Just keeps getting better and.better! Once have learned to totally relax and use different muscles to move my ice anything is possible! Pure pleasure in different moments! Once lubed and inserted I start out on my stomach and control breathing once ice is in as far as it will go! Get the most pleasurable sensations by letting it go in and hold while exercising the inner muscle in short bursts! Then roll over on my back while supported with pillows and arch my back with quick hold and relax with limp penis flopping – the feeling is out of this world as the ice moves within! Pure ecstasy!
Tag: Relaxation
Day 5 of 3rd attempt
Was feeling pretty average last night, not a depleted feeling of sexual energy, but not reved up either. I was walking home from gym in evening and thought about having sex later that evening, but couldn’t decide if i was really in the mood for it. Also, I didn’t really want to risk cumming and thought I’d just be safer if I was by myself. Decided to wait till weekend to have sex and did a solo session instead.
Started with Maximus and got pretty aroused pretty fast. I w as hard most of the session. I used that for about an hour and had a great session with that, pretty strong orgasms. Was also using my hand a little to really slowly stroke my cock. I really paid attention to how slow strokes and relaxing into the orgasm work really well. If I started stroking hard/fast, I could really feel how the ejaculation reflex can come out of nowhere and get close really fast without realizing. It’s like the stroking really fast was causing me to tense up around my groin area and I didn’t have enough time to just relax into the rhythm of an orgasm. I think that is an important lesson I need to remember going forward.
A “Virtual” Aneros Session….Amazing!
An amazing session! Here is the background……
I was in Day 6 of SR and chastity. My wife was feeling better after a week with a stomach bug. Anyway, we lay down in bed just relaxing and watching TV when I reached out to her to cuddle. I began to get an erection, but this one wouldn’t go down. It remained hard and just got harder. I began to get aroused and she felt it. She began a most-erotic, gentle tease of my cock and after about 25 minutes, I was thoroughly wet. I knew I would have to go-off or suffer the consequence of blue-balls. I didn’t have a towel handy so I went to get one and returned. I got it into position and my wife took over from there (knowing I am in chastity, she gave the green-light). She proceeded to finish me off with some mind-blowing ball massage and cock-work. I didn’t last long, I ejaculated with an incredible amount of cum! My pelvis was tingling for several minutes afterwards.
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Fast-forward to this morning; I am “locked” in my pseudo-chastity-cup and found an interesting track on YouTube: “Tantric Deep Lounge” by G.I. Joe. I started listening and could feel my cock twitching beneath my cup. I started performing some kegels but not knowing where this was going. After a while (I lost track of time) I began to feel an unmistakable clenching in my prostate and it was a prostate orgasm! Now realize I have stopped my “formal” Aneros sessions months ago. But this “session” felt like I never stopped! Things settled down for a short while, but started-up all over again! OMG! A MMO! During this session, I had the usual moans, deep-breathing, shaking and euphoria. I guess you could say that the Aneros re-wiring is indeed permanent! I probably could have lasted longer, but, alas, it was time to get-up.
The Plateau again – how to kickstart something else?
Yesterday I had another session, a long one, and this time I tried to use Mgx.
It resulted in the same pattern I have when I can feel something else than “blackground pleasure”.
And what it is? The plateau.
For 2 hours or so I was in a state of relaxed pleasure, more than background pleasure, but not having amazing pleasure.
What’s frustrating is that when I get to that state I feel that I’m close to something great, but never get there.
My prostate barely moves, and I think my body needs somehow how to spark the prostate into having involuntary contractions in this stage.
I prefer to do nothing and wait – nipples don’t lead to the right place, and I want to be “surprised” by pleasure, I want it to come to me.
During this time sometimes I feel a little more pleasure and my penis can go semi-hard or hard. Sometimes I can feel a faint pleasure pulse in the prostate, but it fades and goes nowhere.
It’s frustrating because I “know” if the prostate starts spasming by itself at this stage it will be wonderful. It’s the feeling of being so close but unable to reach it.
How can I, doing nothing, teach my prostate to have involuntary movements and trigger “real” sexual pleasure?
“Why Is The Do-Nothing Method So Effective? I Have An Idea”
I was up early this morning and just decided to chill-out on my favorite sofa. I found a nice track or two on YouTube and, with headphones on, began to relax. New for me this morning: I decided to see if I can COMPLETELY RELAX my PC muscles/anus and anything else within that could possibly be tensed-up. I started in earnest for about 10 or 15 minutes. But then, something strange happened……..I couldn’t hold this “do-nothing” any longer! I began to feel a strange, hard-to-describe “fatigued” feeling down-there that was unmistakable. And about the same time, I began to experience what I would call an Aless auto-fuck. That is the way it felt and I couldn’t stop it. Yes, I could temporarily “hold” the feeling and pretend to be completely relaxed…….but it didn’t last too long.
After a while in this mode, I began to get a whole-body arousal feeling which forced me to convulse a bit on the sofa. I felt my prostate “alive” with energy and my suspicion is that it is always contracting and relaxing…….although we are not usually attuned to that feeling. How many times during the day do you feel your anus contract and then relax, if only a little bit? Probably (in my case) too many to count. Is it involuntary or voluntary? Why do I do this? I don’t know the exact answer but I suspect that it is related to what I experienced this morning. Oh, the marvels of the male physique!
Got an Aneros Helix two weeks ago and WOW.
I played around with it in maybe six sessions. Sometimes not much, other times some really good sensations. Not sure if I was doing it right or it’s the right size. Then Saturday, I had some time alone and got serious, relaxed and lubed up, put aside expectations and just gently chased the pleasure for an hour or more. Then WOW. I can’t believe it feels this good. Then over the top. Three dry O’s in a row. I take it out because I think I’ve had enough. My body has different ideas. I come again. And again. I’m starting to worry that I might not stop cumming. I come two or three more times and it’s mostly over except for the awareness that something’s clicked and I get it now.
So a big thanks to the other posters who’s advice has made this possible.
Today was my first Aneros sessions! My experience was kind of…. mixed.
So today I received my Aneros Helix Classic through the mail. Opened it as soon as I got home. I wasn’t sure to start then or start tonight, but man I was so desperate to try it out so I did. I used astroglide as lube. In bed on my back and legs bent.
Now, I didn’t have too much trouble with the contractions. I’ve actually been doing kegels for like a month already. So my PC muscles aren’t exactly weak. I was just doing repeated contractions. I never hold them. At first I didn’t feel anything. But I expected this. The more contractions I did, the more I felt I got the feel of the toy. As a result, the more relaxed I felt. Once I got the feel it, my attention went to my anus/prostate. I was actually feeling the toy thrust inside of me and felt the tip massaging the wall, prostate. And then started feeling so pleasure. I felt like I was having an orgasm for a while once I felt the tip of the toy massaging my prostate. Started feeling good. But I guess since I’m new and my muscle are barley using the toy for the time, I couldn’t consistently massage the prostate while I was being pleasure so the pleasure went away. Took out the toy and lubed it up again as I was getting dry. Tried my best to get that orgasmic feeling again, but couldn’t. But I was still enjoying the toy any ways and kept doing contractions for a while, even tried 3 different positions.
But weirdly, the toy stop feeling good. And instead of pleasure, I felt like the toy was scrapping the walls of my rectum. I’m not sure why. It’s possible my anus wasn’t lubed enough. Like I don’t think it was massaging my prostate any more. So I stopped. Ended the sessions there. I think I may use the toy again tonight though! I was so fun and I hope the scrapping won’t happen again.
First session with generally positive feelings, not sure what happened though.
So I got myself the MGX classic about a month ago. I’ve been having my 30-60 min sessions once/twice every week. Accommodating the MGX was never an issue since the beginning, as a matter of fact, that last bit of suction when sliding it in was probably the most pleasurable point during my sessions.
So today, I had 90-100 min session with the MGX. First 20 mins was just relaxation and setting the mood right. I started off on my left side, with right leg flexed and left leg straightened for the insertion. And the flexed my left leg and brought the knees as high as I could and close to my chest.
I was trying out the “do nothing” approach. Because manual contractions have done nothing for me so far. There were a few anal contractions because the MGX was in my rectum but I wouldn’t call it spasms. I switched over to my right, and then on my stomach with legs spread wide which was very pleasurable. This is when I also started watching some of my favorite videos, and I could definitely feel relaxing out more than usual, and the MGX being sucked in deeper. I also got urges to pee, so I took that as a positive thing. After about 40 mins on my stomach, I switched to being on my back, which watching something fun. I leaked a drop or two, but I can’t tell if it was prostatic fluid or urine. Eventually the urge of peeing increased a lot, and I just wanted to follow that feeling through and I squirted out quite a bit of a watery discharge. I cannot tell if this was urine or not. I couldn’t really smell anything in it. But the consistency was very watery just like urine. I had a huge thick towel underneath me, so I thankfully didn’t wet the friggin bed (it discharge shot out in a stream).
“The Microcosmic Orbit” Experience
I was just chilling this morning (in pseudo-chastity) thinking I would perform some Aless contractions. Little did I know that instead of an Aneros “Aless” session, I performed what I know now to be a “Microcosmic Orbit” meditation. It took some time to research, but I believe what I felt was a definite “circular” energy quite distinct from a typical Aless (prostate) experience. For one thing, some of the energy was directed through the perineum and not the prostate. This circular energy flow was gentle and I was in a very relaxed state when performing it. In some way, it was almost like a whole-body orgasm, but different. Not at intense, for one. I felt the energy progress from the perineum, up the spine to the brain and then back down through the front of my body. This pattern repeated generally with my breathing.
PS I knew virtually nothing about the microcosmic orbit prior to this morning. Interesting how the body “knows” what to do with the energy!
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“Male Chastity: I’m Leaking!”
Having been in chastity a while now (on average), I have read about “leaking” precum and the fact that some guys need to use protection (eg, pantiliners or panties) to catch the leaking. I have not had this problem…..yet! However, this morning, something unusual happened. I am in Day 6 or SR and needed to do my weekly prostate “milking”. So I prepared the Mangasm Flux prostate beads and proceeded with a 15-20 minute session. I did get out about 6 drops or so of fluid and probably could have gone for more. But I stopped and went to lie down and relax. I got the urge to put back on my Shock Doctor “pseudo” chastity belt. When I went back to lie down again, I began to get a strange feeling like I was peeing. Only it wasn’t pee! It was precum! I felt it coursing through my penis and had no control over it! This feeling lasted well over 45 minutes and then started to subside. Would this be a regular occurrence while in chastity? I believe so. It is somewhat annoying but it feels good at the same time. One of the side- effects of male chastity.
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