Why are my dry orgasms so rare?

I think my blog posts are gone but it doesn’t matter 🙂
I’m 32 year old from Portugal with very little sexual experience (just been with other men occasionally and curious to be with a women but in general much less interested in women).

In super resume I’ve had aneros for 8 years now and I’ve got dry os but very rare, and never got a super o.
Some sessions I had in the last week kinda exemplify what I was able to get with aneros and how I think I have much to evolve.

In general my aneros sessions are pretty uneventful.
They generally take 3-4 hours (I use do nothing), and I can get some background pleasure but it generally don’t evolve much.

It’s extremely common however for me to quickly (especially if I just take a quick look at porn or just sexual images) start having some rhythmic movements of the aneros and my dick, because it’s hard when this happens. There rhythmic pulses are pleasant but I won’t call them pleasurable, because they’re just “nice” and nothing special.
Like I said this is extremely easy to get, but also they do pretty much nothing.

A cure for erectile dysfunction, at least for me!

Hi guys,

Early this morning, Sunday at 2 a.m., we switched over to daylight savings time. This year the transition from standard time to daylight savings time was not too traumatic for me. I stay home from church and viewed morning service online. However, I am dressed for bed and will be heading there in a few minutes.

I am in the tenth year of my Aneros journey which began in early June 2012 with Aneros Syn. June 2012 to mid September 2016, my Aneros journey was hard work. I had a resolute schedule of Aneros sessions three to four times a week, Sundays off. My prostate began to awaken three weeks into my Aneros journey. A couple weeks later in July 2012, I began to have powerful, sweet Aless which I enjoyed immensely. I believe in November 2013, I added to my collection of Aneros tools Tempo which added power to my sessions. On July 4, 2014, I experienced a mild Super-O.

However, I had to wait until mid September 2016 before I experienced my Super-O and MMO breakthroughs. Since then my Aneros sessions have been effortless. Diddling my nipples and wearing my jocks and cups became very special.

Tonight I decided to wear a BIKE jockstrap to bed. Wearing a jockstrap magnifies the power and sweetness of nipple diddling and the Kegels.

Eupho Syn Euphorium Weekend

Eupho Syn Euphorium Weekend

Hi everyone.
It’s extremely rare (in fact I don’t remember if it ever happened) that I use the same massager in two back to back sessions. This is exactly what happened last weekend.

On Friday night, I felt like a low key, non aggressive session and so my body whispered it’s choices tool, the Classic Eupho Syn. The plan was to have a quiet session designed to simply sit back and enjoy whatever sensation the unit would yield me. Sometimes, I feel like having an aggressive approach so my MGX or Progasm Ice would be selected. This time, the ES did not disappoint!

As soon as it was inserted, I was transported to the edge of bliss but rather on the calm side. At no point in the session was I looking for more results than what I was experiencing, I did not try to escalate anything, as I sometimes do, in a quest to get to Super O country.

The session was such a great success that I simply wanted an encore on Saturday night. Well the short history repeated itself. My two-session weekend was exactly what my prostate prescribed!

The Classic Eupho Syn definatly has its place in my arsenal!

Good vibes to everyone!

Diddling techniques as of January 2020

Hi guys,

In the two and a half months of our enforced “absence” for our web site while it was undergoing redesign, I have continued along with my diddling sessions in bed at night along with occasional Aneros sessions.

Basically when I diddle my nipples at night. I have two basic diddling motions:

1. Back and forth movement over my nipple (or both) with a finger or two. This sort of movement revves up the nipple sensation a great deal.

2. Circular movement around one or both nipples on their aureoles. Or the nipples themselves.

With these two movements, I can produce a Super-O or even a MMO.

It is all so sweet and powerful.

Take care.

External prostate massge

Hi guys,

When I had those Aneros breakthroughs with Super O’s and MMO’s those couple days in the middle of September 2016, that is when I believe I became fully rewired by my nearly four years of Aneros sessions since early June 2013 when I used the Traditional Helix Syn for the first time.

Since those magical nights in mid September 2016, my Aneros sessions became effortless and my nipples became alive for the pleasures of nipple diddling at any time of day or night, especially nights in bed.

Those of you who have read my blog here know of my intense jock and cup fetish which began in earnest when my 7th grade gym coach told us boys we had to buy a jockstrap for gym class. It was a required part of our gym uniform. I wore my jockstrap with pride underneath my gym uniform and also for the erotic feel it gave my genitals. The summer after 10th grade, I summoned enough courage to get my first cup and jock. It was a Black & Bauer Procup with cup jock holder. The cup itself was a traditional flat cup which was not comfortable nor did it fit one’s genitals well. Athletes in many cases shunned flat cups as a result and thus risked unprotected genitals. This was in 1965.

First blog post

Hi

This is my first blog post, although I’ve posted several times to the forums after especially great sessions. I’m a 70 year old on the journey for a year or so now. I’m having pretty great success, although not every session leads to the super O. My best sessions have been mind-blowing, with multiple SOs that leave me limp (in more ways than one)! My wife is on board, and we share our PureWand in partnered sex, while I also slip off for solo play in the guest room.

I have a pretty good collection of Aneros and nJoy toys; Progasm Ice, MGX Trident, Helix Trident, Eupho Trident, PureWand, and PurePlug large. I have a Lelo Hugo, but don’t really care for vibratory toys. I will typically cycle through several toys each session.

I use THC; 25 mg dose of edibles and 20 mg of THC oil mixed with my injected lube. I also use poppers to trigger the super Os. In a good session I will typically have a series of powerful SOs lasting for 30 – 60 seconds each. My best sessions are usually after a period of abstinence, when my arousal level is at its highest.

I have ED, which I use Cialis for, and typically am flaccid during sessions. Most sessions I am unable to finish with a TO. Thank god for prostate orgasms!

Anyway, thanks for all the great knowledge shared here in the blogs and in the forum. It has really helped my progress.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

from “Do Nothing” What does that mean?

Hi Guys,

Frequently mentioned on this forum is the “Do Nothing” method but what does this really mean? It doesn’t mean stick an Aneros up your butt and stop thinking about it as you go about your daily activities, nor does it mean you should ignore its presence as if you were anesthetized or asleep. It is really about taking a very passive approach to your Anerosessions. It is one of the techniques found in the Relaxation group versus Sexual frenzy group.

From the Aneros WIKI The “do nothing” technique is mostly for the Aneros only. The idea is to dispense with thinking about holding contractions, controlling your breathing, conscious relaxing, or anything else for that matter, in favor of just lying there and letting the pleasure and Aneros do their thing. This technique is probably best after you have at least started feeling pleasure from the Aneros.

I’d like to expand upon that description a bit. Most descriptions of techniques one may employ during their Anerosessions are of the Sexual frenzy group and involve rhythmic (or mixed rhythmic/static) contractions of different pelvic floor muscles combined with breathing techniques and stimulation of “erogenous hot spots”. These are what constitute very active approaches.

Retrograde Ejaculation

I’ve gotten the super o thing down pat to the point where I don’t even need my progasm anymore to have a super o. However, I decided recently why not tru to see if I could cum hands free with just toys. I try with my trusty dildo and/or the njoy pure wand and often times, I will cum but usually in the form of a retrograde ejaculation. Not good. Any advice on how to prevent these retrograde ejaculations and actually cum hands free?

The Aneros, Nipple Diddling, Aless, and Glans Penis Connection!

Hi guys,

I was inspired by a provocative thread that I saw this evening on Aneros Forum entitled: “Nipples connected to the Glans?” It got me really horny!

However a very cardinal rule to be followed in Aneros sessions especially for beginners is “Penis not.” So for a very long time, actually years, I concentrated on my sessions and kept my penis out of it.

But in Aneros Directions for Use which was among the original instructions, when you have gained facility in Aneros usage, you can stimulate your Glans.

It took me a good five years before I achieved my first bona fide and solid breakthroughs in Super-O’s and MMO’s which occurred in mid September 2016. Actually I had reached a tipping point in that my Aneros sessions became effortless. That tipping pointing also affected my Aless which in itself became absolutely pleasurable. Also my nipples at the time awakened and thus started nightly nipple diddling sessions most nights in bed. 

However I discovered my cock and my Glans for sure at age five. Like most baby boomer boys, I was circumcised several days after birth. So my Glans is bulbous and feels so good when I wear a jock and cup.

Tonight I set myself a new goal. When I retire later tonight and diddle my nipples in bed, I will focus on what my diddling has one my cock and my Glans. I expect great things in new focuses of Aless and diddling pleasure! Take care.

Diddling while wearing my jockstrap last night : Powerful meditation on my prostate, cock and Glans!

Hi guys,

Many of you who know me on Aneros.com are aware that I have a powerful jock and athletic cup fetish which enhances my diddling sessions in bed at night and my Aneros sessions. This fetish goes back to my adolescence when I along with other boys were directed by our gym teacher in 7th grade. It was a mandatory part of our gym uniform. I appreciate very much the elastic support a jockstrap offers my genitals and how it prevents fatigue in athletic activities. But there is a very powerful aspect of jocks and cups for the intimate support and protection they have offered me over the years. I thank my dad and my gym coaches for their good examples of wearing such items which produced this sexual awakening in me and this powerful fetish. Wearing jockstraps and cups also has been a natural American activity for athletics and even everyday wear since at least the 1940’s and continues to this day here in the USA. Just writing all this makes me extremely horny.

I began my Aneros journey on early Sunday evening, June 3, 2012 with Helix Syn. Three weeks later I began to experience P-waves. In early July 2012, I began to use Maximus. That was when powerful Aless set in.

After my major Super-O and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016, my Aneros sessions became effortless and nipples began to awaken big time. Diddling sessions at night became a source of pleasure for me.