Tag: Relaxation

My first Super-O!

Wow. Where to begin? I’m still shaking after coming down from the most amazing orgasm. And now I get what people are on about when they try to differentiate between an orgasm, multiple orgasms and a super orgasm.

I’ve been playing with my prostate for about 9 months, buying many (many) prostate toys, mostly vibrating (wrong!) and mostly big (wrong!). Then, less than a month ago I purchased an Aneros MGX. I knew something was right the first time I used it, little (nice) tingly feelings around my anus and it was ‘bouncing’ on my prostate like it was playing a drum – not hard, just nice.

Reading the posts on here taught me to forget about goals, relax and enjoy the journey. That, for me, was the one of the key things. The other was buying some coconut oil – I’d realised that the lubricant I was using was not right for me, it was too ‘sticky’ and seemed to dry out too fast.

The coconut oil arrived on Wednesday, so after work I showered, got onto the bed, watched some porn and, after I was suitably aroused, I covered the MGX with coconut oil, put a bit of the old lube on my anus and slipped it in. It took a while to bring me to the boil but that night I had (what I now know to be) my first prostate orgasm. I think I said “Holy Fuck” or something like as I laid there in shock. But then, not long afterwards another shook through me, then another, and another… this went on for about 15 mins. I was floating on cloud 9. Read more »

Session 7

I had a nice long session Sunday afternoon. Actually, even before my session I had some very enjoyable chats in the chat room, including one with a guy who was having a nice A-less session. He was kind enough to share what he was experiencing with me, and reading his descriptions created a sort of echo of the sensations in me. I wasn’t able to perpetuate them, but it was still enjoyable. I really enjoy hearing/reading about others’ Aneros/A-less experiences. I think it helps me learn. The human mind is very good at synthesizing little bits of information into something new and wonderful, and I hope the stories and experiences others relate to me will help me reach new and exciting places on this journey.

After some other interesting chatting, and lunch, I decided to start my session. My husband was out of town, so I had plenty of time to enjoy myself and experiment in different ways, and no deadline. One of the challenges I’ve had with my sessions is feeling like there’s an imaginary egg timer ticking away in my head. Is it time to get ready for work? Is my husband going to be home soon? I usually set an actual timer to make sure I don’t go too long, so I should be able to just relax and enjoy the ride while it lasts. But something in my head won’t just let go. I chatted with several people who said they have the same challenge, so at least I know I’m not alone. Read more »

“A New Tease-and-Denial Fantasy”

Background
While in semen retention, there comes a time when an ejaculation is necessary. In Day 7 of SR this morning, I thought that time was here. I was wrong! Let me explain…..

I decided to sleep in my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup overnight; it is quite supportive and arousing yet restrictive. I awoke about 4 AM with a PONR-feeling caused by the slight rubbing of my frenulum against the inside of the cup. This is a wonderfully-erotic feeling and I believe it went on for perhaps 25 minutes or so. I was not in the mood for an Aneros session so instead I opted to listen to some nice, relaxing tracks. I expected to edge and ejaculate. What came next completely blew me away!

Fantasy
I settled-in on my comfortable couch with headphones on and began to listen. At some point, I fell-into a fantasy. I am laying with my chastity “keyholder” and she “allows” me to remove my nylon shorts and chastity cup. She proceeds to lightly caress and stroke my balls, perineum and cock. I feel relief that I will now be allowed to cum. But something is missing! She deliberately and deftly avoids touching my frenulum! I know that light touch on this part of the male anatomy can induce an ejaculation. I don’t yet feel that unmistakable “almost-there” feeling of being near the PONR and an ejaculation. All of that is now missing! Read more »

Session 6

I had another session. It wasn’t so much a session as a marathon, or maybe two sessions on either end of “retaining.” I dunno, define it how you like.

I got my Progasm Red Ice and Eupho Trident in the mail. I tried both, as well as using the Helix Trident, during this session. I like all three! I’m still very inexperienced, but they are all very different.

I started Thursday evening with the Eupho Trident. I figured I’d go small to large. I lubed up and inserted it and laid on a towel on the floor. I was on the floor this time instead of the bed because someone I chatted with recommended it. Being on a firm surface gives more control. I am not certain I noticed a difference, but I’m not sure I didn’t either, and I agree with the theory.

The Eupho went in nice and easy, of course. It’s quite narrow. I have fingers fatter than that thing. I laid on my back and relaxed and tried to focus on what I was feeling. I mostly just breathed deeply and concentrated, but I also played with flexing different muscles in different ways to see how it moved. It’s a very agile little device. I think I’m going to very much enjoy learning how to make the most of it. As for this first session, I had low expectations because nearly everyone I have talked to has said it’s a device for experienced users, but I still managed to feel some pleasurable sensations with it. I am getting a little better and feeling where the device is and what it’s doing. Read more »

Session 5

I just realized that my last blog post never went through. Usually I write my posts in some other editor because sometimes web forms screw up. Like this time…. when I chose not to take precautions…. Go figure.

So I’ll be brief and try to recapture most of what I tried to say before but much less verbosely than usual because I’m tired and don’t remember everything I said anyway.

So…. Session 5, two days ago, Monday morning. Not a great one. I thought it could be, but it fizzled. I started out pretty aroused, but stress I’ve been experiencing crept in and spoiled it. So I didn’t get much out of the session sensation-wise. But I still learned things and it was relaxing until the end, when I blew it. More on that shortly.

Lesson #1 from this session: having a routine/ritual is helpful. This is something I had read in the wiki and/or forum posts, but someone in the chat reminded me of it by sharing their routine with me. I took a leaf out of his book and imitated some aspects of it. I took a long hot shower. I warmed up with kegels. I did some stretching. All through this I kept my mind on what I was about to do, trying to generate and maintain an erotic mood. And it worked. I will try to keep that up, create a routine that works for me to get me ready for a session. Read more »

Session 4

Today’s session was better than Monday’s, but still not quite as good as either of the first two. I think the main reason these last two have not been as good is my level of arousal. I think I must have been more aroused the first two times. I was more aroused today than on Monday, and that helped, but I was also tired. I went to bed late last night, I woke up early this morning, and I exercised more than usual. So I think I was a bit drained as well, which offset some of my arousal.

I did a couple things differently this time:
– I used an eye mask to keep out the daylight. That was helpful. I did see light, but more a “seeing stars” kind of light due to the stimulation I was getting from my Aneros in the more intense bits.
– I warmed the lube and Aneros beforehand. That made things more comfortable in the beginning

I began my session more relaxed than on Monday. This was probably partially just because I was tired, but I also avoided thinking about work or other stress-inducing topics and generally tried to remain relaxed an mellow from the time I took my post-workout shower and the time I began my session. This helped me get “in the zone” more quickly. I was able to shut out the outside world and focus on what my body was feeling. The eye mask helped with this as well. Read more »

Session 3

I started my session this morning after exercising, bathing, and practicing my violin. I also checked my work email and went over the more important messages to make my life easier when I got to work. That may have been a mistake, which I’ll get into later.

I lubed up, shooting a little Shibari in as pre-lubrication and applying a dab of Boy Butter H2O on the Helix to ease insertion. I mentioned in an earlier post that I might try this. I’m not sure that the results have been affected by any of the three methods of lubrication I’ve tried. Mobility of the Aneros did not seem limited in any of them. Granted, I have only tried each method once, so it’s hardly scientific. I may try each again and figure out which I prefer.

One thing I think I may try next time is warming the lube and/or the Aneros. The lube was pretty cold and it gave me a bit of a crampy feeling until it reached an equilibrium temperature with my body. Not the most pleasant sensation, and I’d prefer to avoid it in the future. It might have decreased my level of arousal somewhat, and that’s not helpful.

I laid on my back on a towel on my bed, naked except for the glans cover I’ve been using. I thought about foregoing its use this time, but it really does keep the (potential) mess contained, and it helps prevent stimulation to my glans that might be distracting. So I think I’ll probably just continue to use it for the foreseeable future. I pulled the covers over me because the bedroom was cold and tried to relax. Read more »

Session 3

I had my second Aneros session this morning. Let me preface my recounting of it with a few admissions of guilt:
– It was a very long session. I went against the advice of more experienced users who recommended sticking closer to 30 minutes. All told, I had my Aneros in for 3.5 hours.
– It was not actually my second time using the Aneros. I slipped it in one other time between this session and the first as a way of increasing arousal during sex with my spouse. But I don’t really count that as a “session” because I wasn’t focused on the specific sensations the Aneros may have been generating. I wasn’t practicing Aneros.
– Which leads to my third and final confession: After having done that, I was advised by someone to keep Aneros sessions and sex with someone else (or masturbation) separate until I had more experience. I think this advice makes sense and I will follow it in the future, but I didn’t follow it this morning.

They say confession is good for the soul. I don’t know about that, really, but I do know that I want this blog to be as truthful and accurate as possible. Maybe others will learn from my experiences. I hope that I will also learn, both by putting the experiences into words, which forces me to think more deeply about them, and by looking back at the mistakes and successes I have along the way. So yes, at the risk of shame and public recrimination, I will freely admit when I do something that may be unwise or counterproductive. Read more »

HOLY SH*T! Aneros Progasm Jr. 😝

Still buzzing now an hour later after that AMAZING session.

BELOW IS MY JOURNEY TO THE SUPER-O

So im an 18 year old guy and I have always been curious about anal play. Last year, I finally gave in and decided to experiment on different anal plugs etc. until i found out about the SUPER-O and aneros…

So i decided to browse my local sex stores online(New Zealand btw) and found a 50% off sale on the Aneros Progasm. 2 days later i recieved the package and went straight to action.

I lubed up and forced this bad boy in (this was by far the biggest thing i have put up my ass) Also I had no educational experience whatsover on how to achieve prostate orgasms, all i knew was it should be a plug and play kinda thing and it will send you straight to orgasm heaven right?? Well, after session after session of failure i finally gave up… Out of frustration I threw away my progasm (I know its stupid) and decided to stay away from anal play for a while.

A year later here i am now. Again i gave in and decided to give Aneros another shot so i bought an Aneros Porgasm JR. I have browsed all the forums and read on all of the techniques to give myself a confidence boost that this time it might work. I realised from experimentation through my fingers that my prostate was far lower than expected. Read more »

First Session

I got a chance to try out my Helix Trident. Here are some of my thoughts from this first experience.

My first impression upon unboxing my Helix Trident was that it was a LOT smaller than I was expecting. I bought the Helix because it was described as having a “Larger head size for more direct pressure on the prostate.” I was expecting something, well, larger. I guess I had no real frame of reference. I admit to being skeptical that I’d really feel much of anything from something so seemingly diminutive. It’s certainly the smallest thing that I’ve inserted in my rear for pleasure other than my finger in a very long time.

I wasn’t sure which lube to use. I know that’s a common question and the answer varies greatly from person to person. For anal sex and for other toys, I really like the water-based variety of Boy Butter. It is a cream or lotion consistency, which I find makes application much easier. It dissolves easily in water, so cleanup is not a problem, but it also doesn’t dissipate, evaporate, or absorb into my skin as quickly as other lubes I have used. However, it also isn’t quite as slick as liquid lubes I’ve used. I find this is a good thing for other anal toys and for anal sex, where some amount of friction (the “right” amount) is actually desirable, but perhaps not for the Aneros, where free mobility is key. So I opted for Shibari silicone lube, which I prefer for my Fleshlight. It’s slicker and runnier than the Boy Butter and is probably a better fit for use with the Aneros. I may in the future try some of both, by first pre-lubing my rectum with Shibari and coating the Aneros with the Boy Butter, just for grins. Read more »