Tag: Wife

“Oh No You Don’t”

I am having fun again! My wife is very amorous and wants to initiate lately. I am in a new Day 7 of semen retention and that means that I am super-horny too! I awoke not too early and, wearing my Speedo (with safety towel) under my PJs, I was getting hard and wanted some “alone time” for myself to give myself some well-deserved pleasure without cumming. All right! I was ready to lie-down and get started. But then something happened! My “inner voice” immediately told me to get into my chastity cage (my Shock Doctor Ultra carbon cup) right away!

Shit! I complied immediately and felt my erection building and then subsiding within the cup. The feeling of helplessness overpowered me and became more arousing as time passed. Sometimes, I am “allowed” to be free for a short while, then have to go into another chastity device (my CB-6000S). Of course, this is all chastity-play but it is very arousing because it comes at different times of arousal.

Cum denial is bad enough but arousal denial (through chastity-play) is the ultimate insult to my manhood. It is so stimulating that I shake just thinking about the possibilities!

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“Progressing Towards Day 21!”

Well, here I am at Day 18! Doing okay, except night-time erections are now a challenge! My wife has a head cold, so barring anything unusual, I should be able to slide-into Day 21! What happens at that point I am not sure. I may not want to end this incredible journey! Technically, I am still in chastity and want to experience a wet dream, whenever it comes.

PS I have on order a Doc Johnson P-Plug prostate stimulator to help with prostate milking and a Holy Trainer “clone” for more forced chastity play. I can’t wait!

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“A Note On Semen Retention, Edging and Male Chastity”

I am currently in Day 14 of SR and have observed that I could probably continue to complete the “21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge”. I believe the difference this time is that I am purposely NOT edging. However, I am milking my prostate periodically. My night-time erections are very strong however. I have told my wife about my chastity and abstinence from masturbation. My SR may be ending tonight at day 14!

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“Male Chastity: Begging For A Release”

My SR is currently in Day 13 and I am literally locked-up in chastity. I alternate between the CB-6000S, a jock cup and multiple layers of tight underwear. I have not touched my cock in almost two weeks. My wife’s libido seems to be at a low and that is actually enforcing the chaste lifestyle. Of course, all of this chastity is self-imposed but nevertheless, I am being “teased” mentally since I have not ejaculated in almost two weeks and have no expectation of when I will. This denial of cum wracks the mind. How much can I take?

I do feel that I am closer than ever to a wet dream or an autoejaculation. I would love to wake up to a great, sticky pool of semen originating from my package. My night-time erections are stronger than ever and I am frequently awakened with a rock-hard, throbbing erection that will take a minimum of 30 to 40 minutes to ease up.

I suppose there is a real difference if I were truly “locked-up” in chastity (where she held the key). But let me tell you, this “self-imposed” chastity play is becoming so real, I might as well be locked-up. My cock is locked, I cannot ejaculate and there is no easy way out for me. I will soon be begging my wife……will she allow me the pleasure to cum? Or will this agony continue? She holds the “key”….. Read more »

“A New Toy: The CB-6000S”

My “genuine” CB-6000S arrived very quickly and I was eager to take it for a test ride. There are a lot of videos online to demonstrate the proper assembly and “fitting” of the device. It really isn’t that simple. Let me explain further……

First off, there is a base ring and the right size needs to be selected among the 5 offered. I started out with the largest but found that it was too large; it lets a ball pop-out! So I downsized to the next-largest size and that one seemed right. I wore it alone for about an hour just to make sure there was no discomfort or pain. There was none. Next, I selected a “locking pin” that was almost the longest (of 4 offered).

Then, it was time to “fit” the cage to the penis. This is easier said than done. One thing I discovered is that a silicone lube (I have Wet Platinum) works best. I lubed-up the head of my penis and the top part of the shaft. I rubbed a little inside the cage as well. When my penis was reasonably flaccid, I placed the cage over it and it slid right in! The final assembly step was securing the brass padlock through the locking pin and with a “click” I was locked-into chastity! It is an amazing feeling. I selected the “clear” color and am glad that I did. One thing I notice is that with very little stimulation, the penis “grows” (actually just lengthens) inside the cage and within a few seconds, it has “erected” as much as it will ever be allowed. Not being allowed a full erection inside the cage is not nearly the intense pressure feeling I was expecting. The penis seems to lengthen and contract at will, almost as if had a “heartbeat” of its own. Amazing! Read more »

“Cock Cage: Fantasy….Or Reality?”

My ongoing practice of semen retention (I am into Day 8) and my wife’s low libido seem to have taken me into the realm of total abstinence, male chastity and cock cages. Let me explain.

For the past week or so, I have been practicing my morning “sessions” without ever touching my genitals. I find this stimulating. What I do is put-on a jock cup (either my youth size Bike or regular Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon) with a tight pair of Speedos and lie down, either with or without music. Believe it or not, this “do-nothing” approach not only reinforces the practice of SR but has taken me to a higher fantasy, one of which I experienced last night. Read more »

Wednesday

Woke up with an incredible erection again. It’s so nice to be getting those. Laid in bed enjoying it then got up to do my morning routine. After devoting my attention to the Progasm Classic, I decided on showing some love to the Helix Syn today. The session was pleasant, nothing really different from my past sessions with HS but it was a very different experience than the sessions with PC. I don’t know, I think it may be a size thing but l like the way the PC feels in me. I do notice more pre-cum being milked out although it’s not as excessive as I’ve read other members post. I’ve also noticed that in all my sessions I have not achieved an erection. I can get it any other time but not during a normal session. I did manage a wet orgasm while masturbating with HS inserted, but I didn’t get fully erect although my right eye started twitching. All day I was enjoying Aless at work, made for a very pleasant day. On my way home from work, my wife texted me that she wouldn’t be home for dinner. Great, I can get some alone time with PC. Ordinarily I would’ve just waited til morning but I had an itch that needed to be scratched. I can tell I’m getting more proficient at using the PC, it doesn’t cross my eyes as long anymore. I manage to get in about a 45 minute session before I hear the door and voices. The PC really rocks my world. It definitely makes me feel different. I managed to get it into autof**ck mode a couple of times, and it just make me feel like a dirty whore. The feelings are so intense with these Aneros products, I’m twitching in my chair just reflecting on the whole experience. Damn, I’m looking forward to this weekend. Read more »

Super-O? And how nipples are the best thing ever

So this is a two part-er. My session before last had me home alone, so I was free to be more vocal and just relax without my wife or kids interrupting (I only do it when the kids are in bed, but they are young and frequently get out of bed close to bed time). I hadn’t even planned on a full session! I was home from work for lunch to make sure a package arrived safely, and after it came I thought “Hey, why not a quick jerk sessions with the aneros in?”

So I got it out, got my lube, and pulled down the pants, and thought “This is too restrictive.” and soon was full naked, sprawled out on the bed in full session mode. Welp, there goes “Quick jerk session.” – Within seconds of inserting it and laying on my back, the fun began. It was a great session, and then…something different happened. Read more »

“Super-O Deja Vu”

Wow! I never saw this one coming! Let me explain the details……

My wife was not feeling well last night and I decided not to force myself on her. I did the right thing. I am now in Day 8 of semen retention. I like the feeling and have become much more spontaneous with women (and men too!) Maybe it’s a testosterone thing. In addition to cum denial (semen retention), I am leaning now towards edging denial as well (a variant of male bondage). So this morning, when I awoke with a raging erection, rather than start to edge and perhaps cum, I decided to don my Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon cup and deny myself even the pleasure of an edging or surfing session. Yes it it difficult but what it seems to do is transfer the sexual energy elsewhere in my body; namely, my prostate.

So this morning, I start to listen to an erotic track or two. I selected some which were labeled as music for foreplay. I guess they were working since I fell-into a fantasy right away. Since I am already performing edging denial, my “lover” continues with this approach. She denies me even the pleasure of a touch of my package for almost a full hour. At some point, she allows me to remove just one layer, exposing the “chastity cup” but denies me a feel for what is underneath. After a short while later, she allows me to remove the cup and feel my now-sensitive cock and scrotum. It feels so good. But just as soon as it started, it was over! I am quickly instructed to replace the cup and its cover. Once again, I am in a state of sexual denial……. Read more »

Day Off

Decided to take the day off. If you read my previous blog entry you’d know I just got a Progasm Classic over the weekend. I had the maiden voyage which I blogged about but what I didn’t post is that I had two more sessions with it within 24 hours of the first. Things I learned is that for me, the sessions were of diminishing returns. The follow up sessions were still good but no where near the first session experience. Some interesting observations I made. I don’t know if it was “Aless” because I’m not sure I understand what it is but I had some very pleasurable sensations after the sessions with the Progasm Classic. Whenever I would pop off some kegel action, I would feel very pleasant down there. It made sitting at stop lights a happy time.
I’ve been reading a bunch of forum posts and think I’m going to give semen retention a shot. What have I got to lose? I’m not having sex with the wife and this Anerosing is really addictive, I don’t think I’ll miss ejaculating, this HFMO shit is the bomb. Oh well, we’ll see what happens, I’m looking forward to a work delay to get a prolonged session in tomorrow before work. Peace.