Tag: Wife

“Male Chastity Retrospective: It’s Not About Me Anymore”

I think it’s time for a retrospective look at my involvement with male chastity. I’ve been at this for probably 2 months or so and I find it to be a natural part of my life now. Not a day goes by when I don’t either wear my CB-6000S during the day (I can easily make it 8 hours) or my “pseudo chastity belt” at night (another 8 hours).

Of course, the semen retention part of male chastity I embrace now. Especially when I pass the Day 7 mark, I feel an increase in testosterone which makes me even more horny. Lately, I have been noticing more precum “dripping” making my undergarment wet. That is a normal occurrence and I need to provide some extra “padding” or something to contain it. I am feeling an automatic “pumping” of what feels like urine (but I know it is precum) periodically, particularly when aroused in my chastity “cup”.

The biggest change in my lifestyle is my absence of masturbation. With very rare exception, I do not masturbate “by myself” anymore. Not that I don’t want to. On the contrary, when I awaken with a morning boner, I am thankful that I am wearing my cup since I know I can’t pleasure myself. My wife has that pleasure just for me. But not always, and although very frustrating for me, that is part of the chastity play. I do find that I am more helpful around the house, cooking, cleaning, other chores seem easier to accomplish. I feel a renewed sense of “lust” for her. I can’t help but get aroused when she is also “in the mood”. Being in male chastity is almost like a continual state of foreplay/arousal. What could be better? Read more »

“Male Chastity: Sorry, Charlie…”

I had a close encounter with my wife last night. it looked like she was in the mood. Perhaps I would be able to ejaculate with her help. But as the evening wore on, it became more clear that her (implied) response to me was NO! What? Can I be turned-down again? While in male chastity, the response has to be YES! That is the essence of sexual denial. Just because I am “ready” for an orgasm doesn’t mean I’ll get to have one! I am suddenly starting to feel completely helpless in my pursuit of a release and that is the way I am supposed to feel. Will I ever get to orgasm? When? Anytime soon?

I am getting an overpowering sensation from my male package. My cock becomes hard with just the slightest amount of stimulation. It looks bigger, fatter, in need of an ejaculatory release. My balls seem larger and more swollen. They hang lower. I am not at the “begging” stage…..yet. I had no idea that denial will be one-sided. After all, isn’t that the essence of male chastity? Even with a pre-set time for release (days, weeks, months) things can change and “my timetable” can be tossed to the wind! The effect of male chastity on my psyche is dramatic, sexy and at times, overpowering. I like it!

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“Male Chastity: So Natural!”

I have been “living” the male chastity lifestyle for a while now. I am still breaking-in my CB-6000S during the day and it feels very comfortable. I can wear it for about 8 hours straight now. I actually hate to take it off! And at night, I am sleeping all night in my Shock Doctor Pro Ultra Carbon cup. I have not actually gotten my wife into this play but I feel it is only a matter of time before I do.

Self-imposed male chastity feels “right” for a number of reasons. First, it keeps me incredibly aroused and horny. I am able to perform edging sessions more frequently without fear of cumming (although sometimes I am really close!) I feel more attached to my wife, even though she (technically) is not imposing the chastity on me, the results are the same. I have an amazing drive, not only sexually but in other ways. I am more helpful to my wife around the house, e.g., doing the dishes, cleaning, buying her flowers, etc. I am not wanting anything in return. Oh well, maybe a release every now and then (lol). BTW, I am in Day 10 of SR (chastity) and am horny as hell. How long can I endure? When compared to guys that have been in chastity for MONTHS at a time, a week or two is nothing! I still would like to get a wet dream or two. I think, again, it is only a matter of time. Read more »

Want to buy 1st ever Aneros, looking for advice

Greetings gents!
Just found out these things exist and am going to buy one come St-Valentine’s day specials coming soon. Was wondering if I could get some advice from the community as to which model to get. And yes I have read up on most threats on this sub, and on the aneros website, testimonials etc.

I’m no stranger to ass stuff… been doing fisting and pegging with my wife for several years. Just the other day I was on top riding a dildo for the first time (I’m never on top usually…) and was shooting out loads of pre-cum and getting the weirdest most intense sensations… looked it up and turns out i think the dildo was rubbing the prostate because of the position. It’s during that research that I found out about Aneros products and this sub.

So I’m used to very large toys (3+ inch diameter) so the size of the larger aneros is not an issue for me. That being said I’m a complete noob for the “mind-body” state of mind required for exploring solo prostate play, as so many of you have discussed. I’m thinking Progasm Ice (1st choice), Progasm, Progasm Jr or MGX.

Is there one you would recommend over an other for a very advanced anal enthusiast but new at prostate play? I just feel like the Helix would be a waste because I’d want to move up to something bigger immediately.

Cheers

“Tease And Denial: A Reality Check”

Male chastity is working for me. I understand the “denial” (D) aspect of T & D while in male chastity. I wore my new CB-6000S for 7 hours yesterday and feel very comfortable in it. It seems that my body is well aware that it will not get the opportunity to get erections, so I didn’t seem to have many throughout the day. I performed a thorough exam of my testicles and scrotal sac afterwards and have found nothing of concern. I could have gone another 7 hours.

But the “tease” (T) aspect of T & D is another story. Let me explain……. Read more »

“The Male Chastity Lifestyle: Putting It All Into Perspective”

Having been in the male chastity “lifestyle” for a while now (it started with semen retention and the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge), I find that the transition to male chastity is a very natural development. “Forced” male chastity is probably a myth. Many guys practice a form of male chastity that is based on the “honor system”. That means that when alone and not within cock restraint (such as with a chastity cage), he will not “cheat” and allow himself to cum.

There is a certain amount of self-restraint necessary to maintain the chaste lifestyle. When practiced correctly, this self-restraint can be very arousing to say the least! In my case, since my wife is aware of my new “lifestyle” she is well-aware that I need to orgasm and ejaculate periodically. She seems to know my limit of denial. She knows I can take a lot but like every other male, I will need to cum from time to time. She knows that if she does not allow me to cum with her, I may be headed for coming during a wet dream.

This “honor system” seems to work for me. I selectively place myself in physical male chastity such as by wearing a full chastity “cup” or a cock cage. Sometimes, I will allow myself to experience some cock tease pleasure, such as “edgemeplease.com” where I will produce a lot of precum but I know that I can go no farther than that. I will not cheat and come. Prostate “milking” is another pleasure that I need from time-to-time and it takes a great deal of restraint not to orgasm and ejaculate. But that is all part of the lifestyle too. Read more »

A Chastity “Dream” I Want To Have

The ultimate male chastity fantasy for me……

I am used to wearing my (clone) CB-6000S every day now and am seriously considering buying a “genuine” CB-X 6000S. This morning I decided to take-off my “cup” cage and put on instead the CB-6000S. I did that and went to lie down for a while. I had been dreaming and later on awakened with a firm erection inside the chastity cage. My balls were very tight as they should be. I had been “experimenting” with the right combination of base ring and spacer length and almost have it right. I cannot escape from the device at any time. I dropped my PJs to have a look…..much to my amazement (and delight!) the brass padlock on the cage was NOT the one which I had put-on this morning! Instead, there was a black-colored lock which I have not seen before! I am securely locked-in chastity but I DON’T HAVE THE KEY! Who did this to me? Only one other person in the house…..my wife!

OMG! Have I transitioned to full-time male chastity? Am I ready for this? Is my mind in-tune to the challenge? I think I am. Yes, it will be a challenge, but very rewarding at the same time. The feeling of being in male chastity is a great turn-on for me. The subtle arousal of chastity is permanent. Read more »

Aneros MGX Shower Time

I’ve been an Aneros MGX user for less than a week, but what a wonderful week it’s been! I’m taking celexa for anxiety and it caused me sensation loss both by myself or with my wife. The MGX solved that!! Anyway, I’ve found the shower to be my time. Allows me to clean myself and enjoy some private time. Start by squatting to insert, then slowly stand until that magic feeling starts. Not quite standing, not sitting, somewhere closer to standing. Then let my hips take over, small wiggles with my legs together. Everything melts away and I get lost in the sensation as wave after wave rolls through my body. Not sure how long I go, but I don’t want it to end. I’ve also noticed that a hard plastic chair with a slight curvature can set me off the next day without the MGX, talk about some strange looks at work!! An unexpected surprise that was!!! I bought a Vice after my first MGX experience, more on that another time, all I’ll say is WOW!!!!

If you’re on the fence or think it will turn you gay or something like that, grow up and join those of us who are loving new sensations! I never understood how gay sex could be pleasurable, I get it now. Guess what, I still only want my wife and the only penis I want is my own! I’ve got nothing but envy for gay guys knowing this secret!! Open your mind and your buns my straight brothers!

“A Ruined Orgasm”

I have read about a “ruined orgasm” while in male chastity but never suspected I would experience one. Let me explain……

I was in Day 13 or SR and chastity and had worn my CB-6000S for six hours yesterday. My wife wanted some action last night and wanted to cuddle. But no sooner did I start that I developed a rock-hard erection which she felt. We “cuddled” for a while but I told her that I needed to cum; would she allow me? She said “yes” and I told her that SHE alone needed to get me off. So I pulled-down my PJs and told her to “do her thing”. (I would not touch my cock at all). Well, it was less than a minute that I felt an intense welling-up in my groin and an impending ejaculation which I suspected would feel great. But something else happened. I experienced not intense rhythmic pulses of white semen but rather an almost continuous flow of semen (like from a hose) which pooled on the waiting towel as well as on her hand! In just a few short seconds, it was over! Did I just ejaculate? I had to look at the towel to be sure. Was this a ruined orgasm? I know now that it was. Immediately afterwards, I still felt like I could cum again, and tried myself. But it seemed that I was already into my refractory period and would just have to wait. Read more »

Is it the Helix Syn a useful couple toy?

I just spoke with my wife and we both like to try something new.

We already own a Funfactory Share but bc of her pregnancy this isn’t a option at the moment. I would like to try the Helix Syn but I didn’t know if this toy is a usefull couple toy.

So how is your experience?