Tag: Relaxation

2nd super o

It’s been awhile since I’ve listened to that super o audio file by Shibby, which I have not orgasmed to yet. With all the progress made, this time the experience was so different I did manage a super o and a couple lesser orgasms.

Following her guidance, I relaxed and tried to give up control. It seemed that the less control I tried to exert, the more pleasure I would receive. Eventually, the super o came and it was different from my first one which was felt mostly like a super dry orgasm. In this 2nd one there was a very strong sense of an orgasm throughout the body and not localised to the prostate. My whole body was cumming for about 30 seconds straight. I noticed that i was seeing flashes of red and blue. It could have been from my eyes trying to roll to the back of my head from all the pleasure and being in the afternoon, the red could have been some of the natural light that was entering my dim room.

As the super o started to subside, I noticed that my orgasm started to slow down and pulse slowly. It was a slow orgasm! My hips were thrusting ever so slightly in tune with each contraction.

Didn’t feel the need to ejaculate immediately but I did edge for a short while to some porn. It took a lot of effort to not ejaculate! Looking forward to how this affects my next session.

Some progress

I’ve made little progress since my last blog. I’ve actually felt some pleasure not in my prostate but in my anus. I’ve decided that since I can feel sensations in my anus I would focus on that since I don’t really feel anything in my prostate. Not until I’m very aroused anyway. Here’s how my session went. I began by taking a hot shower, witch is something I’ve found helps me relax, then after I dried of I lied in bed and did some deep breathing. Then I began caressing my thighs. Then I applied some lube to my anus and gently messaged to relax the anal sphincters. At first I didn’t feel anything so I began focusing on my anus near the opening. That made me more aware of of sensations but I still couldn’t feel much pleasure. That’s when I realized that I had to have erotic feelings if I wanted to feel any pleasure. So I began I set about finding a fantasy that would help. But that didn’t work either so I just lied there and focused on the physical sensations. Then I started thinking of the sensations as pleasurable instead of just there and that’s what did it. That’s all it took. I didn’t have an orgasm and the pleasure wasn’t constant it came and went, kinda like waves. But that’s ok because I enjoyed myself. I guess before I wasn’t able to get of some of those nagging thoughts in my head that prevented me from feeling anything. I think I’ve a great leap but there’s still a lot left learn about myself.

Am I making good progress?

I’ve used the aneros 3 times so far. The first time it was pretty uncomfortable and I couldn’t really stay relaxed so I just jerked off with the aneros in. Same thing happened the second time. The orgasm definitely was way better with the aneros in though. However, this third time, it started out uncomfortable but quickly it felt as if it wasn’t even in my ass at all. By that I just mean, it wasn’t uncomfortable, but also I didn’t really feel any pleasure from it either. It was like that for about an hour until i just finished off regularly.

“Day 9 and Rolling!”

[Thanks to @darkbond for the inspiration and positive success!]

Introduction
I reached Day 6 of SR and began to think: will I need to ejaculate soon due to blue-balls? I read a post from @darkbond recently giving a “Cool Draw” breathing technique for control of blue balls. I was a little skeptical at first, but decided to give it a try.

Well, three days later I am now at Day 9 with absolutely no hint of blue-balls! I have been performing the “Cool Draw” technique every day and it seems to be keeping the blue-balls at bay! I hope that it will continue to work.

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Here is some additional information I got from Reddit on this subject:

“A Technique for Aiding Unwanted Erections, Blue Balls and Wet Dreams”

“I have mentioned this before, I hope some find this useful.

Upon pressure in testicles (blue balls) or unwanted erections, perform technique right away. For wet dream prevention, perform everyday before bed.

Sit down and sit up straight, spine straight, do not lie down. Suck in your gut as hard as you can while simultaneously breathing out. Suck in abs, exhale, do this forcefully. Let go and inhale, relax abdomen and then repeat, suck in abdomen and exhale forcefully. Hold the hollow position of sucking in the gut and hold the breath exhaled for as long as you can in between cycles. Visualize energy going from below the waist, to up higher in the spine. Read more »

Another crazy session

This session was really pleasurable. The Aneros was automatically pushing into my prostate and with every thrust I felt a p-wave emanate from the prostate. Unlike the previous session, this circle of pleasure kept growing bigger with each pulse and eventually spread out through the whole body.

Theres so many kinds and levels of pleasure/orgasms/orgasmic pleasure that it really gets difficult to tell exactly happened during the session.

After awhile I relaxed abit, my penis went flaccid but it felt like the Aneros was so deeply engaged with the prostate, that with each heartbeat I could feel the Aneros tapping on it, it was lightly pleasurable.

The amount of pre-cum was unprecedented, I never had so much pre-cum that it dripped right off the penis! I lightly touched it and it was pleasurably electric, it was so sensitive I pulled away my hand just in case I ejaculated.

The First Night

Decided to recant my first night of Super-Os as part of my blog. Hope you all enjoy reading:

Well. I just had my first Super O and then I followed it up with 20+ more over the next 5 hours.

And all Anerosless!!!

Mind you today I started the day with the Helix Syn and the Progasm session before I left for my flight to Atlanta. About 6 months into my journey and I was getting pwaves and like micro mini Os. Just some light pulsating and I can feel the in-voluntaries but up to this point nothing more than 10-15 secs. Nothing changed with this morning session.

For the last 4 days I have been reading and practicing the exercises from The MultiOrgasmic Man. No jacking off for 4 days…Sharpening the Knife every morning. 300+ Kegels a day. Using Cool Draw starting on the 3rd day.

I get on the plane and as I am on there I decide to do some kegels. I was shooting for 100. I got to about 50 and something strange happened. I was getting the pulsating I get with the Aneros but this was without. I stopped….did a few Cool Draws and then I was done.

I met up with my friends and we got to the vacation home. All was well. We were just enjoying each others company. After Dinner we went home and I lay down on the couch. I fell asleep. Woke up like 30 mins later and decided let me finish today’s kegels. Read more »

I was given another puzzle piece.

I was enjoying myself Friday night, riding my waves of induced pleasure when out of nowhere helix gets sucked up hard… Let me explain what I mean

Seems my prostate still hasn’t decided to join the party yet. How do I know this. After spending multiple times doing nothing, and nothing happening except the random twinge, this can be the only answer. Now don’t think I’m getting frustrated because of this, I’m not. I feel that I’m still ahead of the curve. So in the mean time I’ll do both, some do nothing and some external massage of the sweet spot inducing orgasmic bliss. Doing this is cheating but not interfering with progressing as this point is going to get stimulated in the process and allows me to work on the amount of contraction required to get the involuntary’s going plus the head is dancing around on the pleasure center.

So as I was saying, I was enjoying some light bliss, when without warning helix was thrust deep inside. My orgasmic sensation went away which I thought was strange but was presented with a new sensation. I had been holding a 50% contraction when this happened. I could feel my anal & rectal muscles moving in opposite directions in flowing waves like they were fingers trying to learn about what they now felt. This was the first time when I stopped massaging that a feeling didn’t stop at the same time. I’m unsure of how long this lasted, seconds perhaps? This did stop when I slowly started to release the contraction to completion when I tried to just relax and let it flow. I think If I had just held the same 50% these waves would have lasted much longer but having never experienced it before I was unsure what to do with them, I won’t make that mistake in the future. Read more »

Getting close?

Last night was a thrill ride. It had been 2-3 days since I last came and decided that was a good time to have a session. I grabbed my helix syn, porn, hash oil pen and I was off to the races. Usual build up of that buzzing but rather than focusing on it I just let things happen while I tried to relax and focused on my breathing. 30 minutes or so in and I’m starting to notice how hypersensitive everything is to the touch, and breathing starts to feel a little more shallow. By this point too my left hand starts to twitch a bit; my hand was on my left thigh as it was spazzing.

When I climaxed, it felt different than the times I had before. Usually when this happens, I’m fully erect and ejaculate. This time, I was fully (or maybe half) flaccid but came buckets. Also after coming, I felt both exhausted but hornier than I did when I started (ended up jerking 2-3 more times last night before going to bed).

How close am I to the P orgasm? Did I just achieve it? Does anyone else ejaculate without being fully erect?

My first time with Aneros

I got a MGX and the first time I used it I was relaxed and listening to some gwa stuff. I felt some heat and it felt preety good. I was grinding on my bed, came, aneros popped out, I washed it then went to sleep. The next day I tried to use my Aneros and I didn’t feel anything and its been like that since I first used it. Am I doing something wrong?

“Sometimes, You’re Just Not Aroused”

Introduction
At Day 4 of SR and sleeping all-night in my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup”, I got-up around 1 AM but not with an erection. Nevertheless, I decided on a session with the MGX Classic. I lubed-up with SSG and started. Much to my amazement, I got no anal contractions like last time, nor did the MGX elicit an erection. After about 20 minutes, I got my “therapeutic effect” of this prostate massage (probably without precum but I didn’t look) but little else. Of course, I was disappointed but actually, I had no expectations going-in. So this session was a “wash”!

Listening “Erection” Session
I then retreated to my sofa and put-on some YouTube selections which were relaxing and soothing. While listening, I thought that I would experience at least one erection (like an NPT). But, alas, none were coming my way! {PS Toward the end, I decided to “cheat” and put-on a binaural beat for inducing an erection: it worked well and quickly too but couldn’t be sustained. When I stopped listening, the erection faded. Oh well…..}
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A couple of things I notice about these erections. First, I do not know the “timing” of them, that is: how often can I expect to get one? And second, once the erection starts (without help from, for example, binaural beats) it is virtually impossible to stop it! So when they come naturally, they are especially arousing. That is why I usually wait until the start or near the “end” of the erection to initiate an Aneros massage session. Read more »