach, and seeing what that would do. I laid there for about 10 minutes, just doing small contractions and hip thrusts when I started feeling the pressure again. This time though, I felt more pleasure and could feel what I assume to be the start of an orgasm. I keep at it, not sure what was going to happen. Eventually I felt a very strong pulsing and felt like I was about to cum. I kept going, and then experienced a massive wet orgasm. Even after it was done, I was able to continue with the contractions and hip thrusts and it felt like a flutter. In hindsight, I wish I would have edged that pressure feeling out a bit and explored where it would take me. But I’m still wondering, what is it that I experienced? It was much stronger than a typical orgasm, and I never once touched my dick. Was this a prostate orgasm? Why do I see so many people talking about dry orgasms? Are the dry ones more intense?