Tag: Relaxation

All night long

As you may know, I’ve spent this week having a session every day. I haven’t had penile masturbation for 10 days and my prostate is starting to react to new stimuli. Having said that, let me tell you about yesterday’s session.

The night started with my usual routine. I had a shower and cleaned myself up, fingered a little bit and headed to my bedroom. I put some towels on the bed, lay on face up, knees up, feet flat, and started to play. Yesterday’s session was about getting used to my aneros. I have been using my prostate vibrator this whole week so my prostate gets to recognize new sensations and become more sensitive, it seems it worked.

I lubed my aneros and slided it in. The toy is really made to be inserted in an ass, as it is so comfortable that you almost don’t feel a thing, but this time I did feel something. I tried to relax more and, a few minutes later, my legs started to shake. I was able to feel how the toy was pressing against my porstate when it moved. Was it a strong sensation? Well, I had to focus on my prostate to feel something, but it’s been an improvement that only took a week. Minutes passed and I started to feel even more relaxed. I was experiencing new sensations and the toy was doing its thing even if it was still difficult to feel. Suddenly, I got to experience a new sensation, my body stopped shaking and I felt a peace I had never felt before, it was like being out of my body, it was very pleasurable. Read more »

Moving forward

It seems that posting my experiences has become a habit. I have to tell you that this last week has been incredible regarding the progress I have done. I still have a lot to improve, but I’m moving forward. Before starting to tell you what happened during yesterday’s session, let me explain myself. As I have been doing a session almost everyday during this week and the amount of new sensations I have discovered is huge, my story won’t be as accurate as I would like it to be. It is possible that I mix information from other sessions or change the order the events really happened. Anyways, all that I’m about to tell you happened.

So, yesterday, I decided to try my prostate vibrator again, as my prostate had become more sensitive during the previous sessions. I have to say that I was looking forward to having a session, as I had some nipple play in the afternoon and I has able to have a dry orgasm for the first time (it seems that my mind didn’t let my body ejaculate in order to be fully prepared for the night). That said, I took a long shower, cleaned myself up, relaxed, put some towels on my bed, lay down, face up, knees up, feet flat, and I started. Read more »

Just did something new.

Disclaimer: i have not achieved super o, only a few small dry os.

So I was jerking off, about halfway through, and I wqs feeling a little different. I was feeling a little bit like I do during an aneros session, a little call to relax. So I did.

Normally with a traditional orgasm a la the hand, you actively get yourself “worked up”, “excited”, and tense until you climax release.

I instead took the methods I use during an aneros session and used them while jerking off. I actively relaxed as much as I could, kept jerking, and relaxed my mental state and got to that sort of drifting meditative feeling you get during a session when you also a little “high” or lightheaded. I kept jerking off, but I also almost completely forgot about my dick, I just let my hand keep going and relaxed my body and mind.

Then I just relaxed more and more, sought after and allowed myself to drift in the lightheadedness. I paid some attention to my prostate and it kinda felt like my prostate was very much swelling and filling my body.

Then I came. The seamen / fluid was normal, regular fluid, not just prostate fluid, and the refractory period afterward was normal, but it *felt* different.

I can only describe it as a prostate-cenrered traditional orgasm. I forgot about my dick, drifted in mental peace like an aneros session, and came while mentally relaxed instead of a tensing and release, though there were contractions as normal. Read more »

Making progress

Hi again. If you have read my previous posts, you know that I am trying to achieve a prostate orgasm, let me tell you how things are going.

Yesterday I decided to have another session making use of my prostate vibrator. My mind is starting to change, as I don’t look for a wet orgasm anymore, I’m focused on achieving a dry one during my sessions. In the afternoon, I had some nipple play that almost made me cum, but I prevented myself from doing so, as I wanted to be 100% for the night. I haven’t had penile stimulation for a week, I only had a hands free wet orgasm (HFWO) some days ago, so I was horny as fuck.

In order to prepare myself, I followed my new routine. I had a shower, cleaned my insides and relaxed. I went to my bedroom, put some towels on my bed and I lay on it, face up, kness up, feet flat. I was ready to start my session. I lubed the prostate massager and slided it in. I took it out and I slided it in again. I tried to relax for a few minutes while I was feeling my ass “filled” with my toy. Once I was more relaxed, I switched it on. This time, I looked for a pattern that would make me feel comfortable. I finally found one, it was as yesterday’s, my toy buzzed, but, after buzzing, I felt 2 beats. So, it was it, my toy started to buzz and hit my ass until it moved and pressed against my prostate. I tried to relax even more and enjoy the sensations. Read more »

Sphincter contracting by itself

I was laying on my side in bed on my phone when I noticed for some reason my sphincter was trying to contract by itself. No other muscles. I tried focusing on it and relaxing it every time it contracted to its natural state. By doing this, it would go back and forth w/ little to no actual involvement on my side aside from making it relax. I had a couple build ups leading to strong jolts of pleasure from it but that was it because I was tired and had a long day in class and took a nap.

I have noticed though that this seems to be really helpful in getting a sort of “passive” pleasure when I’m in bed on my phone. I recommend trying something similar. Like just focus on solely your asshole and trying to relax it and seeing if it comes back at you by trying to contract again to it’s natural state and then relaxing it again like a cycle.

I ended up with a smile

Hi again, it seems I’ll be posting some more experiences as they are really helping me.

Yesterday’s session was really special, as it was the most intense one I had ever had, but let’s start from the beginning. I prepared myself for the session I was waiting for. I shaved, brushed my teeth, took a long shower, cleaned myself up (I’m starting to enjoy this, it makes everything easier) and fingered a little bit to get in the mood. I put 2 towels on my bed (just in case) and I got prepared to enjoy myself. I lay, face up, knees up, feet flat, and I decided to start.

I lubed my prostate massager (it is not far bigger than an aneros) and I slided it it. I needed to take it out and put it in again as it is not as comfortable as my aneros, but, in the end, everything was fine. My body was expecting me to switch it on, but I waited. I used that time to feel the toy inside me. It moved a little bit and I had an aneroslike sensation for a few moments. At this time, my body was begging me to turn it on, and so I did. The toy has 9 different vibration patterns, being the first one an slow but continuous vibration. My body decided that it would be a nice starting point. The sensations were great, but they became greater when my ass started moving the toy and placed it just againts my prostate. Firstly, I thought the toy was going to fall, but, after checking it, my ass was embracing it and I was completely sure it wouldn’t go out. By the time I realised how good it was feeling, the toy was already hitting my prostate quite hard, so I decided to increase the vibration by changing the pattern. The second pattern is the same as the first, but it is stronger. It really changed something as my legs started shaking a few minutes later. However, I wanted to try something different, so I changed the pattern till I found one that fitted me. Read more »

New Decade

For me, after several months of dull or limiting sessions in my Aneros journey, I have almost stopped having them.

Then, I suddenly and unexpectedly reached new heights in the last seven days. It started with finding out that I may be alone for several days and nights that inspired me to prepare mentally and physically for potentially long sessions that would allow me to relax and re-discover pleasure, and continue my journey. I was getting very excited about that. Whilst that didn’t transpire, I held back and decided not to orgasm in a traditional way. What followed was completely unbelievable, phenomenal and blew my mind completely.

Day 1 – On day 1, my partner went to bed early. He didn’t know that I was holding out, so I decided to just lay next to him and slip in a generic massager that was closest to me. I didn’t experience any overwhelming sensations, but it was pleasant. This increased my arousal further and I wanted more. Read more »

First steps

Hi again. As said in my last post (“Trying to explore further”), I was preparing myself to have an aneros session, and so I did.

Before starting my session I had a long shower. I used that time to relax, clean myself (inside too, hehe) and stretch a little bit. I rarely finger myself as I can’t sense my prostate, but I really like the feeling I get, so I went on for a few minutes. I first inserted my middle finger, however, I knew I could take more and I slid my index finger too. It didn’t hurt. I massaged myself from the inside trying to enjoy the experience. Afterwards, I washed my hands and I was ready to start my session.

I put a couple of towels on my bed and lay on, face up, knees up, feet flat. As I was already relaxed, I decided to introduce my aneros helix trident. I lubed it and it went in quite easily. I would like to say that an incredible sensation started forming, etc. But no. Inserting the toy felt good, but that’s all (I’m quite new in this, don’t expect me telling that I had incredible orgasms, one day I will, but not for now). Read more »

Prostate very sensitive

Hi all, for a few months i’ve been experimenting with prostate play. I tried many different toys, aneros/njoy/nexus being some of them. I got very nice sensations but not the super-o so many of you rave about.

However that changed quickly after I tried something new: I always liked the feeling of a normal dildo, however you get tired pretty quick. But, I found out, I only needed to insert the dildo very shallow and start to throb it towards my prostate. I quickly felt my butt started clenching involuntary, at one point I felt like it was squeezing my prostate so hard it was going to explode. My whole body started shaking, and this was the most intense pleasure I ever felt in my life. I never had much precum, only a few little drops, but this time it was significant.

After doing it a few more times later on I felt my prostate became VERY sensitive. I work in office, it has been about 4 days since the last super-0 but I’m constantly feeling my prostate while sitting. Like it’s moving/pulsing or something like that. I’ve had some annoying tingling before but this time it’s on a whole different level. I’m trying to ignore it for the most part but it’s very difficult to resist sometimes, it has become way too easy to get the prostate waves / contractions going. I can barely get to sleep (following Ukraine conflict probably doesn’t help :P), every time I try to relax my perineum starts pulsing which is very annoying. Ejaculation helps a bit, so I’ve been masturbating the normal way over the past few days, even doing it as much as three times a day to ease the feelings. However as I’m typing I’m feeling the pressure down there, I probably have to masturbate again in order to sleep. It feels like my prostate has taken over my body! Read more »

Trying to explore further

Hi again, I don’t think anyone is going to read this (apart from my future self), but I wanted to relate my experience and objectives.

I am just a guy in my early 20s that is trying to feel new kinds of pleasure, this time, making use of my prostate. The thing is that this is not the first time I tried to achieve hands free orgasms, indeed, I spent more than 3 years trying to obtain “metalgasms” or “nipplegasms”. Here is where the story begins:

One day, I was looking for new masturbation methods on the internet (I was virgin as fuck and I still am, so I wanted to try something new) when I suddenly came accross with a 20-minutes video that explained how to cum without touching your dick. I have always been curious about all kinds of self pleasure (I really need a gf…), so, I gave it a chance. I was sure that I wouldn’t be successful in the first try, but I didn’t imagine that it would take me almost 4 years to have my first HFO. To be honest, I felt very frustrated so many times because I couldn’t get what I was trying to get, but when it happened, I was happy I hadn’t given up before. Read more »