Tag: Relaxation

first success – Super T without hands

I tried several toys in the past with low success but also low engagement. My experiences weren't very good and that's why I want to reassure people with this blog.

Problems I had:
– don't feeling much, when the toy is inserted.
– Unability of deep relaxation
– bad conscience
– don't taking enough time

Despite these problems I achieved my first success yesterday. Although not everything was perfect!
I have to admit, that I'm not the guy who falls in deep relaxation and trance. I also cannot make myself free of all expectations, because that would be "self-lieing". The only thing I’m doing this is intensify my sexual life and of course I have expectations at the toy!
Despite this two things which are very prejudicial for success, I achieved a Super-T. So keep calm and don't think everything has to be perfect for having success ;)

Differences I noticed to normal orgasms:
-no penile located feelings
-more intense
-another sort of arousal which is hidden by normal penetration
– 3 times long as normal orgasm
– light shivering at the whole body after session
– aftermath of that feelings till the next day

Another thing which was in a different way from most of the "how to's" is that I build my rectal arousal by pulling the toy as deep as possible into my rectum (of course all without any hand-use).
However, it took it's time but I felt anal arousal. I really felt another kind of arousal in my body which could be discovered. It's not that easy to maximize this feelings because body and mind have to work together, which is the main contrast to normal penetration. Read more »

Spa Day

Today was a Spa Day. My wife was going shopping, and I enjoyed a big part of the day during which I was alone and could enjoy myself. I began with a tiny puff of herb, then followed with a quick shower. I closed off the bedroom and turned on a small heater to let things warm up a bit.

It wasn’t long before I was ready for my first session with the Helix Syn in several weeks. I’d done some Anerosless sessions and a Peridise session, but otherwise, I hadn’t had much in the way of opportunities.

My sessions tend to be fairly short, a half hour to 45 minutes. But when I can have a Spa Day, I usually stop, rest, have some tea or a bath, then have a second session a bit later. So it literally becomes several hours of pleasure.

It was a bit tight getting the Helix Syn in, though I’d lubed pretty liberally. Once in, though, it went wild. I began with some very light nipple touches. I just graze my thumbs over them, then wait for the echoes and waves, wait, then do it again. Very quickly I began having small orgasms, and they became bigger and more powerful. Some seemed to rival the biggest I’ve ever had, and then they began running together. I told myself to relax and enjoy this, I give myself permission to have this pleasure. Read more »

Recent Aneros Milestones

Hi guys,

It has been a very long time since I have posted entries to my Aneros blog here. I believe the last entry I posted was sometime late last summer.

The blog entry will be just summary of milestones I have achieved since then:

The first milestone occurred early last summer when I acquired Progasm Junior, Eupho Syn, and DeVice as additions to my Aneros Team. DeVice is a silicone version of Progasm without the battery found in Aneros Vice. In a way, it is the thickest model in the Aneros line, but it is still comfortable to use. Now I use DeVice occasionally, but perhaps I'll use him more often now that I am having sessions at least six days a week.

The second milestone occurred about mid October. I live in Georgetown here in DC near the epicenter of politics. We experienced a shutdown of federal government agencies due to political wrangling in Congress which was perhaps the most ugly I have ever seen. I quickly fell into a deep funk. During these two weeks, I had no Aneros sessions. But shortly after the Columbus Day Weekend holiday, I decided to have a session. I was afraid that it would be a dud, it had been so long. I started this session with Eupho Syn. He worked on me like never before. I was off and running at a much greater level of sophistication and pleasure like never before! Read more »

Her Orgasm Delivered with Love

MMO has changed my orgasmic response and my sexuality in big ways. Although MMO is an inward focused experience it has changed me in my experience of the sexual world around me especially with my wife.

The most significant was my sexuality has changed is that I have matured, and refocused my attention on observing more, giving more and feeling more. I have come to appreciate the finesse, patience and knowledge that deeply erotic sex requires. I certainly appreciate it much more now than I did when I was younger.

Like all guys I was always drawn to female genitals but it took MMO for me to really fall in love with the complexity, sensuality and sexiness of my lady’s vagina. Once I learned about the wonders of female genital sexual response, female genital anatomy as well as physiology, my love affair with the vagina was born. The knowledge of how to apply my knowledge to extract pleasure from her pussy was the culmination of my transformation. Read more »

Back to the Eupho Syn with trepidation

Well, after having such a huge Aneless ride the other night, I lubed up with a lot of trepidation about what the Ephos Syn would do to me.

I got on the chat, and found that since I had a new Ipad, I was running a step by step travelog of the journey. Since my mike did not work, trying to get an audio for my next ride, I thought it would be worth it seeing how distracted I was.

Actually with the distraction of texting on an unfamiliar computer, and answering questions from a guest, the ride was pretty good, if not totally mindblowing.

Built from a few contractions ten minutes in on my side to a few howling supers. Then on my belly, I went into my usual hallucination of being a woman with my lover in my pussy. Called in Cher to handle it, since I don't have a pussy. Long discussion with the guest of recreational multiple personalities. Ended up relaxed with a couple of final supers.

My Less Session Last Night

It was 3:20 AM last night when I woke up from a sound sleep acutely aware that I had a rock hard erection. It was one of those erections in the middle of the night that got my attention. It was heavy, so heavy I could feel it pushing against my groin at its base as it was bumping against the mattress. The underside of my cockhead was really sensitive and very aroused. Earlier, just before I went to bed my wife gave me an exquisite hand job facilitated by carefully coordinated sucking of my nipples. The resulting orgasm was so strong I was literally emptied, a prerequisite for an intense MMO session. I was primed when my insistent cock woke me up.

My hand brushed against my wife’s hip which I immediately noticed was bare; her short night gown had ridden up. Being the opportunist that I am, I never pass up the chance to spoon her and slip a hand around her to caress a breast. I did and in her sleep she brought her hand over mine and held my hand to her chest to force me to fondle her. That is when my aroused cock realized what he was nestled in . . . the sweet embrace of her very shapely derriere. My wife is tall . . . 6 ‘ 1” , and willowy with a really beautiful heart shaped ass and perfect slightly pendulous breasts. Just thinking about her body even now is making my cock go rigid with desire. Read more »

Wedding Band position astounding developments!!!

Aneros has made a vital major contribution to the adventures my dear wife and I have had since agreeing to bring my the 47 years of solo anal/prostate massage into our marriage bed, when we agreed I would go the Aneros journey and she exploring her ejaculatory orgasmic potential, never having done that to that date. Both adventures to be shared where appropriate.

Our most recent session epitomizes these benefits and the astounding experiences we are still finding along our shared pathways!!

Interestingly, these techniques can equally be applied by LGBTTQ couples, as by hetero couples!! A gay friend of mine in the UK, a health worker in the LGBTTQ community, reports that fewer than half the gay couples engage in penile/anal sex, while 98% finger each other anally.

So, the Wedding Band position is heads to other's toes, on our backs on our firm foam mattress, knees up and her fingering my prostate/Gspot anally, while I finger her prostate/Gspot vaginally. It's that simple!

Yet it enables virtually infinite variations as things build and great chains of dry-Os of all types and levels, active-body and/or still-body, minis to Supers, and great spiritual-Os even to OBEs, and building, BUILDING flows and FLOWS of orgasmic energies at all levels and intensities)as mapped in previous posts(!! Read more »

Nipples and Fellatio

January 3, 2014
One of the fascinating things about learning is that often what you actually learn is not what you started out seeking to know about. For me I thought that this journey was going to turn me into an erotic mystic who could get into women’s minds and into their pussies to coax them into orgasmic delirium; maybe to a certain degree that has happened, but so much more really has.

What has really happened is that I have learned more than I ever thought possible about my own erotic mind, orgasmic capacity and sexual response; probably an equal amount to what I learned about women. I have been erotically transformed.

Aside from my MMO’s themselves the things that are most noteworthy are the change in the erotic response from my nipples, the shift in sensitivity of my my frenulum, the newly discovered orgasmic capacity of my anal canal and my erotic mind.

Relative to my erotic mind, I am drawing a renewed appreciation of oral sex.

As I have said in earlier posts, after I was rewired my entire sense of the erotic shifted. My nipples were the first realization. I discovered this one day when I was stretched out on my back allowing my wife to wander over my body and play. From the pleasure she experienced from my playing with her pink buds she decided to try the same techniques on me. First she tenderly kissed them and slowly transitioned from gentle butterfly kisses to licking slowly in a circle starting outside my areola, circling closer toward my nipple. She kept tantalizing me by zeroing in closer with her tongue. They both hardened in response and became increasingly sensitive. Read more »

Getting closer

Previous uses i liked the feeling but nothing great until last night…i really relaxed and kind of enjoyed each sensation…this time though i did something alittle different instead of thrusting my body hard i just simply used my anal muscles…quick contractions and didnt use my whole body…i started feeling really hot and disorientated, almost felt like the aneros was not even there anymore but pure crazy sensations anal wise…i started getting waves of pleasure but started dying down..and go back alil bit more and died down….any advice on how to get to the next step? tips? tricks? my 10th use maybe and i feel like im starting to make some lead way…when i got done with the mini waves of pleasure i ended up penile stimulation and oh my! when i came…it was about 10-15 spurts of a lot of cum…crazy!…i guess thats a sign im getting closer.

Blown away!

So I did it again last night! Almost four months since my last mini-O, I had another one. Oddly enough I was somewhat surprised it happened. As my Aneros sessions as of late have been really uneventful. And on top of that I've been struggling with life issues. The only thing I can really say that may have played a part in it, is that the prior day before, after my Aneros session, I fucked myself rather thoroughly for a long time with my Feeldoe More. Now there was no orgasmic events from this. But it felt really, really good. And as always, it massaged my prostate much more aggressively than my Aneros prostate massager's such that it typically wakes up my prostate much quicker. Where as it would otherwise take many daily Aneros sessions to get it to that point. And it teaches me to relax much more due to it's size, and to comfortably insert and enjoy the thrusting of it in me. This once again reinforces the belief that other forms of anal penetration and thusly prostate massage that is not Aneros products, can be helpful to move one along the path towards achieving super-O's.

On top of that when I started my Aneros session last night, I noticed when pushing chunks of shea butter inside me that I had an irritated hemorrhoid from fucking myself the prior day. And while inserting my Progasm, I thought to myself, “This may not go anywhere with this discomfort and pain from the hemorrhoid.” But once it was fully inserted and I relaxed the pain and discomfort went away. Read more »