Tag: Wife

“Edging In A Chair”

An unexpected edging session. Here are the details……

Thanks to @SOwithoutAneros for providing links to two web-based edging techniques which I tried this morning.

The first one: “Cock Hero Frenzy” was located on p*rnhub.com and is a stimulating combination of M/F video, music and text commands which I played-along while working myself up close to the PONR, with a lot of precum.

The second one: “edgemeplease.com” was even more stimulating (in my opinion) since the various edging “parameters” can be pre-selected in advance. Since the exact sequence of events is unknown, there is a definite element of erotic “drama” built-in. There is an expectation of ejaculation, but you don’t know if or when it is available. And when it is, you only have a few seconds for ejaculation. Otherwise, it’s “game over”. It is so stimulating!

PS I did not cum during either of these two games, but I had so much precum it was unreal. I will save it for tonight (hopefully) with my wife!

PS Thanks again, @SOwithoutAneros! You made my day!

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What a wonderful saturday morning, starting the day with Aless

Hi folks! Sorry, but once I had recovered from the flu and were back in my daily working routine, there was nearly no more time for other activities like training my prostate, even less for working on my blog. So, let’s jump back to the present and to this wonderful saturday morning I had today. Despite the awful misty autumn weather outside with fog, darkness and continuous rain, I wouldn’t swap this morning for anything. It was already nine o’clock when my cellphone alarm woke me up. To some bird’s twittering and psychedelic sounds – so called pleasant awakening – I stretched and rolled on my stomach. “What about a little Aless?” I asked myself and in a sudden I felt a first unvoluntary muscle tension in my buttocks. “Oh, yes!” was my answer and I went on with my self-talk.
“Spread your legs” I heard my inner impatient and imperious voice (or should I better say my prostate?) commanding me. But I knew I only had to move my left leg aside and a little bit upwards, so my body would rotate a little to my right side and give my cock some space to move and grow. That was exactly, what the “Voice” wanted. As a reward first unvoluntary sphincter contractions and “hip-bumping-forward”-motions followed on foot. Furthermore I soon felt a little vibration in my prostate. It’s fascinating how fast I have learned to accurately locate my prostate and target it for treatment. My left thigh was now in a right angle to my body and my lower leg rested in parallel. This way my butt felt somewhat ready-to-receive and open, like waiting for a rigid member to be pushed into my rosebud. In my mind my whole hand went up my anal canal and grabbed my prostate, only pressing it gently with two fingers as to cockily teasing it. My prostate gratefully sent out warm shivers throughout my body and now fully took over command. In less than two minutes I found myself in sweet agony thrusting forward my hard-on. Visions of f*cking my wife while myself getting drilled from behind appeared and vanished. First dry orgasms shook my body bumping me forward to the matress. I grabbed the pillow and put it under my stomach what opened my buttocks a little wider and gave me another thrill. I felt even more helpless and exposed to my prostate. Again and again I grounded my fingers into the mattress, winding and twisting my body in lustfull bliss under the sweet violence of my gentle rapist. “F*uck me!* I repeatedly urged it to go on with it’s reprehensible doing. Like dry ejaculations my orgasms came over me one after the other, not shooting any load in a few seconds but with a feeling of a continuing dry ejaculation for not less than half a minute and with only one or two seconds in between. Sometimes when I felt exhausted the frenzy seemed to end, my body was calming down, but as soon as I catched my breath again the next wave of unsatiable lust took posession of me. After half an hour my first Super-O came up. Continuing dry orgasms felt as one and shook my whole body transcending into another level of consciousness. Like floating freely my body came to rest creating peace of mind and contentment. The next two or three Super-Os in the next hour could not really catch up with the first one, but it remained hard to get a grip of myself and coming to an end of this addictive prostate play and one and a half hours of sexual bliss. Nevertheless there was a big smile on my face when I looked into the mirror finally brushing my teeth.
Folks, I wish you lots of luck and happiness, and keep on playing with your gland!

“An Experiment In Ejaculation Control: Can I Induce PE?”

Having endured DE (Delayed Ejaculation) for a while now, with less than stellar results as far as ejaculation is concerned, I decided to see if I can “swing the pendulum” towards the PE (Premature Ejaculation) side. There seems to be a consensus that these erectile dysfunctions mostly have a psychological cause and I believe they are right. So I embarked on this “experiment” last night.

While laying with my wife watching TV, I began to stroke her hand, ever so slightly. At the same time, I began to feel an arousal in my cock. Before I knew it, I was fully aroused and getting a Viagra-like erection. I slowly grabbed her hand and had her place it over my cock. She obliges and, for the next 10 minutes or so, begins to stroke and squeeze it to the point that I am loudly moaning. I am not ready to go-off, however and, since it is close to bedtime and I do not have the confidence yet for penetration followed by a quick ejaculation, I decided to call it a night.

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Super, Super O

Last night I had the biggest Orgasm I have ever had. It left me stunned and very, very satisfied.
My journey to prostate pleasure began about three months ago, and I remained sceptical for a short period after it began. In fact I remained skeptical until I could sense that something was happening and that I was progressing. First was the involuntary contractions, they were ‘interesting’, then came the mild pleasure moments, then the mini-O’s. I always wanted the Big One that I had read about, and from time to time I thought I had reached the Big O, but looking back, these were Mini O’s.

For the past few weeks, my wife and I have been away on holidays and I took my Vive with me ( I couldn’t bear to leave it home). Many nights away I inserted it and experienced my usual Mini O’s – (a wonderfull warm and orgasmic sensation that feels similar to regular Orgasm but is dry and can occurs multiple times in one night. They normally last 15 – 20 seconds each). Read more »

“The Pleasure Box: Sex in The Dark”

This fantasy was inspired through the music. I began listening to (on YouTube): “IBIZA Luxury Chillout Lounge Music Session by Bogdan Postolache. I didn’t realize that this was going to be another “intercourse” fantasy but it seemed so real. Here is the concept…..

Background: A local university is conducting an unusual “experiment” in sex, offered through its psychology department. They are trying to determine whether there is a potential erectile dysfunction “cure” through an offering of sex with a complete stranger! I have ED, actually DE (delayed ejaculation) and I thought I could benefit from this trial. So I applied online. Basic things like height, weight, etc., my ED concern and my general health. Also, whether I was straight or gay. Before long, I received a reply and was told to report to their “facility”. I was told that this would be an overnight experiment and I should wear a pair of tight, clingy briefs or trunks. So I prepared, and reported for “duty”. [Note that since I am straight, my female “partner” also was selected in the same way. In her case, instead of ED, she could be afflicted with a low libido, or an inability to become aroused; therefore, she probably has had few opportunities for sexual encounters in her lifetime]. Needless to say, I looked forward to the stimulating encounter.

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“I Want My Cock Inside You: An Erotic Fantasy”

[Readers: this is going to get quite graphic. That was the nature of this fantasy.]

I wanted a regular “solo” surfing session but I got a lot more. Let me explain……

I switched to my silky trunk shorts for this session and I had my safety towel in place. This surfing session started out like others and I am listening to erotic lounge music. I have a hard erection and am feeling wonderful early this morning. It is about 3:30 AM. So I am starting to surf, I have started the gentle tantric massage of all my manhood and am feeling quite aroused. I was not expecting a fantasy but I am falling-into it, quite unexpectedly.

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“Full-Frontal Attack: A Foreplay Fantasy”

[I think this blog entry is going to get graphic; be advised]

Background: I am in Day 6 of SR and am looking forward to a penetrative intercourse with my wife. I woke up about 3 AM with another raging erection and decide to listen to some erotically-charged music. So I selected a YouTube track that I have heard before: “Erotic Night Mix 2013 mixed by Dj Alex Vlasov”. It wasn’t too long into this hour-and-a-half session that I realized that I had fallen-into a most intense, erotic fantasy. I am in bed with my wife and she begins a “cuddling” tantric session with me that I can only describe now as a “full-frontal attack” of my masculinity. I didn’t know it at the time, but she was preparing me well for the upcoming intercourse with her. In spite of my DE, she wanted to make sure that I would come within her. Let me try to explain how this developed…..

It started so innocently, like most session do, with some light teasing of my package through my cotton boxers (I have a towel in place). She teases my frenulum and I feel wave upon wave of bliss throughout my body. Her deft hands reach under my sleep top and begin to fondle my chest, abs and nipples. I am falling deeper into an erotic spell. Read more »

“A Sheer Test Of Willpower: I’m Burning Up with Sexual Desire”

How I didn’t ejaculate during this surfing session is beyond belief! Let me explain……

I am up around 4 AM this morning with a raging erection. I started with my usual routine for soft, stimulating music. But I realized that that wasn’t working. So I embarked on a different journey. I began to meditate like I do sometimes. Only this time, the meditation became quite sexual and vivid. I’ll entitle it “Sex = Male”. Now I want to preface this by explaining that this meditation would appear quite sexist in its theme. But that is not intentional on my part. Let me clarify…..

I began to dwell on the “meaning” of sex and I am pulled-into the concept of male sexuality. This was a long, meditative process and would be too lengthy to detail here. But I dwelt at length on the real reason for sex (so obvious!) and the male “tools” and how they came to be. In particular, why is our penis shaped the way it is? Why do we get wet when we are aroused? Why is our package located on our body where it is? Why are our testicles located where they are? Why does ejaculation feel so good? When I am aroused, why can’t I think of anything other than sex? You get the idea! It was almost like a biology lesson. Now, I am not demeaning the role of females in this concept. But I am getting to the root of the sex act and why it is up to us males to initiate, perform and complete it. Read more »

“A Seduction Fantasy”

Wow! I thought I knew everything about male arousal….NOT! Let me explain.

My wife and I are having fun in bed again and I am only in a new Day 2 of semen retention. But something in my brain seemed to “click” recently and I am getting more aroused with little stimulation. I am even trending towards erections during the day.

This morning about 3AM, I got up and wanted to chill with some erotic music. Which I did after selecting a pair of fairly loose cotton trunks beneath my PJs. Anyway, I got into position, started listening and already felt aroused from last night’s “cuddling” session with my wife. I dd not ejaculate last night but felt that even with my DE, I could have easily come. Read more »

Rewiring (and perhaps nipples)

So I had just finished an AMAZING session today (writhing, moaning, immense pleasure! Still no super O yet, though!) and I got to thinking: How do you know you’re rewired? Rewiring is mentioned on the Aneros wiki, and its been mentioned here too, so I’m just wondering the threshold here?

And speaking of which: I had heard that guys nipples get hella sensitive when they have been using the aneros for a while. Now, my nipples have NEVER been an androgynous zone for me. My wife has tried rubbing my nipple during foreplay, and it barely registered that she was touching them. Since starting my aneros use, that really hasnt changed…until sorta recently. They arent “sexy” zones yet, but I have noticed that they are more sensitive (a tad). What got me thinking about it, though, is that during a particularly nice p-wave, I actually felt them tingling. Like, totally isolated, separate tingling from the rest of the great feelings centered entirely on my nipples. It was faint, but there.

I tried playing with them a bit then, but it sort of went away. They were sensitive a bit, but nothing feeling “good”. Just feeling. Anyone else feeling this? Or has someone went from “Nipples? Meh.” to “Nipples?? Aww yeah!”? Im wondering if I am slowly “rewiring”, as they say.