Tag: Relaxation

These “Clinical” Milking Sessions Are Good For Me!

Background
I am now in a getting-horny Day 5 of SR. Went to bed not wearing a cup, but woke up about 3 AM with an arousing erection. Had to put-on my Mueller cup to prevent an unintended ejaculation (I was dreaming and remember squirming-around in bed).

It’s been a couple of days since a session and so I wanted one this morning. I selected my HIH 950; this massager seems to hit the “mark” for me recently and also did so this morning. As soon as I inserted it, I fell-into a most-typical fantasy: I am being “prepared” for a prostate procedure in the morning and I need to allow this prostate massager to work on me for at least 30 minutes.

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Session
The HIH 950 was lubed-up with SSG and was easily inserted. (In the fantasy, a nurse or aide does this for me). I didn’t feel much at first, but only after a few minutes, I began to experience a feeling in my prostate that only Aneros guys will appreciate. I began moaning right from the start; it was that stimulating. I tried to find a “better“. less-intense position (on my other side, on my back, on my stomach) but the clinical “prep” just continued to work on me unabated. Read more »

“Our Male Sexual Reality: Imagining The Possibilities”

Introduction
All of us healthy men have NPTs, that is Nocturnal Penile Tumescence erections at night. These night-time erections come like clockwork. In my case, I am frequently woken-up in the middle of the night with one. Just this morning, I awoke to an NPT. While I was awake, it lasted perhaps 20-25 minutes. A constant, throbbing, pulsing erection. But that NPT was soon followed-up by another one! That one lasted another 20-25 minutes! So I was lying in bed, with an arousing erection lasting at least 45 minutes; all the while, I could do nothing but lie-back and try to relax as best I could. Since I am in Day 4 of SR, there was no possibility of an ejaculation for me. My sexual reality was fixed for about an hour.

While in this state, I began to “meditate” or fantasize on the possibilities of alternate sexual realities for us males. Here is what developed…..

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DPTs
Instead of nightly erections, what if our bodies were programmed for daily penile tumescence? We would have absolutely no control over these daily erections. They would come like clockwork. How would our lives be different? Well, for one thing, men would have to expect more “bulges” to develop at any time during the day. Our wives and lovers would know this and would probably look for them. Some guys (like me) may begin to wear our jockstraps (and perhaps cups as well) to contain our pleasure. More daily sexual encounters would be happening for sure. Atheletes’ attire probably would be affected as well. Read more »

Reaching orgasmic levels

I have owned a Progasm Black Ice and a Helix Syn for about 2 years now. When I started off I experienced very nice pleasure waves through my body and have always enjoyed the sessions. But for about 4 months I did not experience any orgasms except for one time when I felt a sharp orgasmic feeling which faded away quickly. After that I have always tried to chase that feeling again but could never get it right. I got discouraged and packed my 2 Aneros models away.

Now about a year later I decided to give it another go and whamo! So 2 days ago, out came the Progasm Black Ice from the dark closet. Again I experienced the p waves which was very nice. Then today I had a session with my Helix Syn in the bath and it was something different!! I was clenching my ass so that the Helix Syn would apply pressure onto my prostate and then release it and repeat. The p waves started. Then I did something different. I started playing with my right nipple and I felt amazing sensations through my body. Suddenly I had a rock hard erection and my ass was kind of like clenching by itself. I then experienced like a warm deep tingling feeling that moved up through my stomach, into my chest and then it felt like it went straight into my soul. I gasped for air and moaned. This was new. It felt like something was going to happen. At that moment I surrendered to this experience and immediately a deep feeling started building up which kind of feels like right before I ejaculate during normal sex. This feeling was much more intense than a normal ejaculation orgasm and it seemed to just “stay there”. I came to and feared that this experience is so intense that I might pass out and drown in the bath. The fear killed the moment. I then relaxed. Then I repeated what I did and had the same experience! Read more »

“When Do Prostate Pleasures End? Hopefully, Never!”

Background
Now (reluctantly) in Day 2 of SR again. I wore my SafeTGard jock with it’s original “Cage Cup” overnight and awoke about 5 AM with a strong erection. I got the “sense” that my prostate needed to “relax” with a short massage session. So I dutifully lubed-up the HIH 950 with SSG and began to relax.

Session
“Relaxing” is not quite the word I would use to describe this session. At Day 2, I was expected much less from my prostate. Instead, I got a spine-tingling, whole-body shaking and moaning, ready-to-ejaculate orgasmic feeling. I had not expected this feeling which lasted probably a good 10 minutes. After that, for the next 10 minutes or so, I was somewhat more “relaxed” but still quite stimulated and horny.

After-Session Fantasy
Somewhere out-of-the-blue, I was locked-up in a cock cage (my CB-6000S) and let me tell you, that feeling of “involuntary” chastity sure beats my “voluntary” chastity cup any day! I even imagined (in fantasy) that there was no key! I was locked-up for perhaps an hour, then released.

Afterthoughts
I used to think that following an intense ejaculation, it would take at least a week to recover my prostate to the point of experiencing significant prostate pleasure again. But I am beginning to think that there is indeed a nice, seamless continuity of prostate pleasure if I delay the next ejaculation for another week or 10 days or more. My prostate seems to have a memory of it’s own and it is accustomed to a daily, relaxing “milking” session. I am only happy to oblige! Read more »

“Savoring The Non-Ejaculation!”

I’m going to approach this blog post a little differently. Please bear with me….

I have enjoyed the past couple of days of “prostate milking”. I have found that performing a milking session while I am greatly aroused seems to get me close to the PONR and an ejaculation without actually having to ejaculate. When I pass that point, I can then “relax” into the feeling almost like a refractory period. I am then prepared for another round of arousal and the next milking.

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I have recently discovered the pleasures of “manly grooming”—that is, shaving my shaft and scrotum. Thanks to @BigGlansDC for providing me the inspiration. I find that the task of shaving is quite erotic, sexy and stimulating. It is not all difficult and the results are amazing! A clean-shaven scrotum is quite smooth; I can even feel it through my jeans. Also, when paired with my wearing of a “chastity cup” there is much less irritation and “pulling” of hair, thus a more relaxing experience!

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But getting back to the topic at hand, I am now at Day 10 of semen retention! I have slept overnight in my SafeTGard jock with a Mueller cup. This combo is adequate for my erect cock and it is not too restrictive around my groin. This morning, prior to the milking session with the HIH 950, I decided to put-on a condom. I use it not to collect semen from an ejaculation (that would work too), but rather to further stimulate my cock…..it is effective that way. Read more »

Is there a reliable way of finding method to finding a suitable toy?

I’ve recently begun to explore prostate play and It’s help me had several hands-free orgasms (ejaculatory) by using a small vibrating toy. However, I achieved this by quite aggressive kegel flexing and using my hand to shift the toy around a bit – the opposite of the relaxing approach normally suggested.

This has lead me to the decision to take a more relaxed approach and next time I do any sort of prostate play I plan to take a long shower, smoke a joint and really take my time. However, before I do this I was planning on buying a non-vibrating toy as these seem to be the best for super-Os but I’m having trouble deciding on which one because people often talk about different models working for them differently and I don’t want to spend loads of money on trying to find the right toy. So I’m wondering if there’s any advice on finding my first non-vibrating toy.

Thanks.

“No-Nonsense Prostate Milking Session!”

Well, I made it to Day 9 of SR (wait—let me check my calendar!) Yes, it is really Day 9! I awoke about 3 AM with an erection so strong that it woke me up. I was not wearing anything but my PJs and for a while, I just tried to “relax” as best I could while squirming around on my stomach. I felt really close to the PONR. Had to get up to go into the bathroom and needed to go a few times for relief.

When I returned to bed, I just knew that my prostate was aching, begging for a session. I quickly settled on the MGX Classic—it has been a while since it was selected, but this time it was perfect for the job.

Session
The session started out in the usual way, except that I started moaning and not quietly! The MGX went to work on my prostate almost immediately and it didn’t matter what the ridges were doing to stimulate my anus, the body of the massager was getting exactly where it should be! I had put-on my XO cup at the start of the session.

After about 25 minutes, I decided to pull-down the cup and take a peek. I was not too surprised to see a good 3-4 drops’ worth of clear but not sticky fluid—-prostate fluid! This became then a true prostate “milking” session; one which I desperately needed. I continued the session perhaps another 10 minutes or so and was not too surprised to see an additional 2-3 drops. The session probably could have been continued for another 10-15 minutes, but I felt my cock starting to go down and with it, the intense feeling in my prostate. Ah, a “perfect” prostate milking session! Read more »

“Just Relax….Into Bliss!”

Background
My lower back has been very painful lately. I think I have a pinched nerve. Anyway, I had to get up about 3:30 AM and take a much-needed pill; also put some ice on it as well, that did help a bit.

When I finished with the ice, I got back into bed and had a thought pop-into my head (sort-of like a fantasy): “I want to help you to relax. I want you to take the HIH 950, lie-back and just relax.” Very matter-of-factly, I complied.

Session
I lubed-up the 950 and as soon as it went in, I started to deeply relax, just as I was instructed. My focus was not on the prostate pleasure that would be induced, but rather how relaxed it could “make” me feel! So I began to quickly feel a light quivering in my anus; yes, I was relaxed but I also was feeling more aroused. I honestly felt like the 950 was “relaxing” me into almost continuous orgasms right into an ejaculation! Is this the definition of “relaxation”? I was surprised that the 950 also was “making” me relax into doing some stronger contractions; this also felt “relaxing” enough to expel some fluid.

Anyway, I was surprised that this relaxing “session” was a full 40 minutes long! I had on my Mueller “chastity cup” and when I removed it, I was not-too-surprised to see (and feel) a good bit of slippery, clear precum. Easily 3-4 drops’ worth. Read more »

“Caged-Up”

“Caged-Up”

Background
I got up early this morning, before the sunrise, with a good night-time erection. Since it was getting too arousing for me, I decided to put-on a “chastity cup”. But which one? My erection was starting to go flaccid, so I decided on my SafeTGard “Cage Cup”. I put it on and, unable to get back to sleep, decided to put on headphones and just chill out with some relaxing, erotic sounds. It wasn’t too long before I started to meditate. Here is the essence…..

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Meditation
I began to meditate on what it means to be “caged-up”. I had a vision of an animal, particularly a lion, confined in a space that he really didn’t want to be in. But more importantly, he is caged-up against his potency, more specifically, his sexual potency. He is unable to roam, mingle and “service” the lionesses. More specifically, he is unable to penetrate the female with his penis.

Isn’t this the same approach, then, with us? Don’t “cock cages” and “chastity cups” perform basically the same function? Aren’t they taking away our sexual potency too? They both prohibit us as males to roam, mingle and “service” other females (or another partner). They prevent us from using our penises in the intended manner or for pleasure.

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“Going From HFWO Feeling Back To Chastity”

Introduction
I can hardly believe it! I have reached Day 12 of SR! Of course, I went to bed feeling quite aroused but didn’t feel like I needed a cup just yet. I awoke about 2:30 AM with an erection so strong I honestly felt that “this was it” and my semen retention “run” was over! I felt that an ejaculation was imminent, no doubt about it.

Session
What did I decide to do? Have a session, of course! I needed to put-on a cup just to keep my cock from getting over-stimulated and spoiling the session with an ejaculation. I selected the ever-vigilant HIH 950 to help “milk” my prostate. It didn’t let me down this morning! All I can say is “moan-fest, Part 2!”. What an unbelievable feeling like I was about to ejaculate! For about 10 minutes, I was writhing on the bed and my left arm actually was shaking; the P-tab was especially effective as I felt that pressure on my perineum with every contraction. For a while, though, I thought that I would finally experience for the first time a HFWO! That feeling was short-lived, however, for after about 10 minutes, I began to feel my cock shrink and with it, so did that extreme prostate-arousal feeling. I took a quick look inside the cup: as I suspected, not precum but prostate fluid! Ah! The pressure was relieved and I feel that I have “returned” to the practice of “regular” male chastity and semen retention! Along with the “milking”, my arousal level has (at least temporarily) subsided as well. Perhaps this is the way that guys get-through long periods of locked-up chastity? Through periodic release of prostate fluid with the help of their keyholders? Sure makes sense to me. Read more »