Tag: Relaxation

Has Any else made a Massager diary? (LONG POST)

Has anyone tried too keep a journal like this? Sorry for the long post but i feel this is a good discussion for intermediate and advanced users.

This is the 3rd week of me just doing aneros sessions with no penis stimulation. Not that i don’t mix in penis play, but i wanted too rediscover my massagers and find which ones work best with me personally. Here’s the journal so far:

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Massagers progress

peredise : achieved 3 HFWO orgasms.
can be VERY fun too ride/Grind. when in right mood and situation, i can dry orgasm with this

eupho : i’ve been sticking this massager too far in, try leaving some out so it can move. i seem too love too masturbate with this one

MGX : Amazing pspot pressure. Soft, but not too soft, mixed with ptab, my anal canal is fully stroked…dry orgasms and pwaves came easily first session. the ribbing on this is fucking fantastic in my sphincter it adds a great massage when squeezed . also first model for a dry o without nipple play Read more »

Which device do you start and finish with?

Hi all. My new Eupho just arrived after I lost the previous one. Got excited and played over lunch time today. First completely relaxed, blinds drawn, inserted the Eupho and turned on the side. It took about 30 mins or so but felt like I was lying on a cloud, honey like, warm breeze over me. I remembered that this is what the Eupho does. Calm seas 🌊

Then put in the Helix, turned on back and caressed nipples, which ended in a long dry orgasm of pelvic contractions, really unexpectedly. I was distracted by a call to front door, so decided to switch to Progasm for the last 20minutes.

Didn’t have lot of time so really played the nipples, and Progasm rocked stronger and stronger, ended up with three or so super o territory orgasms where I was moaning, eyes fluttering, mouth open, incredible 🥵.

Had to go back to work but didn’t want the traditional finish and couldn’t keep going. So jumped onto a small black silicone dildo, and rode for 5 minutes, getting two anal orgasms and releasing a little 💦💦. I find that this allows me to feel satisfied, take a break, orgasms feel different that Aneros dry or super, each lasting about 10-15 seconds, still no refractory. This is really new to me also, dildos didn’t work for me before, but another step on the journey and helps partnered sex. And thanks to Aneros for activating that area. Read more »

Effectiveness of THC: Long Post

This post is to just reinforce the effectiveness thc/delta8 has on prostate play.

For reference, I myself started my aneros journey 7 years ago. During that time, it was 100% sober. During that entire duration, the most progress I made was getting LOTS of involuntary contractions, a lot of precum and a lot of muscle spasms… despite all those good signs, I never experienced a single ounce of orgasmic pleasure. Nothing anywhere close. Relaxation did nothing to aid the process and neither did patience… because I had MANY sessions where I was very relaxed. Didn’t matter. No pleasure.

I recall, in my 6th year of trying, I got ONE wave of pleasure. It happened ONE time and lasted exactly 1 to 2 seconds.

I was very active on this sub, asking so many questions on what works, what doesn’t work, what positions were best, porn, no porn, deep breathing, fast shallow breaths… I did polls on which aneros was the first to give people success (helix, if you’re wondering, followed by progasm)… I dug as deep as I could down this rabbit hole, to no avail.

Fast forward beginning of 2022. I did my first edible (no aneros, just trying it for the sake of trying it)… and the VERY first thing I noticed was my prostate felt like it was radiating and glowing. (Then I completely spiraled into an awful panic attack lmao)…. point being, once I felt that glow, I knew I had to try it with my aneros. Read more »

Action starts when falling asleep! Help!

I’ve been practising for a few years with hardly any results. Started with Mindgasm and apart from one session when I got the alternating muscle contractions (which caused me to panic & lose it!) I’ve had no results at all. I recently tried the 20m relaxing, 10m breathing/contractions, 10m holding a low contraction & then doing nothing. I’ve got a strong rolling contraction going on but nothing happens, nothing pleasurable as such. Until I fall asleep it seems! I wake up with my heart racing & strong contractions that stop as I wake up. The other night I woke up in a state of bliss, felt like I was floating – but again, I lost it as I gradually woke up.

Any ideas what to do next? How do I stay awake during this! I’m guessing it’s a relaxation thing but I’m not sure what to do next. I’m already so relaxed I’m falling asleep!! ☺️

Thanks in advance…

question about being mindfull/mindset

So, I’m reading about being mindfull and stuff, but nobody tells me how to do it?
I having hard times with guided meditations. Music-only seems to get me more relaxed but still not anywhere near of what is needed for prostate pleasure using any Aneros toy.

I also noticed bigger doesn’t seem to be doing it better. With the Progasm and the Maximus I noticed if I start to get somewhere it won’t stay in even while holding a pillow between my legs or wearing pants. I also got a Squarepegs MilkIt, but it didn’t do much aside of being almost impossible to insert thanks to the squishyness. It was pressed out kinda soon, too. Sitting on it didn’t felt that good, too.

What’s a good way for that mindfullnes? Any good stuff on youtube or elsewhere I should try?

First time with the Progasm Ice – wow.

I have had the most incredible session this morning. I started off with my Helix Syn to warm myself up for the progasm, I was a little anxious about the size and girth. I’d only planned to use the Helix for half an hour or so until I was properly warmed up but 3 hours later… oops. I was just so relaxed I didn’t want to move, my session was really nice and had a lot of good feelings but nothing ground breaking.

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Eventually I sort of came round from my relaxed state and took out the helix, lubed up the progasm which made me very horny all on its own. I love how big and girth it is, it feels so sleek too and I ended up stroking it as if it were my cock. I laid back and pushed it against me, it felt soo big. After a little pushing and more relaxing it eventually slid inside me, but definitely didn’t slip in the way the helix does, this big boy was stretching me and it felt amazing. Feeling it go all the way in was so sexy to me, cold, girthy, slippery goodness filling me up, I was incredibly horny. When it hit my prostate it just felt amazing. I relaxed back and started some deep breathing. First impressions were that I was really going to have to work hard to fully relax around it, I was finding it more difficult now.

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I don’t know what happened…

Okay. First time poster here. (anywhere really) But I just tried by aneros for the first time since I had surgery down south of the border. I had only tried it a couple times before then, both with my wife, and couldn’t quite get comfortable with it.

4 months later, today, I get a wild hair in my derriere to give it a try by myself, sans wife, and see where things go.

Short back story: I have a bit of anxiety, obsessive compulsive features but I maintain and thrive in a successful life, generally without others knowing. A lot of this anxiety, lately, has focused around bodily sensations, heart rate, random pains, etc. I have worked hard to rid myself of those obsessions (by tackling/eliminating the compulsive side) with great success. I am also an avid meditator. Over 2000 days now. This will make sense in the story, I swear.

So. The Aneros. I do all the pre-game work getting everything at the border prepared for a full invasion, lay down, and storm the beaches…gently. The ship has docked, the torpedo has hit its target, the….okay I have the aneros in my butt right where it is supposed to be.

I throw on some great headphones, a good meditation track on repeat, and just lay on the ground with gentle little gyrations but otherwise very little to no movement. Just a bit of waiting. Read more »

First aless sensations caught me by surprise

For the past couple of weeks I’ve been having sessions in a morning (only time I’m alone in the house) I’ve had a session every day for the last 7 days but thought I’d give myself a rest today despite waking up incredibly horny. Ignored the feelings and yearning from my prostate and got on with my day.

About an hour later I just happened to position myself exactly how I would for a session, laying down on my back feet flat on the bed. Except I was outside underneath my car (trying to fix it, not a weird hobby). Was in the middle of unscrewing a bolt when my legs started to shake exactly as they do in some sessions which stopped me dead in my tracks. I laid there for a few seconds and then began to feel my prostate throbbing a little and that warm feeling in my abdomen. I got up and went inside through fear of my neighbours seeing my cum while laying underneath my car. Can you imagine?

Anyway, back inside, got on the floor in the same position and sure enough the same happened again. Immediately took off my clothes and just laid there enjoying the twitching and gentle feelings of pleasure. Started deep breathing and relaxed myself some more and the feelings grew… almost couldn’t believe it. After 5-10 minutes of deep breathing I had a sort of falling/spinning feeling in my head, felt like I was really far away from my body and then all of a sudden this orgasmic feeling just grew and kept getting bigger and more intense. Sort of felt like I was watching it grow from outside my body? Read more »

20 years in the making super o

As the title says, I’ve been on this journey for close to or over 20 years now off and on with a number of different aneros models until I found my fit. I couldn’t have done this without the recent legalization of recreational weed in my state either. I got high as per usual and started feeling some nice a less waves and contractions. I inserted my progasm and it was off to the races. I’m getting turned on just writing this reminiscing about what unfolded. I got a couple of the usual p waves and involuntary contractions just laying still and doing nothing but what sent me over the edge this time was gently rocking my hips back and forth. This would put just the gentlest amount of pressure on my toy and almost nudge it closer into place. The first couple shocks of pleasure caught me by surprise and had me clenching uncontrollably to the point where I had to hold my progasm in place with my hand as it was about to pop out. I relaxed for a minute or two and then it hit me like a freight train. My muscles from my toes to my chest all seemed to clench and flex like I was having a seizure as the waves of pleasure came crashing into my prostate. I couldn’t control my hips from shaking as if they were possessed. It wasn’t the traditional sense of pleasure I’ve come to expect from penile orgasms either but something different and equally pleasurable and much more longer lasting. This was very well worth all this time and effort I’ve put in. I can’t wait to try again tonight! I’m almost 90% certain this was a super o, what do you guys think?

First time user, Chaotic state of mind

Hey everyone, need an advice, Is there anyone’s experience with stress problems, then looking for an escape by trying to enjoy the pleasures offered by this product, as an escape from the unpleasant feeling of stress, pressure, anxiety, feeling of fullness in the chest

I know that the pleasure that should be achieved, through Aneros is a pleasure that comes from calm, and a relaxed state, is not a pleasure that can be obtained quickly, however, is it possible that people with excessive stress can use this product, are there any side effects if it forced to use this product in a bad state of mind / chaotic..