Tag: Relaxation

Previous week, general notes

So, Wednesday was my “day off” from the Helix Syn. I decided to try out the “Bendy Beads” anal toy I got at the same time as the Helix and had tried a couple times. It looked fun, but I’m liking it less, and now somewhat regret the purchase. It’s just too unwieldy to manage.

Thursday, back with the Helix, had an OK session, about an hour. Good, nothing new to mention.

Saturday, I only had about 1/2 hour and decided to just do a “quickie” and see what I could accomplish. As it turns out, not much.. this was not really a surprise as I knew I wouldn’t have time to really relax etc.

Sunday (today)… hmm. Almost 2 hours worth. This was very good; I felt I reached a new level of using the Helix. I was able to reach a level of warm, tingling sensation, with the Helix feeling like it’s moving independently, especially feeling like it was pushing out.. but I was able to keep it going for a while, rather than having it be over relatively quickly. This happened several times, and it was easier to find my way back to this peak after coming down. Very nice all around. Then… about 4 hours later, I couldn’t resist, I wanted to give it another try just for a bit before dinner. This was another 30-40 time period, with better results (because I was “primed” from my earlier work, I think). It was still a “rush job” though, but I used the chance to try out some different positioning. Read more »

“The Penis: Erection As A Secondary Function?”

What a strange title! But it fit this “session” perfectly! Let me explain……

I awoke very early this AM (~1:30 AM) and couldn’t get back to sleep. I woke up with an erection and, strangely, my hand was holding my cock! And it felt so good! Anyway, I decided to chill for a while. I selected a track on YouTube: “Erotic ChillOut Collection” which was about 3 Hr 15 Min long. I lay down and started to relax. This session, I discovered quickly, was about my penis and nothing else.

I began to meditate as I chilled. I thought about my penis and it’s relevance in the sexual world. Obviously……

Well, I began to hold my cock in my hand and began to feel it pulsing. And, not surprisingly, I felt a pleasurable satisfaction just by holding it. It was not erect now but still felt amazingly good. Then, I began to dwell on my penis as the center, the focus, of my sexuality. And as I continued to meditate, I experienced an erection which I could not suppress. And it dawned on me…..

What if the erection is only a SECONDARY function of the penis? Now, it sounds very strange, I know. But when holding my cock for most of this session, I realized that my penis is endowed with numerous nerve endings, especially near the glans and the frenulum delta. And then my meditation continued with the realization that my cock feels “best” when it is being “held” or “surrounded” by something (a woman’s vagina? or a man’s rectum?) and not necessarily erect. So it appeared to me that perhaps erection is only a “secondary” function of the penis. It becomes erect when necessary for penetration and ejaculation, but nevertheless, it is always the center focus of male pleasure. Read more »

Friday morning session, November 4 : Luminous genital energy and sweet chairgasms

Hi guys,

I do not want to say that I have become addicted to Aneros of late, but these days I have been having daily Aneros sessions. Generally they last at most 45 minutes to an hour.

This morning I spent about 45 minutes with Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, and Maximus, my good buddy with whom I jacked off yesterday morning in a Super-T. Eupho Classic and Helix Classic may be smaller Aneros models in comparison with the larger Maximus and Progasm models, but they are just as effective in delivering Aneros pleasure all the same. It is gratifying to use subtle anal contractions and calm rhythmic breathing to activate these three models. It is even more wonderful to relax, sit back, and observe how they operate on you. While I thought this morning’s session was supremely good, it seemed rather routine, or so I thought.

After cleaning up after the session and putting my Aneros tools away, and dressing for the day, I sat before my PC to relax a bit. Very sweet Aless began. It was/is luminous genital energy. I feel it localized in my balls, but also at my cock root. I love it as I kegel a bit and that revves up this energy into something very sweet as it travels or rather surges from my cock root up the length of my dick and ends up in my Glans where it tingles so sweetly. Then it travels down to its source. Also I notice its wavelike motion of this exquisite energy! Read more »

“An Experiment In Ejaculation Control: Can I Induce PE?”

Having endured DE (Delayed Ejaculation) for a while now, with less than stellar results as far as ejaculation is concerned, I decided to see if I can “swing the pendulum” towards the PE (Premature Ejaculation) side. There seems to be a consensus that these erectile dysfunctions mostly have a psychological cause and I believe they are right. So I embarked on this “experiment” last night.

While laying with my wife watching TV, I began to stroke her hand, ever so slightly. At the same time, I began to feel an arousal in my cock. Before I knew it, I was fully aroused and getting a Viagra-like erection. I slowly grabbed her hand and had her place it over my cock. She obliges and, for the next 10 minutes or so, begins to stroke and squeeze it to the point that I am loudly moaning. I am not ready to go-off, however and, since it is close to bedtime and I do not have the confidence yet for penetration followed by a quick ejaculation, I decided to call it a night.

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Nov 1

So, as expected I had a chance to use the Helix today. I used the Astroglide. It seemed slippery enough, altough it was so thin that it was tricky to get it to go where I wanted and not just drip all over the place.

So, then with the Helix in, lying down and reading. Once again after about 5 minutes I felt the “tingle” starting. I tried to relax and let it go for a few minutes–slow, deep breathing and nipple stim. This time something different happened… I got hard. My Aneros experiences so far have mostly been erection-free, but this time the pulsating of the P-tab seemed to lead directly to my penis. At this point I decided to wait it out and see what happened… though I had a pretty strong compulsion to clamp down with my PC muscle, I decided to wait and see what would happen. After a short while I reached a plateau of the involuntary Helix motions and then started to relax, and the erection went away.

After a couple minutes of relaxing and breathing the tingling came back, and another erection, though not quite as hard as the first one. At this point I was feeling another buildup and I gave in to the impulse to do some contractions. I had some very pleasurable spasms, but it felt like there was more to come. Read more »

Sunday, Oct. 30, 2016

My previous session was on Wednesday evening, so 4 days ago. I will say, just for comparison, that it was OK, but nothing special. I have found my fatigue and frame of mind at the end of a long day at work often results in a less interesting Aneros session than when I am better rested on the weekend, but I generally take what I can get in terms of my schedule.

My previous technique had been to lie down after insertion and just relax, usually reading something for about 10 minutes, to clear my mind and let everything “settle down” with the Helix, and then proceed to work on some contractions or whatever I was thinking about trying, and see what happened.

Today, however, after a bit more than 5 minutes, I started feeling a tingling, warm sensation around the Helix. I have felt this before, but generally not so early in the session. So I decided to resist the temptation to do any contractions or anything and just breathe and concentrate on feeling what was happening. I continued to have the tingling sensation as I worked on deep breathing. I sort of alternated between concentrating on the breathing and sensations; doing some erotic visualization; and thinking about situations at work or errands needing to be done. (No, the last was not voluntary or planned, dammit, but my mind wandered and sometimes I had to refocus.) Read more »

Amazing Thursday session, October 27 followed by irrepressible Aless!

Hi guys,

These days I am enjoying my sessions more and more despite the arrival of genuine autumn cold. It is so good have heat from the radiators which facilitate my sessions now. When it is cold, I have my morning sessions when the boiler is running and churning out steam to our apartments during the 6-8 a.m. hours.

This morning I had a session with Eupho Classic, MGX, and Progasm ICE which lasted about an hour or a little more. Eupho Classic inserted nicely to the hilt and gave me a very pleasurable ride as it danced along and around my prostate. MGX performed powerfully as it delivered a massage beyond compare. When you relax and let go, models like MGX ride in surprising away, delivered a host of strokes that will take your breath away. What amazes me about my Aneros models is that they take me on journeys over mountains, valleys, hills, and plains of pleasure! I am developing gradually in my sessions these days the control recommended in the Aneros Wiki and the now archived Aneros Directions for Use. The techniques are stop-and go, do-nothing, and tug-of-war which magnify Aneros pleasure when coupled with deep relaxation which is facilitated by slow, calm, rhythmic breathing.

I really enjoyed my dalliance with Eupho Classic and my quality time with MGX today. But it was Progasm ICE which provided the icing on my Aneros cake. Once again I love his thick, full-bodied massage, and once again he did not slip out. Read more »

Relentless Aless ; That Aneros Itch : Sessions for Friday and Saturday, October 27 & 28 ; Series of Chairgasms

Hi guys,

Friday October 28.

I woke up fairly well rested at 4:15 a.m. this morning and listened to my walkman radio until 6 a.m. I bathed, shaved, and dressed for the day intending to have an off day with Aless.

But I had that relentless Aless, that Aneros itch, that I had to satisfy. So I had a 45 minute session at 1:15 p.m. with MGX, Progasm ICE, and Maximus, that left me breathless.

The relentless Aless began anew of this session, then I had a series of chairgasms. When I had a chairgasm coming on, it felt like that I was on the verge of creaming my jeans! This happened over and over in waves of Aless in chairgasms that came on. It was heavenly. This is the type of Aless which is a further development in my five plus year Aneros journey. My Aneros sessions nowadays nurture this new type of Aless. It is so sweet and exquisite in fact. Unfortunately this Aless with the accompanying chairgasms trailed off in the late afternoon when I heard the latest in the Clinton/Trump campaign saga and her private e-mail controversy.

Saturday October 29. Read more »

Tips for the struggling/beginners

First of all I’m not here to tell you what to do, but I have a strong feeling these tips will work for more than just myself. Excuse me if my thought organization is all over the place. This is a draft and I was just excited to post it asap.

* Relaxation and proper breathing is important. It’s a good idea to take up meditation if you want to improve on this and meditation is useful for much more that just this actually (same thing goes for cardio and resistance training). If you’re constantly in a daze, you’re in for a long game. If you’re the deathgrip type you’re also in for a long game. I do some meditative breathing while in an alternating cold and hot shower. Any impulse to jerk backward from the water being too cold or too hot is taken note of, to which I relax completely into it as a response. Shower temperatures are regulated, and they aren’t hot enough to burn or cold enough to freeze so there’s nothing to worry about. Relaxing into it can feel amazing. FORCE NOTHING.

* Do some yoga-like flexibility stretches and be sure to breathe into your balls or even into your toes with every breath. You know, the kind of deep breath that might make you shake/twitch slightly. I was confused at first that I had to pull/push my anus and breathe as two seperate movements; I totally forgot that if you breathe in deeply enough it does so on its own and feels a lot better. If you don’t twitch a little you might be doing it wrong. Relax into the position like you’re trying to fall asleep. See how much you can relax into the position before you fall over, which shouldn’t be hard if you’re in okay shape. Read more »

“Are You Ready For Me? – A Metaphysical Intercourse Fantasy”

Wow! What a session! I can hardly believe what happened! Let me try to explain it….

I started this amazing surfing session with what turned out to be the musical inspiration for it: on YouTube “Chillout – Music For Lovers 2013” by Dave Shepard. It set the mood for what was to become a truly unique experience for me.

I start this surfing session in the usual way, with soft caressing stim of my now-erect and firm package. But it soon became evident to me that this sessions’ fantasy was going to be conducted and relayed entirely in the “third person” — namely, from the point of view of a woman. Sounds somewhat bizarre and unusual, but (I swear) that is what happened. Let me further explain….

She begins to get me aroused but I “feel” it from her point of view. She is getting me wet and ready for intercourse with her. She continues to think to herself: ” Do you have what it takes? Are you wet enough for me? Are you man enough? Can you remain hard for me?” She continues to caress me and I am feeling so aroused. She is also getting very aroused and wet. She continues to play with my package and getting quite turned-on. “She” begins to fantasize herself about my cock and it’s shape. How it’s shaped to penetrate her. A thick round slippery shaft that she wants deep inside her. She wants every inch of it as deeply as “he” can push it in. She is ready for erotic pleasure. She takes hold of “his” cock and glides it into her. Read more »