Tag: Relaxation

Orgasmic feelings without prostate focus?

I had a new sensation yesterday that’s continued into my anerosless today.

Last night I was having a first aneros session after traveling and otherwise holding off for a while. Not a strict hands-free session as I was stroking myself, using the aneros and looking at some exciting images. Usually my prostate starts throbbing, feeling heavy, getting bigger and generally getting more noticeable throughout the session, but yesterday it felt unusually quiet. Towards the end of the session, I stopped stroking and focused on my prostate area with no contractions. I couldn’t feel any prostate-centered physical sensation, but suddenly I came so hard I shot over my head. I was totally surprised that the orgasm snuck up on me without any prostate-based physical signs.

Fast-forward today and it feels oddly similar. My prostate doesn’t have the usual heavy tingling / butt buzz that comes the next day after a session. However, when I focus on the prostate area and relax, I feel orgasmic shudders/waves rolling down my body starting from the top and back of my head. Eventually with a mini orgasm my anal and PC muscles start getting tight and contracting on their own, but still there’s no usual heavy-prostate centered feeling. Mentally when I turn my focus and receptiveness to the prostate, it still feels nothing but the waves start tingling down from my head again.

My prostate suddenly went silent but is still doing great work. Has anyone else had an experience like this?

Multiples in one session?

I am able to have super-os fairly regularly now. I’ve read many posts from others detailing how they can have super-os one after another, but I haven’t had that happen yet. After I have a super orgasm it becomes very difficult to relax and focus because of how jittery I get. I also feel a bit overwhelmed almost like I’m afraid to orgasm again.

Does anyone else have experience with this? Is it something that will pass over time or is there I strategy I could try using to keep me calm?

Men squiring/Playing with the tip

So on the forum page I read a post about men squirting. Those who don’t know, basically only stimulate the tip, no jerking off what so ever while being relaxed at the same time. The friction that builds up on your tip feels very intense, and make you throb but you gotta keep your genitals relaxed while stimulating the tip (harder than you think). I have not been able to do it on my own but I’ve been able to squirt in the shower. By using the water pressure focused onto the tip of my penis, I am able to reach the sensation of squirting (less intense, but still very good 8/10). Good thing is, this has nothing to do with your ejaculation so after you have an intense squirting orgasm, you can rub one off if wanted. 

Basically now every time I have free time I’m always stimulating the tip of my penis and now, at times when I pee especially towards the end I achieve a tiny orgasm. and throughout, my tip seems to have became a little more sensitive.

“Do You Believe In Chastity After Chastity?”

Background
This “session” was inspired by the song “Believe” by Cher. I went to bed wearing my XO “chastity cup” on top of my red silky boxers (with bulge pouch). I am currently in Day 10 of SR but feeling the effects of “blue-balls” since last night. I got through the night but awoke about 3 AM with an achy feeling deep in my groin. I knew that it was time for an ejaculation. After removing the chastity cup and “playing” for a while through the boxers, it didn’t take too much effort. It felt so good! I put-on the cup again and decided to listen to some relaxing musical tracks.

While listening to some favorites, an old track from Cher caught my attention: “Believe”. I moved-on and settled-into a nice selection on YouTube (about an hour long): “50 Shades of Trip-Hop, Part 3”. With headphones on, I started listening and fell-into a fantasy, of sorts. The next thing I realize is that it is an hour-and-a-half later and the music has stopped. It is now 5:30 AM! What do I remember? What happened?

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Fantasy
Well, the best that I can recall is this. The original lyrics from “Believe” go like this:
(courtesy of MetroLyrics)

“Do you believe in life after love
I can feel something inside me say
I really don’t think you’re strong enough
Well I know that I’ll get through this” Read more »

An “average” session produces luminous, electric Aless : Wednesday April 25

Hi guys,

This morning I woke up at my customary time in the 4 o’clock hour, really horned up for a session. @goldenboy had supplied us recently with tantalizing information on hitting the Aneros “sweet spot” in sessions. Also I slept well last night with my boxer brief/jockstrap/Nutty Buddy Mongo Cup acting as a pacifier.

So I began my session with the following tools in order: MGX, Helix Classic, Maximus, and Progasm Classic. For the first three, I wore a BIKE swimmer jockstrap, over that a men’s medium BIKE no. 10 jock, and in the pouch of the second jock a Nutty Buddy Mongo Cup. It seemed to be an “ordinary” session. I do not know if I tried too hard, but it turned out just “tug-of-war” with my anal musculature and my Aneros tools.

Then I made switch over to different jocks and cup for Maximus Classic when I just wore the BIKE swimmer’s jock underneath a trusty men’s medium BIKE CUP no. 80 supporter unit. This combo had great elasticity but less tightness. Maximus Classic performed well here which gave me much pleasure.

The session concluded at 6:15 when showered, shaved, and dressed for the day. I decided to wear a pair of cargo shorts with the swimmer jock and the BIKE CUP underneath. That is when luminous, electric electric Aless kicked in. Read more »

“Male Chastity Cups and Semen Retention: Perfect Together!”

Background
I was awake this morning still wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “Chastity Cup” over a nice pair of silky red boxers with a bulge pouch (or codpiece). This combination gives me a nice, sexy feeling when I am hard in the cup. The extra material gives just a little bit more stimulation to my glans, teasing me, and it can take me close to the PONR quickly.

While relaxing and not thinking of an Aneros session just yet, I began to “meditate” on male “chastity cups” and semen retention and what the two have in common. What I discovered was all too-familiar. Let me share some of my thoughts….(This developed into another question-and-answer session!)

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Questions and Answers
While wearing a chastity cup, can I touch my cock?
Sorry, guy, there is no way you are doing that. Just forget it!

While wearing a chastity cup, can I at least play with my balls?
Sorry, guy, you cannot. I hope you are not too disappointed.

While wearing a chastity cup, can I at least touch my perineum and put pressure on my prostate?
No, you can’t do that either…..sorry.

Can I try to give myself an ejaculation?
You can try but you probably won’t be able to. You won’t be able to get the stimulation on your cock that you will need to ejaculate. Sorry.

Can I plan to have an ejaculation possibly tomorrow night?
Sorry, you will still be wearing a chastity cup and you won’t be able to ejaculate then either. Read more »

“A New Direction For My Sessions?”

This blog post is not related to any particular session lately. Rather, my sessions seem to be taking a different direction. Let me explain…..

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The past two sessions have been good. I generally start aroused and wearing a “chastity cup”. Nothing new there. But lately, my sessions have been shorter and less eventful. My most recent one with the SGX was only about 20 minutes long. But in that time I had one quite large full-body contraction (was it an orgasm?) I am beginning to think so. That one large contraction came on the heels of a basically do-nothing approach to the session. This session with the SGX started out very nice and relaxing. But before long, I could feel it starting to “tickle” my prostate which started to swell.

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I believe that the key to enjoyment of my sessions lately is to just relax into them and have no expectations. And if the session is short and only filled with one orgasm, then that should be good enough for me! I should not try to lengthen it or expect multiple orgasms. Perhaps when my body is ready, it will give me another Super-O! It will probably build-up out of a “do-nothing” start! But until then, I will just savor the sessions as they come and enjoy every brief moment of them! Read more »

Out of a relationship, into a new journey

I’ve been using an aneros since I turned 18. I’m turning 25 this year, and I think only now have I really understood my body and how it responds to the prostate and the aneros. I’ve used a good amount over the years but I had long stints of no anal play. I’ve had a ton of dud sessions but I’ve had a ton of amazing sessions where I learn so much about myself but also life kind of. I have never yet had a super o, but I feel like I have small dry wave like orgasms, but I feel like I am getting closer.

I’ve been in a relationship for nearly 4 years, but we broke up a couple months ago. Before that I was single for a year and in a 3 year long relationship before that. Way too long for a young person. I’m not going to go into details, but I think only just now have I been realizing that I need and WANT to be able to do what I want more often. I feel so free and able to do whatever I want. Especially since I don’t want kids. I have also come to the realization that I am bisexual. All of these things together have really put a hamper on my aneros use. For months I would jerk off like normal. I’ve always wanted my prostate and ass to be my only source of pleasure. Because I am single now, I feel like I can be me now and I can do what I want. Read more »

Aneros, revisited

It has been awhile since I’ve had the opportunity to play with my Progasm. Last time I had it in, I felt as though I’d made good progress towards getting closer to P-waves and a Super O. Due to time restraints and the inability to be alone, I’ve had very little time to experiment. Since reading some of the blogs, however; I have found one thing that really has made a difference: nipple stimulation. All I can say is WOW! My left nipple definitely leads right to my prostate! While using the Progasm, I did have a few moments of feeling something different, and while I was most relaxed in breathing, ambience and relaxing jazz music, those moments that did come left all too soon. I began to think that perhaps the Progasm was too long to be stimulating my prostate. I would always have a non-stop stream of pre-cum and in most cases some prostatic fluid, but it just felt like it wasn’t doing what it should. So after some research, I settled on the Helix Trident. Last friday, I had the afternoon to myself, so went through my usual ritual of flushing my rectum out, filling it with some lube (Sessions is the best!) and then got down to trying out the Helix. In short, I did feel like it was hitting my prostate in all the right places. Being used to the Progasm, the Helix slid in nice and easy; I didn’t even really feel it there until I started contractions with my anal sphincter and Kegels. As usual, pre-cum oozed out almost non-stop, and this time more prostate fluid leaked out as well. With constant nipple stimulation, I got a pretty good and hard erection, and decided to switch to the Progasm Black Ice. Wow, the feeling was different, and it did feel like it overshot the prostate. So after 15 minutes or so with the Ice, I switched back to the Helix. I also decided to lay on my stomach, and thrust my pelvis and flaccid cock into the towel on the bed. About five minutes of doing this, I began to clench my anal sphincter, and could feel the Helix move in and out, rubbing on my prostate. The more I clenched, the better it felt, and although my cock was completely limp, I could feel as if I was building towards an orgasm. Uncertain as to whether or not this would be my first Super-O (which it felt like it would be!), I kept clenching tightly until I could feel my prostate grow, and before I knew it, my fourteen day load of hot semen exploded out of my flaccid cock onto the towel and my belly. The orgasm was amazing, but I really was hoping I would not have ejaculated. I can’t wait to find time to continue my Helix journey. I’d certainly welcome any suggestions, so feel free to respond to my blog. Thanks!

Breaking the Routine & Small Jitters

I’ve been struggling to find time for this post, but a few days ago were a little special. Nothing crazy, but still different.
I had like 3-4 days of no Aneros or masturbation in general, and started an Aneros session kind of early on in the day.
It got pretty nice with some good feelings only building up to like 20% contraption strength or so, I was very in the mood, but got too distracted by my roommate being up and awake. I’ve been thinking if I should tell him about the Aneros stuff, because eventually he’ll most likely find out anyway.
So I quit kind of early on but was still completely in the mood, so I was just browsing porn and stuff as I was waiting for him to go to work.

That’s when it hit me about the tips I got about mixing things up. Aneros has become too much of a routine for me. I was like: “I’m feeling horny, I’m browsing porn, and me having an Aneros in wouldn’t even be noticeable”. So I went for it! This is probably the first time I had the Aneros in while just being in front of the computer since the very first time I used it when I did traditional masturbation at the same time. Now of course, it’s way different this time because I’m actually focusing on breathing and contraptions. Read more »