Tag: Relaxation

“Don’t Be So Eager To Ejaculate!”

Background
Now in Day 9 of SR; wore my Mueller cup overnight. Early morning, decided to take-off the cup and replace it with a pair a silky boxers with a contour pouch. Went back to bed but couldn’t sleep; decided to lie-down on my comfortable sofa and settle-back with some relaxing massage meditation tracks. Also decided not to have a session this morning.

Meditation
While listening, I honestly felt like I would edge, then ejaculate. But what developed was a very gentle scrotal/perineum massage that completely avoided my penis. I received all the erotic sensation of this “massage” without the expectation of an ejaculation. That was not to say that I didn’t want it. I did. But without the presence of “blue-balls”, there was no reason in the world that I should ejaculate!

Outcome
I now have a semi-firm erection and my balls feel very solid. I am leaking precum too. I should ejaculate. But instead, I will let this erection settle-down until I go flaccid again, then (hopefully) I will make it through the day without the ache in my groin, signalizing to me that it is indeed time for a release! But I really want to progress to Day 10 and beyond in this “run” of semen retention! What a feeling to be at max-T! Read more »

“Relax, It’s Only Chastity!”

Introduction
No session last night. But I awoke around 12:30 AM with a stiff one. I decided to wear my XO “chastity cup” —- and that got me thinking…..

Instruction
The “chastity cups” I wear could be interpreted as a piece of erotic fetishism. Yes, they cradle and caress my manly “package” with authority: they could be considered to be ultra-sexy. However, in reality, in my case, they are nothing more than a means to an end. That is, they prevent me from enjoying the pleasures of male masturbation. Do I need this? I believe I do. Without it, I am prone to my wandering hands’ eagerness for pleasure and gratification. And an erection within the cup only adds to the temptation.

Sensibility
Just relaxing into the satisfying feeling of chastity is rewarding enough for me. If I can keep my head where it belongs, I can endure the reality of night-time erections (NPTs). But the added pressure of a testosterone boost (I am now again in Day 7 of SR) does take my “chastity game” to a new dimension! It’s like trying to ignore an itch—-it needs to be scratched! The same way with a sexual urge. It can be ignored, but only up to a point. Eventually, that itch just has to be scratched! What is my sexual “strength” to ignore the itch? I am tested almost daily!

Reality Check
The subconscious mind stores everything you ever did in life. Here is a definition: Read more »

“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain….. Read more »

New to prostate massage/Helix Syn

I’ve been interested in the idea of prostate play/massage for a while, but have never tried it. I’m 39 and married, but my wife is extremely conservative in the bedroom – unfortunately.

So, wanting to try it, since I have to go it alone, I bought the Helix Syn. I read a lot of comments and suggestions on here about what to do before I started. I had to wait until I knew I had the house to myself for a while since I can’t do it with my wife home.

I got naked in our bedroom, put on some porn, laid down on the bed and started. I lubed my finger and started to massage in and around my anus. Then I lubed up the Syn and slowly inserted it. My penis was flaccid at this point, but I didn’t touch it. I just tried to relax.

I started tightening and relaxing my muscles, trying to feel some sort of pleasure. I did this for close to an hour. My penis barely got hard, and I finally caved and masturbated to finish. Every once in awhile, it would feel like the Syn was sliding out, but it wasn’t.

I guess what I’m asking is what should I be feeling? Am I doing something wrong? I was hoping for this incredible experience – physically and emotionally. Should I lower my expectations? Should I look for other toys? Thanks for reading. Any help you can give a first-timer would be great.

The beat goes on

Been working at it four nights running with minor events and glute shakes. Trying to get my relaxation on.
Last night was more of the same, nothing mind blowing yet.
I tried on my knees next to the bed and ended up grabbing my cock and got excited till I had a TO. That was rather intense.
Woke up at 4AM with a hard cock and experienced a bit of an aless with some precum.
Today might be interesting because I have the butt buzz.

POR

First time

Tried it for the first time.
Had a relaxing bath and inserted.
Felt full like I needed a poop.
Got out of bath and dried off removed it re lubed an it went in easier.
Getting used to the feeling of having it in!!
Just going to relube it again.
Relived it but had to sit on loo!!
Removed it again and will try again in the next while.
Not unpleasant but the full feeling makes me feel I need the loo.

“After the Erection and Arousal, What Comes Next?”

Hello!
I’ll bet you’re wondering: I know the answer! Do you? I thought about this too…..The answer is not an ejaculation! Surprised? Let me explain……

The Truth
What came next for me was an Aneros session. I selected the HIH 950 for my prostate’s health. This massager does its job without being overbearing. There is just enough stimulation of my prostate to help me relax into erotic bliss. During this 30-minute session, I tried to relax as completely as possible. But it isn’t easy, for every so often, I would get a ‘jolt’ of pleasure that caused me to tense-up my anal sphincter around the massager. Usually, when this happens, I can feel my erection starting to build-up as well. I know I am experiencing some prostate orgasms when this happens.

Male Chastity Interaction
For this session, I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” and also a condom on my erect cock. I like the stimulation the condom provides against it due to the added silicone lube. Oh, what a feeling! At one point, I removed the cup and squirmed-around on the bed, causing even more prostate pleasure! But I was careful not to stimulate it too much: no ejaculation for me at this time! Read more »

“Does it Matter What I Wear To Bed? You Bet!”

Background/Session
Now in Day 8 of SR and my testosterone is peaked. I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” to bed but woke up about 4 hours later with an erection. I wanted a session so I went with the SGX (lubed with Slippery Stuff Gel). Now this session was not particularly interesting, but one thing I did note was the time. I was quite surprised that 30 minutes had transpired! I really didn’t “feel” like it lasted that long. Was I daydreaming? Or was I just enthralled by the pleasure? I have noticed this same phenomenon with the Helix Trident. Time seems to “fly” when in a session with these devices. Following the session, I retired to my sofa, put on headphones and just chilled with some relaxing tracks. I was disappointed that I remained very flaccid during the entire time.

When I finished with the musical “session”, I took-off the cup and replaced it with a pair of boxers with a contour pouch that displays my package (flaccid or with an erection) with a nice ‘bump’. I went back to bed.

Extreme Erections
I awoke twice during the remains of the night, each one with a very intense and arousing erection. It takes me much self-control not to cum. I even thought about putting on another condom and with a few thrusts into the bed, have a very satisfying ejaculation. But I believe my self-control is not yet “out-of-control” and so I was able to cope. Read more »

July 4, 2018 session : many happy returns

Hi guys,

It always wonderful to have an Aneros session on the Fourth of July. That is when my apartment building is perfectly quiet. No staff or workmen here today. They are away or with their families enjoying our national holiday. I use the expression “many happy returns” because our nation’s birthday needs such well wishes especially now.

It was on the morning of July 4, 2015 that I enjoyed my very first Super-O, albeit a mild one. It happened during a period that I was beginning to relax in my sessions and actually enjoy them.

More than a year later in mid September 2016, I had some major breakthroughs which lead to experiencing Super-0’s, even a few MMO’s. The upward process towards sustainable Aneros power and pleasure continues.

This morning I had an especially long and relaxing session with Maximus, MGX, and Progasm Ivory. It was very pleasurable and enjoyable.

I started out with Maximus. Maximus provided me with an auto-fuck that was slow, unhurried, and leisurely. While the auto-fuck was indeed laden with heightened pleasure, it didn’t produce any Super-O’s. What impressed me about this morning’s time with Maximus was that he plowed so deep!

Maximus may be thick and long in penetration, but he fits my anal canal so well and even “hooks” slightly and so deliciously around my prostate.

MGX I found some months ago hugs and embraces my prostate so affectionately. He enjoyed so much the quality time I gave him, so much so that he gave me a Super-O this morning! Read more »

Aneros auto-fucking and Super-O’s : Session for Wednesday July 11

Hi guys,

Since July 4 last week, I have had several sessions that were so powerful and pleasurable that are hard to explain.

So after my session this morning, I will try to explain some of my recent Aneros and Aless experiences.

This morning I had a session which lasted a good 1.25 hours with Maximus, MGX, and Progasm Classic.

Maximus has joined MGX and Helix Classic as Aneros models which start most of my sessions. I have worked with Maximus fairly intimately since July 2012. My first several sessions were abortive because anal peristalsis ejected Maximus. But shortly thereafter the Kegel Exercises developed my anal musculature to contain and better work with Maximus and my larger Progasm models.

I think I have developed techniques to produce for myself Super-O’s and MMO’s with both Maximus and Progasm. Relaxation is key but also enjoyment of my sessions lay the foundation. Having fun and even playing are also keys to relaxation and Aneros enjoyment. “Having fun” and “playing” have sexual undertones. All this have formed my attitudes with which I have approached all my sessions since 2015, even before. Read more »