Tag: Relaxation

I think I hit a prostate orgasm

I’ve been loosely using the helix syn for a couple months, but over the last half a week or so I’ve been really looking for positions and how to use my muscles that to me along.

I figured I’d describe the experience and give a few explanations as to what it felt like and how I got there.

I ended up throwing on some shibbysays erotic hypnosis thing centered around the aneros, and that helped a lot I believe. Subspace and the aneros seem to mix exquisitely. I also had some weed, not too much to inhibit me, and made sure I was very well hydrated through the day.

If what I had was an orgasm, I think the connotations of an ejaculatory orgasm are some that seriously hamper the experience. There was no tipping point, no moment of orgasm, no peak. There was always sensation, building and building, and I just kept feeling. I realized that I had hit the point of what I believe to be the orgasm halfway through the experience of the orgasm. I let out something, not sure if it was urine or pre (thankfully I had a towel prepped), during the process, all the while clutching my pillow and bed

Curiously, I didn’t notice contractions, at least not in the way that an ejaculation does. I’d been getting used to moving and positioning and contracting my anus the last while and if much of that happened, it was subconscious and subtle. Might be good to do those excersises to strengthen those muscles regardless. Read more »

Rewiring prostate and nipple.

Ok, rewiring is the process of mentally accepting an relaxing the new sensation which I am going to or which I will get right?
I don’t have any toy, I’m looking forward to get one, now how do I rewire my nipples along with my prostate.
And how to rewire my prostate

first Super-O achieved

Thought I’d write down how this process went for me (M39). Maybe it’ll help someone else along. I certainly have benefitted of being able to look up other’s experiences on here.

Got an Aneros (Helix Syn V) roughly 5 months ago, quite randomly read about it on reddit. After the first few sessions found that the ‘stairs climbing/ hip rocking’ method allowed me to start feeling where my prostate was. Usually spent 1-1,5 hours on a session, once or twice a week. The initial 3ish months were interesting, but in general I approached it quite actively. Which led to nice feelings, but not the orgasm build up feeling. The first major roadblock I hit about 1,5 months ago, muscles contracting too hard and ejecting the toy on the run up. I got around this by using a towel wrapped around the butt and holding opposite ends, to prevent the toy from getting ejected. This led to the first session of multiple wet orgasms/squirting? kinda thing. This was a bit of a breakthrough, although it felt I squeezed/forced it out. Too much pressure on the prostate/cowper’s gland. At the end of the session I relaxed and stopped moving and that was the first time I started to feel the hint of an ‘orgasm feeling’, that was totally separate from any anal nerve area sensations. Read more »

Help !

I have the Helix and I have good prostate sensation when relax with small contractions when flacid but when it’s more intense, my dick begin to get erected and I don’t feel the sensation anymore (focusing on my dick ?).
What can I do ?

Brand new user milestone ?

I am brand new to the world of anal play as a whole but have been curious and researching it over the last few years. About 2 weeks ago I decided to finally purchase a Helix Trident and have had 5 or 6 sessions. I am having a good experience so far, and just wanted to compare the path my progress is taking to the average, and maybe get some tips or method critiques. I had been practicing mindfulness meditation and targeting specific muscle groups to relax already so a lot of the principles were familiar to me. It’s taken some getting used to having something up there but I feel like im adjusting well. I feel that “need to pee” and do nothing for a while as I relax my muscles entirely and breathe steadily and deeply. I can envision it sitting there and feel the pressure it provides. In today’s session I decided to slowly, with as little force as possible, flex to a certain point

And today’s session, for the first time, yielded involuntary contractions! It was an interesting feeling but pleasurable, they were rapid and steady instead of “bursty” like i was expecting from what I had read, and if I flexed to a specific strength and held it like that I could keep it going. It was exciting, I have read that that is a sign of progress! Should I be striving for that and to keep it going for as long as possible, or just stay mindful and let it do its thing, relax after a little while, then do it again etc?

Three firsts for me

Had another great session today during which three different things happened:

1. I had a calm seas during urination. I occasionally like urine play and I usually have a absorbent bed pad laid down. I had to urinate and did not want to make a trip to the bathroom. It’s sort of hard to disregard the training and wet the bed and that keeps a very pleasant tension as you try to start the flow. I relaxed into it and let the stream go. During this I was suspended in a very pleasant calm seas orgasm. The pulsation after the flow stopped pushed me just a bit further. I cleaned up from that and continued my session leading to the second happening.

2. I had a Super-O while fantasizing about a Trans person at work. I’ve considered myself hetero my whole life but something happened last week that made me ponder. This person is Asian and I’m not sure if they are male to female or female to male. They (their preferred pronoun) have breasts and a very soft gentle face but also some male characteristics, male figure and legs. They came up last week and asked us what we were doing. We were preparing a section of conveyor belt. When they approached I was overcome with butterflies! I wanted to fuck and be fucked by them. I used that fantasy during this session and it propelled me into a brutally pleasant Super-O. Read more »

Orgasms changed mid sessions

So I was having a session last night and something interesting happened. My orgasms took on a totally different form than they normally do. Usually I get the intense sensation of being about to cum and then orgasm accompanied by an intense, prolonged contraction of the PC and anal muscles. They don’t pulse like they do with traditional orgasm, they just hold tight without letting up at all. The pleasure is focused entirely around my crotch and can come from different areas as the orgasm rolls into multiples, but it’s all centered around my crotch.

Then, last night I decided that I would try to fight against the contractions and try to keep the muscles unclenched because I’ve heard people say to relax into the orgasm. This is nearly impossible and I can only keep it up for a few moments before the sensations become too much and my body clenches up. When I fight to stay unclenched I’ll usually get a crazy vibration through my body and vision that isnt pleasurable, just a crazy intense sensation. But I kept at it and tried more and more to keep the muscles as unclenched as possible (I won’t say “relaxed” because there’s nothing relaxing about this, it’s hard as hell to keep my body from writhing and clenching). A few times the sensations built and faded away which was a little disappointing because I felt like I was missing out on some orgasms. But then something changed and I started having orgasms again, but this time there was no central focal point. My crotch was no longer the focus of the orgasm and instead it was like my whole body was orgasming. It was really strange honestly. Not having an area of focus was weird and I didn’t know what to think. Like, I can’t tell if the orgasms were as good or better or worse than the others I normally get. It was just very strange and interesting. I was still writhing around and shaking like a man possessed, but the orgasms had a totally different feel to them since the pleasure was hardly in my crotch at all. Read more »

Not quite sure what happened..hips rotating (21 male gay)

I have had my aneros (a Progasm) for a few months now, but kind of went off it as I found that when I used it my sessions wouldn’t really go anywhere. However, lately I decided to give it another try, as I had been craving the feeling of it inside me, the point of lying in bed at night and performing random voluntary contractions to remind me of the stimulation of it.

I lubed it up with Boy Butter and inserted it slowly, after teasing my hole with the end of it for a few minutes. Now in general, I would say that I had a good session, but there weren’t any dry orgasms or hfwo. There was a distinct moment where I was watching this gay porno, getting so turned on, that felt like I needed to contract really hard on it, and moving my hips in a circulator motion. There was excitement and definitely some precum, but it wasn’t amounting to anything concret like a dry orgasm or a super orgasm. My main goal is not actually to have a super orgasm, but dry orgasms. There’s a great porn hub video of a guy achieving 36 orgasms and moaning in ecstasy, while he is on all fours and in various different positions. I want the aneros to consume my hole and rewire my brain into craving a new form of sexual ecstasy. I stayed relaxed in the session and focused on thoughts of sex and the videos I was watching, as well as imagining the device inside me – that seemed to be quite a turn on. But I didn’t get anything concrete. I even touched my nipples. It was a good session but I’d love some advice as to how I could maybe have gone further. Also, as a rule, do you avoid taking it out and then putting it back in again? And, lastly, the position of knelling by the bed and arching my body over it appeared to work quite well but I was worried about the device falling out, and my head was not comfortable – I wasn’t sure where to put it essentially. Are there any tips for that position/people who do it that way?

Any good experiencies in the shower?

I usually have success in a bath tub but have never thought of under a shower, but have been considering. My goal is to insert Aneros and micro dose some weed, then have a relaxing hot long shower and see what happens next

Haircut Mini-O

I’ve been amped up with arousal for a week and today I went in for a haircut at a place that washes hair while in a massage chair. The woman cutting my hair was slender with nice blond hair and a great ass. I was kind of buzzing with sexual energy throughout the haircut but when she reached forward to remove the drape her hair went across my shoulders and women’s hair really turns me on. I visualized for and instant that she was back there preparing to peg me! We went to the wash stations in the back and I sat in the chair which has a vibrating seat, reclined and relaxed. Hot towel on my face, luxurious scalp massage, the vibrating chair, the thought of the hair stylist pegging my ass all converged into a Mini-O. Legs shaking and penis pulsating in time with my PC contractions. I kind of had to fight to keep from flipping over into a full blown Super-O. The wash over, I walked back to the styling chair with a stupid grin. Luckily the pre-cum soaking my underwear had not made an appearance through my shorts.