Tag: Relaxation

Is this part of “the journey”

Second time user. I bought an Aneros years ago (can’t remember model) and what I know now is that I was both misunderstanding what to do and being impatient. Ditched it and never thought about it again til about a year ago.

Bought a Helix Syn about a month ago, and hand a handful of sessions. From the off, things were different. Don’t know if it’s a better body-model fit for me, a better understanding of what to do to maneuver the thing, or a little of both, but it’s definitely doing something. Regularly have p-waves, and have had I think 2 smallish orgasms, though nothing approaching a super -O I don’t think.

But for the most part, I feel like I’m struggling to make progress. Im still finding the sessions a little frustrating, because whilst I definitely can distinguish the prostate from other muscles down there, I’m having trouble keeping it contracted. I fee like I get up to 10 seconds and 2/3 of the time my sphincter contracts significantly, which knocks out the prostate contact. And I can’t seem to release the sphincter only, so I have to fully relax and start again. And after a couple times of this, I normally bail on the session out of frustration.

That said, in the last 48 hours especially I’ve noticed more sensitivity to my prostate without any direct stimulation (by me or a toy). I can contract it on and off for a minute or two, and it’s not orgasmic but it is pleasurable. And I don’t think I’d ever been able to distinguish my prostate from the overall piss-stopping clenching of a few muscles. Read more »

“Sexual Libido Tune-Up: An Extended Fantasy”

Introduction
This fantasy “session” was inspired by @BigGlansDC; thanks buddy!

Believe it or not, I am only in Day 2 of semen retention. But that is not stopping me from having great daily Aneros sessions. This morning was no exception, let me explain….

Session
This morning’s session was with the selected Eupho Classic. I like Eupho because it is very slender, inserts easily and has great movement. This 25-minute session again gave me a HFWO feeling but it did much more. It “triggered” in me a fantasy, a “living fantasy”. Here it is as best as I can remember…..

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I am due for my urological and prostate exam in 2 weeks (yes, for real) and my urologist wants to give me a male libido tune-up prior to my schedule visit which they have found to be very helpful for us older men. I will relate the various “steps” as best as I can recall them.

Libido Tune-Up
First-up was the prostate massage “session” as I have already described it. I was wearing a cage cup for this session so my cock was not accessible to me.

Next, I was instructed to put-on a pair of tight boxers with a contour pouch. This felt good and I was instructed to lie-back and “feel” for my erogenous zones through the silky material: specifically, my scrotum, cock (including the glans and the frenulum) perineum and anus. All of these in turn were to receive some “loving” from my hands. The aim was to induce an arousal in me that could result in an erection. After a period of time (perhaps 20 minutes or so) I was feeling quite aroused; yes I did have an erection and was ready for the next step. Read more »

“Protecting My Virility”

[Definition of virile–“having the nature, properties, or qualities of an adult male; specifically: capable of functioning as a male in copulation” ] [Definition of copulation–“engaging in sexual intercourse where the penis is inserted into the vagina”]

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Background
Currently in Day 13 of SR with no blue-balls. Getting quite horny and having random erections throughout the day. No wet dream yet. I would welcome an ejaculation but feel there is no great need to have one just yet. But the mental pressure for it is getting fairly intense. How long can I go?

Session
Continuing “squeezing” my prostate to release fluid, I selected my MGX early this morning for a nice session. It released a lot of prostate fluid into the cup of my SD jock. During the 20-minute session, I thought about how good it would feel to ejaculate, perhaps through a HFWO. But afterwards, I decided to take-off the SD jock and just wear a pair of silky boxers. I went to lie-down and relax some more. My cock was flaccid, but I started fondling my very sensitive package, especially the scrotum. This turned into something of a fantasy, as I am in bed with my lover and she is very gently caressing my package all-over, not with the intent of making me ejaculate, but rather to give me an orgasmic sensation in my groin. This she did perfectly! At the end, however, I was not erect. Read more »

An Aneros auto-fuck session like no other! : Sunday July 1

Hi guys,

We in the mid Atlantic are having a weekend of excessive heat with highs in the mid to upper 90’s. This heatwave will begin to abate on Tuesday. So this morning I have decided to stay home from church and view the worship service at the church web site.

Most nights in bed I enjoy diddling my nipples which produces a sweet Aless with lulls me to sleep. However this morning my diddling made me ready for an Aneros session. I rode MGX, Maximus, and Progasm Ivory.

However, I started with Maximus which inserts comfortably to the hilt. This morning this comfortable fit along with some mild Kegels started an auto-fuck that went on and on, like to a good thirty minutes which I could have continued another fifty minutes or more! This auto-fuck produced a very high level of pleasure interspersed with an orgasmic buzz or electricity intermingled with many mini-O’s and several Super-O’s. I think I have finally developed MMO capability.
While I was experiencing this Maximus auto-fuck action, I was enjoying the highs and lows of Maximus fucking me. I believe that I am on the verge of developing some control over how this action takes place and produce Super-O’s and MMO’s in the midst of all this pleasure!

I reluctantly withdrew Maximus from my bunghole after thirty minutes of absolute auto-fuck pleasure, but could have rode Maximus much longer. Read more »

Here’s how I get to my reliable super-O.

Hey everyone, first time poster. Three year user, own a Helix, a Progasm and my favorite, the Eupho Trident. The below technique works with all three. Happy to explain further if anyone would like! I was unemployed for a month and got to really practice and refine this. (Also, I find that saying words out loud arouses me, so I’ve written this in first person if anyone wants to read aloud and ride the power of suggestion; nothing gets me closer than saying “my ass is gonna cum” out loud [optionally on the phone with another person who wants to hear me cum].)

My technique:
I get completely naked. I lube up and slowly slide it into myself. I’m not surprised when the last inch or so seems to have a mind of its own, the toy knows where it’s going. It’s very well engineered. The head of it is near my prostate, but not pressing aggressively. That’s good. (If you feel any pain from entry, breathe here until you don’t.)

My next goal is to lie flat on my back and relax so hard that I can feel my heartbeat, very gently, in my chest. When I say relax, I mean specifically to release tension. Tension is the opposite of pleasure; it’s a survival instinct. (Do whatever you need to do to make this experience calm, and whatever you can do to make you feel safe getting loud. I find tensing and releasing tight muscle groups helps with this, as does telling myself out loud to relax deeper, deeper, deeper. You may have your own technique for this, I say whatever works. You do you.) Read more »

4 Days of constant pleasure!

It has been over three months since my last blog post. I have not had any news to write about until recently. I work a weekday job with a long commute. I typically work out after work and by the time I get home, eat dinner and take care of things around the house I did not really have the time or energy for a productive aneros session. If I did try a session, I would just get really relaxed and fall asleep. So, lately I have been doing one session per week on the weekend. I have been thinking that that may not be often enough to see much progress. My weekend sessions have been pleasant. I always enjoy the sensations, and usually have some nice p-waves but nothing orgasmic. I would typically insert the Helix, relax and breathe deeply for a few minutes and then do some contractions. I have a vibrator that I have used with my lady-friend a few times and one afternoon about an hour into a session I got the idea to get the vibrator out and touch it to the p-tab and handle of the Helix. I found this to be quite pleasant and stimulating.
This came to be my routine. The first hour of a session would be deep breathing and contractions, and then another hour using the vibrator in conjunction with the Helix. Each time I did this, I would get more sensation and pleasure than the time before. I have been abstaining from regular masturbation in order to increase arousal during aneros session, and I would typically finish a session with a traditional orgasm including the Helix with the vibrator buzzing it. The Super-Ts when I do this are easily twice as intense and twice as long in duration as a typical orgasm. I certainly had no complaints about that.
The weekend before last – Sunday June 17, I was having the most numerous and pronounced p-waves yet, and the Super-T was extra Super as well. The middle of the next week – Wed June 20 I was thinking about my previous session and anticipating my next session and I decided to skip my workout and just go straight home and have a session. Whenever I would think about this I would get a partial erection in anticipation. My Wednesday evening session was every bit as good as the last one had been, and I decided not to finish off with a traditional orgasm Super-T to save my arousal for the weekend.
Friday afternoon I was aroused thinking about the weekend. I came up with the idea to put the vibrator inside the round part of the Helix handle and duct tape it in place rather than touch it to the p-tab. In order to keep the vibrator in place I had to lay on my stomach with my penis between two pillows. This proved to be the best idea I have had yet. I spent the better part of an hour in p-wave heaven and had at least 3 or 4 mini orgasms.
Saturday morning I woke up and went to use the bathroom and after I finished peeing I could feel a p-wave start to build and I had a mini orgasm standing in front of the toilet, with precum covering my penis glans. Amazed, I went back to bed smiling, and immediately felt a warm glow radiating from my pelvis. A few minutes later I had another orgasm, this one stronger than the one at the toilet.
All weekend I was experiencing mild to moderate pleasure in my groin. I had another session Sunday with even better results, just basking in pleasure waves from the Helix and vibrator. I have had pleasurable sensation radiating from my prostate ever since Friday – 4 days in a row now. I would dare say my purchase of the Helix may be the best 60 dollars I ever spent 
I know that some have said that vibrators do not work for them because they numb the prostate. For me there is some truth to this if the vibration is a constant static buzz, but any alternating pattern I have found to be fantastic. So overall I will say that I am very pleased (ecstatic in fact) with my experience with aneros, but my progress has certainly not been linear. It has taken me 4 ½ months to reach this point, and I have felt some mild frustration at times. But I just wanted to tell my story and offer encouragement to others. If you aren’t where you want to be, don’t give up. Keep reading the blogs and forum and try different things, and you may very well find the key to a new kind of pleasure. Read more »

My Journey to Aneros

For the last 5 years I have been on a personal pleasure journey. I started with prostate play, which went to trying aneros toys. During this time i have spent countless dollars and hours playing and trying out many toys and things. From prostate play to sounding, I have done it.
I knew about aneros when I first started prostate play but didnt really buy into the hype. I bought a lelo Billy and it never really got my where I wanted. I tried a lelo Hugo, a Loki and even tried a Dildo. I could not no matter what I did get to any handsfree prostate orgasm bliss. Along the way, i dripped plenty of precum, prostate fluid, lube and managed to have plenty of wonderful orgasms. I could feel my prostate getting rubbed, touched and even pounded. Yet no amazing super o. About 2 years ago I decided to buy an Aneros. I got a progasm ice in red. Buzzing with anticipation and excitement. I relaxed the best I could. Follow the instructions for the most part. Lubed the to and my anus. Slipped it in and immediately felt contact with my prostate. Sweet wonderful instant pleasure. I started my kegals, and the juices really started flowing. About an hour later I couldnt take it anymore and used my hand to finish things off. I was left weak at the knees and wore out. I thought this was pretty good. Amazing Actually. I used it on and off for the next year. I learned out to use it, what my body liked and what it needed. No handsfree though. I picked up a helix classic and immediately was able to have a handsfree orgasm. I really didnt think it could get better until I tried the trident. And that is worthy of an entire post!

“What’s An Ejaculation?”

Introduction
I am in Day 12 of semen retention (SR) and wearing my XO Procup “chastity cup”. I ask this question rhetorically because it’s been so long since I last ejaculated. It’s not that I don’t remember how, but rather how it feels. Let me explain…..

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Beginning last night, I began to have a strong “feeling” that I wanted something in my ass. Naturally, I couldn’t wait until my next Aneros session which couldn’t come soon enough. I have been having almost daily sessions now for the past 5 days with all of my massagers in rotation.

Session
Late last night, about 11-ish, I decided to have a session with Eupho Classic. This 25-minute session left almost nothing to desire since almost from the start I was erect and stayed that way. I have been generating a lot of precum with my sessions lately and this one was no exception. I certainly didn’t have any orgasms this time around but the precum production was good enough for me.

“After-Session”
After the nice session with Eupho, I still did not feel “satisfied” anally, so I whipped-out my seldom-used Mangasm Flux anal beads, lubed them up and inserted one-by-one until I felt a nice pressure on my prostate and, yes, more precum. For about 5 minutes, I relaxed into this feeling. Then, one-by-one, they came out—largest one first followed by the other two. Read more »

A “rude” awakening

I awoke this morning a little earlier than is usual for me, mainly because a very firm member was preventing me from getting comfortable again. Before I knew it I was pushing the firm member into the bed and beginning to get a rhythm going. I stopped myself, I am not quite ready to surrender just yet, and certainly not in the drowsy state of an early morning. It occurred to me that this aroused state would lend itself very nicely to a quickie with whichever model I cared to use. I decided on my Helix Syn, I don’t know why. I have now 5 models from which to choose. I can’t explain how I knew, it just seemed right. Right from the off it felt good, I am in the habit of just relaxing into a session, letting things develop and see what comes along. Usually I am passive too and don’t initiate anything at all but within 10 minutes I found it impossible not to move my whole body around into different positions with a few hip thrusts thrown in. It felt as if I was attempting to soothe an itch deep inside, which we know is exactly what I was doing in a way. At one point I was literally climbing the wall, in a effort to get to that itch I found myself lying on my back with my legs up the wall and my head hanging off the edge of the bed. I have never been driven to these measures before, but I could not resist, this was the most physical session I can remember having. Strangely, it did not result in an orgasm or anything but the sheer physicality of it left me with some good feelings and endorphins were flowing. Actually, endorphins were not the only things flowing, copious amounts of pre cum were generated at the time. It makes a very good lube for a bit of nipple stimulation by the way.

“What Do I Really Want From My Prostate?”

Background
I have managed to “hit” Day 10 of SR and feel that I can still keep running! This morning, while wearing my SafeTGard strap (with Mueller cup), I decided to rely on the Helix Trident to give my prostate some needed relief. I have been milking my prostate fairly often this time around in SR and feel that it has made a difference in allowing me to progress this far.

Session
The Aneros Helix Trident is a “class act” IMHO. It knows exactly what it wants to do to my prostate and then proceeds to do it. It does not “tease” it or beat-it-up mercilessly. Instead, it is so-designed to contact it and lets me know in no uncertain terms that it knows what to do with it. All I have to do is lie-back and relax; the Helix-T is doing all the work for me. The design of the Helix-T is such that lateral movement is facilitated and I can feel it working. The P- and K-tabs work in tandem to yield the most exquisite auto-f**k contractions possible. I just didn’t want this session to end. But after only a short 20-minutes, I felt that I could end this nice session on a high note and so I did! No O’s this time around, just a nice milking! Read more »