my first successful session where I had rolling orgasms over and over.

Hi bros, first time posting here but i felt I had to share my experience the other night and get some feedback. Its probably guna be a pretty long post but please bear with me.

First a bit about me.

Im 31 years old and been on the journey for over 2 years now with little success. Ive had a few sessions where things feel like theyre heading somewhere but they sort of fizzle out. Ive had the racing heart, slight moaning, tingles and muscle spasms at different times.

The toys i have are the aneros (helix trident, peridise, mgx, eupho trident, maximus trident and progasm ice) and the lovense edge vibrator. Ive used all at some point.

My typical session starts with cleaning up and then going upstairs and laying on the floor on some towels near to the warm radiator. Im laying down with my head proped up on some pillows and my legs laying to each side with my feet pulled up close to my ass.  I then put in my earbuds and put on some good biaural beats or mindgasm. This is usually where I’d lube up my hole with coconut oil and rub a layer of water based lube on my chosen toy.
Then i try to relax for a bit listening and deep breathing and after a while i look at some hot pics on reddit whilst hitting my weed vape at a low temp.
I’d usually have in the helix or the maximus for a while until swapping to the progasm where things kinda get nicer. This nice contact feeling doesn’t usually last or progress but recently i found that if I push out (like a reverse kegel) instead of doing kegels and manual contractions I feel strong pushing contractions in my lower abdomen which feels kinda nice. Now if I start slowly thrusting the progasm the faster I go the harder my body pushes ( and i mean really pushes) until its so intense I can’t take it and il leak cum, pre cum and finally squirt clear slippery liquid…this feels really good but not what I’m looking for.

HFO and other musings

I’ve been reading a lot on the wiki as well as searching this Reddit. I started my journey during Covid. Actually, I started like 10 years ago but didn’t have the support and info that’s prevalent today to help me so I quit after 6 months. So during Covid, I restarted the journey. Started with the helix trident and the squeeze method using mindgasm. Got good feelings and that itch everyone talks about. Also using poppers to help. Then bought a eupho and then a Maximus and then a mdx. I have a lot. Lol. Always had good feelings but never a HFO. Or at least I think I haven’t. Then switched to the do nothing method using them and got much better results while switching to a lube shooter. Definitely a game changer. Now the question. How do you get to a HFO or super O. What are the physical things that happen? Is it like an actual orgasm where your muscles contract (like your entire pelvic floor and cock) or is it something else. And how does that differ than a super o?

Staying in the NOW & Avoiding Fantasy

It’s easy to get ahead of the sensations and fantasize about what the waves of pleasure COULD be like, but this attitude almost always shifts me out of the current pleasures and grinds them to a halt.

Seems like fantasy builds tension which kills relaxation…and the Super O.

How do you stay grounded in the now and avoid being too focused on reaching the Super O?

Had some progress and need advice

I got the Aneros Helix Syn V a couple of months ago and have been occasionally playing around with it working towards a prostate orgasm. I’ve had mild success before; a little bit of shaking during long sessions, but nothing to crazy and definitely no hands free o / super o.

I saw a post here saying that before your session it helps to edge for a little bit so I did just that. I jerked off for maybe 30 min and brought myself close 10 or so times.

I did this late at night and was in a very relaxed state, which probably helped a lot. After a bit of fun (no cumming, though) I decided it was time to start with playing with the toy. I took 10 or so min before starting to hit my weed pen and to make sure it had been a bit since I touched my cock.

Laying down on my bed, I lubed up the toy and after rubbing it against my hole for a bit I gently pushed it in. I started the session with the vibration off and just trie to focus on contracting. I also made sure that I tried different types of contractions; I saw a post saying that they didn’t have to be big ones and found that I had the best results with little contractions.

THCaaa…

Under normal circumstances, I build my arousal for several days, then set the mood in advance for a 3-4 hour session at the very least. I start to breathe deeply to relax, self-hypnotise to sink deeper, let go, surrender and visualise a variety of images and stories before anything starts to happen. In a few hours, I start to float and really get into the session. I have P-waves, a couple of dry orgasms and mental calm seas pleasure. I feel relieved and satisfied and then get on with my day. Every fourth session or so, I’m able to achieve a super orgasm. I then lay there out of breath and count my blessings thinking about this amazing world and the pleasure within (it only happens after the 3-4 hours of play). It’s outrageously amazing and I wish that every man had a chance to experience it, but..

With THC, it is a completely different story. Aneros just takes over my body and fucks me endlessly into oblivion in any possible position and with all possible orgasm variations you can imagine. It almost doesn’t matter what I have experienced prior, and what I normally write or say about an ordinary Aneros session. With a bit of THC, everything just becomes superbly enhanced. In fact, those sessions are so different, that I feel that it is a completely different reality or universe.

Mega-PainGasm into Super-O? what the actual fuck… interesting session

Something wierd happened to me during my latest session. I am fairly new to aneros but not to prostate play. My favorite toy is currently the wevibe vector, but my new helix syn v is quickly starting to replace it.
The Aneros has taught me that little to no vibration can be way more relaxing and eventually full body pleasure.

So tonight I had the helix in for a while just enjoying it for an hour or so, working up to more. Was feeling amazing but nowhere close to orgasm. Full body waves and involuntary shudders tho:) I took a break of a few hours, and had a small plug in, so at this point my prostate has been activated and going crazy for half the day.

I decided to pull out the vector, and turned it on to the lowest possible setting of pulsing. I was sitting at my computer and my legs and whole body was having semi voluntary twitches and movements, and I began to almost grind my toy on the chair. Combined with the low frequency thud pattern coming from the vibe, it was a huge amount of stimulation.

I started noticing that I was holding my breath for extended periods on accident, and during one of these breaths, I had what felt like a whole body cramp mixed with a migraine throb(less intense but only way to describe) and I stopped moving, took a drink and started massaging my body to try to release the tension. It was very very wierd, but I was still feeling great so I continued… It happened again in a similar way but I stopped before it went too far and avoided most of the cramping.

My experience and what I can give

I’m gonna keep this short but sweet, if you are a person who is looking into getting an aneros or prostate play in general here is my mindset and experience on it after a month in.

1. Don’t over think it, use anything anyone is saying as a reference point and focus on yourself. Even with the mindsets people are peddling don’t over think it. Focus only on how it feels for you and make sure you aren’t beating yourself down. This includes an overemphasis on relaxation, it’s important, but telling another human to relax doesn’t help them relax. Don’t make the same mistake with yourself.

2. It doesn’t feel like how people describe it, some people describe feeling their prostate as a tingling or warm feeling, or it spreading throughout their body but that is their own interpretations of what’s going on in their body. You will more than likely interpret it different way, don’t chase a specific feeling you are being told to expect.

Instead I found it more helpful to draw comparisons from what you have heard to what you feel.

3. Don’t underestimate how much marijuana affects you. I was a person who was very adamant about not doing this with weed. However, after trying it once I can say the sensations were completely different and helped me to actually realize what I was feeling in my prostate.

Nipple Orgasmic

Just before Christmas, I had a full body orgasm riding my partner. It never happened before or since. I felt over the moon that night. Even though he was also exhilarated with the result, he hasn’t shown much interest in fucking me regularly. He doesn’t usually like topping and I am not planning to cheat. When I top, I enjoy sex a lot but I am also a much more sexual person than he is. So I decided that I want a to explore the possibility of a receptive orgasm through intercourse using another solution. Over Christmas, I purchased a real powerful fucking machine to test my limits and find out if I could orgasm again from the stimulation alone. I couldn’t reach the same level of pleasure and felt guilty about using it, so in the end I got rid of it. But it was an experience in itself that I can share in another post.

After Christmas, my schedule really intensified. In order to maintain a clear head in this busy period, I masturbated every morning before work. It kept my fantasies and my Aneros at bay. I simply didn’t have time for it. My partner also worked short days and was mostly at home, which prevented me having a session on my days off. I was no longer travelling for work due to Covid, so couldn’t take an Aneros with me for a night away. We had sex occasionally, and it was great, but I still wanted to keep my options open on Aneros. My only option was massaging my nipples quietly in bed at night and I was getting more and more out of it.

omg – I think I had a Super-O

I started out my session the normal way, with clean-up, shower, and insertion. I then begin to just relax and do light contractions. I think horny thoughts, all while reminding myself not to chase anything. About 20 minutes in, I begin to play with my nipples.

About 45 minutes into my session, the pleasure begins to build. I keep on contracting, and the pleasure keeps building. Eventually, my whole body begins to feel tingly. This has happened before, but I guess I didn’t push it enough because when the contractions kept building, so did the pleasure.

It. was. amazing.

I couldn’t stop withering around and moaning, “oh my god”. I literally couldn’t control my body. It was just all pleasure. I could feel the toy making big movements with each contraction. When it went away, all I could think about was how I just had a super orgasm. I am still in disbelief because I didn’t think it was even close to happening as I haven’t reached a point of consistent prostate orgasms. But with the pleasure I felt tonight, I don’t think it could have been anything else but a super-o.

Since I was in shock, I let the super-o die down without doing more contractions. Since I was having so much fun, I kept on going. I managed to build up pleasure and have a normal prostate orgasm. I am very happy. There were times in the session where I was literally smiling because it felt so good!

The elusive Aless orgasm

Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no clean-up.

If I am in the right state of mind, I will attempt Aless at night. My technique is to imagine that I have an Aneros inside, slowly moving and touching all the right spots. Then my session almost matches an Aneros session. Only once I have ended up with an Aless super O.

Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms. Just last night my partner began stimulating my nipples during sex. I became superbly excited and had a few dry Os in the process, which was amazing. Afterwards, my prostate fluttered, and I didn’t want to cum yet. I decided that I wanted to stay in the arousal mode.

Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience.