Tag: Relaxation

I had a pretty pleasurable session last time.

Last time must’ve been my 8th or 9th (I’ve lost track to be honest haha) session. This time, I decided to put some mild pornography. What I mean by mild is that I didn’t put pornography from a porn site like PornHub or XNXX. I put on some late night movie from the HBO GO app. For the most part I wasn’t really watching, just had it there in the background and would only really take a glance (I try not my best not too masturbate too porn much nowadays).

Anyways, here’s something interesting that happened. This happened days before my last session. I noticed something weird with my legs after my second to last session. I noticed that if I mentally focused on my legs, I would feel these waves of pleasures when I would lying down on my bed. Lying on my side. As if my legs were feeling a slight orgasm. Nothing too pleasurable, just something that I felt quite nice. Like I said, I discovered this AFTER my second to last session. So I did not have Aneros in me or anything. Read more »

Male Chastity T/D Fantasy: “I Want You To Leak (Again and Again)”

My lover insists that I wear a chastity “cup” at night and I oblige. I woke up at about 3 AM with a semi-erect cock and just wanted to chill. So I start listening to a nice track: “Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1”. It was very relaxing and put me in the mood for what was to follow.

While listening, I had fallen-into a “living fantasy” and had a strong desire. My lover wants to arouse me within my “cup” and wants to use my anal and prostate vibrator on me. So she takes hold of it and before I know it, I have fallen-into a most erotic fantasy…….

My hands are now tied-up and I cannot see what she is doing to me (but I am not blindfolded). Before long, I feel the intense vibratory pleasure on my “cup”. Suffice it to say that it was an intensely arousing“session”. She stimulated me all around the cup, including my perineum and external prostate. Then she maneuvered the vibrator around my anal depression and arranged it in a way that when I relaxed, I could feel the vibrator “drilling-down” into my anus and I was getting hard all over again. It was a wildly erotic feeling and I couldn’t bear much more. I heard her whisper: “I want to know you are leaking inside your cup”. My moans were uncontrollable. I had relaxed beneath my cup just long enough for her to start-up all over again…..and again…. And then that is when I must have lost it……… Read more »

How do you guys trigger involuntary contractions?

I’ve had minor involuntary contractions that lasted a couple seconds a few sessions ago. Feel so damn warm and amazing, but I haven’t been able to do them again in the last 3 sessions. Haven’t even been able to enjoy my toy.

Today I had an hour and a half of a session. I tried doing the “do nothing method”. I literally did nothing at all for the first 45 minutes. I was just in my favorite relaxing position (lying on my stomach). I was also very relaxed and closed my eyes a bit. Tried my best to focus on my rectum to feel whatever sensations I could. Had a few split second feelings, but nothing amazing. Went from completely relaxed and then began doing contraction because I didn’t feel like the do nothing method was working for me. Stopped using it after a while.

How do you guys trigger those contractions? Feel like my body isn’t capable of doing involuntary contractions.

“Male Chastity: Prostate And Anal Play”

I had been relaxing in the early AM wearing my “pseudo chastity cup” (my Shock Doctor Pro Ultra Carbon Cup) when it dawned on me: just because I am unable to touch or play with my cock doesn’t mean that I can’t play with my anus and my prostate. So, thanks to the observations of @Fred27 and @Orgasmic19 in some recent Forum posts, I reached down-below and began doing an external prostate massage by massaging my perineum close to the cup. And something amazing happened! I began to get hard almost immediately and felt my prostate swelling. When it did, it seemed to provide some “feedback” through the narrow portion of the cup near that area. Thus began a feedback-loop (similar to Aneros) where I felt an intensity of prostate pleasure building up. I just laid there and began thrusting into the sofa with each pulse of my erect cock.

A little while later, I did a similar probing around and slightly into my anus (through clothing of course) and I could feel another intense wave of pleasure from my prostate. I kept this up for a while and then it dawned on me…….

Guys like me that are in male chastity aren’t really deprived of sexual arousal. Yes, we can’t have normal erections but as far as the prostate goes, all of us chaste guys have one and it is capable of providing intense pleasure if we know how to stimulate it. I learned that this morning. Another “fringe benefit” of chastity and penile abstinence is that I can be more focused and listen for the “whispers” coming from my prostate. They are definitely there! Sometimes the whispers are so soft, they can be overlooked. But if I stay focused and listen, I can “hear” them! Read more »

Reaching a Super O with ADD/ADHD

Hello there guys I have a question for you.
As the title suggest I was wondering if there is anyone out there who has experienced a Super O before with ADD/ADHD.
I myself have ADD and I know it is extremely difficult for me to completely release my mind of any other thoughts while trying to relax. As I read before relaxation is one of the most important parts of reaching a Super O. What some people with ADD/ADHD have though is a hyper focus mode, where they can focus on one specific thing if they are really into it. I think I am able to do that during regular masturbation. I am considering buying a prostate massager and I would like to reach a Super O with it. Maybe this is a silly question but before I would buy one I was just curious if anyone has any experience with trying to reach a Super O with the complications of ADD/ADHD.

waking the sleeping giant

With out getting into much detail, due to a family medical issue i had to relocate for a couple of months and did not and could not use my aneros. It has been over 3 months since my last session. since i got back there is always someone home at my house at all times and I have no privacy or time to have a session. I could not take it any longer today. There was someone in the house but i went up to get a shower and get dressed. The aneros was calling me from the closet where they have been put away for the last three months. i grabbed my coconut oil, my gel lube and my ps-new and closed the bathroom door. i lubed up my ass and the toy like there was no tomorrow i was not worrying about staining the sheets or making a mess on a towel. i put one foot up on the counter and reached around and inserted the toy. It felt amazing going in and almost like one of the first times. i stood in front of the mirror and had a little trouble keeping it in at first, gravity and excess lube wanted it to slip out. I never really tried it standing up before. I pushed it back in and gave a good contraction to set it in place. Then the body took over and new what to do. It slowly pulled itself in and relaxed in place. wow it felt good so there i was naked in front of the mirror aneros in place now what? I started some nipple stimulation and things started heating up. I could really feel the p tab applying pressure standing up and the aneros felt larger than normal and like it was in farther than normal. I tied to relax and breath slowly i could feel it slightly move in and out with my breathing. Then the warm full feelings started in my prostate area as i looked at myself in the mirror and played with my nipples. I felt like Iwas going to start getting a erection but i did not. Standing up was a little bit of a distraction but things where moving in the right direction. I tried to relax more and let go but knowing someone was just in the other room and standing up i could tell I was going to have to end the session. lube was running down my legs, i would grab some and use it on my nipples, I was heating up and if i could have moved to the bed I think Iwould have been in for a suprise. Now I have created a monster, my prostate wants more and so do I. My desire had slacked off with the long layoff but it did not take long to re wire. I will need to get creative with my sessions and hopefully will get some alone time soon. so looking forward to the next time. Sorry not alot of good details about my session but the groundwork is set for the next one.

The Journey Begins!

So my first aneros was supposed to come in the mail Wednesday. All day at university I was impatient, because I had abstained from getting off (just a day, but it was one of those days when temptation was really distracting). I was done with classes relatively early in the afternoon, and was excited because I knew I would have the apartment to myself all evening.

Silly me for thinking anything from USPS ever arrived on the tracking date in this damned town.

When it became clear the package wasn’t coming, I went ahead and got off the old primitive way.

The next day, about an hour before I had to leave for school, and while my roommate was in the shower, I got a text notification saying the package had arrived, and so I stealthily went to our mailboxes and picked it up. Back inside, I opened it as quickly and quietly as I could, and my roommate came out asking where I had gone, since he heard me going in and out.

I, the worst liar ever, looked suspicious and said: “I NEEDED SOMETHING FROM MY CAR.” I had hidden the package before he walked in the room and so I don’t know what exactly I would have said I needed if he had asked. But he didn’t press me. Read more »

Can using a dildo after the Aneros ruin the rewriting process?

I was using my Aneros last night. Used it for an hour. As per usual, I didn’t get any where. It was my 5th time I think. I’ll get some pleasure every now and then but not often. This is really frustrating. I’m usually relaxed when using the Aneros, but even then it just seems like I can’t take those couple of seconds of pleasure anywhere.

I removed the Aneros after and hour and I was just really frustrated. I felt that I still very lubed up when I removed it. I still had an hour left before my parents got home so I said what the heck, I’m going to use my dildo. And god damn, did it feel amazing. When I use the Aneros, I try my best to feel every single detail of the toy in my anus. So I guess my anus has become a little more sensitive is some way. So having a dildo in my felt so much better than before. Before I got my Aneros, I used to use this dildo while masturbating. It has vibrating option as well. But back then it would only feel good when I masturbating the regular. I would never get anywhere by just simply thrusting the dildo in me. Read more »

[Life Hack] I’ve been at this for 6 years, let me share a secret with you.

Let me preface this by stating I haven’t yet achieved the legendary hand-free Super-O, but I’ve been trying for a while now so I’ve gotten extremely efficient at trying. But this hack has kicked things into overdrive for me and I figured I’d share.

Now, everyone will tell you this is all about correct muscle movement, relaxation, and focus on subtle feelings from within a part of your body you’re not used to focusing on, and they’re not wrong, but there’s something extra you can do to help.

First: Figure out where inside your body you prostate is, use your finger to find the depth of your prostate (it’ll feel like you have to pee when you’ve found it, but you knew that). Compare your finger depth to the length of your aneros. You might find that the point at the end is further from your prostate is than you thought. I found that the Helix I had was too long and ended up missing my prostate by a half inch or so. Admittedly this took me years to discover and cost me hundreds of dollars in other toys.

The Hack: So, if you’re like me, the Helix is missing the right spot by a small amount but holding it in the right place by hand is either difficult or uncomfortable for long periods of time. My solution? **A loop of string.** Read more »

Day 6 of 3rd attempt

Made it through Day 5! I ended up having a long session last night – started with about 90 min of sex, then about 60 min solo session just stroking myself.

I felt like I was “pretty close” almost the whole time during intercourse, which lasted about 45-60 min. Had to go slow a lot, and for some minutes just stayed completely still – even that was enough to have me orgasm a lot. I did get a little closer than I wanted – I found that if I thought I was close, it was better just to stay with the orgasm, thrusting in rhythm and die down with the orgasm. A sudden stop, or sudden contraction was way worse than just relaxing and making slight adjustments to rhythm. So that was good. I lost my erection maybe 2-3 times during the course of the 90 min of sex, so thats not bad – it came back within 2-3 min most of the time.

I was still horny after sex, so stroked my cock slowly for 60 min after and didn’t have any close calls there either, just lots of nice orgasms.

Really good Day 5. Today is Day 6. I still got sex on my mind quite a bit. The videos at 21daychallenge.com calls these few days like around 3-6 hell days because dopamine levels are still really low or something like that. But I feel good, so not sure.