So I’ll preface by saying I’ve been using aneros toys for over a decade now, but only within the past year or two have I fully dedicated myself to attaining the super-o. My problem is this, I have managed to achieve this goal on but a few scant occasions and they were quite intense, yet fleeting. Never have I been able to make them last more than maybe 30 seconds before the intensity wanes back to a plateau, also I’ve been unable to string together more than one or two at most. Typically, after the intensity fades I try to relax everything and find the path again, however more often than not, being more focused on staying relaxed ends up bringing me to an HFWO, which pretty much kills the session. I’m not really sure what I’ve done differently to get the few supers I’ve had, I just know that 4/5 times I do my thing I end up having to change the sheets. Any advice?
Tag: Relaxation
First experimental session
My Helix arrived finally! (Two weeks ago) After reading as much information while waiting on the arrival, I thought I was ready to start my Aneros journey. Time was rushed but I had to test drive the unit. So in the shower we went to do some multi-tasking. As soon as it was in I knew there was going to be magic in that little devise. The one thing I learned right away was there are more muscle groups down there than I knew was possible. One clinch and release gave two sensations of muscle relaxing. Thinking this was odd I tried again, same result. I consciously contracted again and using much concentration I relaxed one muscle group at a time. At that point I knew I needed more time with this little gem! I knew I needed to strengthen and separate use of those different muscles. By this time my shower was done and I regretfully had to end the session. I was already thinking of when my next session could be!
Not sure if I’m doing this correctly, am I flexing the right muscles and how I can measure progress?
To preface: I’m a gay mid-20 year old guy so I’m very comfortable with anal stimulation and have been exploring how to get more pleasure from my ass/anal sex. I’ve been trying to see if I can use my aneros to have a super-o or prostate orgasm or any of those good things, and I’m not sure really if what I’m doing is the right way. I have a helix and a progasm, and for the most part I use the helix because it’s much more gentle and I like the motion.
Tempo, my spark plug to a stellar Progasm Classic performance, January 22
Hi guys,
I had a fairly busy Saturday and Sunday this past weekend which left me pretty much exhausted late yesterday at sunset. I went to bed uncommonly early at 7:30 p.m. The Nutty Buddy athletic cup not only felt good last night but enabled me to sleep like a baby.
I heartily recommend the Nutty Buddy for those of you who play contact sports, especially baseball. This athletic cup is designed to be worn in a pouch of an ordinary jockstrap which is worn over compression shorts or a boxer brief. Hence the Nutty Buddy actually “floats” adding to its comfort. Mark Littell, retired MLB great and now for many years a baseball coach designed an athletic cup not only contain a guy’s “junk,” e.g. his penis and testicles in areas almost like chambers in the cup, but also has a extended lower tail to cover a guy’s perineum or taint. This configuration gives maximum coverage to the player against errant baseballs. I, for one, love this maximum coverage as I sleep in this cup at night, plus this cup is ideal for the Kegels in the still of the night.
So in a sense last night, I had a good four/five hours of foreplay all the while diddling my nipples from time to time while wearing an Under Armour cold gear mock shirt. It was so sweet when I did all this. I was more than ready for session this morning just after five a.m.
“Relax……And Count To 45!”
There was nothing really unusual about this session. It was very relaxing. I decided to go for the HIH 950 due to its gentle approach to prostate massage. So I lubed it up and got started. I decided in advance that I wanted nothing more than a relaxing, “do-nothing” session. I got more than I bargained for……
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Throughout this relaxing “prostate-fest”, I experienced a little bit of everything, but in a slow, relaxing way. I got gentle involuntary contractions, gentle p-waves and gentle moaning. When I glanced at the clock, I was surprised to see that it was already 35 minutes into the session. So I decided add another 10, making this relaxing interlude a total of 45 minutes! Nice!
PS I decided to ‘chase’ this session with a 15-minute session with the MGX. Equally nice! I especially like the added stimulation of my anal canal!
My Best Super O Yet
I just had the most amazing orgasm of my life with the Progasm. For the past few day I’ve been very anal horny. I’ve been meaning to use the Aneros, but I wasn’t able to find the time. I was fantasizing about putting things in my butt all morning and feeling really tingly down there, so I thought what the hell.
For this session I laid on my back and tried to keep very still. I had really pleasant feelings right off the bat and had some wonderful dry-os almost straight away. The involuntaries started up soon after. When I’m relaxing properly my contractions are a lot more subtle. I have a habit of subconsciously clenching along with my involuntary contractions, which tends to not build sensations as well as total relaxation.
I had a really fantastic dry-o with contractions that felt *exactly* like a traditional orgasm. After that subsided another orgasm began to build. My ass started to contract on the toy quite vigorously and I got really hard. My penis pulsated with each contraction. Then I felt my butt clamp down pretty hard on the toy, along with my abdominals, quite a bit harder than normal. I wasn’t sure if I was actually squeezing that hard or if it felt so good that I mistook the sheer pleasure on my prostate for the pressure of a strong contraction. My whole pelvic region felt like it was squeezing down on my toy.
“With Prostate Massage, Sometimes Less Is More”
I know I have been having too many sessions lately. But I awoke about 2 AM with a very powerful erection. I had not been sleeping in a “chastity cup” and caught myself trying to masturbate. So I quickly donned my XO “cup” and went to lie back down. I quickly decided to have another session with the SGX. It never fails to disappoint me and didn’t this time either……
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When I quickly lubed it up and inserted it, I got the sensation (almost in fantasy) that I should remain “absolutely still” for as long as possible. That is easier said than done with the SGX. Over the next 20 minutes or so, I was able to remain very still. But the SGX was beginning to stimulate my anal canal and then my prostate to the point that I began to moan softly. I could not remain still much longer. I needed to re-position myself on the bed and try to find a position where I could just relax. I couldn’t find one.
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In time (about 35-40 minutes later) I find myself performing very rapid contractions, all the while experiencing erotic P-waves that had me almost in tears. How I went from “very still” to “rapid contractions” is the beauty of the SGX. It somehow knows all the right moves within my male anatomy to the point where it is futile to try to “relax and do my own thing” with it working its magic within me. It can’t be done! When combined with a “chastity cup”, the anal/prostate stimulation combined with no masturbatory access to my package results in a very satisfying, albeit erotic male pleasure-trip that I would want to last forever……
“The SGX Milked Me Dry!”
I slept in my XO “chastity cup” overnight and was awakened about 4 AM with a most-powerful erection. While lying in bed, I began to automatically and rhythmically “twitch” my cock. With every pulse, I felt closer and closer to an ejaculation. I am only in Day 4 of SR but it felt like Day 40! I could not possibly have felt any more aroused. Of course, I knew I just had to have a session! I selected the SGX and so got ready to ride……
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One thing I like about the SGX (and its big cousin, the MGX) is the design. The ribbed stem is designed to engage the anal canal all the time. Even when not performing contractions, those ribs can be felt in the anus and they don’t subside at all during a session. That added erotic stimulation makes it almost impossible to completely relax the anus; it feels like an external “finger” massaging the anal opening while the prostate is being simultaneously massaged. When combined with an erection, it is the ultimate male erotic pleasure-trip! I couldn’t help but think (and quietly say to myself: Oh f**k!) Wild pleasure! (I tried to find a less-stimulating position on the bed but without success.)
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Just received progasm, pretty disappointed
No stranger to occasional anal play with a plug or other object. I’ve been getting into manual prostate sim with fingers and vibe, and haven’t had a prostate orgasm yet but think I was getting pretty close. Lots of thick cum oozing.
So decided to step it up. Did the research, got a progasm black ice.
Super. Disappointed. I did a lot of research on how to use it, set aside some dedicated quiet time nice and relaxed. It slides in easily and overall feels good, but literally no prostate stim. As soon as it’s in I almost don’t even know it’s there. The tabs feel good during pc contractions but overall it’s minimal.
Just to make sure, I tried different positions, repositioning the progasm, etc with no results. Tried just quietly contracting pc muscles, and breathing, but nothing.
In short, am I just not wired right for this thing? Using.my thumb is vastly more pleasurable and could probably have a super O from that except it startz hurting my thumb before long.
Feeling like I wasted $60 on this modestly sized butt plug.
I think something has awakened inside me…
This ended up being a bit wordy, so I put a TL;DR at the end.
So, to start with – I’m straight, married, with children. I’m very new to anal play (with the exception of maybe a sharpie when I was like 14). I’ve been going through a bit of a lifestyle change, losing weight, going to the gym, eating healthier, etc. and have been pretty successful over the last 6 months. I have some time off work and the house to myself for a bit. Based on an AskReddit thread, I saw the Aneros Helix mentioned as one of the naughty items that have changed someone’s life or some BS like that.
I do sometimes enjoy tickling my anus a bit while masturbating, and am myself quite open to experimentation (the wife, not so much). So I did some reading and research, and found out about this prostate thing in my bum. So I ordered myself a Helix Syn (and a couple other things, a new sleeve, etc., just for shits) as a self reward for my big life change.
I was highly anticipating it’s arrival, even though I know it may take some time to really get into it. It arrived a day early. I immediately drew myself a nice bath with jasmine salts, and relaxed for a bit. Cleaned myself out as best I could (note to self, buy a new turkey baster), and set to work.