Tag: Relaxation

“Fantasy Under The Deep”

Background
I am currently in Day 8 of SR and sexually I’ve never felt better! I have been having somewhat daily sessions now for a few days. I am using my massagers in rotation. This morning, I decided to ride with the HIH 950. I lubed-up and started the session. Before too long, I am experiencing an unusual fantasy. Here it is….

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A foreign submarine fleet has instituted a pilot program where the men can discretely get some sexual relief after weeks at sea. They are provided a prostate stimulator and a tube of lubricant. They can enjoy a sexual respite in the privacy of their own bunks. I was eager to participate in this “experiment”. I procured the needed equipment and, retiring for the night in my bunk, lubed-up the massager and inserted it where I was told it belonged. I have not ejaculated in a while and this massager seemed to want to help me. I was looking forward to this experience.

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For the next 30 minutes or so in my bunk, I had developed such a nice erection and I knew I was leaking fluid. It was a wonderful, sexually-charged feeling. For a while, I was lost in this blissful world deep under. Such a relaxing, erotic escape from the ordinary…

PS I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and it stayed in place throughout this fantasy session.

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Aneros equilibrium, Aneros resonance, Aneros fishing, etc. : Session for Saturday June 9

Hi guys,

I had a thoroughly enjoyable session with my favorite Aneros models : Helix Classic, MGX, Maximus and Progasm ICE.

For many months recently, I have tried to find out why my sessions have felt so good. I have settled upon some description Aneros terms:

“Aneros foreplay”: Like @goldenboy, I enjoy wearing a jock and cup to bed most nights. Not only does this combination feel so good, but a jock and cup is so consoling. Like a pacifier, they enable me to fall asleep like a baby. When I wake up in the still of night, I like to Kegel in my jock and cup and diddle my nipples. It is so sweet and it constitutes hours of leisurely foreplay. When I wake up in the morning, I am horned, rearing to go with a session.

Last night, I wore a Nutty Buddy Cup in the pouch of an ordinary BIKE jockstrap and over a pair of Munsingwear Kangaroo Pouch boxer briefs. My Nutty Buddy Cup “floats” in this combination.

Here is a pic of MLB great, Mark Littell, creator of the Nutty Buddy. I hope you do not mind the kinkiness of this pic! 🙂

www.nuttybuddy.com/

I cannot stress though how the Kegel Exercises, diddling your nipples, and relaxed rhythmic breathing act as rocket fuel in your “Aneros foreplay”. Read more »

Am I using the wrong Aneros? Any tips?

Hi guys! So I read about prostate orgasms about 4 years ago, and got myself an Aneros MGX to start prostate play. At first I think I was too eager and was trying to force a prostate orgasm by contracting my PC muscles over and over. Then I figured out that just relaxing and letting the Aneros kind of do its own thing was better. No big-O, but I sometimes got some great full tingly feelings in my abdomen. Usually at this point, I got excited and my heart rate increased, which could sometimes kill the feeling. Does it sound like I’m on the right track? Any tips?

Although I haven’t regularly used the Aneros in about a year (only a few times since then), I’m still eager to have a big-O and want to try it out again. I recently had some chronic soreness in my left testicle, and the doctor diagnosed me with a minor prostate infection and put me on antibiotics. He also mentioned during my exam that I had a fairly small prostate. I’m a tall guy (6’5″ and 200 pounds), but is the MGX maybe the wrong one based on having a small prostate? I’d appreciate any input. Thanks guys!

Kegels and Reverse Kegels

In the last few weeks I have been trying something new: alternating kegels and reverse kegels. I had never heard of reverse kegels until reading the forum posts. Reverse kegels are done by relaxing or almost stretching the PC muscles. I get the sensation that the pelvic region is “yawning” and enlarging during a reverse kegel. I have used this technique mostly during A-less sessions and the results have been excellent.

I begin with a moderate kegel contraction (approximately 30 to 40%) and hold for several seconds. I don’t time the contraction. I usually wait until I feel a slight quiver or pulse in the muscles or prostate. Then I do the reverse kegel. I often feel the quiver or pulse strengthen a bit. All of this is done slowly while breathing deeply and relaxing as much as possible. After several minutes of this alternation I usually feel a series of mini-Os and occasionally some stronger dry-Os. Once (several days ago) it led to one of the biggest Super-Os I’ve ever experienced. I had full body tingling and shaking. I could feel the distinct build up of a new wave as the previous one was subsiding. If I counted accurately there were three huge waves and two smaller ones before I was finished. I haven’t tried this technique since then. As each session is unique it would be foolish to expect an exact repeat of the previous one. I’m satisfied to be on an interesting journey and appreciative of whatever comes my way.

Riding Down the Highway

   If you have read my blogs then you probably have realized by now that not only do I love using my Helix to orgasm but I am also a fan of pushing the limits and exposing myself in public as much as I can do safely without risking the chance of getting caught although I will have to admit I have come very close to doing so a few times!  On these occasions the intensity of my orgasm increased dramatically!
   So this blog is about an incident where my lust for exposure crossed the line and I actually was discovered but by a twist of fate I was spared the embarrassment of being detained for public nudity and of committing a lewd act!
   So I had just left the gym and was now driving back home!  I had taken the little blue pill for last night’s session at the hotel and must have taken the wrong dosage because I was still feeling the effects and still had a super hard erection!
   I had to stop for fuel and when I did I took advantage of the situation and discretely inserted my Helix in my anus behind the open door of my car.  After pumping the fuel I hopped back in my car and started to drive down the interstate.  I turned on the heated seat and put some great mood music on the cd player.  I set the cruise control to five miles below the speed limit so I could cruise in the right lane and have other cars pass me periodically on my left hoping a few of them would gaze over my way!
   I had on a sleeveless muscle tee shirt and a pair of very loose fitting boxer shorts which allowed my very hard cock to stick out exposing it for all to see.  I wanted to remove my shorts but I was afraid to fearing the possibility that I might get pulled over however my desire to be completely nude go the best of me and i not only slid my shorts off, but I removed my shirt also.
   As I drove down the interstate naked as the day I was born, I started to gyrate my hips and move my Helix which by now was pushing against my prostate causing precum to flow out of the tip of my cock.  I continued to drive slowly in the right lane causing  other cars in the left lane to pass me. Occasionally I would look over at the passing car to catch a glimpse of a passenger starring at me.  Apparently some of them were getting an eyeful.  
By now I was squeezing and releasing with great intensity and I began to shake. It was a precarious situation and I thought about pulling over but I could not stop.  As difficult as it was, I forced myself to keep my eyes on the road.  All of a sudden I orgasmed and shot a load of cum some of which landed on the inside of the windshield.  I was spent and had to take time to calm down.
   I gazed over to the car on my left to discover that the passenger was recording me.  Apparently they had kept pace with me the whole time and had recorded the entire episode!  The passenger put down their phone and the car sped off leaving me in their dust!
   Assuming I was in the clear I chalked up the incident as a turn on.  I removed my Helix, adjusted my speed, pit on my shirt and shorts, and continued down the interstate.  Thinking I was out of the woods but still extremely turned on, I tried to relax as I continued to drive on.
   Another car had pulled up behind me and was matching my speed.  I sped up but it continued to keep pace.  Then my worst fear was realized as the blue lights came on.  I pulled over to await my fate!
   I starred ahead fearing what was coming next.  A tap on the window caused me to turn.  I looked in astonishment as the person starring at me was the same person who had about a half hour ago videotaped me!  I reluctantly rolled down the window.  The young guy apologized for startling me.  He said he wasn’t the law which was a load off my mind.  He said that he and the driver who was his friend watched the video again on their dash cam and became so turned on that they had to come back and thank me.  Needless to say I was honored but totally relieved.   He asked me if they could keep the video and promised to only share it with their closest friends.  It turned me on so much that I willingly agreed.  I have to say that the thought of that very revealing video of me out there being viewed by others was a real turn on!
   So that’s the twist!  I just hope it doesn’t show up on the internet but sort of hope it does!
 
   
   
   

” A Night Full of Surprises”

Background
I could not have seen this night coming! It was full of surprises. Let me explain…..

I am now in Day 5 of SR and feel my T building-up. I went to sleep wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” and a short pair of PJs. I had not yet fallen asleep yet; it was only about 10:30 PM. Although not aroused in the least, I got an urge to have a session. I am now doing more frequent sessions to relieve BPH symptoms and they appear to be working. I selected the SGX (which I had not ridden in a while), lubed it up and it felt so good upon insertion. I could not have predicted the outcome of this session.

Session with SGX
Within the first 20 seconds of insertion, although I was completely flaccid going in to the session, I developed a hard erection beneath the chastity cup and it stayed hard for the rest of the session. And almost from the start, I began to softly moan. Not because I wanted to, but almost as if I had to. This moaning was quite unusual for me; I felt something in my anus that was caused by the ribbed stem of the SGX. I concentrated on my anal canal, not concentrating on anything that could be happening with my prostate. And the moans just kept going unabated. The moans actually lasted the entire 35-minute session! When the session ended and I went to remove the SGX, I noticed that I was still erect beneath my Mueller cup. Read more »

A Quick Primer on Male “Chastity Cups”

Background
While relaxing and chilling this morning with some nice tracks, I had the opportunity to fantasize and reflect on my fascination with male “chastity cups”. (I had an inquiry from an Aneros member recently who wondered whether I am still practicing semen retention and male chastity. The answer is a resounding yes!) Let me explain…

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What is a male “chastity cup”?
What it is basically is a male athletic supporter with a hard cup. Nothing more, nothing less! There are many brands available and I have several. Among my favorites: XO ProCup, Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup, Mueller Sports Medicine cup, SafeTGard with Cage Cup.

What is is used for?
There are myriad uses for these cups. First, in sporting events such as baseball and hockey, the cups are used to protect the vital male genitalia from injury. Ever been accidentally kicked in the balls? Not too pleasant? Well, the cups prevent the most serious injuries from occurring.

As I use them for male chastity, these cups serve another purpose entirely. They prevent me from touching, caressing and stimulating my male “package” so that I cannot masturbate while wearing one. So simple but yet so effective! I can stroke and rub the hard cup all I want and I may develop an erection but suffice it to say that there will be no ejaculation while I am wearing one. This is especially true at night while I am in bed (before I have selected and put-on a cup); invariably I will begin to play with my package almost automatically. I have to catch myself before I get too aroused with an erection. It is too easy to reach the PONR and an undesired ejaculation. It is then that I select a cup and put it on. Read more »

Confused about the meaning of being Aroused to start a session.

We often see tips/advises like this in the same post :

– Clean the slate. ( Relax , meditate or “Put out of your mind all of the thought processes by which you achieve a traditional penile orgasm.”)

**And**

– Start your Aneros sessions aroused.

What do they mean by aroused in this case ? Sexually or not aroused ?

I don’t know what to do, i traditionally look at photos , porn video, etc… first to be aroused first and after i do my sessions (some time i lets some selected photos (no video, too distracting), that i love to watch , slideshow on TV while lying on Sofa to help with staying “aroused”). that doesn’t “work” for me any way.

“Male Chastity: Relaxed”

Introduction
I decided to have a ‘quick’ session with the Helix Trident. I had not ridden it in a while. I am only in Day 3 of SR so my expectations were not too high. As soon as I started, I began to feel the nice P-waves and an almost immediate erection. I was wearing my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the XO ProCup (instead of the Cage Cup). I did not feel any Dry-Os this time around but that was okay. I still expelled some prostate fluid (not precum because it was not slippery and sticky). The Helix Trident (due to the combination of P-tab and K-tab) allows for a nice, easy and quick “in-out” motion caused by the two tabs. It doesn’t take too much anal or PC contractions (kegels) to get the flow going.

An “Experiment” In Male Chastity
I don’t know what prompted this but as soon as this session was over, I decided to replace the “chastity cup” (which I wore during the session) with a traditional jockstrap (athletic supporter) for the rest of the night and see what develops. I didn’t want to ejaculate so in my mind, this substitution was okay. I couldn’t predict the outcome. I selected a Bike swim/run jock (which is not too restrictive and has a nice soft knit pouch), put it on under my PJs and went back to bed.
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An hour or two later, I awoke with a NPT (night-time erection) that belied my Day 3 SR condition. I could not believe the stimulation now acting on my penis and especially the frenulum. Saying that I felt close to the PONR was a gross understatement. What I felt was a combination of a near-wet dream feeling and literally being in a (female) penetrative state of sex. Literally! In other words, f*****g awesome! No exaggeration here; I was completely paralyzed in the feeling of sexual intercourse and felt that with only a few more “strokes” I would be ejaculating! But it’s only Day 3! So much for this “altered” male chastity state! Read more »

Something I Learned Recently for Sessions

Early morning session with the HIH 950. Not especially aroused but wanted a session anyway. Started it and was getting some nice p-waves. Now, something I have not ‘felt’ before in a session—–what if this session were not constrained by time? What if it could go on for an hour, two hours, three hours or more? That is the mindset that I developed in this session, and I believe it made for a better session. Not because I was getting some Dry-Os (I did not) or even some auto-contractions (I didn’t get these either). But the feeling of “timelessness” for this session really helped me to relax and decrease my session expectations to zero! And when I did that, I did start to feel a very slight “quivering” feeling in my prostate. I just felt like a casual “observer” in this session—–not an active participant! Maybe that is the way I should approach all my sessions!

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