Tag: Relaxation

Think I just had my first prostate orgasm, where to go from here?

I’ve been trying to achieve a prostate orgasm for a while now, and until today had actually given up on the idea of having one.

After a shower earlier tonight I decided to give it another shot, I had already orgasmed earlier in the day but I figured I may as well give it a shot. I dried myself off, and laid out the towel on my bathroom floor, popped in the helix and laid down on my front and just focused on relaxing. I had read recently that you should keep contractions minimal, as you are trying to gently massage the prostate and contract super hard and squeeze out all of the fluid.

After about 5 minutes of focus on the feeling I started to get a warm feeling, radiating from my prostate, this grew in to an intense sensation but as my breathing and heart rate increased this subsided. After a few more minutes I experienced another wave of the same sensations, and again they subsided as my heart rate increased..

I laid there after these two waves of pleasure, relaxing and focusing on the feeling. While it was nice, I didn’t manage to build up to the same feeling again, and after about 40 minutes I stopped.

While the feeling was great, it wasn’t anything like what I have read prostate orgasms feel like, it was pleasurable but passed quickly and wasn’t even close to a penile orgasm. Read more »

“Report On A Nice Session……Without Aneros!”

This was a session without Aneros (Aless). Let me explain how it happened……

I was awake this morning and contemplating a session with the HIH 950. I went through the motions: I selected and put-on my XO cup and thought about lubing-up the massager and enjoying its pleasures. Then, something strange happened. I was lying in bed just relaxing and began to do some light kegels and began to feel a stirring in my prostate. I let my mind “drift” into the pleasure I was feeling. And before I knew it, I was experiencing some prostate O’s that had me shuddering and convulsing on the bed! Now it has been about 3 days since a “real” Aneros session. I feel that my prostate was “whispering” to me this morning. My mindset was right. Even as I am typing this, I am experiencing a nice, mild “chairgasm”. I can’t help but think that all of this is a direct result of my being “rewired”. To quote the Aneros Wiki: “…..spontaneous pleasure and non-ejaculatory orgasm become increasingly easy to achieve.” How true this was this morning!

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A quest!

Hey!
It’s been a while since my last entry but rest assured I have been keeping tabs on all you guys for inspiration, thanks. I’ve still been enjoying some wonderful sessions but I have noticed some subtle changes in my responses. I am also trying to train myself not to follow the same old routine for every session which seems to be paying off. For instance, my usual position for a session has been on my back, slightly propped up with a pillow or two, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. I found this led to me tensing up my stomach muscles too much when things got going. Of course this impeded my breathing when I felt I should have been more relaxed. So now I adopt a more flat position which lets me release the tension in my abdomen, that immediately felt better. I follow the “do nothing” approach and just let things happen. Using my new position I became aware that when orgasms started I was really clenching hard on the Aneros, fair enough it’s difficult not to, but as the orgasm faded I was still holding it in quite strongly although I thought I had relaxed my “grip” on it. I was quite surprised how much more tension I could release and allow the Aneros some freedom to begin its work again. I am really concentrating hard on this as I find I can bring on the autofxxk response quite well. Also noticeable is that during a session I can go through many phases of different pleasurable sensations. A few times I have had the feeling of an ejaculation building as I approached climax, I could definitely feel the same pumping feeling that I get during ejaculation from traditional masturbation and ejaculation. So far nothing has occurred but it feels so close. I admit that on one occasion after a session I reallly felt the need to cum, I didn’t want to use my hands, I just wanted to somehow get as close as I could to the PONR and let my prostate take over. I found that if I positioned the edge of my duvet over my frenulum while laying flat on my back, any movement at all just kept things on the boil and eventually I felt that incredible sensation when a load is on its way. The resulting ejaculation came from deep within and was intense, and more productive than a normal one, it was strong with many pumps from my prostate. Although it wasn’t truly a HFWO, it has wet my appetite to experience a genuine one. As I am now about 10 days into SR and enjoying all the feelings that come with it, I am trying an experiment. Several times a day for the past two days I have been taking myself as close as I can to the PONR. It has been a torture of sorts but at the same time, so, so arousing, My thoughts are that by the time I settle in for my next Aneros session I will be bursting to cum, hopefully in a hands free manner. Whether I will be lucky enough for it to happen I don’t know, but in any case I will have had some fun trying. My arousal levels are so high just now that my prostate is demanding attention almost as much as my cock. I feel electrified and I’m buzzing with sexual energy.

“It Really Doesn’t Get Any Better Than This!”

I had an incredible session this morning with the HIH 950. All I really expected was a nice “milking” session. What I got was much more. Who knew that this diminutive prostate massager had the power to take me close to an ejaculation and feel like a Super-O? As soon as I lubed-up and started, I felt it hit my sweet spot almost immediately. I am currently in SR Day 8. I have no blue-balls feeling (yet). I decided to put-on my XO cup for this session.

Not too long afterwards, I began to get a strong orgasmic feeling with anal/PC contractions. I had to muffle more than a few screams of pleasure. I knew I was “pumping” prostate fluid because I could feel it make its way down to my cock. One of the descriptions of the Super-O indicates large muscle contractions. I definitely had these during this session. From the beginning of the session, I felt close to ejaculating and honestly felt that I would. That is also another “sign” of a Super-O. To quote from the Aneros Wiki:

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“A Super-O is an overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasm that may involve: durations of minutes at a time; full-body orgasmic waves of pleasure; intense pleasure throughout the pelvic region, particularly the prostate, rectum and surrounding muscles; loss of a sense of reality; strong emotional responses; flashes of color (optical activity in the brain); large muscle contractions; a strong sense of ejaculation (with no emission); protracted involuntary vocalizations, roars or screams; pleasant convulsions; pronounced deep or staccato pelvic thrusting or writhing; a sense of soulful release and relief; a sense of self-redefinition; and, an energized feeling immediately following orgasm and being ready for more (as opposed to post-ejaculation lethargy).” Read more »

20-minute continuous orgasm

Hello r/aneros,

I’ve commented in here a couple times but never posted. Tl;dr at end.

Last night I had a crazy 20-minute orgasm after a 3-hour session with my progasm jr.

I started at 10pm. The first two hours didn’t really feel that good, but I’ve had things arise really late in the past and I just wasn’t satisfied with where I was. This was with and without porn. I thought about smoking weed again but I can’t because of a job interview process.

I then remembered that a lot of people describe the process as having to be “re-wired,” to map the sensations to pleasure centers of the brain. And I pulled out my stash of magic mushrooms. There are studies conducted that show that mushrooms allow your brain to form new neural connections, and I thought, “if my brain needs to be re-wired, maybe this will help.”

So I took one tiny cap at 12am (too much and it kills my libido plus I won’t sleep for hours). I felt the shroom cap hit me. As the feeling washed over me, I felt a deep relaxation in my hips and legs, I was able to put my focus outside of myself, and my prostate started tingling very lightly. It felt good. Not mind-blowing. I watched some porn and squirmed around on my bed for about an hour. Read more »

“Meditation: Frustration and Satisfaction”

Background and Session
I had a nice session with Eupho early this morning, lasting about 30 minutes. I did not sleep in a chastity cup overnight and so I decided on wearing one this morning while I chilled to some relaxing, erotic tracks. I didn’t select my usual XO or Mueller cups which are comfortable and non-restrictive. Instead, I chose my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which is restrictive and very supportive. Of all the cups I have, this one frustrates me in the way it stimulates my entire package. It can accommodate my erect cock as well. I can’t cheat at all while wearing it.

Meditation
While relaxing to some musical tracks (still wearing my cup) I began to meditate on the recent disappointment of some Aneros guys (in the Forum) with their lack of arousal and/or prostate stimulation. And it dawned on me: satisfaction with Aneros is not a guarantee! There will always be a give-and-take, ebb-and-flow of prostate sensations, including orgasms with our sessions. Thus, a prostate orgasm is not a “given” in any Aneros session. Rather, “satisfaction” should arise from other areas of our lives, our prostates are but one small facet of them. Yes, we magnify them because we want the great satisfaction of reporting about our Super-O’s or MMO’s in the Forum. But satisfaction with Aneros should be much deeper than just a fleeting experience during a session. When taken in the context of the “whole male experience” our Aneros sessions, however satisfying or not, become an integral part of us as males. And we should take great satisfaction in that! Read more »

New Things

Still getting Mr P woke up.
Every session seems to be more active.
I seem to have more activity if I inadvertently fall asleep with the helix in. Not sure if it’s a time thing or relaxation or what.
I tried the frozen coconut bullet last night. I will explore this more. I’m using the chapstick tube as a mold.
Also got some binaural apps to try. No opinion one way or another there.
I remain.

Getting frustrated

I’ve had my Helix Syn for about 2 months now, and whilst I’ve not hat anything mindblowing yet, my early sessions seemed quite promising. Definitely experienced P-waves, and a few times caused some trembling sensations in my extremities (mostly arms/hands).

But it seemed to regress after the first couple weeks. I think a lot of it is mental – I feel like if nothing significant (I.e. Light P-wave) happens in the first 20-30 mins, I get frustrated and *that* seems to be the nail in the coffin. And no amount of relaxation beforehand seems to get around this. I’m a little annoyed in all honesty that I am not moving forwards at all, but the feeing of stepping backwards is such a mood killer.

Have people experienced this kind of stall, and what did you do to navigate it. I know that it will take time and there’s no magic solution, but tips for managing expectations would be really appreciated. It’s clear I’m getting in my own way, but I don’t know how to effectively combat that.

Also, when learning the technique, I’m a little lost on how active I should be. On the one hand I’ve been told to relax completely, let the toy drive. On the other, people say tensing the prostate is key. One thing that has gone right is that I feel a lot more able to work my prostrate when I have nothing inserted – kegals were never something I really got in to before, but I really have gotten good at them I think – but not so much with the Helix inserted. It’s like I can isolate the prostate without it in, but when it’s inserted it’s much much harder to isolate the prostate. I end up clenching my butt/sphincter too, which seems to kill any growing P-waves. What are you doing? Read more »

“Relaxing In The Comfort Of A Chastity Cup”

INTRODUCTION
I awoke about midnight with a strong night-time erection. I was only wearing my PJs; I was not wearing a “chastity cup”. Since it takes at least 30 minutes for the erection to subside and since I was awake, I naturally began to get pleasure from lightly caressing my scrotum and erect shaft. I felt myself being drawn ever closer to the PONR. I am now in Day 4 of SR and definitely feel my arousal starting to build.

I did not want to continue this stimulating activity and so I decided to put-on my XO cup. Immediately, I felt a great sense of relief: I was no longer able to masturbate, even if my intention was not to ejaculate. I am now able to more fully “relax” without the temptation and without the guilt.

I thought about the following “word-games” and here is what I discovered:

EXPERIMENT #1
I decided to look-up the word “prevent” and try the following experiment:

A chastity cup prevents masturbation.
A chastity cup blocks masturbation.
A chastity cup forbids masturbation.
A chastity cup hampers masturbation.
A chastity cup impedes masturbation.
A chastity cup prohibits masturbation.
A chastity cup stops masturbation.
A chastity cup frustrates masturbation.

And on, and on, and on….

Wow! The chastity cup then becomes a great tool in the “fight” against masturbation! It is no wonder then that I have an affinity for this practice of wearing one when I need help! That is why my mind gets great relief while my male package is “protected” this way! Read more »

The power found in ordinary (BIKE) jockstraps for sexual arousal (my experience)

Hi guys,

From day one when I had to wear an athletic supporter for 7th grade PE, jockstraps and (later athletic cups) have been central in my life as a male. Our coach we had to get one. It was an integral part of our gym uniform. So after that day, the first day of school, early in September 1963. I went to our town drugstore to purchase one. The pharmacist who waited on me sized me as a boy who was entering puberty and got me a boys sized Johnson & Johnson Athletic Supporter. It came in a smallish box when an naked athlete on the box in nothing but a jockstrap. I popped a boner which oozed precum in my white chinos. I was super turned on and rushed home to try it on in my bedroom. My erection was super hard and precum was oozing big time from the meatus of my Glans. When I slipped on my new jockstrap for the first time, the feeling was electric. I feel in love with the elastic support of the jock mesh pouch, waistband and leg straps. There was no choice but wear my erect penis in the up position, actually 12 o’clock position. It was the comfortable position to wear my pulsating cock with my oozing Glans scrunched against the waistband. Read more »