Tag: Relaxation

Beginner tips

This week I’ve had my first go at my new Progasm. Like most beginners I didn’t manage to orgasm, but the experience was quite pleasurable all in all, quite possibly the most pleasure I’ve ever had from anal stimulation.

The problem is- I had to force it. I’ve heard lots of people here use what is called the ‘do nothing’ method where you just go into deep relaxation and just focus on the sensations, and eventually and gradually some spasming begins and grows overtime.
I tried this method,in a sense. I layed in my bed for about 40 minutes I reckon, completely relaxed and meditated, ocassionally clenching very slowly as the manual instructs and trying to focus on the sensations, but nothing happened. Not even a twitch. Eventually I gave up and began clenching and unclenching rapidly to massage my prostate ‘manually’. The pleasure was great like I said, but I became exhausted quickly and had to stop and take a breather. Repeated this several time but ultimately couldn’t reach an orgasm.
I do want to eventually be able to get results from the first method, since it sounds like it yields better results by far, but like I mentioned nothing was happening? Is it because I was clenching? Should I just forget that it’s in? Really need some advice on how to make this work..

Eupho Classic, Wow! Monday morning session, November 19

Hi guys,

According to our Aneros glossary in our Wiki, “butt buzz is persistent, even insistent energy in your anus, rectum, prostate, perineum, scrotum/testicles area, sometimes experienced spontaneously apart from an Aneros session. Faint to mild muscle spasms leading to an orgasm my occur.” I’ll add that this sweet energy is also localized in the root of my penis. Also in recent weeks, I have had butt buzz abundantly in times of my Aless.

Butt buzz (at least recently) like Aless has been a continuous experience for me often lurking in the background, but emerges in the foreground in surprising ways and times. This was my experience at church yesterday and all throughout the afternoon. However, I enjoy engaging my Aless and butt buzz directly in bed at night through diddling and gentle Kegels while wearing my jocks and cups. Absolute sweetness.

Early this morning I had a session which lasted about 1.25 hours in which I used Eupho Classic, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE.

I was amazed at how my anal musculature gripped my Eupho Classic. I really enjoyed this feeling as I relaxed fully, a technique that I have settled into in the last month or so in my sessions. The Eupho prepared me nicely for my other three Aneros models.

I decided to take my time with this morning’s session as I endeavored to savor the action of my four models. Also I must say that it was a heavy duty session which wore me out. Read more »

A smooth operator.

In a recent post I asked about people’s favourite model and which one they simply couldn’t part with. I mentioned that there were a couple that I hadn’t particularly hit it off with. One of these is, or as I should say now, was my MGX Trident. It has lain in my box among the others with only a couple of outings since I bought it. As I was looking at it a few days ago I began to compare its slightly dull and marble-like finish to that of my Progasm Ice and Junior that are highly polished and shiny. Thinking I had nothing to lose I proceeded to smooth the MGX and polish its surface until it too had a nice glossy finish. I tried it out for the first time last night not really knowing if it would make any difference, but by the end of the session I was convinced it had. From the moment of insertion it felt super slippy so I just lay back to await the response. After a few minutes I felt the first anal contraction begin, I always feel this at the start of a session, it’s like my body has acknowledged that the Aneros is there and begins to work with it. That first contraction was long and slow, I thought it would never end. When it did end my anal muscles relaxed and I felt the MGX moving back in the opposite direction. The pressure of the P-tab is the strongest among all my models I think. I was not in control of the contractions and offered no input. Slowly and rhythmically the tool was drawn in and then slid back again, the ridges at the base being felt with each cycle. By now my penis was rigid and spilling so much pre cum that it had began to pool on my stomach and trickle down my side, glad that I had the foresight to protect the bedding. I was anxious to try face down position as it has been quite new discovery for me, it was rather difficult given my arousal but eventually I managed to persuade my penis into a 6.00 o clock position somehow. Once settled, lying nice and comfortable, legs slightly akimbo, the rhythmic feeling of penetration and withdrawal began again. I have experienced the “auto-fxxk” sensation before, but it has always been quite a rapid fire action while this one was slow and gentle. Before long I drifted into a fantasy and scenario, the details of which are best kept to myself I think : ) I am grateful to Monstermash256 for bringing face down sessions to the fore, I am finding it a most relaxing position. The only slight problem for me is that my erections seem to have become quite persistent during a session for some reason. But I have a plan, @goldenboy, if you read this, a strap and cup are on order!
By the way, the other model that I have reservations about is my Maximus Trident. I have given it the same treatment as the MGX, it is also now shiny and polished. I have yet to try it but I will report back when I have.

short and pleasurable session (still no O)

Came home very tired and after a couple of beers, wasn’t aroused but what the hell why not. Inserted Helix Syn, with underwear on. Didn’t feel much at the beginning, started doing some light contractions and within a minute they turned into involuntaries with whole body spasms and shakes. Tried to stay relaxed as much as I could but deep breathing still interferes with the pleasure.

What was particular for this session is that I started to feel very sexy and at the same time confident and comfortable in my body. Often times when I get really aroused with anal/prostate play I started to feel kind of womanly and that is somewhat awkward and confusing. This time it wasn’t a concern, I felt whole and beautiful and erotically awoken, with this energy flowing through my whole body, releasing the tention and transcending into bliss.

Touching the nipples lightly would trigger lightnings through my whole body that wouldn’t stop. It was very intense but I was tired and when another wave subsided a bit decided to go to sleep.

first time with hypnaerosession (blew me away)

My god was it something.

The idea to combine aneros with hypnosis always seemed promising. As I had mentioned before, I tried some “erotic hypnosis” tracks on pornhub but they were a huge distraction (although pleasurable). I also tried some general relaxation self-hypnosis before the sessions. So I was very excited to find about the Hypnaerosession – a special 2-CD self-hypnosis recording specifically to use with Aneros (you can find them on the website and purchase as a CD or as a download).

Had the evening to myself so after a good meal, a movie and a bath I went to bed, put my headphones and hit play. Immediately I was told to insert my Aneros which I did. The voice sounded rather sexy and I felt eager to give up to instructions.

I was very aroused and started having a throbbing hard-on (which is rare for my sessions). The hypnosis has really started to do its thing, and I started to uncovering levels of relaxation and pleasure unthought of before. Visualizations were very helpful and worked well to continue to build up the arousal. And when she started to instruct to touch the body lightly, the lightning bolts of whole-body pleasure started driving me mad. Read more »

Wish I’d had another hour……………… or three :-)

Once it gets going Progasm feels like a penis in me where a vagina would be, lower than my asshole.

This session got really good. Something about this device, once the big O hits, this thing can keep bringing on wave after wave after wave of contractions for a few minutes. Maybe with its smoothness it just slides better. Just kind of falling away from myself, relaxing, and letting the tool work makes it keep on going.

Started out on my stomach, face down of course. This got things going in about ten minutes. Felt that heat and tightness in my prostate building up and WHAM! I’d have a minute or three of pleasure pulses and then a delay of thirty seconds or so then back to it.

After about 30 minutes I got up to pee. I got on my back afterwards with my knees bent. I get much better involuntary, rapid fire contractions in this position though I’m starting to have more on my chest. Something about that pee break never fails to bring on some major O activity once I’m back on my back or stomach. Wasn’t two minutes before I was lifting my hips off the bed. Just incredible. Things just kept getting better. Actually had a short full body seizure like event at this point too. Have not had one of those in weeks.

Time actually REALLY got away from me this time. Just lost in the pleasure. Was surprised when I found out what I thought was twenty minutes had been thirty. Read more »

Breakthrough and realization

I had my best session to date this morning and it just happened to be A-less. My wife left for work and I was getting ready to take a shower, I got undressed and decided to just lay down on the bed for a little bit and see if I could just relax and make myself feel good. I laid on my back knees up cocked flopped forward and down and just relaxed for a couple minutes, It felt good to just not think about anything and relax, i started some nipple stimulation and was suprised at the response my body gave me. I started to feel warm sensations in my groin and my prostate twitched a couple times very gently. My cock started to get hard on its own like i was 16 again. I continued to play with my nipples and relax into the feelings, I was moaning and breathing heavy, heart was racing and occasionally a quick sudden spasm would go through my body. This went on for several minutes and the feelings where getting more and more pleasurable. I was making noises and moaning and moving around still breathing heavy. I started thinking something is happening here I never make noises like this and shake with pleasure this much even during traditional orgasm. This went on for at least 5 minutes and then calmed down. I just laid there for a minute to see what would happen, everything just wound down. i did not want to try and start over again so I got up to get my shower. My heart was still pumping faster then normal I felt flushed and relaxed but not drained. I believe i was orgasming like I have never before and did not realize what was happening. It had to be some form of orgasm I was involuntarily making noises and moving around cock was three quarters hard and felt great with no stimulation. recently I have been having hfwo’s with my Aneros in at the end of sessions. i think i was getting clost to dry o’s but the switch would go off to more traditional ejaculation response. Not this time however, not even the slightest feeling of build up to ejaculation just mild pleasure throughout with an occasional heavy contraction or spasm. I realized all these other times I have been expecting some type of Orgasm that resembled a traditional orgasm and have been dissapointed when It did not happen. I would then tense up gyrate around and force myself to have a hfwo. Not this time however and no aneros involved. Not sure what it was but it felt very good. Had great plans of trying again later with the Aneros to see if I could duplicate the experiance. Well that did not work, got interupted by the phone, then my dog and could not get anything going. I hope that was not my one and only something O. i am just going to keep moving forward on this journey it has been starting to get very interesting and pleasurable lately.

my journey so far

Encouraged by https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/110569-learn-helpful-links-for-new-members, decided to blog my own journey, even if only for my future reference.

Can’t remember now how I came to knowing about Aneros let alone buying one, perhaps during one of the tumblr porn surfing sessions. Anyway, have had the Helix Syn for a while but really started to use it regularly a few months before.

I am not new to anal play and even had a kind of anal orgasm once, back when I was a teenager (33 now), and used prostate massagers for fun with my wife and alone, but never really new about the possibility of Super-O and “rewiring” until recently. I’ve heard about involuntary contractions and the intense prostate pleasure, but never found them, and voluntary contractions would get me aroused but my muscles got tired quickly and it ruined the experience.

Finding the wiki got me really excited so I decided to give the whole thing another go. I would wake up early, when the family was still sleeping, which would give me about two hours of almost-private time in the living room, the best I could have in the circumstances. I would take a shower, use coconut oil as the lube and started doing the contractions.

At this very time, I got interested in male kegels (unrelated to Aneros) and got pretty good at feeling and controlling my PC muscles. That definitely helped with the aneros sessions. Read more »

“There When I Need It The Most”

Introduction
What is “it”? And where was “it” when it was needed? Of course, I am referring to my “chastity cup” which I wore to bed last night. It was my Mueller Flex Cup, one of my favorites. I am now in Day 6 of semen retention and feeling the effects of increased testosterone. One thing about wearing a cup to bed is the interaction of my erections within the cup: the top of the cup rubs nicely against my erect penis and especially the frenulum; this action almost keeps the erection going for much longer than normal, when, without stimulation, the erection would begin to subside. With stimulation from the cup, an erection can last 30 minutes or longer. And because when I wear a cup all night, I can have an almost constant “stream” of stimulating erections (NPTs that all normal males must experience) when I am aware of them.

Session
Of course, all these erections make me very horny. In fact, without the protection of the cup, by Day 6, I would be so horny that I would need to ejaculate. Since I usually develop blue-balls any day after Day 6, the pressure is mounting for me to ejaculate! Read more »

“Sheer Frustration…..Averted!”

Background
I have been sleeping at night without wearing a “chastity cup”. A good feeling, except when I am awakened by a rock-hard erection. That happened again this morning and the pinnacle was when my “stick” emerged from my PJ bottoms! Since I am in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of not ejaculating for 4 days. Any rubbing on the frenulum sends me to a place where my only thoughts revolve around…..ejaculating! Since I want to avoid that now, I had no choice but to quench the fire and put-on my XO cup!
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Moaning
Sometimes if I am having a good Aneros session, I will experience some rather involuntary “moans”. Those moans came back again this morning, but this time not because of a prostate massage. The moans came because it felt so good wearing the cup as I had the satisfaction of ejaculatory protection around my male member. It seemed to settle things down and quite rapidly! I know with my new “rule” I could have extended the frenulum-rubbing against the cup but this time, it felt good just to relax and let things settle-down normally.
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Session
With only about an hour to go before I had to rise for the day, I decided on a quick session. I knew in advance that I wanted the Eupho Classic for this ride. The Eupho is a delicate work of art, crafted to glide-in to my most private area and begin to stimulate my prostate in a very delicate way. This session did not fail to disappoint me and I felt the effects immediately. ‘Sheer prostate heaven’ as I experienced both voluntary and involuntary contractions. The Eupho’s curved, bulbous head makes gentle contact in and around my prostate. This short (~15 minute) session was stimulating and invigorating. I ended this session not wanting any more.
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Conclusion
I have found that wearing a jockstrap with (or without) a cup is a perfect complement to my sexual style and helps keep me focused on my role as a male! It is a normal and natural (albeit male) piece of apparel! Weird or kinky?…….no way! Read more »