Tag: Relaxation

Priming the Aneros pump with Kegels and Reverse Kegels, Session for August 15

Hi guys,

During the last couple or so weeks, I have been practicing in a more concerted fashion the Kegel Exercises. I was spurred on a recent discussion of the Kegels on Aneros Forum.

Last year in August 2016, I composed a fairly detailed regimen for practicing the Kegel Exercises and posted in my Aneros blog and on the Forum. Little did I know that in the following month of September 2016, I began experiencing my first sustained Super-O’s and MMO’s both in sessions and out of sessions in Aless. It is especially so now that I can throw myself into an orgasmic state by merely stimulating or diddling my nipples anywhere I choose, especially at night in bed.

However, both Kegels and Reverse Kegels, I find, are useful for priming my Aneros pump which make for stupendous sessions. It seems that Aneros devices are well suited for the Kegels in that there seems to be a symbiotic relationship between the Kegels and Aneros. That has been my experience over the years.

Also I have found over the years that Kegeling while wearing an athletic cup and a jockstrap had made them even more powerful and pleasurable.

Early this morning for more than an hour I wore a Champion Sports athletic supporter and cup. The cup itself is a banana cup with a rather thick comfort gasket. This cup and supporter fits me securely and comfortably and is ideal for performing the Kegels and Reverse Kegels. So I engaged in this activity as extended foreplay and primed my erotic and horny pump for a session. Read more »

Progress + thoughts

I have made a ton of progress since my last time posting here. I can ooze a ton more now in a session, and I can get really strong P-Waves, but I haven’t reached another Super-O.

One thing I’ve realized though that’s helped me get strong waves was putting time between sessions. I think I was doing them too close to each other before, so I started putting a whole week in between them. I also withheld from masturbation.

The other thing I think that has helped me get closer was relaxing. I’m bad at that, but I remember the reason why I had my first, albeit short, Super-O, and that was because I was tired. It seems to me, being able to relax, and get to that point of almost falling asleep seems to be right where I need to get massive P-Waves.

So I’m making progress, and the key was that I wasn’t relaxing properly, I was still too focused on moving the Aneros, instead of relaxing and enjoying the ride. I’ve found too that certain other Hypno files I had worked better for relaxing even though they weren’t Aneros related.

A “Chastity Session”

What is a “chastity session”? Is it similar to an Aneros session? Yes and no; let me explain…….

I chose to sleep in my Bike jock with Mueller cup and it was a great combination. I am currently in Day 7 of SR and (you guessed it!) I am horny again! While still erect, I decided to have a session with the HIH 950. I lubed-up and actually inserted it in the bathroom. Then I went to lie-down in bed. What came next can only be described as an idyllic, erotic journey. I discovered several sets of pelvic floor muscle groups which I contracted and relaxed, first slowly and then more rapidly. Later on, some of these were auto-f**k contractions and started to blow me away! Since the 950 is so subtle on my prostate (unlike the Helix, Eupho and others) I felt a continuous rise in pleasure. I don’t believe I experienced any Dry-Os this time around in this 1-hour session, but I did experience some all-over body shakes and tingles. Toward the end, I have fallen-into a fantasy. I am with a male lover and he is caressing my pecs, underarms and nipples. Ohhh! I feel it building-up even more in my prostate. After an hour, I felt it was time to end this amazing session. BTW, I never even saw my cock due to the fact that the chastity “cup” remained on the entire time! Read more »

“This Session Went The Distance!”

I was up at about 2:00 AM still wearing my SD “chastity cup”. I wanted a session and started it with the HIH 950 as I usually do. But something about this session was different. For one, I started to feel an unusual prostate “tickle”. And I noticed that the perineum tab was “more in play” with this session than in any others. This combination had all the makings of a Super-O!

After a while, I began to experience some auto-f contractions which felt much like the “old days” when I was leading-up to a Super-O! At some point, I felt “something” in the lower part of my spine…..then I felt a “tingly” feeling in my legs. This was followed soon-after by a “tingling” in my arms as well. If I completely relaxed, I could feel a building-up of sensations within my prostate, almost to the point of MMOs! Perhaps that’s what they were…..but very subtle! I noticed that my cock became aroused and then soft several times during this session. In retrospect, I liken this session to those which I experienced with the Eupho Classic! So subtle…….but able to blow your socks off! After an hours’ worth, I felt it best to end this session and relax in the afterglow of Aless. I am not disappointed in this session at all!

PS The SD “cup” stayed on the entire time.

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The start of a p-wave?

I’ve had my aneros for about a few weeks now, and lately I’ve been experimenting with the “do nothing” approach. Yesterday I managed to have some interesting feelings doing this, I’m wondering if it was the start of a p-wave.

I started by laying on my side with the aneros in, doing some deep breathing exercises. I found that by focusing on the sensation of pressure against my prostate, I could get that feeling to spread, into my perineum and penis. At this point I started to get an erection. That was followed by a feeling of “fullness”, as if the aneros was getting larger inside of me. Then there was a sort of tingling numbness that started in my sphincter and spread to my butt cheeks. It wasn’t exactly a pleasurable feeling, but it was interesting. The whole thing lasted 20-30 seconds at which point I lost focus and the sensations stopped.

So, was this the start of a p-wave?

This feeling happened 2-3 more times, and each time I would lose focus or get too excited after a while and it would stop. Once I tried contracting slightly when it was happening, but that made it stop as well.

So, how can I encourage this feeling to continue building? It seems to me the key is relaxation, every time I would get too excited it would stop.

Anyhow, I wanted to share because I’m excited to be making some progress. I’m starting to enjoy my sessions for what they are, instead of wishing for more.

“Gentle Chastity”

Can male chastity come in different “flavors”? Like “intense” and “gentle”? An intriguing concept. My answer is a resounding “Yes!” Let me explain……..

It all started last night. I am soon to be in Day 11 of SR and feeling horny. I started some cuddling with my wife. And much to my surprise, she began to cuddle back! Ever so gently, she came up to me from behind and began caressing my stomach and worked her way down very slowly toward my soon-to-be-erect package. I still had my briefs on under my PJs. Before I knew it, she was very gently caressing the glans of my cock in slow, circling fashion. I began to lightly moan from the pleasure. It seemed to last at least 10 minutes. I honestly thought she was going to make me cum; I had no choice. But then, somehow, she seemed to sense that I was still in chastity (I don’t like to cum when in SR) and she slowly and deliberately disengaged her hands from my groin and let me cool-down. It worked!

It was time for bed and I changed into my night-time chastity “cup”, the SD Pro Ultra Carbon. I put it on and went to sleep. Waking up about 5 hours later, I got the sense that it was time for a more “gentle” chastity cup, so I switched to my Mueller cup and jockstrap. This pairing is the gentlest of all the cups and the jock is not too tight nor too restrictive. I can “grow” under the cup and it will allow sufficient room for expansion. I rested for a while in this “gentle” male chastity device……but then something else happened! Read more »

After weeks of not using the Aneros, I finally did just now, and my I got further with this session than I ever did. Just not there yet, sadly.

It’s been weeks since I last used my Aneros. Possibly 2 months. I had kind of given up. I haven’t done much anal play either with my dildo or nJoy Pure Wand. Been sticking to traditional masturbation for the post part. I guess I got too frustrated trying to have an anal/prostate orgasm.

But, recently I wanted to play with my ass once again. Just a sudden urge that came up.

Today I was too lazy to use the dildo or nJoy Pure Wand. And I was in a very “feminine” mood. Like, for some reason I wanted to play with my prostate. So I took out my Helix, lubed it up, and stuck it in.

First let me say that a few days ago I read somewhere on this thread some advice. One part of the advice was too “deep breath into my balls”. Which I immediately started doing. I didn’t do any contractions at all. Just deep breaths and relaxing on my side. One thing I noticed within a few minutes was my rectum was getting worked up a bit. Like, I was focusing on the sensation and could feel my blood rushing around in there. As a result, involuntarily contraction started.

Now I’ve done involuntarily contraction before, but it was always done mediocrely. However this time it was very consistent. This caused the Aneros to really get worked up in there. I kept focusing down there and kept the contraction going involuntarily by doing the deep breaths. Read more »

The motel Super O

Checked into a motel this past weekend to stay the night after a business meeting. The motel was very nice and had two rows of rooms separated by an interior hall. The front row of rooms faced the parking lot however the back row faced a grass covered hill. The motel had two floors and at the top of the hill was another hotel whose rooms looked down directly onto our rooms. I was in an end room that had a huge window at the back of the room so the stage was set for a very erotic adventure.
After spending the evening at the spa, the one I have written about before, in the hot tub and steam room I returned to the motel. I like to keep my private area shaved so I hopped in the shower and proceeded to touch up by shaving my cock, balls and stomach area. After showering I poured a glass of wine to help relax me and took a viagra
pill just to insure I would have a rock hard erection for the nights aneros session. While I was in the bathroom I gave myself several enemas to really clean me out so that my aneros toy could easily do its thing once inserted.
I signed onto a porn site and for the next 2 hours watched and listened to some really good porn which really turned me on. The viagra had started working after about 30 minutes so by now I had a very strong erection and was oozing precum even without my aneros toy inserted. It was about 1 am now and I was ready and anxious to enter aneros heaven, orgasm and shoot my load. I set up a soft cushioned chair in front of the window with its back leaning up against the bed.
I take testosterone shots and the one I had had two days ago had made me really horny so I was so ready to go. I went into the restroom and mixed up my lube. I used a water based lube, warming liquid and toothache drops to help ease the pain of inserting my aneros progasm which is large for my small anus. The warming liquid gives a great warming feeling inside my rectum. I used a bulb syringe and filled up my rectum with a good amount of lube. I then lubed up my toy and inserted it slowly until my anus quivered and sucked it in. It was a great feeling being filled up by my toy.
I wrapped a sheet around me for effect, turned off all the lights and walked across the room to the chair. But before I sat down and started, I opened up the curtain exposing the entire dark room to public scrutiny!
I sat down in the chair in front of the uncurtained window, put on my headphones, turned on my player and began listening to a fantastic narrated aneros journey by a very sexy lady Rummela!
The wine, the smoke, the viagra, her sexy almost mystical voice and my aneros all added to the fantastic orgasm I was about to have. I slowly allowed the draped sheet to fall from my body and to the floor exposing my very nude hairless body and a very hard erect cock. As I listened to Rummela and followed her sexy voice encouraging me to squeeze my buttocks and hold it until I was told to release the squeeze I began to slip into blissed ecstasy. I was encouraged to hold the squeeze longer and longer each time. Each time my progasm hit my prostate and forced it to ooze out more precum until it began to almost continually flow.
By now I was experiencing one mini orgasm after the next each time shaking uncontrollably until I was told to release. By now it was getting harder and harder with each squeeze and release to stop and avoid orgasm. I was so aroused I felt as I was going to just lose it any minute.
Finally Rumella said that this would be the final squeeze and I knew I was on my way to ecstasy. I squeezed and held it and then started to shake uncontrollably as my progasm hit my prostate with a vengeance. I couldn’t release the squeeze as I felt paralyzed to do so because of the intense pleasure I was experiencing. Then it happened, a wave of indescribable pleasure came upon me and as I slipped into what seemed unconsciousness, still shaking, I let out a huge, loud moan and orgasmed ejaculating my load violently. It took me about 30 minutes to finally calm down.
Later on as I cleaned up I realized the extent of my orgasm when I went to close the curtain and saw my cum splattered on the window! It was by far the most cum I have ever shot and probably the furthest distance I ever shot!
I know now that I definitely achieved a Super O!

My advice to newbies (xposted from r/sextoys)

Having a prostate experience is something that comes easily to very few people. It takes consistent training and focus to make work. It’s spoken of it as a sort of “rewiring.” It’s letting your body acclimate to a foreign sensation and eventually learn to bring great pleasure from it, and it takes time and effort, often great deals of both. I would start by having regular sessions with your toy of choice (I was always interested in the revo, but it’s too expensive for my tastes). I would also say that at least until you get accustomed to what sensations from your prostate feel like, to keep the power off. Adding vibration and rotation may add to the sensation later, but finding them in the first place is like learning the notes on a musical octave, it’s a lot easier to pick each note out when they’re played alone rather than with the accompaniment of an orchestra. Read more »

Questions on arousal and how to think during a session

So I’ve got a few questions about arousal and thought process during a session. I know the aneros does really do anything by itself, and you need to be around using it. I’m trying to determine what arousal really means. For example I can feel horny or think something is hot, but I don’t think that really elicits a physical response. If there’s porn on, it doesn’t really do anything except give me the urge to touch myself. If I’m touching myself I get a physical arousal response of an erection. The same if I’m trying to have a fantasy in my mind, it doesn’t really do much. However if I’m touching myself and fantasizing, I get a physical response and I can “engage” more with the fantasy. Should I be causing physical arousal response aka an erection before inserting? After inserting? How does arousal play into the use of aneros?

Following up on starting arousal, how should I be thinking of maintaining it throughout the session. Should I be fantasizing, listen to erotic audio with a story, try to keep my mind blank? I think some of the larger issue is I put the aneros in and have a now what response. It doesn’t feel wildly good just sitting there, practicing contraction is kind of meh, trying to just relax and feel things practically puts me to sleep. I’d like some thoughts on how to think/what to think during a session. I know everyone is different and there’s no right way, but currently using the aneros is about an hour of trying various things and then finishing myself off with my hand.