“Chastity Is A Game Of Tug-Of-War!”

Introduction
Of course, it is not a real game! But the thought process behind self-imposed chastity is indeed tug-of-war*. Let me explain……

My side of the rope:
I hold on to the “rope” instead of holding on to my cock! It is really that simple! I want to remain in chastity (and semen retention) for as long as possible. I am now at Day 9 and hope to go at least another 6 or 9 days! I ”pull” on the rope by not edging or surfing at all. I have found from much experience that too much edging, surfing or an anticipation of partnered sexual activity will arouse me too much to the point where the blue-balls are almost inevitable. So I am very careful even with Aneros sessions not to directly stimulate my cock at the same time as my prostate.

Just this morning, I had a very nice milking session with SGX which I have not used in a while. It was a worthwhile session: I expelled more prostate fluid, not precum (I can see and feel the difference. Precum is very slippery and stringy, prostate fluid is not as much so.) These healthy prostate milking sessions seem to keep me satisfied while at the same time not getting me too aroused; hence, a nice balance. I enjoy prostate massage without any blue-balls.

“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain…..

“Does it Matter What I Wear To Bed? You Bet!”

Background/Session
Now in Day 8 of SR and my testosterone is peaked. I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” to bed but woke up about 4 hours later with an erection. I wanted a session so I went with the SGX (lubed with Slippery Stuff Gel). Now this session was not particularly interesting, but one thing I did note was the time. I was quite surprised that 30 minutes had transpired! I really didn’t “feel” like it lasted that long. Was I daydreaming? Or was I just enthralled by the pleasure? I have noticed this same phenomenon with the Helix Trident. Time seems to “fly” when in a session with these devices. Following the session, I retired to my sofa, put on headphones and just chilled with some relaxing tracks. I was disappointed that I remained very flaccid during the entire time.

When I finished with the musical “session”, I took-off the cup and replaced it with a pair of boxers with a contour pouch that displays my package (flaccid or with an erection) with a nice ‘bump’. I went back to bed.

Extreme Erections
I awoke twice during the remains of the night, each one with a very intense and arousing erection. It takes me much self-control not to cum. I even thought about putting on another condom and with a few thrusts into the bed, have a very satisfying ejaculation. But I believe my self-control is not yet “out-of-control” and so I was able to cope.

“Edging From The Inside-Out”

Background
Now in Day 8 of SR, I am feeling hornier than ever. I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” over a pair of silky boxers overnight. I arose around 4 AM and felt I needed a session. I selected the Aneros SGX and lubed-up with Slippery Stuff Gel.

Session
Before too long, I began to feel the “ridges” of the SGX working my anal opening and it felt amazingly good! But then, as the session progressed, something else happened……

I began to get the sense that I could be “ready” to ejaculate from this stimulation! It actually felt like an “edging” —- except from the inside-out! I don’t remember feeling this much before in sessions—-it honestly felt like I was headed for HFWO! What I did was move my hips back-and-forth in rhythm, again, like an edging, and the feeling so close to the PONR was incredible! I really didn’t want this to end. How long was this session? I believe about 35 minutes!

Could I have experienced a HFWO? Hard to say, but I know I came so close! Perhaps next time?

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“Ready? Take A Bold Step!”

It has been about 4 days since my last session. I was feeling it this morning. Last night, I wore my XO ProCup and woke up about 5 AM feeling energized. My mind was telling me to go with the SGX; I didn’t listen. Instead, I selected the MGX Classic. What played through my head was: go bold! It was a wise choice!

This session was a little different in a couple of ways. First, insertion. Instead of driving the MGX “home” right away, I inserted it only halfway and let it drive itself the rest of the way. It worked because I could feel it working its way in gradually and with a final “pull” found its way home! Secondly, there seemed to be no “straining” for pleasure from the MGX in this session. It knew where it was and what it wanted to do. All I had to do was lay-back and enjoy the pleasure! I wasn’t moaning but I still uttered something!

After the session started, I began to feel the anal ridges quite distinctly. The MGX (and SGX) are purposely designed with the anal ridges build-in and they do a wonderful job in stimulating the anal sphincter and surrounding area which in a male like myself, seems to be tied-in to the erectile function: I developed an erection probably within the first 3 minutes.

” A Night Full of Surprises”

Background
I could not have seen this night coming! It was full of surprises. Let me explain…..

I am now in Day 5 of SR and feel my T building-up. I went to sleep wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” and a short pair of PJs. I had not yet fallen asleep yet; it was only about 10:30 PM. Although not aroused in the least, I got an urge to have a session. I am now doing more frequent sessions to relieve BPH symptoms and they appear to be working. I selected the SGX (which I had not ridden in a while), lubed it up and it felt so good upon insertion. I could not have predicted the outcome of this session.

Session with SGX
Within the first 20 seconds of insertion, although I was completely flaccid going in to the session, I developed a hard erection beneath the chastity cup and it stayed hard for the rest of the session. And almost from the start, I began to softly moan. Not because I wanted to, but almost as if I had to. This moaning was quite unusual for me; I felt something in my anus that was caused by the ribbed stem of the SGX. I concentrated on my anal canal, not concentrating on anything that could be happening with my prostate. And the moans just kept going unabated. The moans actually lasted the entire 35-minute session! When the session ended and I went to remove the SGX, I noticed that I was still erect beneath my Mueller cup.

“The Good Sessions Just Keep Rolling Along….”

My! The SGX was next in “rotation” of my Aneros massagers. I have not been disappointed in the results of any sessions lately and this session with the SGX was no exception.

Session
I lubed-up the SGX with SSG and began the ride. One thing I really like about the SGX is the combination of its smaller size and the anal ribs which really engage anal stimulation. Most of my sessions lately seem to want to induce an ejaculation. I can’t complain about that feeling! I am wearing my XO ProCup overnight and it feels good to be in chastity for this session. Towards the end of the session, however, I wanted to see how much precum I produced so I pulled-down the cup and was not too surprised to see a nice amount. My cock was quite erect and glistening, so I “played-around” with it for just a little bit. A welcomed respite from chastity! But after a minute or two, “up” went the cup again!

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PS I am now in Day 5 of Semen Retention. As I have discussed recently, I don’t think it makes too much difference now which Aneros massager I select. Any one is going to engage my prostate. I am now feeling a great, subtle Aless that may last a few hours.

PS A special shout-out to my buddy, @BigGlansDC. I sure wish his issue with the Aneros Forum is resolved and very soon. I for one greatly miss his unique style and very informative insights.

“This MGX Session Hit A Different Sweet Spot”

I am in Day 6 of SR and woke up about 3:30 AM not wearing a “chastity cup”. Of course, I had a nice erection and decided to have a session. I originally wanted to go with the SGX but something told me to go with something “deeper” so I selected the MGX. It was a wise choice. As soon as I started the ride, I felt the MGX start to tickle my prostate in a new “sweet spot”. Previously, the HIH 950 was able to hit that spot that was located lower in my rectum. But this time, the MGX obviously was further in but nevertheless, was able to find a new “sweet spot” on or near my prostate. I began moaning almost right from the start and basically continued moaning for the rest of the time. I felt like I was experiencing many MMOs during this session.

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The interesting thing about this session was that I was hard virtually the entire time. I wanted/needed to ejaculate; I was very much near the PONR and felt that an ejaculation was imminent. I removed the XO “chastity cup” (which I put-on for this session) toward the end and saw that I was still hard. I had prostate fluid leaking out of my erect cock and onto the cup pouch (it was not precum for it was not slippery nor sticky). Oh how I wanted to ejaculate! I contemplated a super-O or just sliding around on the bed until I came but decided against it. I wanted to remain in chastity.

“A New Direction For My Sessions?”

This blog post is not related to any particular session lately. Rather, my sessions seem to be taking a different direction. Let me explain…..

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The past two sessions have been good. I generally start aroused and wearing a “chastity cup”. Nothing new there. But lately, my sessions have been shorter and less eventful. My most recent one with the SGX was only about 20 minutes long. But in that time I had one quite large full-body contraction (was it an orgasm?) I am beginning to think so. That one large contraction came on the heels of a basically do-nothing approach to the session. This session with the SGX started out very nice and relaxing. But before long, I could feel it starting to “tickle” my prostate which started to swell.

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I believe that the key to enjoyment of my sessions lately is to just relax into them and have no expectations. And if the session is short and only filled with one orgasm, then that should be good enough for me! I should not try to lengthen it or expect multiple orgasms. Perhaps when my body is ready, it will give me another Super-O! It will probably build-up out of a “do-nothing” start! But until then, I will just savor the sessions as they come and enjoy every brief moment of them!

Has the SGX been discontinued?

I’ve got an MGX classic and helix syn but I find with both that when almost fully inserted there’s a point that feels very pleasurable, but as the go all the way in I lose it completely and I don’t really get much from them.

An SGX sounds like a better fit but I’m struggling to find one here in the UK. Does anyone know if they’ve been discontinued.