Tag: Relaxation

“Aroused…..And Holding”

Today as I notch-up to SR Day 11, I am as horny as ever. We had a great cool-down from 90 to 60 overnight. The past few nights for me have been unbelievable. I know I am close to a wet dream if I can just hang-on a little while longer. Yesterday, I had an incredible horniness, about the max I can endure without having to relieve my “misery”. I did feel like I was headed for blue-balls so that could have ended my SR run this time. I had erections for no apparent reason (but I know why). Early in the afternoon, I decided to put on my CB-6000S chastity cage and that was extremely arousing as well. My wife was not in too bad a mood, but there was nothing going on in bed, so I called it a night.

Overnight, I had the most extreme feeling in my chastity cup ever and honestly felt like I could blow my load at any moment. But I hung-on and endured a couple of hours of erections. Later on this morning, I decided it was time for a prostate milking, so I tried the HIH 950 this time with Boy Butter which I am trying again for the first time. Wow! Now I know why I like BB. It allows the massager to glide-in effortlessly, is not messy, lasts the entire session and cleans-up with water! What could be simpler? Unlike other milking sessions, this one began with an erection and it stayed-there almost the entire time. It wasn’t until near the end that the erection subsided and with that, the horniness (at least for now). After removing the 950, I have an Aless feeling that allows me to feel my pulsing prostate inside of me. When will I blow my load? Don’t know now………but the wait is exquisitely arousing! I have started to swim again after a 2-1/2 week absence due to sciatica and physical therapy sessions….I am better now. The water is cooler and that will be arousing as well. Read more »

Tips for relaxation?

I’ve been struggling to relax during my sessions for the past month or so. What do you guys do to relax?

“No Exceptions, No Release: An Intense Male Chastity Fantasy”

Wow! This fantasy started-out in a most mundane way. It was about 2:30 AM and I am in Day 18 of SR. I thought I should do a milking. So I proceeded with a 45-minute session. But it wasn’t all that arousing. Perhaps I am milking too frequently? But these milking sessions do help me avoid blue-balls. Anyway, when this session was over, I got an immediate sense to return to my male chastity cup…NO EXCEPTIONS! I proceeded and then went to lie-down and select an appropriate musical track.

What came next was completely unexpected and yes, somewhat scary. Little did I know then that this fantasy has already begun. Let me explain…..

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I selected a track on YouTube which seemed appropriate: “2 Hours The Hottes Erotic Vocal Lounge – SPICY LOVE Relaxing Romantic Sensual Music” and it was without doubt the most fitting track for a fantasy ever! In a nutshell, I am transported to another place, another time. I believe that English is not even the language spoken. I am still in chastity but this time, there is a big difference: there will be NO RELEASE for me! That means that I am in male chastity 100% of the time, forever. I will never be allowed to cum again! This feeling was very pervasive and was very real. It completely caught me by surprise; I never expected it. But as I continued to listen, I feel a sense of inevitability that this was the ultimate male chastity fantasy and I am now a part of it. Read more »

“Male Chastity: Rebuke, Reward & Punishment”

Rebuke—My wife’s mood turned decided negative yesterday and I knew I would easily “slide-into” Day 16 of SR. I don’t know what I did but knew I didn’t have a chance in the bedroom. I awoke about 1:30 AM this morning again with a raging erection and a wet-dream feeling that I have had almost every night for the past few nights. I am wearing my hard “chastity” cup.

Reward—Slipping-into a living fantasy, I am given permission to remove my cup and switch to a tight brief (actually a Speedo square-leg trunk) with a towel inside to catch a release if it should come. I am told to go have some “fun” while out of chastity. What a reward! I quickly retreated to the sofa and began listening to some relaxing and stimulating tracks. (Now realize that I want to be in SR longer and so had no desire to ejaculate today).

A couple of the tracks had some lightly embedded binaurals for sexual stimulation and I thought I would give a listen (not too arousing). Good! But I must have relaxed too much and lost track of the time since the next thing I know is that I am fully erect and aroused listening to some ASMR sounds with a very cock-erecting binaural sweep. These were auto-generated by YouTube. I was not anticipating this. OMG! I am being stimulated now to a near ejaculation and I feel it approaching! I feel my groin starting to tense-up in anticipation. Is this what I want? The answer was obviously “no”, not now. So, difficult as it was, I stopped listening immediately, still super-horny. I began to try to cool-down and was instructed to quickly don the chastity cup again. I fear that I may have edged too far this time… Read more »

My Cock Feels Right “At-Home” In Chastity

Thought I should note a few things concerning my chastity “play”. I have been in chastity for about a month now, about 16 hours a day (combined day/night). I have had no issues with my CB-6000S: no soreness, no accidental release (even when erect). It is very secure. The fit is perfect!

I am finding now, particularly when practicing semen retention (currently in Day 10) that when released from chastity in the morning, I will feel an extreme arousal and/or erection. It is almost as if my cock “knows” it has freedom for a short while and needs to take advantage of the situation. Also, my cock and testicles have become more sensitive to touch and this combined with the increased horniness I am feeling is almost too much at some times! I can see why some guys locked in long-term chastity by their keyholders have to be watched (or have their hands tied) when they are released. The temptation may be just too much, too soon!

I no longer seem to suffer from “blue-balls” since regularly practicing prostate milking with the HIH 950. It must be doing my prostate good; otherwise, I would have had to masturbate to ejaculation by now. I’ll see how far in SR I can go this time. I don’t have an end-goal in mind. Read more »

Day 35 – end of 5th attempt

Well, had an amazing session with a friend of mine yesterday. I had been planning to end the semen retention challenge around Day 34, but due to scheduling a friend of mine pushed that out to day 35. Even then, I had sort of told myself that I might end it, might not. I was just going to see how I feel. If things die down during the session naturally, I’ll leave it at that. Otherwise, I’ll give myself permission to ejaculate and really enjoy it.

Well, 4 hours into the session, things were not dying down. I separated orgasm from ejaculation about 2 years ago, and am quite good at it, but the last week or two of the semen retention challenge gave me even better control I think. So while trying to cum near the end of the session, I was actually having a hard time letting go. But the orgasms I was causing were amazing, lasting 2 or 3 minutes. It just seemed to be continuous orgasm.
That actually sometimes happens at the end of longer sessions anyways, but it seemed extra special 🙂

When I did cum, it was amazing. I covered my face and blew right over my head a few squirts. The ejaculation probably lasted about 20-30 seconds, so much longer than usual. We decided to ejaculate again about 15 min later and that was also a lot and very strong. Read more »

“Male Chastity: Seriously Leaking Precum”

Wife returned last night; too tired to do anything. I slept in my SD Ultra Carbon Cup jock until about 4 AM. Switched to CB-6000S and went to lie down with some relaxing music. Went through at least 2 erection cycles and they felt amazingly good. Rock-hard balls and a rhythmic throbbing from my cock. Felt some precum oozing.

Had to pee after some breakfast. Sat down to go; when I got up there was a precum “string” leading straight down into the toilet! OMG! How is that possible? I suppose my system was filled-to-the-point-of-overflowing! My! I feel sexy today! I am currently in a new Day 4 of SR.

“Playtime In Chastity – I Must Have Been A Very Good Boy”

I finally got some cuddle-time with my wife last night. Not long, but long enough. She will be out of state this weekend so I will be all alone in the house (with our golden retriever). Yesterday, I researched the effects of sleeping nude on the possibility of a wet dream. So, upon retiring, I removed everything and settled-in for a relaxing night. It really is relaxing…..I awoke about 6 hours later with an arousing erection, squirming around on the bed and it felt really good. (But the sheets were dry – no wet dream for me yet!)

I decided to do a prostate stim session with the HIH 950. This one lasted about 1 hour and, as always, was gentle and amazingly sensual. I am wearing my swimmer’s jock for support, although I think my cock was flaccid most of the time. What I distinctly remember about this session were the auto-contractions which seemed to be non-stop. When this session was over, I felt the inside of my jock and it was wet! when I went to remove it, I was surprised to find that the massager had moved outward about 1/2″.

I transitioned to the sofa where I found a couple of good relaxing tracks on YouTube. Then, I was “treated” to a special binaural track: “Hands Free Orgasm 5: Multiple Ejaculation and Sexual Climax (ASMR and Binaural). Holy shit! This one worked entirely hands-free! It took about 30 minutes but towards the end, I could not stop it. I had a couple of tissues in place to catch the cum. And when I came, it felt amazing! I am relaxed, less horny and ready to explore the upcoming weekend! Read more »

“Learning To Let Go & Male Whole-Body Orgasm”

Thanks to @SOWithoutAneros for inspiring this amazing session! In a recent reply to another Aneros user, he suggested that he just had to learn to “let go”. Here is the background as I remember it…….

It started with a good positive attitude, which actually started yesterday in the pool of all places! While swimming, I got the strong sensation that as I approach people in life, I could either bring to them a dark cloud or a ray of sunshine! And I obviously want what is best for me and for them. So I carried this feeling all throughout the day yesterday and felt amazing.

This morning, I am relaxing in my new Shock Doctor 218 jockstrap with cup pocket. I use my Ultra Carbon cup and it feels amazing. I actually slept in it last night for the first time. I awoke about 2:30 AM with an incredible erection and a horny feeling that was extremely arousing. This carried me over into the next phase……

I am now chilling with a nice track on YouTube that I have experienced many times before: “DJ Fotis – Music For Sex (Round 4)”. And while listening to this track, I began to meditate……. Read more »