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“This Fantasy Was Totally Prehistoric!”

[Note: graphic descriptions; readers be advised]

Background
While in bed wearing my Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” I fell-into a most unusual fantasy. Where this came from, I do not know. But it was vivid and seemed very real. So I’ll relate it here as best as I can remember….

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While in bed and awake in the early morning hours, I did not have an erection. Having just experienced a “wet dream” the night before, I really don’t think I will be ejaculating again anytime soon. I am currently in Day 13 of SR and feeling great! My “blue-balls” seem to be a distant memory for me now. Following the wet dream, I had an unusual feeling down in my groin for the rest of the day. Perhaps this is normal; I felt an overall “Aless” feeling in my entire ejaculatory system and for a while almost had what I could describe as “half-an-erection” and an “electric” feeling down-there. Things finally settled down by evening.

Anyway, back to the fantasy…..

Since the SD “chastity cup” keeps my package secure and out of reach of my curious hands, I began to fondle and caress the only part of my male sexual anatomy that was exposed: the perineum and thus access to the prostate externally. When I began to stroke, press and caress my prostate from the outside thus, I experienced a most unusual sexual fantasy. Here it is.

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Which Aneros models or other anal toys offer the best experience for sitting and rocking on them?

I’ve been an off and on Aneros user for nearly ten years, using the original Aneros with the ribbed bottom. I’ve come close to a prostate orgasm, I’ve made myself cum from it, and I’ve used my hand to manipulate it and provide more pressure on my prostate.

Earlier this week I had a day to myself and the mood struck to masturbate for the second time that day. About ten minutes in, I really started craving some anal stimulation, so I get the Aneros and put it in.

While on the couch, I guess I was in a position where I was sort of laying / sort of sitting, and could move my hips and ass in such a way that the little curled tab helped move the toy in and out gradually as I jerked off. It felt fantastic.

Then I sat up fully and really started rocking forwards and backwards on it – fucking it basically. Wow… amazing sensations. I kept jerking off but as I’d get this rush I’d let go of my penis and just briefly enjoy the Aneros on its own. I eventually came like that and the combination of hip movement and jerking off felt completely amazing as my orgasm built up.

It was a great discovery that now makes me really curious about which toys are suitable to a sitting / rocking method. I have big fantasies of my wife pegging me, and the proper sit and rock toy feels like the next best thing in the short term. Read more »

“Semen Retention: Going The Distance?”

I need to comment on my practice of semen retention (SR). I am soon to be in Day 15! The most interesting thing about this is that I have absolutely NO BLUE BALLS at this stage of my practice! Of course, I still refrain from edging but still sleep in my “chastity cup” at night which provides a good deal of arousal. Yes, I have very strong erections. Yes, I feel like I could have a wet dream any night now. If my wife “cooperates” I may be able to reach and perhaps exceed the 21-Day Challenge once again!

Why did I reach this level so easily this time? I really feel it is because I recently did some lengthy sessions which extracted prostate fluid. Either that, or my body is “finally” adapting to the “chaste” lifestyle I am practicing now and decided that I don’t need the aggravation of “blue-balls” anymore! In any event, I am grateful that I can continue the practice of semen retention. If perhaps I am not able to withhold my ejaculation, then I’ll just have to start-over at Day 1! But it will be an interesting excursion back up to Day 15 and beyond!

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“Toning It Down A Little Bit and Learning A Lesson Or Two”

Having daily Aneros sessions caught up with me this week. That plus another factor. Let me explain….

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I have been having nice, late evening sessions nearly every day this week with my three Aneros (in rotation): HIH 950, SGX and MGX. All was going really well. My wife and I had a nice “Tantric” cuddling session a couple of nights ago. I remained in chastity although I generated a lot of precum that night and really should have gone-off! My wife agreed! But I stubbornly wanted to remain in chastity. So I retired for the night…

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Fast-forward to yesterday morning. I wasn’t really feeling that well “down-there” (I had a vague “full” feeling) and suspected a nice, albeit “early” case of blue-balls! I was only in Day 4 of SR at the time and thought to myself, that I had no need to ejaculate yet. But I decided to go-for-it anyway and so I started the “edgemeplease.com” edging game while watching some masturbation porn. Sure enough, after about 10 minutes or less, I came. (The game, however, wouldn’t let me cum! But I had to cum anyway!) I noticed that my cum was especially plentiful this time and creamy white. I am amazed that all that came out of me! It seemed the pressure had been relieved! (Or so I thought…)

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Prostate Milking, a neglected process.

In the forum’s general discussion, there seems to be a lot written on the subject of prostate milking. I had been neglecting performing this practice thinking it provoked a refractory period.  I avoid ejaculation as much as possible for the same reasons but today, I decided the time had come to ‘clean the pipes’.
My wife took off to do errands so I took out my NJOY Pure Wand and decided to use it for the first time as a milking tool.  When I bought this device last Summer, I had tried the big knob side to see if I could generate some positive sensations but not much came out of it so it landed in my cupboard.

Today, my sole mission was to milk my prostate so I pulled it out, I lubed up and inserted the smaller knob end and performed a long but  delicate massage on the gland.  The process lasted approximately twenty minutes and generated a fair amount of prostatic fluids.

There is nothing spectacular about what I just wrote but following the milking, I felt great, relieved and full of energy. This great feeling could not go to waist and since my wife was still gone, I sat on the couch and engaged in an Aless. I must say this was one of the best I ever had!

I plan to use this NJOY tool more often

I think something has awakened inside me…

This ended up being a bit wordy, so I put a TL;DR at the end.

So, to start with – I’m straight, married, with children. I’m very new to anal play (with the exception of maybe a sharpie when I was like 14). I’ve been going through a bit of a lifestyle change, losing weight, going to the gym, eating healthier, etc. and have been pretty successful over the last 6 months. I have some time off work and the house to myself for a bit. Based on an AskReddit thread, I saw the Aneros Helix mentioned as one of the naughty items that have changed someone’s life or some BS like that.

I do sometimes enjoy tickling my anus a bit while masturbating, and am myself quite open to experimentation (the wife, not so much). So I did some reading and research, and found out about this prostate thing in my bum. So I ordered myself a Helix Syn (and a couple other things, a new sleeve, etc., just for shits) as a self reward for my big life change.

I was highly anticipating it’s arrival, even though I know it may take some time to really get into it. It arrived a day early. I immediately drew myself a nice bath with jasmine salts, and relaxed for a bit. Cleaned myself out as best I could (note to self, buy a new turkey baster), and set to work. Read more »

My thoughts on male chastity, and jockstraps and athletic cups, and Nov. 21 session

Hi guys,

For many months now, we have been regaled by @goldenboy’s prolific blogs entries on Aneros, sex, jocks and cups, erotic dreams and waking fantasies, semen retention (SR), and male chastity which he lives out by wearing a jock and cup to bed. He calls athletic cups, “chastity” cups, a concept I find intriguing.

I have been pondering and reflecting on male chastity for many months now. It seems that there are least two types of male chastity: (1) religious or ascetic chastity, and (2) erotic chastity for the purpose of enhancing a guy’s sexuality either individually or as one in a marital relationship with a wife.

When I think of male chastity in a religious or ascetic sense, I think of the monastic life either in a Roman Catholic or Eastern Orthodox sense. In the Roman Catholic Church, you have religious orders and the clergy. Men joining such have swear three vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience. It was believed for many centuries by that church that masturbation and conjugal sexual relations prevented men from living out a devoted life to God and church.

In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or Mormon church, married couples have to swear to the Law of Chastity, thus allowing a life of utter devotion to marriage (one man, one woman) and the LDS Church. Read more »

“A Sexually-Submissive Male: Giving Up Control”

It’s no secret that I like male chastity. I am again sleeping in a “chastity cup” and I find it very stimulating. But why is that?….

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Male chastity is but one aspect of sexual submission in males (also know as malesub), It generally means that the male is not homosexual or even bisexual. I’ll admit that I am neither. It just represents a sexual style that is designed for maximum arousal through sexual submission. Sexual submission for me involve several aspects, as I can identify them:

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**I’m not allowed to masturbate**

This is the essence of male chastity. I “play” that I am not allowed to masturbate as long as I am wearing a chastity “cup” and this is quite true. Even if I’m not wearing it, I must remain true to my pledge. It can be very sexually arousing, particularly as I approach (or pass) Day 7 of semen retention. Wearing a cup is a physical barrier (like a cock cage) that almost eliminates any possibility of masturbating to ejaculation.

**If I am allowed to ejaculate, it usually will be a ruined orgasm**

The past few ejaculations for me have been ruined. I like the feeling of almost complete arousal to the point of orgasm, then stopping. I relieve the pressure in my system (and tendency for blue-balls) at the same time. Yes, it is not very satisfying, but hey, in submission, it is extremely stimulating. There is always the possibility of a “regular” ejaculation. Need I elaborate further? Read more »