I received my eagerly awaited first Aneros, a Helix Syn yesterday. Picked it up from the Post Office so that "she who disapproves, the fun police" would not find out about my purchase. When I arrived home, I unpacked in the garage, away from prying eyes. Then I took it into the house to give it a wash before going back to the garage. I thought I would get to know my new Aneros and have a little fun before getting down to the serious business of learning how to reach nirvana and dry organs etc. Shutting the door, I dropped my shorts and underpants. Reaching for my hidden stash of Lube, I snapped back the cap and squirted some onto my fingertip. Separating one cheek from I gently touched my puckered anus with the lubed up finger before pushing it home up to the palm of my hand. Withdrawing my finger, I picked up the Helix Syn and carefully lubed it up. While it glistened and shone blackly in the light of the window I lifted my right leg and placed my foot on the workbench. By this time my previously flaccid penis was becoming interested in the event unfolding and was better than half erect. I said to myself, this is not about you cock, this is about something much bigger and better than that. ConcentrateOrientating the Helix correctly I placed my hand behind myself and gently placed it agains my anus. On recognition it was correctly placed in pushed it firmly inside of me. It slipped in easily, just as I expected. What a nice comfortable feeling. A feeling that I had been missing for so long after I had thrown out my previously owned dildos and butt plugs. Lowering my leg down I clenched my muscles and felt to Aneros move inside of me, drawing itself upwards inside and rubbing over my prostate. A few more muscle movements and my penis subsided. After about 5 minutes I decided to check for pre-cum. I found a pleasant surprise, a dewdrop had formed on my urethral opening of my once again flaccid penis. It was then I heard a call from inside the house so I had to quickly withdraw my Aneros, tidy up and go to see what I was needed for inside by my wife.
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Breakthrough
I was excited to write this entry! After my early success, I've been disappointed lately because I haven't been able to reach MMO's and Super O's. My sessions are always nice and enjoyable, but I just couldn't get that over the top experience for about the last month.
Last night though, I made a huge step in my journey to rewiring! I had my first Aneros-less experience. I had played with my Helix Syn the night before and wore it while having sex with my wife for a huge explosion. I also knew I'd be playing with it on Friday night, so I didn't do anything last night. I was lying in bed on my left side with my right leg bent talking to my wife while she read a book. All of a sudden I could feel something inside. I half consciously started thinking about the feeling and making contractions. It felt so good and I could "feel" my prostate like my aneros was touching it. I got rock hard and I was on the verge of a dry orgasm, but I made the mistake of moving my body pillow! I can't wait to insert my Helix tonight!
Partnered MMO Part One
This journey that I have been on for the last 18 years has been so rich and varied. It has also been internally focused and driven by me. I have shared my experiences with my wife and she has benefited from my enhanced ability to perform sexually and my newly attuned ability to coax shuddering orgasms from her lust dripping pussy.
To achieve each new step I took, I read and studied. I read all kinds of books about ESO and ejaculation retention; I dabbled in Zen and meditation, and in tantra. I am by no means accomplished in any of the eastern psycho – spiritual skills, but I have been informed and guided by them. I have always been a thoughtful – introspective person about my work and my experience of the world. When I embarked on this sexual journey I applied the thoughtfulness that I put into gazing at a beautiful sunset into my experience of sexual pleasure. When my sexual self discovery was beginning to resonate and illuminate a path for me I looked inside myself and I followed the path. I applied the intuitive prowess I applied every day at work to my sexuality and my sexual response. It was transcendent, transformational, tumultuous and a lot of other T words like terrific.
My Response to Lingaman's 01/07/2014 Blog Entry ["Her Orgasm Delivered with Love"]
Just read Ligaman's terrific erotic entry of January 7th, and responded as follows:
["Lingham –
DUDE! What a beautiful and erotic post. Surely the giving of pleasure is a most satisfying amplifier of the giver's own bliss on our journey to ecstasy.
I firmly believe sex is a god-given gift, meant to convey spiritual truth, and to put ecstasy well within the reach of each of us. However, as a glue in intimate relationships, particularly the intimacy in our conjugal relationships, this gift is designed for us to communicate with passion the excitement of profound pleasure and erotic arousal, and its fulfilment to our significant others.
I just now read your great blog post, and commend you for it. I found it moving and arousing. Like you I'm a grownup married guy and have been blessed with a libido that motivates me in positive directions. I also work and have children, all four )mostly( at least somewhat on their own and out of the house. In spite of a modestly conservative demeanor, I've considered myself open and sophisticated in matters of sex, but was totally naive regarding my prostate, anus and breasts as sources or channels of erotic pleasure, although I understood and accepted that others were less penocentric than myself.
It was not until the fall of 2010 that I obtained a Progasm Classic and began in earnest to attempt rewiring. At the same time I incorporated my nipples and, of course, my asshole into my solo sexual activities. The rest is history, but the journey continues.
Progasm Lover
First blog, I have been using the Aneros Progasm for about 3 weeks now and I love it. My wife has played with my ass for over 20 years and she bought me this for Christmas. I have had many Super Os over the years. But i have never had one without touching myself, until recently. I didn't like the way it felt when I was sitting down. The upper knob always hurt me, so I tried to bent it a little and it broke. So I got the end off of a air hose that goes to my C-Pap machine. And it slid right over the broken piece…I stuck the other end back into the other end. Now when I sit down it feels very nice. It also goes a little deeper into my anus and is easier to keep it buryed in my ass when I wear it in public.I can tighten my anal muscles and can move the Progasm one to two inches back and forth. I had at least 11 orgasms today in 2 hrs. Good exercise…lol
Spa Day
Today was a Spa Day. My wife was going shopping, and I enjoyed a big part of the day during which I was alone and could enjoy myself. I began with a tiny puff of herb, then followed with a quick shower. I closed off the bedroom and turned on a small heater to let things warm up a bit.
It wasn’t long before I was ready for my first session with the Helix Syn in several weeks. I’d done some Anerosless sessions and a Peridise session, but otherwise, I hadn’t had much in the way of opportunities.
My sessions tend to be fairly short, a half hour to 45 minutes. But when I can have a Spa Day, I usually stop, rest, have some tea or a bath, then have a second session a bit later. So it literally becomes several hours of pleasure.
It was a bit tight getting the Helix Syn in, though I’d lubed pretty liberally. Once in, though, it went wild. I began with some very light nipple touches. I just graze my thumbs over them, then wait for the echoes and waves, wait, then do it again. Very quickly I began having small orgasms, and they became bigger and more powerful. Some seemed to rival the biggest I’ve ever had, and then they began running together. I told myself to relax and enjoy this, I give myself permission to have this pleasure.
Back to the helix syn
Well, I had a chance for a session with my wife away … I thought I'd try going back to the helix after using the eupho for the last few.
This time I was not trying to run a commentary; just letting the ride drive on.
It's a much more solid ride … Put on the smooth jazz channel and I started involuntary thrusting after about ten minutes …
minis built into supers, and I was howling at the moon. On my belly, I was thrusting, but without the hallucination of being female I've been experiencing with the eupho. I had a lot of trouble keeping it in; almost lost it several times and had to reach back, barely keeping it from popping out. Onto my back after an hour, and went for a superT. Jeez, that was a good feeling! Still, I didn't really get an ejaculation. Although I built through about four increasingly severe supero's, and I finally got the hit of endorphins that just about knocked me out. I did manage to get it together enough to clean everything cleaned up and snuggle under the Pendleton blanket.
I have been inviting three or four aneless O's maybe up to a super, before I fall asleep. Maybe I should join the blue ball club for a week or so and see whether I've actually lost the capability for a full wet one. Does anybody know the sensations of a retrograde ejaculation? For the last year or so I'd been getting a mild pain in my balls just before ejaculation. This has stopped. Rewired, I guess. But I sort of had that nice empty day-after feeling in the morning.
Her Orgasm Delivered with Love
MMO has changed my orgasmic response and my sexuality in big ways. Although MMO is an inward focused experience it has changed me in my experience of the sexual world around me especially with my wife.
The most significant was my sexuality has changed is that I have matured, and refocused my attention on observing more, giving more and feeling more. I have come to appreciate the finesse, patience and knowledge that deeply erotic sex requires. I certainly appreciate it much more now than I did when I was younger.
Like all guys I was always drawn to female genitals but it took MMO for me to really fall in love with the complexity, sensuality and sexiness of my lady’s vagina. Once I learned about the wonders of female genital sexual response, female genital anatomy as well as physiology, my love affair with the vagina was born. The knowledge of how to apply my knowledge to extract pleasure from her pussy was the culmination of my transformation.
My Less Session Last Night
It was 3:20 AM last night when I woke up from a sound sleep acutely aware that I had a rock hard erection. It was one of those erections in the middle of the night that got my attention. It was heavy, so heavy I could feel it pushing against my groin at its base as it was bumping against the mattress. The underside of my cockhead was really sensitive and very aroused. Earlier, just before I went to bed my wife gave me an exquisite hand job facilitated by carefully coordinated sucking of my nipples. The resulting orgasm was so strong I was literally emptied, a prerequisite for an intense MMO session. I was primed when my insistent cock woke me up.
My hand brushed against my wife’s hip which I immediately noticed was bare; her short night gown had ridden up. Being the opportunist that I am, I never pass up the chance to spoon her and slip a hand around her to caress a breast. I did and in her sleep she brought her hand over mine and held my hand to her chest to force me to fondle her. That is when my aroused cock realized what he was nestled in . . . the sweet embrace of her very shapely derriere. My wife is tall . . . 6 ‘ 1” , and willowy with a really beautiful heart shaped ass and perfect slightly pendulous breasts. Just thinking about her body even now is making my cock go rigid with desire.
Wedding Band position astounding developments!!!
Aneros has made a vital major contribution to the adventures my dear wife and I have had since agreeing to bring my the 47 years of solo anal/prostate massage into our marriage bed, when we agreed I would go the Aneros journey and she exploring her ejaculatory orgasmic potential, never having done that to that date. Both adventures to be shared where appropriate.
Our most recent session epitomizes these benefits and the astounding experiences we are still finding along our shared pathways!!
Interestingly, these techniques can equally be applied by LGBTTQ couples, as by hetero couples!! A gay friend of mine in the UK, a health worker in the LGBTTQ community, reports that fewer than half the gay couples engage in penile/anal sex, while 98% finger each other anally.
So, the Wedding Band position is heads to other's toes, on our backs on our firm foam mattress, knees up and her fingering my prostate/Gspot anally, while I finger her prostate/Gspot vaginally. It's that simple!
Yet it enables virtually infinite variations as things build and great chains of dry-Os of all types and levels, active-body and/or still-body, minis to Supers, and great spiritual-Os even to OBEs, and building, BUILDING flows and FLOWS of orgasmic energies at all levels and intensities)as mapped in previous posts(!!