Tag: Relaxation

Small Steps

So I’ve been reading this Reddit for a while. Finding it reignited my interest in my aneros (which is a classic). I purchased it about 6 years ago, but never used it much.

I started again using it right around Christmas last year and have used it about every couple weeks. The first 3 times I’ve used it, i didn’t experienced much. I would hold a mild contraction to initiate the desired involuntary spasms, which would feel great, but that would subside very quickly. The second time I used it I layed on my left side (right leg folded up) and just layed there holding a small contraction. After about 20 min or so several small waves pulsed through my abdomen and my hips had a gentle shake. The 3rd time was kind of a dud and not much happened other than getting some involuntary contractions.

Today was a pretty productive session. I started on my left side and had some pretty pleasurable sensations with a gentle hold. After about 30 min I turned to my back with a pillow under my hips. And just held a mild contraction (on a scale of 1-10, probably a 5) for a few min then let it go and return, etc. after about 20 min I felt a warm sensation build in my lower abdomen. My hips started a gentle shake. After a couple min of this I could feel a very pleasurable sensation where the aneros was hitting (I assume my prostate). I concentrated on this area and kept telling myself to relax. Then all of the suddden the involuntaries hit hard and contracted could feel the aneros hitting my prostate hard. I had no control. It felt incredible. This went on for a couple min then subsided. This repeated itself again. I probably had 3 experiences like this in an hour period. I know this wasn’t a superO, but definitely my most productive session. Read more »

Different Positions

So the night before last I laid down to have a session, and I did it the way I always do: on my back, legs bent, pillow under my hips. And it was not a great session. Not bad, but not every session is the best, you know? So last night I went for another session (normally I wait a day or two between sessions).

This time, however, I did something different: I laid on my side. Legs together and bent at the knees as well as bent at the hips. This actually took a bit longer to relax with my progasm, but I just kept my breathing going and just concentrated on relaxing my body.

Despite how it took longer to relax my anus to the progasm, it was far more comfortable for the rest of my body to be on my side. And once I started feeling really relaxed, and I could feel the progasm resting perfectly where it should (I swear it feels like it just belongs there) the real session began.

Now I still dont think I have has a super O, based on descriptions, however what I DID has was sheet-gripping, moan inducing, full bodied quivering orgasms. I have had prostate orgasms before, and they are amazing. This was hands down my biggest. I was moaning normal moans at first, but that quickly turned to “I dont know what animal this is, but he sounds sick” noises. And I couldnt care less. It was amazing. The only reason I stopped was being exhausted and the lube drying out. Read more »

Pleasurable feelings

I thought to ask this as I was writing a comment on another post.
The other day I had an awesome session. As I said earlier, it wasn’t mind-blowing, but it was definitely pleasurable. The thing is, I was feeling physical pleasure itself. But also, I was having a kind of feeling of pleasure. I don’t know how to describe it. It was like happiness or like euphoria… I don’t know, but it helped the session. I guess it’s way better to have this feeling that helps the mood, rather than being totally calm and relaxed, almost getting asleep.
Has this happened to any of you? Was it good for the sessions or was it a super-o killer because of not being calm…?
I guess, either way, it was enjoyable and pleasurable, and I don’t regret it 😀

Recently purchased a helix-syn – not feeling anything

Hey everyone,

I recently purchased an Aneros helix-syn, and was super excited to try it out. The first time I used it, I couldn’t really feel much of anything. I emptied bowels out before, tried to relax, get aroused etc., but after 30 minutes or so I just couldn’t feel anything. I tried again yesterday, and tried for about 45 minutes, and still couldn’t feel anything. I’ve massaged my prostate with my fingers before, but I can’t get that sensation at all with the helix-syn. Is there something I’m doing wrong? I’m 6’3″, is there a chance that it just isn’t my size? I’ve done everything in the guides (as far as I know); relaxing for 10-20 minutes after putting it in, light contractions, stronger contractions etc., still nothing. I’m hoping this isn’t just a waste of money, any help would be greatly appreciated!

“A Ruined Orgasm”

I have read about a “ruined orgasm” while in male chastity but never suspected I would experience one. Let me explain……

I was in Day 13 or SR and chastity and had worn my CB-6000S for six hours yesterday. My wife wanted some action last night and wanted to cuddle. But no sooner did I start that I developed a rock-hard erection which she felt. We “cuddled” for a while but I told her that I needed to cum; would she allow me? She said “yes” and I told her that SHE alone needed to get me off. So I pulled-down my PJs and told her to “do her thing”. (I would not touch my cock at all). Well, it was less than a minute that I felt an intense welling-up in my groin and an impending ejaculation which I suspected would feel great. But something else happened. I experienced not intense rhythmic pulses of white semen but rather an almost continuous flow of semen (like from a hose) which pooled on the waiting towel as well as on her hand! In just a few short seconds, it was over! Did I just ejaculate? I had to look at the towel to be sure. Was this a ruined orgasm? I know now that it was. Immediately afterwards, I still felt like I could cum again, and tried myself. But it seemed that I was already into my refractory period and would just have to wait. Read more »

“Male Chastity: Going The Distance”

I have been flip-flopping between my PrisonBird and CB-6000S chastity cages. I am now preferring the CB-6000S since it is “unmodified” and is actually quite comfortable. I can wear it our in public and am up to about 6 hours of continuous wear. I have not slept through it yet as I understand the night-time erections can be painful! But I am building-up to that.

Of course, while in chastity there are several “issues” that need to be addressed. First, urination. It is better to be seated for this event, it is just less of a bother. Second, hygiene. Since I am not wearing it continuously (yet), I don’t have to be too concerned. But the penis needs to be cleaned daily and I am exploring ways that I can accomplish this. There is a lot of info online regarding this subject. Third, and this is a little gross, there is a bit of “leakage” of seminal fluid from the penis while in chastity. Not really a problem yet, just an interesting observation.

Will I be able to continue this practice of chastity? Will I be able to hand-over the keys? Interesting questions; but right now, I am still in “chastity-play” mode so those questions are moot. All I can say is that if you are at all interested in male chastity, take it slow, take it one step at a time, do research and enjoy yourself! This is an interesting “chapter” in my sexuality and I never would have guessed that it could be so easily integrated into daily life! There is a different mindset involved in all of this and it is probably not for every guy. But I have found this a perfect “match” for me at this point in my life. Read more »

What am I supposed to feel with Helix Syn inside me? Need help please!

Hey guys

A bit about me: Gay male here with receptive anal sex experience and I have the Helix Syn and the Progasm.

I’m curious to know what you guys feel when you put the Helix Syn in you. Do you immediately feel pressure on your prostate when you insert the Helix Syn? I’ve found that I don’t really feel much of anything… but I still try to do the whole relaxation thing to give it a chance. I’ve been doing this for a few months now with absolutely no luck. Last night I decided to have a go again and while listening to the Hypnaerosession CD, I completely fell asleep and woke up 2-3 hours later absolutely confused. Felt nothing. I’m getting really frustrated and am begging for help!

Positions I try:
– On my left side with my left leg straight and my right leg bent
– On my back with knees bent
– On my stomach

I really don’t feel much of anything and I’m ready to throw the damn thing out. I’m open to any kind of advice either here or PM! Or a personal coach! Anything!

Thanks!

[Progasm][Ice][Review]

For anyone who recently read my [Progasm JR Review] (https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/5n50o4/progasm_jr_junior_review/), i edited my original post with an update. I’m really starting to like it!!!

Now let’s talk about the Progasm Ice. For anyone who’s wondering, it’s the same size as the Progasm Classic. However the Progasm Ice is made of ABS plastic (similar to Progasm JR) and it’s smoother than the Classic.

Fast forward to my session. With a lot of lube and some slow relaxing breaths, i put that thing in place relatively easily. Unexperienced users, might have a lot of trouble however!

The initial sensation was very pleasing and full-filling! This thing fit inside my ass like a jigsaw puzzle! My cock become immediately hard and it started oozing precum like crazy… and whenever i was contracting my PC and anal muscles, my cock was bouncing like a hammer! When i started playing with my nipples, my whole body was shaking and i could feel waves of pleasure everywhere! Alhough i didn’t keep time… i believe i had at least 3 mini-orgasms in less than 30 minutes.

Quickly after that, my prostate felt VERY overwhelmed. The pleasurable sensations were replaced with “sharp” (almost painful) sensations. I knew right then i had to take a step back, relax and then take it out.

Bottom line… the Progasm Ice is a great massager, but it needs to be used gently!

For the time being i’m planning on: Read more »

Finally someone results! + tips?

Hey guys. Long time lurker. Have had a few aneroses and other toys for years but haven’t had much luck. Occasionally got a slight good feeling but it would faze out or I’d end up just giving in and jacking off regularly.

Last night I decided to give it another go after reading about the post with the guy who got a violent shake after propping up on a pillow and pushing down and did the same. I put my mgx in while doing some housework to relax and prelubed to get it situated (used coconut oil, a little jojoba oil, inserted a few balls of shea butter, and a bit of J-lube (the fisters lube lol.) Was a little Hey guys. Long time lurker. Have had a few aneroses and other toys for years but haven’t had much luck. Occasionally got a slight good feeling but it would faze out or I’d end up just giving in and jacking off regularly.

I got a little too relaxed and ended up up falling asleep a bit . A little while later I wake up and my hearts racing and I’m breathing really, really fast! . I can feel it hitting my Prostate MUCH more intensely than it had even trying to clench on previous occasions and the little buzz has gone bigger. I tried remaining calm and breathing and giving some light contractions but when i clenched in it would come in hard for a few seconds, release, then back hard again even trying to go slow . I could feel sensations kind of building and building and felt it spreading up my dick, ass and up back. Read more »

“Where Have All The Fantasies Gone?”

Being in male chastity for almost 4 weeks now (25 days), I have noticed a complete absence of erotic fantasies. That changed this morning. Let me explain……

Having just milked my prostate (I do it now about weekly), I felt very relaxed and just decided to go chill-out with some nice tracks. So I lie down and almost immediately fell-into a fantasy. My lover decides to “tease” me while knowing my lengthy abstinence from ejaculation. I have on a Speedo square leg suit beneath my PJs and she begins to give me a “tantric” genital massage especially concentrated on the scrotum. OMG! The feeling is intensely pleasurable; she works her way up to the frenulum and I feel the building pleasure of an ejaculation. But after about 5 to 10 exquisite minutes, and I feel about 70% near the PONR, she stops! And immediately she directs me to get into my jock cup (pseudo male chastity cage). When I go lie down again, I have an almost instantaneous full-body “orgasm” almost like a Super-O! This felt different, however, and my whole body convulsed. But I felt an intense almost orgasmic-like pleasure all over my body. It didn’t last but a few seconds, but it was an unmistakable feeling, one which I have not felt before. Read more »