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“My Foray Into The World of Male Masturbators”

I purchased a male sleeve-type masturbator (a “pocket pussy”) – my very first one! It is one of the newer designs: looks and feels like a real vagina! It is super soft and stretchy TPR and has a very small tunnel. It is open in the back which makes for easy cleaning. I woke up early this morning wearing my SD “chastity cup” and had a nice erection. So I decided to go for it. Here is my experience…….
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I put-on a Skyn condom and lubed-up the inside of the sleeve and my condom-covered cock with ID Glide. Then, when I was nice and hard, I slowly guided the tip of my erect penis into the realistic-looking vaginal opening. It felt really good!

Now, since I still have DE (delayed ejaculation), I did not expect an immediate ejaculation. I was right! I played and put myself in different positions on the bed, all the while thrusting lightly, squirming and generally enjoying myself. Yes, I was starting to fantasize. After about 10-15 minutes of pleasure, I felt that I would not be able to ejaculate into the sleeve without some “manual” intervention. So I withdrew myself and used my fingers as an “opening” which put more pressure on my erect penis. That was enough to fill the end of the condom. Read more »

An Interesting Little “Sex” Session

I am in day 8 of SR and super-horny! I pondered: Is now the time to go-off? I reached for my realistic vagina “sleeve” with the intention of using it to masturbate and ejaculate. I haven’t used it too much because it seems too difficult to clean inside. I honestly thought about trashing it after this use. But something told me to try to turn it inside-out. What would be the harm? And guess what! I was able to do so without tearing it! So I thoroughly cleaned it on the “inside” and sprayed some antibacterial toy cleaner on it. Good as new! Having “prepped” it, I figured: Why not give is a whirl?
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So I put some water-based lube inside the canal and just a little on my cock and proceeded to penetrate it. A little hard at first, but when it was in, it felt so good! Eventually, I turned-over on my stomach and began to lightly thrust in-and-out. OMG! It felt like the real thing! I started immediately fantasizing. I kept this up for perhaps 5-6 minutes or so, and even though I have DE (delayed ejaculation), I honestly felt myself inching slowly towards an ejaculation! By this point, I knew I had to stop or keep going until I came. I decided to stop while I was still in my SR-induced “high”. My sexual arousal remained untouched but I am feeling quite satisfied by the experience! Could I approach my wife with the same feeling? Intriguing…… Read more »

“Rolling The Dice”

My wife knows I practice semen retention but doesn’t make too much of it. She knows I don’t like to “go-off” unless I tell her. So last night, we had a cuddle session and I became hard as a rock. I was in Day 6 of SR at that time. Anyway, we began to cuddle and I found myself in front of her. The next thing I know, she has her hands near the opening of my short PJs and begins to carefully caress the glans of my super-erect penis. OMG! I am starting to lightly moan and she continues to do what she is doing. She begins to go lower on my package and I thought it was over. But (and I don’t know how she knows this) she must sense that I am close to the PONR and she stopped cold-turkey! (I could never stop this way at this point). She didn’t say a word but let me start to cool-down. And I did in about 5 minutes. After that, it was time for bed so I retreated to my bedroom and put on my SD chastity “cup” for the night…..

Why did I title this blog “rolling the dice”? Since I am subject to “blue balls” and don’t know when they are coming, her getting me too close to the PONR can definitely trigger it. So I just have to wait the day out now and see how I feel later on today. I definitely want to continue SR. But I may be headed for an ‘E” sooner than later! Read more »

Used the Helix the “wrong” way, to an ejaculatory hands-free orgasm

I recently bought an njoy pure wand and started playing with it. It isn’t hands-free the way the Aneros Helix is. So I was really hitting the prostate and pushing hard. It felt good. So the next time I went back to the Helix and it seemed so tame that I started really moving it with my hand, pressing it deeper and basically tapping my prostate as hard as I could.

It felt great! I slowly got a bit of hardness in my penis but was still somewhat soft. and as I really went at it, I erupted with a hands-free ejaculation that was really strong. It wasn’t completely hands free; the rapid movement my hand was slapping my scrotum a bit and my balls were being slung around. Never touched my penis though. All good stuff, but definitely not a prostate orgasm the way it is described.

It makes me think that I might be rewiring my brain the “wrong” way and this might make it take longer to actually reach a prostate orgasm.

One thing is for sure though, I could see myself going for a good bit of pegging type fun with the Njoy if I can get my wife to buy into it. We are in a slowly recovering dead bedroom and she is very vanilla – my prostate exploration began because of the dead bedroom.

Flushed my Eupho down the toilet!

Be careful out there.

I was very sleepy by the time I took out my Eupho that night. I have a habit of using it while going to sleep. Sometimes I have a dry O and that’s very nice. Sometimes I drift off to sleep and wake up an hour later to some slight discomfort.

On that night, I must have still been asleep when I went to the toilet to take it out. Instead of pulling it out, wiping it with toilet paper, and leaving it in the shower for thorough cleaning in the morning . . . I don’t really know what happened. But the next morning I realized it was missing. Then my wife noticed that the toilet wasn’t flushing adequately.

This is a toilet from 1967 that uses at least 3 gallons of water per flush. Nothing has ever failed to go down before.

I tried using my plunger a couple of times. But the toy was really jammed in there.

So finally the weekend came, and I had time to buy a “snake” type tool at the hardware store. It’s made specifically for pulling objects out of the trap in the toilet drain, without scratching the toilet enamel.

It took about 5 minutes to get the hang of it. Pulled out the intact Eupho and gave it a good wash.

My prostate is already anticipating its next session with its favorite, wayward toy. But I won’t be finishing up while sitting on the toilet seat ever again!

“SR Day 12: How Long Can I Go?”

“Well, I am into Day 12 of SR and I have several observations to note. First off, I have absolutely NO blue balls feeling! I think I know why; I have done absolutely NOTHING to arouse my cock: no edging, no cuddling with wife, nothing! I learned a while ago that by not edging, I can go longer in SR. This will mean that I may be able to extend this SR run to 15, 20, 25 days if I choose to. However, there is a “minor drawback”……..Let me explain……..

I am horny! Not just the usual horniness that comes and goes, but a long-lasting, precum-leaking horniness! I have a strange feeling now in my cock, like I need to pee but I know I can’t. I have had more leakage within my overnight “chastity cups”. And when I came out of chastity this morning, I switched to a “regular” jockstrap for only a short time when I began “feeling myself up” and oh it felt so good! But it only lasted for a minute or two when I felt that I needed to go back into a chastity cup.

How long can I hold out this time? I honestly don’t know.

PS I have been doing regular prostate “sessions” with my HIH 950 this past week, probably 3-4 sessions in total. Have these sessions been helping me to achieve a longer SR goal? I don’t know that either but I hope so! Read more »

“Gentle Chastity”

Can male chastity come in different “flavors”? Like “intense” and “gentle”? An intriguing concept. My answer is a resounding “Yes!” Let me explain……..

It all started last night. I am soon to be in Day 11 of SR and feeling horny. I started some cuddling with my wife. And much to my surprise, she began to cuddle back! Ever so gently, she came up to me from behind and began caressing my stomach and worked her way down very slowly toward my soon-to-be-erect package. I still had my briefs on under my PJs. Before I knew it, she was very gently caressing the glans of my cock in slow, circling fashion. I began to lightly moan from the pleasure. It seemed to last at least 10 minutes. I honestly thought she was going to make me cum; I had no choice. But then, somehow, she seemed to sense that I was still in chastity (I don’t like to cum when in SR) and she slowly and deliberately disengaged her hands from my groin and let me cool-down. It worked!

It was time for bed and I changed into my night-time chastity “cup”, the SD Pro Ultra Carbon. I put it on and went to sleep. Waking up about 5 hours later, I got the sense that it was time for a more “gentle” chastity cup, so I switched to my Mueller cup and jockstrap. This pairing is the gentlest of all the cups and the jock is not too tight nor too restrictive. I can “grow” under the cup and it will allow sufficient room for expansion. I rested for a while in this “gentle” male chastity device……but then something else happened! Read more »

This shouldn’t feel so good…

I’ve always been curious about back door play, though never in a homosexual way. I’m not sure how I accidentally discovered the back door but I liked it. I had an ex gf who would be willing to run around it, even went for the prostate a time or two. Felt soooo good.

My wife has no interest now, and has no idea about my toy. Every time I bring it up she says she wouldn’t be comfortable with that play.

The first time I tried this I was kind of disappointed. I enjoyed the full feeling but never felt like it hit the prostate just right. Today during a session I rolled over on my side. Oh wow.

So here’s the thing, I’ve tried contractions, and hip movements but ultimately the best thing I’ve found is to reach behind my back, grab the finger ring and give it some flicks, forcing the toy to rock in that come hither motion.

Oh wow… as soon as the nub passes over my prostate. I get all flush and hot. I get a urinating type sensation at the tip of my cock and I watch clear precum leak out. The longer I keep going the the more intense the sensation but my body never relaxes and releases. Today I had two towels around my waist and told myself, no matter what don’t try and stop in fear of pissing on the towels… still, nothing but an incredible build up and then plateau. Read more »

The Adventure and The re-Discovery of my Eupho Syn

This is a two part entry describing some of my recent activities. 

First, I have learned the hard way that rushing the process of inserting my Aneros device in for a session can have bad consequences specially if it’s my Progasm Ice (I often refer to it as my nuclear sub). 

A few weeks ago, I was in the basement TV room preparing to have a much anticipated session. I had lubed up and had started to insert my PI (first hump was in) when I heard my wife’s footsteps on the main floor.  In a panic, I had a choice of pulling it out and depositing it on a tissue then slide it under the couch or continue to push it in as fast as possible.  Yea, you guessed it, I picked the stupid option and pushed it in much faster than I should have.  I felt the strain of the moment but I continued with my session as I realised the footsteps upstairs were a false alarm.

I was happy to have escaped an embarrassing situation and congratulated myself for always having a plan to handle any unforseen events during my sessions.   I proceeded to enjoy my full session.

The ugly consequences of my decision surfaced the next morning while having my daily BM.  My long-time dormant bleeding hemorrhoids condition came back with a vengeance (the bleeding that is).  Since then, the bleeding continues with every BM.  This should be a warning to all who rush into things but mostly to myself! Read more »

“Male Chastity: A Different Direction”

While listening toI am suffering from erectile dysfunction and my doctor wants me to wear a cup for 14 days, no exceptions. I should notice an improvement in my erections, especially in the cup. However, no ejaculations during that time. He said I may get a wet dream, which is okay.
While meditating, I was “up and down” in my cup. This only heightened the arousal pleasure during each fantasy. So, there are many alternative ways to rationalize wearing a “chastity cup”. It doesn’t always have to be about “femdom” male chastity!
a most relaxing track on YouTube this morning: “Reiki music for energy flow, healing music meditative music for positive energy calming music 31209R”, I began to deeply relax and meditate and fantasize. Since I wore my Mueller Sports Medicine “chastity cup” overnight, I began to dwell on an alternative “mindset” for wearing a chastity cup. Here is a partial list as I remember it:

• I am preparing for a surgical procedure on my testicles and need to refrain from all self-induced stimulation of my genitals. I must wear the cup for at least 48 hours prior to my procedure.

• I am recovering from a surgical procedure on my prostate and need to stop all ejaculations for 15 days by wearing a cup.

• I am trying to boost my testosterone and need to wear the cup for 7 days. No ejaculations during this time. Read more »