Tag: Relaxation

My thoughts on male chastity, and jockstraps and athletic cups, and Nov. 21 session

Hi guys,

For many months now, we have been regaled by @goldenboy’s prolific blogs entries on Aneros, sex, jocks and cups, erotic dreams and waking fantasies, semen retention (SR), and male chastity which he lives out by wearing a jock and cup to bed. He calls athletic cups, “chastity” cups, a concept I find intriguing.

I have been pondering and reflecting on male chastity for many months now. It seems that there are least two types of male chastity: (1) religious or ascetic chastity, and (2) erotic chastity for the purpose of enhancing a guy’s sexuality either individually or as one in a marital relationship with a wife.

When I think of male chastity in a religious or ascetic sense, I think of the monastic life either in a Roman Catholic or Eastern Orthodox sense. In the Roman Catholic Church, you have religious orders and the clergy. Men joining such have swear three vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience. It was believed for many centuries by that church that masturbation and conjugal sexual relations prevented men from living out a devoted life to God and church.

In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or Mormon church, married couples have to swear to the Law of Chastity, thus allowing a life of utter devotion to marriage (one man, one woman) and the LDS Church. Read more »

First super-o since my break

I stopped using the Aneros for several months and have just started up again a few weeks ago. I have been slightly discouraged since I have had several sessions but no super-o. I was in the right mood today so I decided to give it a try.

I took a nice hot relaxing shower. I decided to use the MGX classic which is my tried-and-true toy. I lubed up, inserted my toy and got in bed. I like to listen to erotic audios to keep me aroused and stop my mind from wandering. I used the do-nothing technique which has become my favorite way to use the Aneros. I just lay there and let my body do what it wants without me interfering. Sometimes it can be tough to focus on the sensations and not take over, but overcoming that has been really rewarding. I also have found that being submissive is actually really sexy. Within ten minutes I began to feel the pleasure build and build. I tried my best to relax deeper and deeper which got easier and easier. I started having involuntary contractions and my prostate became really sensitive. Before I knew it I was cumming. Really. Hard. It felt different from many of the other super-os I’ve had. I could feel it all over my body, but especially strongly in my prostate, even more so than usual. And it felt a lot more “sharp” than usual. It was so strong that it was almost too much. After a few minutes I felt it taper off. Afterwards I caressed my body all over just taking in the sensations. Lovely. I started to feel it building up again, but unfortunately I had to stop because I started having cramps from my Crohn’s Disease. Read more »

“This SGX Session Packed A Punch!”

I had just had a BM and felt completely ready for a session. I knew I wanted more, so instead of my trusty HIH 950, I reached for the SGX. It did not disappoint me. Let me explain….

I lubed-up with BB and started a most relaxing session. I was wearing my XO cup for a couple of hours this morning (I’m not sleeping in it yet). When I started the session, I knew right away that this would be a good one. I did not expect that, before long, I was feeling tingling in my toes and especially my fingertips. What happened next is that as I began to completely relax, I felt waves of pleasure moving throughout my body, so much so that I could not help but start to squirm, shake and convulse. I could not help but let out a few moderate moans as well. Every new position on the bed only brought me closer to complete euphoria.

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I have not had this much precum produced in a session before! I don’t know what was happening but I felt a “pumping” going on within my groin and it felt great! Towards the end of this session, I took off the cup and began to feel like I wanted to “expel” the SGX with reverse kegels. But the more I tried to expel it, the tapered ribbed stem took over and pulled it back in! In this way, my anus became thoroughly stimulated and I began producing more precum! My penis was hard and I could easily have cum. But I didn’t want to (I am only in Day 5 of SR). Finally, I felt like I had enough and expelled it completely. Read more »

Question about p-tab contact

Is the p-tab meant to always be in contact with the perineum? Or only when contracting/having involunatries?

I’ve noticed that when I’m relaxed, such as when using the “do nothing” method with the helix classic, there is about a 1/2″ gap between the p-tab and my perineum. In fact the only time i notice
the p-tab making contact is when I’m contracting strongly (voluntarily or involuntarily).

Lately I’ve been folding up some tissue paper and wedging it between the p-tab and my perineum, and it does make it feel better, but it doesn’t feel like the ideal solution.

Anyone have advice on how to address this?

10 Years On… A little guidance needed.

Writing this as I’ve been using the aneros for many many years now (on and off) and curious as to how to expand/improve my experience. I know we’re not supposed to have any expectations, but it’s certainly a bit frustrating to read some of the testimonials from other guys here who describe “30 mins of rolling orgasms” “face-melting pleasure” etc! Of course, simply buying the toy meant we all had some sort of expectation going into it from the get go…

I think I’ve tried just about every suggestion found on Reddit and the aneros forums to help me on my journey, everything from fish oil, positions, breathing, hypnosis, sleeping with it in, porn, ganja- you name it, I’ve tried it. I own just about every Aneros model. What I can describe as my best experiences so far with toy are as follows:

I use coconut oil lube (which I find feels the most erotic), find a relaxing alone time w/o interruptions for a good hour session.

Usually I find the classic Helix or Eupho give me the most discernible reactions.

I find the “do nothing” method has the most effective for me- contractions and breathing feel very bland.

After insertion, the first 5 minutes often feel the best: I get an erection, tightness in my anus, the aneros is pulled in, faster heartbeat, erotic little pulses in my sphincter muscle. This feels like its building up into something sexy/exciting, but after a few minutes all these initial feelings subside and my anus and the aneros relax outwards. Read more »

“A Ruined Orgasm! I’m Still In The Game”

Background: I am in Day 8 of SR. Had a nice “cuddling” session with my wife last night before bed. Sleeping in my XO “chastity cup”. Awoke about 3 AM feeling the need to ejaculate and end the SR run. I decided to lube-up the HIH 950 and do a nice, leisurely but stimulating session. I “relaxed” for about 15 minutes and then slowly did about 30 strong-and-hold contractions. At some point, I felt that I definitely wanted to cum. But I wanted to extend the teasing and give myself a voluminous ejaculation, so……

I wanted to play ‘edgemeplease’ online. I had not played it in a while and felt it would be appropriate for me this morning. I still had the 950 in and started the game. Now I must be honest and say that I have never had this much precum! I could barely hold onto my cock, it was so wet and slippery! I wanted, begged to go off! And guess what? At the end of the game, I was denied a cum! Bummer! What do I do now?…..

Not feeling satisfied, and still very horny, I decided to play again! I set-up the game for a short session, begging to let me cum. And so I started the game……

Wait! I felt like an ejaculation was imminent. I vowed to go-off even if the game said otherwise. And then…..what happened?…. Read more »

“An Unwilling Subject: A Male Chastity Fantasy”

My goodness! I went to sleep wearing my Mueller ‘chastity cup’ and woke up wearing my CB-6000S cock cage. What happened? An intriguing story. Let’s see if I can remember this dream. I think I do. Here goes……

[Note: this dream sequence is a fabrication of an actual “living fantasy” and may be somewhat intense; reader discretion advised]

I awoke (in Day 3 of SR) wearing my Mueller chastity cup. Still somewhat sleepy, I am led downstairs where my clothes are quickly removed. The chastity cup is removed and put away. The next thing I know is that my cock is being lubricated and I am having a ball ring installed. It feels tight and very secure. My semi-flaccid penis is beginning to grow and it feels like it could blossom into a full-blown erection! Now, the cock cage is placed over my erect cock and I thought: There is no way that that cage is going on! It is an unwilling subject! But with gentle pressure for a minute or two and voila’ my erection is subsiding enough (little by little) for the cage to be slipped-on. It finally goes on. And with a ‘click’, I am put into a most secure chastity cage. One for which there is no escape and no key.
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I am led to a nearby location where I am told to lie down and relax. By now, my erection has grown inside the cage to the point that I can feel my balls swell and start to put much pressure on the cage. But there is no escape from this chastity device. I try to relax in it, turning over on my stomach. While there for a while, I feel a hand reaching beneath me and feeling for my prostate through my perineum. By now, it has started to swell and I feel the gentle massage on it. I feel my prostate starting to pulse like it wants to ejaculate. But I know that will not happen anytime soon. My horniness is starting to ratchet-up immensely! Fuck me, please! Somebody!
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After a while, I find myself back in my bed, awake and still wearing the cage. I remember more external massage of my swollen prostate while there. It feels good and I feel a sudden increase in my arousal level, so much so that given more time, I want to have an immediate Aneros session! My horniness level feels about as high as it can go! Read more »

Quite the Journey

**So**. I’ve been using one Aneros or another for about 9 years now. Breathing exercises, being calm and relaxed, making sure I have plenty of time, good setting, the whole 9 yards.

During that time, I’ve felt great things around my prostate, I’ve had powerful regular orgasms, I’ve seemed to get close to _something_, but, I’ve always felt like things were still focused around my penis (and specifically the glans).

I have also just fooled around with fingers and with dildos. I believe I have no anal hangups about this. I have supportive partners, we’ve even pegged (which I also just regular orgasmed after).

**Now**. Roughly a week ago I did my usual setup, had usual great feeling, etc. Then I had to get up to deal with something, and when I came back to bed, I just sort of flopped down, legs together, knees bent at roughly a 150 degrees, on my right side.

*Almost instantly* it felt different. More like I was being massaged from behind, rather than trying to massage myself like its always been. This feeling built up and built up. My hips started doing little thrusts by themselves and I felt more like I was getting fucked rather than trying to masturbate. My butt started to tingle unlike it has before, and I just sort of rode the sensation. It was almost like I was trying to stay on top of a knob of some sort. Read more »

“Still Having The Urge”

Still wearing my XO ProCup to bed. Woke up early (aroused as usual) and my prostate felt like it needed some relief. So I quickly lubed-up the HIH 950 and within a minute, began a most relaxing but stimulating session.

I decided to take a break from the SGX (which is more intense). Rather, the 950 provides my prostate with some gentle massage…..or so I thought! I suppose that due to the fact that I was already aroused and had a recent session with the SGX, my prostate was already “ready” to give me pleasure. It did not disappoint me. At one point during this ~45 minute session, I began to arch my back/hips while performing contractions and I immediately felt it in my prostate. I kept this up for a while and it actually felt like I was on my way towards a HFWO! I actually was moaning from the 950, if you can believe it! I am now having a sweet, delicate Aless, certainly not intense like the SGX but enough to let me know that my prostate is alive and well! Take care!
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PS As I have noted before and confirmed by @BigGlansDC, each prostate massager has its own unique “signature”. Take advantage of that when you are considering a session. Why hit your prostate with a baseball bat when a much smaller tool will do? If you only have one Aneros, please consider adding to your “collection” like I did. You won’t be disappointed! Just be sure to “choose wisely” —- think about what you are looking for in prostate pleasure and then go for it! Read more »

That delicious anal-prostate tingle & Aneros Tug-of-War technique : Sessions for Oct. 28 & Nov. 1, 2 & 3

Hi guys,

Saturday, October 28:

Many mornings recently I have been waking up with a most delicious prostate-anal tingle in my bunghole. That most masculine feeling is at the heart of my Aless these days. It is so wonderful to interact with this Aless with the Kegels, slow, gentle breathing, and at times, diddling my nipples, especially in bed at night.

Usually I have Aneros sessions first thing in the most when both my body and mind are at their freshest. That condition gives rise to some amazing Aneros sessions! Unfortunately I had to get a much needed haircut mid morning at a barber shop in my neighborhood. So I postponed my session to late in the afternoon when few telephone (telemarketer) calls arrive.

My session this evening was an Aneros full court press with my five usual Aneros models, Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE. It was a leisurely 1.5 hour session during I let my Aneros models work on me, each in its own way.

My Aless as I type this blog entry right now is strong and vibrant. I plan to go to bed in an hour or so tonight. That is the best time for me to focus upon my Aless. Amazing things happen in the dark late at night for me in bed when I do this.

Wednesday, November 1:

I had a brief hiatus on Monday and Tuesday earlier this week from my Aneros sessions since my last session last Saturday. Read more »