Tag: Wife

“A Transmutation Poem”

Feeling horny
Sexual encounter with my wife
Hard as rock 20 minutes, ready to penetrate
Decided not to, no ejaculation
Cool-down, go to bed
Wearing Safe-T-Gard cup to protect the head

3 AM. extreme erection, blue-ball groin
Session in the company of 950
Amazing feeling, immediate prostate fluid
Cool-down, guess what?
Blue-balls gone, now they are not!

Now Day 11, holding onto my semen, feeling great!
Can do it all over again tonight, can’t wait!

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How was I able to “release” the dreaded blue-balls feeling? I’m not totally sure now. When I decided to have a session with the HIH 950, I thought for sure that this would be a Super-T; I thought I would surely ejaculate. When I started the session, the 950 was pulled-in very deeply and seated itself against my waiting prostate. Looking at the prostate fluid expelled, the analogy I can draw is “squeezing an orange”! That is what it felt like.

Did I somehow “transmute” the sexual ejaculatory pressure into my prostate where it dissipated? It sure felt that way with this amazing session. Perhaps this is the “key” to stopping blue-balls in its tracks? Intriguing…

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Maximus Trident Review

I knew I was going to be writing another review, I just didnt think it would be so soon. Friday I went to my local adult store which happened to have the Maximus Trident in stock. In addition to something sexy for my wife I returned home with the Maximus. Being late afternoon and home alone I was particularly aroused. I decided it was time to give girthy maximus a try.
Without having tried the original maximus there is little to compare to besides my Progasm. These are completely different toys.
The Maximus goes in fairly easily for its size. Once in place my ass is at maximum capacity. Just kidding not a good joke. Its noticeable size once in compared to mt beloved helix trident.
Throwing in some kegals I noticed less movement than the Helix but quite a bit more than the Progasm. However very pleasurable. Once again aneros does not disapoint. Wonderfull contact with my sweet spot on my perineum. And a very comfortable k-tab. A very pleasurable engagement of my prostate but a different engagment. The design hugs and rubs my prostate compared to the firm contact provide by the Helix.
I am a leaker without using an aneros when aroused. A prostate massage kicks it into high gear. The Maximus did not disappoint here. Within a few minutes i had a decent puddle on my stomach that grew with every contraction. I only got a couple of drops of prostate fluid with the maximus. With the pleasure building deep inside and the involvantaries going. The maximus moved well just not enough for my liking. It would dance and rub my prostate sending waves of pleasure through my body. I could never get it to dance and work side to side or circular on my prostate like i can the helix. Read more »

ABCD987

Had my 1st session tonight & it was very good. I have problem that I’ve never read about so far. Have hormone problems. 1 of the “lucky” few men that has hypothyroidism. Take anti anxiety & depression medication that has saved my sanity. Some side effects are several cause ED problems & 1 causes delayed ejaculation. Heterosexual male in my late 50’s but wasn’t ready to give up sex but I couldn’t perform. My wife is very supportive of Aneros. Took me a while to tell her I was thinking of ordering. Willing to be patient. Towards end of session I was feeling tingling in various parts of my body. Felt my penis & had a little pre cum. Tasted it, was sweet like everyone says. So I figured I just need to work on my technique. Started to get up & I was harder than I have been in a while. Still had HelixSyn in & read where u should usually take it out before masturbating or having sex. I felt so incredibly good I went for it & masturbated. Had the most incredible wet orgasm I’ve had in a long time & the best feeling one I remember in my life. Thanks Aneros for giving me the feeling sex is not a former part of my life. Like I said I’m willing to take my time to get to those dry orgasms & the big O.

“Prostate Edging and A Male Fertility Clinic…”

This unusual fantasy was quite spontaneous and pleasurable. Here are the details….

Background
I slept in my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the Cage Cup overnight. I am in Day 5 of SR and awoke about 4 AM with a hard cock and “edging” close to the PONR as I have done before while wearing this particular cup (it is smaller than the other cups and my erect cock gets some additional stimulation with gentle movement—a nice feeling! I feel like I am going to ejaculate but don’t). I am due for a prostate stim session and decided rather quickly on the Helix Trident; why this model I didn’t know at the time but now it became very clear that this massager would be ideal for this session.

I lubed-up and began. Almost immediately, I began to get what I would call “rapid-fire” auto-contractions. I could not stop them nor control them. (Thanks to the HT for this movement). And from the start, I began to lightly moan. This moaning actually continued for most of this session. Read more »

“The Male Arousal Continuum and Aneros”

I was thinking about this the past couple of days. With my current practices of Aneros prostate massage, semen retention (SR) and wearing of male “chastity cups”, is there any “common denominator”? Is there something that “links” all of them together? I believe the answer is yes! Let me explain….

The common “link” I believe is arousal. Let me be more specific.

What makes an Aneros session so enjoyable? It is the feeling of a prostate orgasm triggered by my arousal. The better the arousal, the better the session (usually)! Extreme arousal can lead to an extreme Aneros response, a good amount of the time.

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What makes semen retention so enjoyable? The build-up of semen in my system, particularly at Day 7 when my testosterone gets a boost, is arousing! And any days at around Day 12 I could have a wet dream! I’ve had one already in a “chastity cup” and the experience is unforgettable! Knowing that I have not ejaculated in (X) days is arousing in itself. It seems that every day that goes by only strengthens the arousal just a little bit more.

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What makes wearing a chastity “cup” so enjoyable? Why do I enjoy sleeping in one so much? The answer should be obvious…..arousal! To have a night-time erection while wearing a cup produces an exquisitely erotic sensation that can’t really be described, only felt. And what a feeling! It is that feeling of being near the PONR for a couple-dozen minutes at a time. And as much as I squirm and twitch within the cup, I cannot ejaculate and must remain in chastity. That is the beauty of wearing the hard cup! Read more »

“She Respected The Cup: An Aless Sexual Fantasy”

Background: I had finished a sweet, relaxing session with the Eupho Classic. I wanted to lie-down for a while and savor the Aless, so I found a nice, erotic track on YouTube that I remember: “SEX MUSIC – 10 Passionate Melodies for Erotic Moments”. I began to listen…..

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After a short while, I began to fall-into a sexual fantasy. It was quite real and quite intense. Here is the essence…..

I am lying down with my female lover and she begins to caress and cuddle me all over. But she sees that I am wearing a “chastity cup”. She tells me matter-of-factly: “You’re not going to touch your cock and neither am I!” You see, she respected the cup. She proceeded then to caress my body which was close to hers. My nipples were already quite engorged and firm and she proceeded to gently caress one, then the other. I feel it very strongly down in my prostate. Her nimble hands deftly made their way to caress my pecs and then my underarms and finally my arms. But she didn’t stop there. She reached around my back and down to my waist. She went further on down as well. Read more »

What is going on

Hello. Let me start by saying that I have been trying prostate play with the aneros for about 2 years now. I have had the helix classic, I now own the helyx syn, the peridise and the progasm ice. I have not really had the super o or earth shaking orgasm everyone speaks of. It has felt ok at times, it has felt good at times even great at times. Never a hands free orgasm. Well last night I had a session that was a little different. It lasted a few hours. I started with my helix syn was super horny felt small pleasure waves pass through me on and off. But was not really getting to the next level. So I moved on to the progasm. Things did heat up a bit. It felt really good. I love the full feeling of the progasm. So to not make this long and drawn out. I was feeling amazing but not wow amazing. I wanted to cum so bad or to at least just have some kinda jump to a level I have never been. I just couldn’t quite get there. I was totally relaxed and in the moment of pleasure. So I advanced to my wife g spot vibrator. I get a really strong tickling on my prostate with that. Almost like I’m going to see but a little different. That feeling comes and goes. Mostly because to keep it I have to press harder. I’m afraid of doing damage so I have to just take it in 10 to 20 second bursts. Well last night I was trying to hold it there a little longer and with a little more pressure and also trying to slide it around at the same time. Well last night I was able for the first time to achevie something that I have never done before. I came every where but in actuality I came no where lol that sound s funny but I’ll will explain .
I got the I’m going to cum feeling followed by I’m going to pee feeling. I’m just lying there (Oh my preference for position is on back feet on ground knees up ). Loving this new feeling when all of a sudden after about maybe a no it’s or 2 of this feeling coming and going. I get really warm around the base of my cock. I get that feeling that I’m going to cum. you know feeling your thick cum start to pass on its journey through your pipes to get out. But almost at the point of when it would fly free it changed to that lighter feeling of just taking a good piss. Like what was coming out was more lighter more fluid like substance. I take a look down at my cock that feeling like it is just gushing something all over the place like a fire hose. But I only see a little dribble of white milky cum and a little trail of clear fluid. Well from the feeling I should have been soaking wet. But from what was there. There was nothing. After that passed I had to stop. I wanted to keep going but I needed my session. So my question is what was this. Has anyone had this feeling. I was completely flaccid as I usually am during my sessions. I sometimes get hard on and off. But 80% of the time I’m flaccid. Is this feeling the true start of what’s to come and should I push and try to power through it and keep going next time. Also is there any tips or tricks or other units that one would suggest that work better than what I have. I usually use about 30 mls of astroglide (water based) if I’m using the helix syn and 30 mils of astroglide ( silicone based) if I’m using the peridise or my orgasm ice. Is this enough lube. Also another thing I have noticed that happens is sometimes my ass gets that feeling that I have to shit so bad it contracts so hard almost to hold it in. But usually my ass will squeeze out alot of the lube. With the toy staying in me a few time it has pushed of the toy. So am I doing any thing wrong in any area are these all normal Things. Any feed back would be great.

A Meditation: “Thin Veils To Male Orgasmic Bliss”

While relaxing this morning and listening to a nice, soothing track on YouTube: “Chill Out Sensual Nights / The Best Of Lounge & Chill Out Music by Johnny M In The Mix”, I began to meditate on how our male sexuality often is “hidden” only behind “thin veils” (real or otherwise) and it started to became very clear to me. Let me explain…..

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In spite of our “macho” appearance and persona, the key to male orgasmic pleasure often is hidden only behind a thin “veil”. Some examples will make this comparison more clear:

 My use of “chastity cups” or “cock cages” relies only on thin pieces of plastic that separates my hands from my male package, thus inhibiting me from masturbation and orgasmic release.

 Using a condom: It is only a thin piece of rubber, but my use of one during sex makes a world of difference. No matter how thin it is, there is always a loss of feeling. Us guys know that there is not supposed to be anything between our erect cocks and ultimate orgasmic pleasure during intercourse.

 When receiving a HJ from my wife: sometimes only the slightest “hint” of an erotic massage on my package can send me into a far-off orgasmic “orbit”.

 When performing an edging or “surfing” session, I want it to take a long time and use only the slightest pressure on my package.. Why? Because the arousal feelings seem to be magnified. Even slight “tapping” of my erect cock sometimes is too much to bear. The orgasmic ejaculation is intense. Read more »

“Back To Basics: Male Chastity”

Male chastity is really designed for the long-haul. Let me explain…..

I decided to sleep without my “chastity cup” last night. I had just a bit of groin irritation and decided that I should avoid wearing a cup for the night. As I suspected, I had a hard, if not impossible time keeping my hands off my cock! When I awoke with an erection, I decided to put-on a swimmer’s jockstrap just to reduce the urge. It didn’t work too well!

So when I got up a second time with another erection, I decided to put-on my SafeTGard strap and cup. Now this cup is too short for my erect package and the head (and frenulum) protrude beyond the top edge of the cup. This can set the scene for some direct stimulation of the frenulum which is absolutely forbidden while in male chastity. So I “switched” cups: out with the SafeTGard, in with the XO!

It worked! I cannot now touch, fondle or otherwise stimulate my cock and especially my frenulum. And that got me thinking: What is the purpose of male chastity, after all? While in long-term chastity (I am currently in Day 17) it is vital to keep the penis “locked-up” by means of a cock cage (which I own) or by means of a “chastity cup” (which I am wearing now). By not keeping the penis “locked” is asking for much trouble. It runs a strong risk of an unintentional ejaculation. Read more »

“Back To Basics: Is There A Limit to Horniness?”

@SOwithoutAneros inspired me with this thought (to @Harper):

“For now I’m fully amazed by a new kind of ruined orgasms I wouldn’t even call orgasms. It’s only like spilling over and releasing some pressure from the pipes but more in the way I otherwise would leak precum. It feels awesome and comes without any refractory period. Instead it makes me fucking horny and hornier and hornier. Like a new level of edging. Simply wonderful!”

It got me thinking: Isn’t this what we’re all about? Let me try to elaborate….

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Back To Basics

I had a great session the other night followed by strong Aless. While lying down, I had an extreme urge to “finger” my prostate. And I did just that. The feeling was so intense, much stronger than with an Aneros, I knew I would have to ejaculate, but had to stop-short since I didn’t want to spoil my continuation of SR and a possible next wet dream. I experienced an erection immediately and that got me thinking:

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Putting all Aneros use aside for a moment, let’s get back to basics! Our prostates are “key” to everything about us as males that is sexual. First and foremost, our erections. Where do you think your erection comes from? You guessed it…..your prostate! What can we accomplish as men without erections? Our prostates are vital in our production of semen, which is required for obvious reasons. So don’t ever belittle erections and our pleasure in getting them. Don’t belittle ejaculations either! They are both there for a reason. Read more »