In my career and real life I have always traveled to a different drum. I am a child of the 60’s who never abandoned my 1960’s values. Somehow I managed to develop a career that allowed me to follow my socially responsible values and still be modestly successful financially. I am not rich at all but have enough to retire without financial strain. I retired three months ago at 67. I was confident in my career and was recognized for my offbeat leadership. The career path I followed was on the edge of mainstream and out in the open and known. But while my socially responsible career was known by many in my real life, there was this sexual side of me that was curious, questioning, unsettled and hidden. The only outlet I had for it was my rich fantasy life, erotic daydreams and written expression in my highly personal recreational erotic writing. Women were always the focus. Yet in the back of my mind was this plaintive fantasy that wouldn’t it be amazing if an orgasm would last for more than a few seconds and I wonder what the turn on is for homosexual men.
Tag: Super-O
Welcome Back to the Journey
So. For Context my journey began in April 2018. 6 months I felt I had made progress with the Aneros line. On October 20th I started reading Mantak Chia’s The MultiOrgasmic Man. I practiced all of his teachings…to the letter. Within 4 days I had my first super O without any Aneros assistance. The next two weeks were blissful. Aless had me in its grasp on a daily basis and I explored these sensations
I had a work trip. I decided to reintroduce the Aneros to my sessions. I took the Helix Syn on the trip with me. On the first night I lubed up the Helix Syn and my ass and slipped it in. From the very first second I knew I had made a grave mistake. I lied down on the bed and within 5 mins the Helix syn was auto fucking me and it was blasting my prostate. I moaned and cried in my hotel room. I even recorded some of the sessions. However, on this trip I felt I had overdone it. Kind of lost my way some.
I returned home and obviously my wife was over excited to see me therefore for the next several days my personal goal of semen retention was basically shattered for 3 days straight. My prostate went into hiding. I could no longer easily find it. For about 2 days all of my sessions left me frustrated. I went back to Mantak Chia…I realigned my Microcosmic Orbit and here begins my comeback tour of my journey
Suggestions for someone who’s used the Aneros for more than a decade…
Hi Folks,
I’ve used the Aneros (MGX, Helix, Eupho, Maximus, Progasm & Perdise) on and off for over a decade now. Though they can give me interesting sensations (rapid heartbeat, heavy breathing, spasms in my extremities, some sensual feelings and thoughts) I’ve never experienced some of the lovely testimonials that so many post here and on the Aneros site: Pleasure Waves, Mini-O’s, Dry, Wet, Super etc. I don’t know what these feel like, but it sure would be nice to at least get a little taste of what others are getting to experience. I really have tried so many different ideas that get bounced around out there: smoking weed (which I don’t like), fish oil, sleeping with it in, contractions, do nothing, breathing, watching porn, erotic hypnosis etc. None of which seem to do much…
Sadly, I can only describe the Aneros experience as just kind of bland. It ultimately starts off somewhat erotic with the initial insertion and then falls off. After an hour of having a piece of plastic stuck up my rear, I just get bored and clean up.
I know we’re not supposed to have “expectations”, but it’s hard when you read about other’s experiences that sound so fun! My only expectation at this point is that my session will just be bland and nothing out of the ordinary will happen. Honestly, I’m just not sure what I’m supposed to be feeling, what sensations to focus on and how to enhance them.
Is the Utimi prostate massager good?
Hey, my boyfriend wanted me to give him a massage while he had a prostate massager in. I had heard about the aneros before and thought thats what he had but its not, its the Utimi prostate massager (found here: [https://www.amazon.com/Vibrating-Prostate-Massager-Vibrator-Vibrations/dp/B01EMYJPWS?th=1](https://www.amazon.com/Vibrating-Prostate-Massager-Vibrator-Vibrations/dp/B01EMYJPWS?th=1)). Is this massager inferior to the aneros or do they basically do the same thing.
In other words, would he ever be able to have a super o with this toy
my journey so far
Encouraged by https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/110569-learn-helpful-links-for-new-members, decided to blog my own journey, even if only for my future reference.
Can’t remember now how I came to knowing about Aneros let alone buying one, perhaps during one of the tumblr porn surfing sessions. Anyway, have had the Helix Syn for a while but really started to use it regularly a few months before.
I am not new to anal play and even had a kind of anal orgasm once, back when I was a teenager (33 now), and used prostate massagers for fun with my wife and alone, but never really new about the possibility of Super-O and “rewiring” until recently. I’ve heard about involuntary contractions and the intense prostate pleasure, but never found them, and voluntary contractions would get me aroused but my muscles got tired quickly and it ruined the experience.
Finding the wiki got me really excited so I decided to give the whole thing another go. I would wake up early, when the family was still sleeping, which would give me about two hours of almost-private time in the living room, the best I could have in the circumstances. I would take a shower, use coconut oil as the lube and started doing the contractions.
At this very time, I got interested in male kegels (unrelated to Aneros) and got pretty good at feeling and controlling my PC muscles. That definitely helped with the aneros sessions.
(30M) Used aneros for the 1st time and didn’t have any orgasm. Any suggestions?
I’m a 30 year old gay man and I used an ameros for the 1st time. I just tried anal sex one time, but it went horrible because at that time I didn’t know about how to clean my ass right, so I never tried again. Today I used my aneros Progasm, which is recommended for intermediate users, however it wasn’t a problem for me to insert it and leave it in my ass. I was horny, I watched some porn and then inserted my progasm. I did some contractions so it stimulates my prostate, but it wasn’t as pleasant as I expected. So I worked it manually and I know I was hitting the right spot because my penis was getting really wet. I played with the prograsm for more than an hour, but however I didn’t reach the called “super o”, so then I just masturbated as usual. Any suggestions on how to use it? Thanks in advance.
“There When I Need It The Most”
Introduction
What is “it”? And where was “it” when it was needed? Of course, I am referring to my “chastity cup” which I wore to bed last night. It was my Mueller Flex Cup, one of my favorites. I am now in Day 6 of semen retention and feeling the effects of increased testosterone. One thing about wearing a cup to bed is the interaction of my erections within the cup: the top of the cup rubs nicely against my erect penis and especially the frenulum; this action almost keeps the erection going for much longer than normal, when, without stimulation, the erection would begin to subside. With stimulation from the cup, an erection can last 30 minutes or longer. And because when I wear a cup all night, I can have an almost constant “stream” of stimulating erections (NPTs that all normal males must experience) when I am aware of them.
Session
Of course, all these erections make me very horny. In fact, without the protection of the cup, by Day 6, I would be so horny that I would need to ejaculate. Since I usually develop blue-balls any day after Day 6, the pressure is mounting for me to ejaculate!
“SGX Classic: It’s An Anal Thing!”
Introduction
I decided to have a session early this morning with the SGX. This model I believe is no longer available on the Aneros site. I do like it’s smaller size and its performance. Let me explain…..
Session
I lubed-up and started the session. Because the SGX (and the MGX) have a ribbed, tapered stem, these Aneros models stimulate not only the prostate, but the anus. This morning’s session began with some anal “quivering” that was unmistakable. Sort-of like an auto-f**k but concentrated in the anus. And those anal quivers get re-directed up to the prostate through the body of the SGX. What a potent pairing! For a while, I really felt like I was either on the way to a Super-O or a HFWO! There was absolutely no discomfort from either the body, the stem or the P-tab on this massager. I could probably have continued the session for much longer than the actual 25 minutes.
Conclusion
I never discount the size of any of the Aneros prostate massagers. My favorite (and go-to) one now is the HIH 950 which is deceptively small. But don’t let it’s small size fool you! It is quite a capable performer! Next in line is the SGX; designed differently so it stimulates more than just the prostate. As I have noted before, all of the Aneros massagers have their own “signature” —- some provide more (and deeper) direct stimulation of the prostate while others (like the SGX and MGX) also work their magic on the anus. Whatever your preference, there will be an Aneros that will carry you to orgasmic bliss!
Releasing a bit of tension
So I had therapy today to talk about some of the stuff with my mom, so I was pretty chill when I got home. After therapy I went to a Starbucks and read a chapter of 12 rules for life about raising your children. It didn’t quite hit on the “don’t be an absolute monster to your kids” that I thought it would, but I also practiced laying out some of my feelings about my mom in the framework of crucial conversations. I had gotten a Facebook message from my mom asking “if I got her texts”, but since I had blocked her on my phone and unfriended her on Facebook, this message came as a surprise to me. I got home and meditated a bit after lighting a scented candle (which smells like boy’s deodorant :)). I was reminiscing about my adolescence. In practice, I tried imagining how it felt to have my whole being be in some pleasant adolescent memories (which I realized were rooted in the pleasantry of being away from my bitchy mother). I also wrote down some potentially “Freudian Nightmare” phrases relating to my mom and Aneros usage. I tried channeling my inner, vulnerable childhood voice and got emotional as I articulated:
* “Mommy why did you get mad at me for using sex toys to make myself feel good?”
* “Mommy, why don’t you love me when I make myself feel all nice and good inside?”
Underwear unveiled (my take)
Hi guys,
Again it has been many days since I have submitted an entry to my Aneros blog. I did have an Aneros session in nine days until this morning on Columbus Day. I was distracted by various things, mostly the Brett Kavanaugh confirmation saga played out. Like many Americans I came away that contest bruised and exhausted.
Fortunately late last night my horniness came alive after reading some porn and viewing sexually suggestive pics on tumblr. My cock wanted to come out and play. I wanted to indulge him in a bate session, but I was too tired. So I donned one of my All-Star Shock Jock Cup w/supporter combos and went back to bed, and slept like a baby.
I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s blog entries very much because he tells it like it is especially when he talks about jocks and cups and the Aneros. He did so well in his latest blog entry “Underwear, unveiled.”
As for myself, I think my dad was a real cool guy in 1950’s America for being an exhibitionist at least at home. He was a Little League umpire in my hometown during the summer months. On game nights, after supper he would dash about the house buck naked with his cock flopping about on the way to my parents bedroom where he would don his navy blue umpire uniform. As I was entering puberty, I discovered he wore a jockstrap underneath. His Johnson & Johnson men’s large jockstrap had a huge pouch. His dick was a much larger version of mine. We we’re both circumcised and we both have a bulbous glans.