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New toys arrived

I purchased the Helix Syn V, the Progasm, and the Peridise set. They arrived yesterday. My wife and I had some “fun time” scheduled for last night so it was the perfect timing for their arrival. I already had the Helix Syn, the Eupho, and Maximus.

I unboxed them and I gulped when I saw the size of the Progasm. My wife did too. I washed them, lubed up the Progasm, and inserted it. Luckily, I still had lube inside me from the Helix Syn I had in just before these came. I’m not real sure how I feel about the Progasm, yet. I know I was already pleasurably swelling back there from the Helix. I kept it in about 15-20 minutes and decided that I would start with that one on another day.

After I took it out, I put in the smaller Peridise. As I held it in my hand, I could not help but think that this thing will not do much. Oh my! I was wrong. I understand what everyone means about what it does to you, even though it is so small. For me, it seems to “flutter” around while it’s in. It tickles my prostate and the entire area, but in an erotic way. Thinking about it, as I write this, I find myself working my PC muscles and getting turned on from memory alone. I, like so many others, underestimated that toy. Read more »

New Ones OTW

My wife has cultivated a sincere interest in my anal play. She is really open to exploring things with me. She asked a lot of questions tonight while we were in the hot tub. Many were about the Aneros products I have; what it’s like wearing them, how they feel, what do they do, how long do I keep them in, how often do I put one in, and many other questions. When I told her the positive things that I’ve experienced since beginning this, she was super glad I did. Prostate play has given me a much stronger urine flow, a much harder erection (like I am a teenager again), and more powerful ejaculations and orgasms.

I just ordered the Helix Syn V, the Progasm Classic, and the Peridise set. I have the Helix Syn, Eupho, and Maximus. Looking forward to the new ones arriving!

Erectile Dysfunction After Aneros Use

It’s been close to a year since I stopped using Aneros, but then I Iearned to achieve aless, and kept up that for a few months more. After some time of using Aneros, I started having issues getting a regular erection…whether from masturbation or sex. Like, even when I’d finish a session jerking off, I’d just be pulling on my limp-ish dick till I came. My dick stopped responding in the bedroom, and it was a really hard time for the wife and me. I tried to find folks with similar stories, and it seems this was a pretty rare side effect. I did read one guy’s journey where he had to stop cold turkey and essentially force himself to jerk off every day until things got back to normal for him.

Talked to the doctor about it, who prescribed me Viagra to “get things kick started again.” It helped in the bedroom, and really boosted my confidence. The first time I realized we could have regular sex without the drugs, I deluded myself into thinking I could dabble with prostate play again. I would aless, often, mostly on the toilet. I mean, I guess it was aless, but seems different than how other folks describe their experience. I would position the bidet right at my asshole and start squeezing the area in my lower abdomen right between my dick and belly button. The first releases would cause spasms that forced out the contents of my bowels and bladder. Such a sweet release. As I kept it up, further contractions would cause my dick to get half hard, and start leaking precum. I’d be squeezing and shaking like crazy, sometimes forcing out ejaculate. Being scared of losing my erectile performance again, I’d be sure to end these sessions by jerking off, using my cum or precum as lube. Read more »

The Eupho undid me

I’ve had the Helix Syn for a few weeks. It is wonderful! I’ve had some amazing pleasure with it but nothing like what happened when I inserted the Eupho today.

I woke up, showered and cleaned up, put in the Helix, and went to have breakfast. I did some shopping at the grocery store. I couldn’t help but wonder if the reason why the people were staring at me was because of the perpetual smile I had or what?

I left and decided to go to the local adult store to buy the Eupho I saw in there last week. I didn’t buy it then because it honestly looked too small. But, I came to these posts and saw so many people rave about it. Those who have it, all mentioned something to the effect of not letting the size fool you. I gave in. Read more »

I don’t know what happened…

Okay. First time poster here. (anywhere really) But I just tried by aneros for the first time since I had surgery down south of the border. I had only tried it a couple times before then, both with my wife, and couldn’t quite get comfortable with it.

4 months later, today, I get a wild hair in my derriere to give it a try by myself, sans wife, and see where things go.

Short back story: I have a bit of anxiety, obsessive compulsive features but I maintain and thrive in a successful life, generally without others knowing. A lot of this anxiety, lately, has focused around bodily sensations, heart rate, random pains, etc. I have worked hard to rid myself of those obsessions (by tackling/eliminating the compulsive side) with great success. I am also an avid meditator. Over 2000 days now. This will make sense in the story, I swear.

So. The Aneros. I do all the pre-game work getting everything at the border prepared for a full invasion, lay down, and storm the beaches…gently. The ship has docked, the torpedo has hit its target, the….okay I have the aneros in my butt right where it is supposed to be.

I throw on some great headphones, a good meditation track on repeat, and just lay on the ground with gentle little gyrations but otherwise very little to no movement. Just a bit of waiting. Read more »

Why oh why!

If you ever want an example of expectations ruining a session just ask me.

Every time I have the house to myself for a few days and primed for a good rogering I’m always disappointed. I was so ready today I couldn’t help my wife leave quick enough. Then proceeded to have the most shit session on record.

Hopefully the next few days are better.

Heart rate and stress peaks on Garmin device during Aneros Trident session

I just had the most amazing sessions with my Aneros Trident inserted, while leaning back in my office chair in my home office. I used my nipples to raise the tempo and it was heaven.

The vibes were strongest I have had to date – not sure if p-waves, o or super – but they were fantastic.

My resting heart rate is normally around 50 bpm, according to my Garmin fitness device but it was up around 100 (max 105) while I was having fun – for about 15mins.

I could not scream – like I wanted – as my wife was downstairs. However, I was shaking like a leaf and could hear the device moving. It was like having a prolonged orgasmic experience.

I dribbled quite a lot of pre-cum and the stress monitor on my Garmin showed the highest it has been in weeks with a peak of nearly 100 versus a weekly average of 27 over the last year.

I stopped to write this and then tried to see if I could repeat the fun and sure enough <5mins later my heart rate peaked again at 108 bpm and I was shuddering like mad. I am not sure if I will be able to wipe the smile off my face.

Would love to hear if others have monitored progress with a fitness device and what the results were.

Second time using, I take back what I said yesterday

What follows is a long meditation and reflection on the orgasm I had this morning. It’s mostly a means for me to analyze what happened and how to steer myself closer to the intended prostate orgasms that come from proper use and habit with the Prograsm. Your feedback, of course, is welcome.

Had plenty of time to myself this morning and I took it for another spin. Relaxed, popped the Progasm in, and tried out a bunch of positions:

1. The classic laying face-down with one leg up
2. Piled some pillows up and lay over them, elevating my pelvis
3. Lay on my back, knees up

I also applied the lube differently this time. Applied to my anus with fingers, but poured a bit into my hand and then lightly cupped it around the Progasm. The result was a nice, thick coating that I’m sure was about to get squeegee’d off by my rectum but I had a thought yesterday that maybe it had a hard time moving around inside of me because it wasn’t slippery enough. I have a hard time reaching in with my fingers, if you get my drift. The dimensions of my body seem to be short arms, long torso, zero flexibility, and I can really only get my middle finger into the sphincter but not much further, hence the dependence on toys.

Position #1 produced an effect but didn’t really feel comfortable. Read more »

How do you boost your arousal during a session?

For me, the best results I’ve had is when I’ve been really horny.

I find porn too distracting though, and simply abstaining doesn’t really do a lot to raise my horniness.

My wife has headed out for the evening and left the knickers that she wore today on my pillow for my session – hopefully smelling them will boost me into the zone.

Anyone else tried this?

movement

Hi All,

I tried searching the community but i didn’t find anything.

So where am I now? I bought the helix syn and played with it, mostly while watching porn and doing mindgasms. I also do kegels during the day. I also do them at night just to feel the sensation. This is my 4th week playing. In my second week i had an evening where i had 2 nice glowing feelings in my bladder region that emanated further. At that point i felt my pelvic region clench. After that i had similar feelings but much lighter if i do not use the toy and just clench at 30%. Using the toy i now seem to lose any succes. Very weird. I also started using a douche before play and i use coconut oil as lube. Nipple play doesn’t seem to do anything but hearing porn does. What i also did was stop masturbating and that is quite nice to be honest. I just have sex with my wife and anal play the other times. The periods in between the sex are now more fun as i get hornier the longer it takes and that helps the anal play. And if the periods are shorter, we have more sex 😀 win win. Also never did anal things before this and I do not use cannabis, poppers etc etc. Just want to be able to do it without.

So what are my questions. Read more »